Enky, the best I can do for you right now is leave your take on Comer right here on this thread—that way everyone can draw their own conclusions. Honestly, dragging people behind your back and spreading lies by acting like pedophilia is just standard practice in Comer is incredibly low. You didn't cite a single source for such a heavy accusation. As for everything else you have regarding this subject, please take it to the appropriate thread—the one Mandragora specifically moved from Philosophy and Mysticism—instead of us all chasing each other around the forum.
Flamen Maior said:You seem like a pretty decent person, but the constant mentions of "old school" "good" forum members really rub me the wrong way. Personally, I lurk around here, and honestly, there isn't much to brag about on this subforum. Cliques, factions, senseless insults, ego trips... all the stuff a spiritual space should have less of.
And don't go thinking the "newer" members are to blame for that.
Just because someone hasn't posted much on this forum doesn't mean they aren't spiritually advanced.
So maybe look more closely at those who *do* write, without those kinds of biases.
I never claimed that someone who hasn't posted here is any less spiritually advanced.
And I'm not blaming the newer users.
As for the "old guard"? That’s a bit of a cliché that every forum freak deals with—but then again, some of them actually used to be excellent (even if they don't show it on the forum anymore).
If Parsifal, Nemruth, Dragonfly, Lame Deer, Enchantress, Fish, Belki, Baphomet, Mano, Fazlija, Jivan Mukta, Jimmy Jazz, Witch, Crazy Person, Slavko, Planinar, and several other names I can't recall right now became active again—paired with support from the newer crowd—this forum would be paradise. 😁
But I guess even in spirituality, you get "burnout." Especially on forums like this one.
I agree—the insults and ego trips are an embarrassment to a spiritual forum... and I'm working on fixing that (even if some people keep throwing wrenches in my gears). I don't have anything against cliques, as long as they aren't used to disrupt how the forum runs.
Look, I value my biases. Like I said before, they'll remain a constant part of my moderation—subjective objectivity, essentially—and a preference for those who actually try to make this forum high-quality through their writing. And like I mentioned, that favor is fluid; you have to earn it.
Take Alexis, for example.
Since joining on July 11th, she hasn't started a single spiritual thread (just one about digital photography and one complaint about moderation).
I don't recall a single meaningful contribution from her regarding spirituality, either. And now she wants to come in and fix the "wrong" Mississippi on the Philosophy and Spirituality board? And I'm supposed to answer to her? It's funny how her entire body of work lately has just been supporting Enky in criticizing n&n, myself, and the whole administration. Not to mention the tone she uses while doing it.
So, feel free to think I'm biased when it comes to her. 😍
That doesn't mean it's set in stone forever, though.