wiredcrane11 said:Could you clarify what that actually means?
On another note, I highly recommend checking out this book on spiritual intelligence since it seems like something that might be helpful for you😉 http://www.4shared.com/file/33271587...ligencija.html
Yeah, maybe my ex would find that useful—he used to be such a drama queen when I left him, and now he wouldn't even give me a drop of blood if I were dying... plus everyone who claims love comes from the soul but doesn't get how you can just stop caring about someone overnight. Like, why does the spark just vanish? It's just an end. Hmmm, makes me wonder...
Everything I've looked into, whether it's myself or people around me, points to exactly that...
Total nonsense...
"There are people who believe their life events are mostly their own doing, the result of their actions. On the other hand, some look for causes outside themselves. The first group is said to have an 'internal locus of control,' while the second has an 'external locus of control.' External control relies on the idea that we aren't responsible for our lives—whether we're happy or miserable, successful or failing, enthusiastic or depressed. From that standpoint, it's easy to blame others, society, the stars, the weather, or brain chemistry. That's the easy way out; changing the situation is the hard part. If we feel our lives are out of our hands, we tend to grumble, criticize, complain, worry, threaten, and blame. We project our bitterness outward. It's everyone else's fault; that's just how life is."
"Conversely, an internal sense of control brings both responsibility for one's actions and a greater sense of personal freedom and opportunity. People with an internal locus of control are much more satisfied than those with an external one."