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coastalskipper92 coastalskipper92 Active Member
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#41 ·
Edward Flores4 said:The Riddle of the Sphinx

Honestly, I think only a complete idiot would try to pin down an answer to that—which is pretty much why neither Krishnamurti nor myself ever bothered attempting it in the first place.

Sometimes the question itself is the only answer you're going to get. But lately, I've been getting really into the idea of feedback loops and circles, so I’ll leave it up to you to tackle it:

Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?

center-point 😍?

Could someone please translate that for me? My Latin is somewhat lacking.

On another note... for those of you advocating for "inner peace"—why won't you concede that true tranquility might actually be found within the chaos of our current surroundings?

That sense of calm following a heavy, long "winter slumber"... it’s almost a biological necessity. A logical... what's the word... physiological reaction.

MERELY A REACTION!
Edward Flores4 Edward Flores4 RegularOP
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#42 ·
Have I already mentioned how much you’ve completely botched that whole "search dogma" thing? Well, if I haven't... let me just say, you really missed the mark there.

I mean... you’re still very much in a state of zen, but you've gotten pretty messy—like an insinuator of the search for truth.

Besides... this entire topic exists because another thread got split. To be clear, I didn't actually start this one; the moderators split it right from my post, which accidentally made me the thread starter. But honestly, don't even sweat it... just keep focusing on how to maintain that "very zen" persona of yours... you little identity seeker.😉
coastalskipper92 coastalskipper92 Active Member
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#43 ·
It really gets under my skin when I bring up meditation to someone who clearly couldn't care less about spirituality, only for them to hit me with that hollow, "Oh, that's good for calming down" line. Is that really all they see? Just a tool for relaxation? It’s such a reductive way to view it. Why must everything be stripped down to mere stress management?

How would one even begin to define the actual effect of meditation? And I mean, moving past the usual clichés like "inner peace" or "deep tranquility"... those are the terms laypeople love to lean on, aren't they? It feels like such a distortion of the process.

If meditation is truly the path toward the truth, then we are talking about a journey toward the center. But if it is a journey... isn't that inherently at odds with peace? One cannot be moving and be still at the exact same moment, can they?
To me, peace is more of a symbol than anything else. Is it even a tangible thing we can grasp? Or is it just an idea we chase to feel better about the chaos? I find myself wondering if we're all just chasing a phantom.
I suppose all words are merely symbols, aren't they? Just arbitrary markers floating in a void. And yet... if we are to proceed, perhaps we should attempt to uncover some alternative definitions for the purpose of meditation.
coastalskipper92 coastalskipper92 Active Member
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#44 ·
@ coastalskipper92: It’s a shame you only addressed one small slice of what I wrote above..

To me, the first part is far more significant... where I mentioned that nothing brings me closer to a state of meditation than singing in a circle with others...
Yet they don't experience it as "meditation"—it just happens spontaneously.

For me, that offers a "deeper peace" than sitting alone staring at a candle, or even that setup where everyone stands in a ring chanting together..
That feels artificial... much more "manufactured" than the sensation I am describing.

One doesn't meditate using the brain or the nerves, surely, but through some kind of energy, right?..
So, am I losing my mind if it seems logical to me that there is more energy found in community and relationships rather than in passivity?

I am not referring to any sort of manic energy or exaltation.
Edward Flores4 wrote somewhere a long time ago that meditation means mediation..
What I mean is, pulling a thread of peace and truth out of actual life is much more valuable and far-reaching than finding it through inactivity.

It isn't exactly easy to empty one's mind while sitting still for hours, or whatever, but is it not even "harder" to meditate within active situations?
Because it doesn't just depend on you.....
But it is worth it.
casualmoose63 casualmoose63 Member
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#45 ·
Edward Flores4 said:See, meditation is really about perception. That kind of meditative awareness doesn't actually create stress. It isn't some wild Science Fiction concept like people tend to think it is. Let me lay it out for you:

- You know you have to head into the office because, let's face it, you need the paycheck to survive.
- Since you already have to be there for eight hours... it's just plain illogical to spend that time being miserable.
- Nobody likes working with high-strung people... and stressed-out employees are usually the first ones getting let go.
- You get paid to perform, but stress kills your productivity—and low productivity leads to being fired.
- If you truly can't stand the thought of working... then quit and stay home.
- But if you decide to show up and work—then do it. Do it without the unnecessary stress, knowing full well that this was your choice, and realizing there's zero point in stressing over something you opted into yourself.

I know you'll probably tell me you already get all this—and I believe you do—but the reality is that about 80% of people live in a constant state of frustration and irritation. They're annoyed by the boss, their coworkers, the job itself, the low pay, the fact that a colleague just bought a brand new Tesla, or how the secretary gets all those perks despite barely doing a lick of work...

It seems like people actually go out of their way to invent problems just to trigger stress, mostly because they've become addicted to it. Now, it's perfectly natural to feel stressed when something catches you off guard—something totally unexpected. But building up tension at a job where you know exactly what to expect? That takes a real, conscious effort.

A lot of people even use stress as a fuel source... they procrastinate until the final five minutes before a deadline. Then the "panic" sets in, they scramble to finish everything at the last second, and they usually walk away bragging about how they pulled it off under pressure. They rarely stop to think about the massive toll that constant adrenaline-chasing takes on them.

In other words... meditation is simply knowing exactly WHAT you are doing and WHY you are doing it. When you have that clarity, you lose all the wasted effort, the pointless complaining, the frustrations, the disappointments, and the stress.

Simple as that.... at least when we're talking about work.

Quentin:
The only thing I'm really aiming for is to stay peaceful, no matter what. And I feel so grateful whenever I actually manage to pull that off for a few days in a row.
Well, you'll be perfectly peaceful once you're dead... until then, try to at least have a little fun.😉

You don't actually need meditation to wrap your head around any of that...

someone might realize it through other (perhaps more difficult) ways. 🙂
coastalskipper92 coastalskipper92 Active Member
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#46 ·
casualmoose63 said:You don't actually need meditation to wrap your head around any of that...

someone might realize it through other (perhaps more difficult) ways. 🙂

you've actually nudged me toward a specific thought here.

Meditation? No, it isn't "needed."

Think of it this way:

1) Imagine someone just wanders onto a forum out of nowhere. I have no clue what they'd do. Suppose they spent eight hours trying to open their third eye... then suddenly pass out. 😍
Everyone would tell them, "Man, you aren't ready yet. You'll know when you're ready."

2) When a person is truly ready, it implies they are spiritually prepared.
Being spiritually prepared means being stripped of—well, as many—needs as possible.

So, when someone claims to have reached enlightenment after thirty years of spiritual practice, yet simultaneously mentions a "need for meditation"...

how does that work? Isn't there that old saying about the final test before Nirvana being the refusal to be enslaved by even the desire to be free from slavery? 😉
That's all I know about Buddhism, and frankly, it's enough for me.

Arguments regarding the "need to not be enslaved"... 🥳
there's no debate there.
It either is, or it isn't.
placidharbor7 placidharbor7 Active Member
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#47 ·
Edward Flores4 said:Have I already mentioned how much you’ve completely botched that whole "search dogma" thing? Well, if I haven't... let me just say, you really missed the mark there.

I mean... you’re still very much in a state of zen, but you've gotten pretty messy—like an insinuator of the search for truth.

Besides... this entire topic exists because another thread got split. To be clear, I didn't actually start this one; the moderators split it right from my post, which accidentally made me the thread starter. But honestly, don't even sweat it... just keep focusing on how to maintain that "very zen" persona of yours... you little identity seeker.😉

Who watches the watcher, Truth seeker?

Who is actually meditating, and who is just hallucinating the "experience" of meditation?

Can there even be meditation without an observer?

Krishnamurti preached celibacy while juggling two lovers at the same time; why on earth would you trust him?
coastalskipper92 coastalskipper92 Active Member
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#48 ·
placidharbor7 said:Who watches the watcher, Truth seeker?

Who is actually meditating, and who is just hallucinating the "experience" of meditation?

Can there even be meditation without an observer?

Krishnamurti preached celibacy while juggling two lovers at the same time; why on earth would you trust him?

That second question of yours is redundant. If there is someone supervising the supervisor, then clearly meditation happens regardless of their presence.
coastalskipper92 coastalskipper92 Active Member
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#49 ·
I’m not exactly making an assertion here; I am simply asking if you could perhaps elaborate on your question so that I might provide a proper response.

I want to expand upon the thoughts I already possess regarding this matter.
Edward Flores4 Edward Flores4 RegularOP
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#50 ·
placidharbor7 said:Who watches the watcher, Truth seeker?

Who is actually meditating, and who is just hallucinating the "experience" of meditation?

Can there even be meditation without an observer?

Krishnamurti preached celibacy while juggling two lovers at the same time; why on earth would you trust him?

Look, I don't believe him—just like I don't believe you when you claim he was preaching celibacy while having two girlfriends. 🙂

You’re asking me why I trust him, yet somehow expect me to take your word for it—even though my eyes and ears are working just fine. 🤣

Instead of trying to tear down the man's character, maybe try focusing on what he actually said. There’s an eighteen-part series of hour-long videos produced by the BBC where Krishnamurti sits down for a dialogue with a British professor of literature.

If you can manage to pull your head out of the sand and—God forbid—actually watch that series of dialogues, then if you come back with some actual, reasoned criticism regarding any of Krishnamurti's statements... I’d be more than happy to chat about it.

But as long as you’re busy peddling misinformation and speculating about Krishnamurti's private life—throwing out these vague, baseless critiques that make it obvious you haven't even read his work—well, I honestly couldn't care less about your need to build up your own "self-image" by dragging others down. Hey there, Identity Seeker. 😉

I don't put my faith in him, and I don't put my faith in you either. But the arguments he makes? They're solid—like bedrock that keeps you from sinking into the mud of shame. I understand them; I can follow their logic intellectually. Their explanatory power is huge, helping me navigate all sorts of situations without feeling detached from reality or falling into that trap of trying to "control the controller."

It isn't about faith... Identity Seeker. When something works, you don't need to "believe" in it. Effectiveness is its own proof of functionality—at least until something even more effective comes along.

It might not be very Zen, unlike your approach... but it works, which is more than I can say for yours. 😉
coastalskipper92 coastalskipper92 Active Member
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#51 ·
I haven't actually read Krishnamurthi, yet both of your quotes offer a completely different interpretation of Krishnamurthi and meditation compared to my own.
Everyone sees what they want to see, I suppose.

Edward Flores4 said:Anyone who thinks meditation is going to "smooth out" human emotions—or that it eventually leads to some kind of constant bliss or comfort—clearly hasn't a clue what they're talking about.

Besides... why do you assume only an agitated person can be verbally aggressive? Tolerance isn't a free pass; it’s something you earn. It is perfectly normal, even productive, to withhold tolerance from someone who hasn't earned it. Doing that doesn't require being upset—quite the opposite, actually. It requires calmness, calculation, and resolve. You're completely conflating "political correctness" with "spirituality."

Human stupidity... while it can be fascinating and deeply annoying at the same time, it should only rattle those who aren't expecting to run into it. If you go into the day expecting stupidity, its appearance won't shake you—just like you don't get upset when the sun sets in the evening after having expected it to rise in the morning.

Quincy:
what does meditation mean to you? Because clearly, your definition is a far cry from the standard one.
Krishnamurti describes the problem of meditation perfectly, and it aligns exactly with my own view of the matter.

Meditation is a very complex business. The Word meditation implies both in Sanskrit and in English, not only the brain concentrating on a certain subject, but also it implies a great deal of attention. But primarily meditation means, in Sanskrit, to measure. And also in English etymologically, I believe, it is to measure.
The whole question of becoming is involved in it, which is to measure: I am this, I will be that. I am greedy, but I will gradually become non-greedy, which is a form of measurement, which is form of becoming. Both becoming in the affairs of the world and psychologically becoming. That is the whole question of measurement.
The Greeks were the originators of measurement. Without measurement there would be no technology. And The Asiatics specially in India, said measurement is illusion, measurement means limitation. They didn’t exactly say this, they put it differently. So measurement means comparison, to compare ‘what is’, ‘what should be’, the ideal, the fact, the fact becoming the ideal. All that is implied in meditation.

And also in meditation is implied, the meditator and the meditation. So to enquire into meditation, you have to enquire first not only measurement, but also this constant becoming something, psychologically. Human beings are violent, and the ideal to be in a state of non-violence, which is to become.

So the question is not how to meditate but what is meditation, rather than how. I hope I am making myself clear. And also there is a question involved in that: who is meditating? And most of The Systems of meditation , whether The Japanese , and The hindus, and so on, Tibetan, there is always the controller and the controlled. Right? Are we meeting each other? So there is the controller controlling thought, to quieten the thought, to shape thought according to a purposeful direction. So there is the controller and the controlled. Who is the controller?

Please, all this is implied in meditation, not merely to control one’s thought as is generally understood in meditation, whether it is Zen meditation, or the most complex forms of meditation which take place in India, and elsewhere, there is always the director, the entity that controls thought. SoThey’ve essentially created this psychological split between the one doing the thinking and the thoughts themselves. Because of that, the thinker detaches himself from the actual process of thinking—which leads to this idea that during meditation, there’s some sort of "controller" stepping in to manage and quiet down the thoughts.

It creates this fundamental divide between the controller and what is being controlled. Makes sense, right? But here’s the kicker: who actually *is* the controller? Honestly, hardly anyone ever stops to ask that.
Most people are just thrilled to dive into meditation because they’re chasing a specific destination—you know, things like sudden illumination, total enlightenment, a quieted brain, or just some much-needed peace of mind. But very, very few people actually take a moment to inquire: who is this controller I'm trying to use?

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And hey, if there’s anything else that still feels a bit fuzzy... just ask. 🙂

Starting from that very first sentence, I find myself agreeing with shamantrixx.

It so "annoys" me when, if I happen to bring up a "problem" during a discussion on spirituality, everyone suddenly tries to comfort me... telling me that I'll grow through it and then won't have "problems" anymore.
That I'll just bask in eternal light and peace.
How lovely.
And all because the ego feels the need to "write off" problems simply because they don't fit within the concept of Zen.

shamantrixx... you once wrote to me regarding one of my little rants 😂 about how it isn't necessarily harder to be right... that change is instantaneous...
It wasn't that for me... we aren't the same...
I observed it for a while, much like an exotic plant 😂 and I didn't quite have the space to find a place for it just yet.
I have to explain this using metaphors 😍

Edward Flores4 said:Anyone who thinks meditation is going to "smooth out" human emotions—or that it eventually leads to some kind of constant bliss or comfort—clearly hasn't a clue what they're talking about.

Besides... why do you assume only an agitated person can be verbally aggressive? Tolerance isn't a free pass; it’s something you earn. It is perfectly normal, even productive, to withhold tolerance from someone who hasn't earned it. Doing that doesn't require being upset—quite the opposite, actually. It requires calmness, calculation, and resolve. You're completely conflating "political correctness" with "spirituality."

Human stupidity... while it can be fascinating and deeply annoying at the same time, it should only rattle those who aren't expecting to run into it. If you go into the day expecting stupidity, its appearance won't shake you—just like you don't get upset when the sun sets in the evening after having expected it to rise in the morning.

Quincy:
what does meditation mean to you? Because clearly, your definition is a far cry from the standard one.
Krishnamurti describes the problem of meditation perfectly, and it aligns exactly with my own view of the matter.

Meditation is a very complex business. The Word meditation implies both in Sanskrit and in English, not only the brain concentrating on a certain subject, but also it implies a great deal of attention. But primarily meditation means, in Sanskrit, to measure. And also in English etymologically, I believe, it is to measure.
The whole question of becoming is involved in it, which is to measure: I am this, I will be that. I am greedy, but I will gradually become non-greedy, which is a form of measurement, which is form of becoming. Both becoming in the affairs of the world and psychologically becoming. That is the whole question of measurement.
The Greeks were the originators of measurement. Without measurement there would be no technology. And The Asiatics specially in India, said measurement is illusion, measurement means limitation. They didn’t exactly say this, they put it differently. So measurement means comparison, to compare ‘what is’, ‘what should be’, the ideal, the fact, the fact becoming the ideal. All that is implied in meditation.

And also in meditation is implied, the meditator and the meditation. So to enquire into meditation, you have to enquire first not only measurement, but also this constant becoming something, psychologically. Human beings are violent, and the ideal to be in a state of non-violence, which is to become.

So the question is not how to meditate but what is meditation, rather than how. I hope I am making myself clear. And also there is a question involved in that: who is meditating? And most of The Systems of meditation , whether The Japanese , and The hindus, and so on, Tibetan, there is always the controller and the controlled. Right? Are we meeting each other? So there is the controller controlling thought, to quieten the thought, to shape thought according to a purposeful direction. So there is the controller and the controlled. Who is the controller?

Please, all this is implied in meditation, not merely to control one’s thought as is generally understood in meditation, whether it is Zen meditation, or the most complex forms of meditation which take place in India, and elsewhere, there is always the director, the entity that controls thought. SoThey’ve essentially created this psychological split between the one doing the thinking and the thoughts themselves. Because of that, the thinker detaches himself from the actual process of thinking—which leads to this idea that during meditation, there’s some sort of "controller" stepping in to manage and quiet down the thoughts.

It creates this fundamental divide between the controller and what is being controlled. Makes sense, right? But here’s the kicker: who actually *is* the controller? Honestly, hardly anyone ever stops to ask that.
Most people are just thrilled to dive into meditation because they’re chasing a specific destination—you know, things like sudden illumination, total enlightenment, a quieted brain, or just some much-needed peace of mind. But very, very few people actually take a moment to inquire: who is this controller I'm trying to use?

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And hey, if there’s anything else that still feels a bit fuzzy... just ask. 🙂

To me, meditation is simply self-knowledge about self-knowledge. Is that not the essence of it? 😂😍

If meditation is meant to be the path toward realization, then isn't realization itself a bit of a phantom? A ghost we chase? It feels as though we’ve simply projected the goal into some distant future, measuring a destination that doesn't actually exist in the present.

Jeremy Palmer said:So, what exactly do you think meditation creates?

A truly steady mind—one rooted deeply in its own being—remains calm regardless of what’s happening around it. It doesn't get to pick and choose when to be verbally aggressive and when to be tolerant; it stays consistent through thick and thin. What you're describing sounds more like typical human reactivity. We tend to cloud our judgment with selectivity, pre-judging every situation before it even unfolds. We often convince ourselves we have some sort of right to lash out at others just because, in our opinion, they "deserve" it. But let's be real: verbal aggression is always aggression. And if it isn't a heat-of-the-moment outburst, but rather something calculated and planned? Then it's nothing more than plain old sadism.

No, I think Krishnamurti does an excellent job here of describing what meditation is NOT. If you just read your quote without any context, you might walk away thinking he was actually against meditation. What meditation truly IS, however, is described right here:

As Krishnamurti once said:

Meditation is essentially the moment when thought finally comes to an end. It’s only once that noise settles that you can actually step into a different dimension—one that exists entirely beyond the constraints of time.

A truly meditative mind is defined by silence. I’m not talking about the quiet you feel on a calm evening or the kind of stillness you can just imagine; I mean the profound silence that occurs only when thought—with all its constant stream of images, words, and perceptions—completely stops. This meditative mind is The religious mind – The religion that is not touched by The church , The temple or by chants - Meditation is One of The Greatest Arts in Life – perhaps The Greatest.

Meditation is truly one of life's finest arts—honestly, maybe even the greatest. The best part? You can’t actually learn it from anyone else. There’s a certain beauty in that. Since there’s no specific technique to master, there’s no authority figure telling you you're doing it "wrong." It really comes down to self-discovery. If you can just observe yourself—watching how you walk, how you eat, the things you say, or even those little moments of gossip, resentment, or jealousy—that's where it starts. Being fully aware of all that within yourself, without judging or trying to pick and choose what to feel, is a fundamental part of meditation.

Meditation isn't just about sitting still on a cushion. It can happen anywhere—whether you're riding the bus through downtown Chicago, strolling through a sun-dappled forest, listening to the local songbirds, or simply catching a quiet moment while looking at the face of your spouse or your child.

- It is fascinating how vital meditation truly is; it feels as though it has no starting point and no finish line. Think of it like a single raindrop that feeds all the winding streams, massive rivers, oceans, and roaring waterfalls; that one drop sustains the entire planet and everyone on it. Without it, the world would just be a barren desert. In the same way, without meditation, the human heart turns into a wasteland.

- Let's be honest, meditation is actual work. It requires a very specific kind of discipline—not the kind where you just follow the crowd, imitate others, or obey rules—but a discipline born from staying constantly aware, not just of your surroundings, but of what's happening deep inside you.

- If you haven't built a foundation of integrity in your daily life, meditation just becomes a way to run away from reality, which makes it pretty much useless. Living with integrity isn't about sticking to social etiquette; it's about finding freedom from envy, greed, and the hunger for power—things that only ever create conflict. You don't get free from those things by trying harder with sheer willpower; you get there by becoming aware of them through genuine self-knowledge. If you don't understand how your own ego operates, meditation just turns into a form of sensory stimulation, which doesn't really mean much.

- Meditation is truly extraordinary. If you don't grasp what it actually is, you're a bit like someone who is blind living in a world full of vibrant colors, shifting shadows, and dancing light. It isn't some purely intellectual exercise. But when the heart truly connects with the mind, the mind changes entirely; it becomes limitless—not just in how it thinks or acts effectively, but in its ability to feel like you are part of a vast, interconnected space where you belong to everything.

What exactly do these little asterisks signify?

It isn't about imitation... I've always felt that the truly enlightened ones are those who actually have a guru. 😂

Meditation isn't about finding peace. It’s about freedom. Or is it? One might argue that peace is just a temporary lull, a quiet moment before the storm returns. But true liberation—that’s something else entirely.
There can be no peace without first having freedom.
If we prioritize finding peace first, then our freedom becomes little more than a fleeting oasis.[/b]
coastalskipper92 coastalskipper92 Active Member
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#52 ·
- Meditation isn't some passive drift; it’s grueling work. It requires a specific kind of rigor—not the sort found in mere compliance or mimicry, but a discipline born from an unrelenting awareness,[/I] that reaches beyond just the external world surrounding you and moves deeply within. Is it enough to simply watch? Perhaps not.

I find myself agreeing with this—people often claim meditation is nothing but PROFOUND peace... yet they rarely mention the sheer chaos one encounters while searching for that center.
Edward Flores4 Edward Flores4 RegularOP
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#53 ·
coastalskipper92 said:I haven't actually read Krishnamurthi, yet both of your quotes offer a completely different interpretation of Krishnamurthi and meditation compared to my own.
Everyone sees what they want to see, I suppose.

Starting from that very first sentence, I find myself agreeing with shamantrixx.

It so "annoys" me when, if I happen to bring up a "problem" during a discussion on spirituality, everyone suddenly tries to comfort me... telling me that I'll grow through it and then won't have "problems" anymore.
That I'll just bask in eternal light and peace.
How lovely.
And all because the ego feels the need to "write off" problems simply because they don't fit within the concept of Zen.

shamantrixx... you once wrote to me regarding one of my little rants 😂 about how it isn't necessarily harder to be right... that change is instantaneous...
It wasn't that for me... we aren't the same...
I observed it for a while, much like an exotic plant 😂 and I didn't quite have the space to find a place for it just yet.
I have to explain this using metaphors 😍

To me, meditation is simply self-knowledge about self-knowledge. Is that not the essence of it? 😂😍

If meditation is meant to be the path toward realization, then isn't realization itself a bit of a phantom? A ghost we chase? It feels as though we’ve simply projected the goal into some distant future, measuring a destination that doesn't actually exist in the present.

What exactly do these little asterisks signify?

It isn't about imitation... I've always felt that the truly enlightened ones are those who actually have a guru. 😂

Meditation isn't about finding peace. It’s about freedom. Or is it? One might argue that peace is just a temporary lull, a quiet moment before the storm returns. But true liberation—that’s something else entirely.
There can be no peace without first having freedom.
If we prioritize finding peace first, then our freedom becomes little more than a fleeting oasis.[/b]

Wait a second... I'm a little lost here.

Didn't you just say that you weren't even sure where to "place the exotic plant" initially (it wasn't about having "space for change"), and then later on, at some specific point, you finally realized there was a "free spot" available?

Are you trying to tell me that you processed the idea in stages, or did it just take some time before everything suddenly clicked for you all at once?

Think about it one more time. 😉
Edward Flores4 Edward Flores4 RegularOP
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#54 ·
coastalskipper92 said:I haven't actually read Krishnamurthi, yet both of your quotes offer a completely different interpretation of Krishnamurthi and meditation compared to my own.
Everyone sees what they want to see, I suppose.

Starting from that very first sentence, I find myself agreeing with shamantrixx.

It so "annoys" me when, if I happen to bring up a "problem" during a discussion on spirituality, everyone suddenly tries to comfort me... telling me that I'll grow through it and then won't have "problems" anymore.
That I'll just bask in eternal light and peace.
How lovely.
And all because the ego feels the need to "write off" problems simply because they don't fit within the concept of Zen.

shamantrixx... you once wrote to me regarding one of my little rants 😂 about how it isn't necessarily harder to be right... that change is instantaneous...
It wasn't that for me... we aren't the same...
I observed it for a while, much like an exotic plant 😂 and I didn't quite have the space to find a place for it just yet.
I have to explain this using metaphors 😍

To me, meditation is simply self-knowledge about self-knowledge. Is that not the essence of it? 😂😍

If meditation is meant to be the path toward realization, then isn't realization itself a bit of a phantom? A ghost we chase? It feels as though we’ve simply projected the goal into some distant future, measuring a destination that doesn't actually exist in the present.

What exactly do these little asterisks signify?

It isn't about imitation... I've always felt that the truly enlightened ones are those who actually have a guru. 😂

Meditation isn't about finding peace. It’s about freedom. Or is it? One might argue that peace is just a temporary lull, a quiet moment before the storm returns. But true liberation—that’s something else entirely.
There can be no peace without first having freedom.
If we prioritize finding peace first, then our freedom becomes little more than a fleeting oasis.[/b]

See how simple it actually is? 🙂

If you truly believe your guru is enlightened—and more importantly, if you believe they can hand you some magic technique that will somehow trigger your own enlightenment—then you aren't a student; you're just a perfect little believer. 😁

Think about it: you have a guru advising you to just sit there quietly, legs crossed, trying to split yourself into two versions—one part observing and one part being observed—as if doing nothing while sitting still is going to "achieve" something profound. And meanwhile, in your "free time," you’re basically just running errands for this leader... yeah, that kind of guru hasn't led you to freedom; they've just pushed you straight into 😁
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coastalskipper92 coastalskipper92 Active Member
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#55 ·
Edward Flores4 said:Wait a second... I'm a little lost here.

Didn't you just say that you weren't even sure where to "place the exotic plant" initially (it wasn't about having "space for change"), and then later on, at some specific point, you finally realized there was a "free spot" available?

Are you trying to tell me that you processed the idea in stages, or did it just take some time before everything suddenly clicked for you all at once?

Think about it one more time. 😉

And now 😂 we are merely talking about definitions... and honestly, how can one define anything other than a few fleeting moments 🤷
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Perhaps everyone possesses a certain number of groups, dark rooms...
I suppose I have a few more 😂

For instance, you and I are entirely different, so it doesn't surprise me...
I am, shall we say, a somewhat emotional individual, and I suspect that plays a role...

If we follow your logic, I could perhaps define... yes, the moment when the stages begin, and when they cease... though even that initial onset felt like a firework display. For me, everything comes with special effects... you know how it is; some people remain composed while others fall into a trance.
It is easiest for me to define it as albedo... I believe Jung spoke of this as well.
When you reach albedo, the shift is profound, and it feels as if there is nothing left to realize.😂

p.s.
Edward Flores4 said:See how simple it actually is? 🙂

If you truly believe your guru is enlightened—and more importantly, if you believe they can hand you some magic technique that will somehow trigger your own enlightenment—then you aren't a student; you're just a perfect little believer. 😁

Think about it: you have a guru advising you to just sit there quietly, legs crossed, trying to split yourself into two versions—one part observing and one part being observed—as if doing nothing while sitting still is going to "achieve" something profound. And meanwhile, in your "free time," you’re basically just running errands for this leader... yeah, that kind of guru hasn't led you to freedom; they've just pushed you straight into 😁
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😂 😂
coastalskipper92 coastalskipper92 Active Member
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#56 ·
p.s. 2 : a rather progressive moment 🙂 🤣

(where the real issues arise—not within emotions themselves, but perhaps in the collision of feeling and thought... though, of course, for someone nicknamed Mimosa 🥳...)
placidharbor7 placidharbor7 Active Member
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#57 ·
Edward Flores4 said:Look, I don't believe him—just like I don't believe you when you claim he was preaching celibacy while having two girlfriends. 🙂

You’re asking me why I trust him, yet somehow expect me to take your word for it—even though my eyes and ears are working just fine. 🤣

Instead of trying to tear down the man's character, maybe try focusing on what he actually said. There’s an eighteen-part series of hour-long videos produced by the BBC where Krishnamurti sits down for a dialogue with a British professor of literature.

If you can manage to pull your head out of the sand and—God forbid—actually watch that series of dialogues, then if you come back with some actual, reasoned criticism regarding any of Krishnamurti's statements... I’d be more than happy to chat about it.

But as long as you’re busy peddling misinformation and speculating about Krishnamurti's private life—throwing out these vague, baseless critiques that make it obvious you haven't even read his work—well, I honestly couldn't care less about your need to build up your own "self-image" by dragging others down. Hey there, Identity Seeker. 😉

I don't put my faith in him, and I don't put my faith in you either. But the arguments he makes? They're solid—like bedrock that keeps you from sinking into the mud of shame. I understand them; I can follow their logic intellectually. Their explanatory power is huge, helping me navigate all sorts of situations without feeling detached from reality or falling into that trap of trying to "control the controller."

It isn't about faith... Identity Seeker. When something works, you don't need to "believe" in it. Effectiveness is its own proof of functionality—at least until something even more effective comes along.

It might not be very Zen, unlike your approach... but it works, which is more than I can say for yours. 😉

You really need to grasp the interference and the chaos inherent in touching the transcendent, you truth seeker.
Edward Flores4 Edward Flores4 RegularOP
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#58 ·
I’ve gotta say, I’m feeling pretty uneasy about this—there’s this nagging suspicion that you’ve been totally compromised by the spiritual advice coming from some local guru. It feels like you aren't even realizing that you're stuck in this loop of completely broken rhetoric, the kind of stuff that fits Einstein's definition of insanity perfectly. You just keep spinning the same wheel over and over, stubbornly waiting for the exact same reaction to somehow—by some miracle, maybe?—produce a slightly different result one day. ☕
placidharbor7 placidharbor7 Active Member
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#59 ·
Edward Flores4 said:I’ve gotta say, I’m feeling pretty uneasy about this—there’s this nagging suspicion that you’ve been totally compromised by the spiritual advice coming from some local guru. It feels like you aren't even realizing that you're stuck in this loop of completely broken rhetoric, the kind of stuff that fits Einstein's definition of insanity perfectly. You just keep spinning the same wheel over and over, stubbornly waiting for the exact same reaction to somehow—by some miracle, maybe?—produce a slightly different result one day. ☕

What would even be the point of explaining this to someone who thinks "intellectual understanding and following instructions" is the ultimate path to wisdom?

All true transcendence comes from moving away from that very idea of "intellectual understanding," my friend, a real truth seeker.

You're stuck right where you are—there's just no way out of that mindset. So, why not just wait for the grass to grow "on its own"? Until then, stop wasting all your energy trying to pour water through a sieve!
Edward Flores4 Edward Flores4 RegularOP
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#60 ·
wow !!! It speaks 🙂

It’s just great how you went out of your way to elaborate—again—on the exact same points you always bring up whenever we realize you're just circling back to the same old loop, all while stubbornly expecting me to suddenly flip my reaction around. Well, here we are... you might want to sit tight and wait a little longer. I honestly don't know what else to tell you ☕

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