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Dealing with homosexuality in the family: How to handle it?

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Participants Samuel Nelson24slywolf45Gary James88William Harris14Roger EvansMichael Booth3Donna Sullivan7James Allen6neonhound10David Vaughn4wanderingscout13feraldriver8Anthony Sanders53briskgull4Mark Lewis4Olivia Lopez41ruggedpanther64lonemason7Drew Bennett2Paul Garcia25gentlemason19Elizabeth Lopez16Peter Parker62Anthony Kim18 …
neonhound10 neonhound10 Active Member
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#21 ·
Michael Booth3 said:When was the first time you actually heard the word racism? Not just seeing it on a news ticker or hearing some pundit shout it on CNN during prime time, but when did it first actually sink in? Was it one of those heavy conversations at the dinner table, or just something that drifted through the air while you were watching a movie? It’s one of those words that carries so much weight, yet we toss it around like it's nothing. Does anyone else feel like the definition keeps shifting depending on who's doing the talking? Just wondering.

Good grief, does everyone in this crazy world seriously have to be someone I like?

That really has nothing to do with racism...
Gary James88 Gary James88 Active Member
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#22 ·
James Allen6 said:I find myself largely in agreement with the original poster (though I am not particularly fond of that specific TV show).
From what I have observed, nearly all gay individuals I know grew up in households where certain fundamental elements were missing—perhaps they were raised by a single parent, or maybe there was significant friction between their parents.
I would not go so far as to call it a disease, though I suppose one could view it as some type of disorder. I don't hold any animosity toward gay people (except, perhaps, for those who feel the need to be exhibitionists in public), but I suspect only they truly understand the circumstances that led them here. To suggest that being gay and being straight are identical is, I think, a bit of a delusion, as nature seems to indicate something quite different.
That said, I genuinely want everyone to find happiness, even if that path involves a same-sex relationship. However, I believe people should recognize and accept their own uniqueness rather than treating sexual orientation as an interchangeable choice. After all, we aren't animals; I guess what draws us to others is primarily an emotional connection rather than just a sexual one.

Humans are just bipedal primates belonging to the Homo Sapiens species within the hominid family. Part of the animal kingdom.

All mammals have emotions. It's basic science.

But why bother with actual research when everyone has an opinion on how things work? And they're all usually "right." Not.
Michael Booth3 Michael Booth3 Member
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#23 ·
neonhound10 said:Look, think about it this way: you have certain people who just aren't your cup of tea and they get on your nerves. So, you decide to throw a party, and you tell those specific people you don't want them there.

Where is the insult in that?

It's your life, your party, and your choice...

The term "homo" covers a much broader spectrum than that.
neonhound10 neonhound10 Active Member
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#24 ·
Michael Booth3 said:
Pegulan Banirani As if I haven't heard this before...
There’s really no comparison between a private party and the National team... they just aren't the same thing at all...

If it’s considered National, then it belongs to every single citizen out there... whether that gets under your skin or not, everyone deserves to be treated equally...

Honestly, who cares about the Constitution anyway? It’s basically just some dead ink on a piece of paper at this point...
Look, we go to the polls, we cast our votes, and we hand over our trust to these politicians, only to have them screw us over time and time again... So what’s the point of having a Constitution if it doesn't actually protect us from that kind of betrayal?
Michael Booth3 Michael Booth3 Member
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#25 ·
neonhound10 said:Good grief, does everyone in this crazy world seriously have to be someone I like?

That really has nothing to do with racism...

I was just pointing out why Otto got what was coming to him.

"The former coach was sued by Kick It Out, an organization that uses soccer to fight racism in the USA."

But I guess we know better than the rest of the country, don't we?
David Vaughn4 David Vaughn4 Member
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#26 ·
neonhound10 said:Michael Booth3 said:
Pegulan Banirani As if I haven't heard this before...
There’s really no comparison between a private party and the National team... they just aren't the same thing at all...

If it’s considered National, then it belongs to every single citizen out there... whether that gets under your skin or not, everyone deserves to be treated equally...

Honestly, who cares about the Constitution anyway? It’s basically just some dead ink on a piece of paper at this point...
Look, we go to the polls, we cast our votes, and we hand over our trust to these politicians, only to have them screw us over time and time again... So what’s the point of having a Constitution if it doesn't actually protect us from that kind of betrayal?

Well, keep on voting then.

Especially for those gay nationalists.
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#27 ·
neonhound10 said:Look, think about it this way: you have certain people who just aren't your cup of tea and they get on your nerves. So, you decide to throw a party, and you tell those specific people you don't want them there.

Where is the insult in that?

It's your life, your party, and your choice...

Hold on a second... are you actually comparing those two things?😲

Are you even aware that discriminating against someone based on their race, gender, or sexual orientation is illegal in this country?

Or are you still living in the Middle Ages?
neonhound10 neonhound10 Active Member
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#28 ·
Michael Booth3 said:I was just pointing out why Otto got what was coming to him.

"The former coach was sued by Kick It Out, an organization that uses soccer to fight racism in the USA."

But I guess we know better than the rest of the country, don't we?

Look, I’m clearly not quite bright enough to wrap my head around such profound wisdom...
Michael Booth3 Michael Booth3 Member
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#29 ·
It’s honestly laughable (:
And here I am, still dropping pearls of wisdom in front of swine (:
Enough is enough
neonhound10 neonhound10 Active Member
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#30 ·
slywolf45 said:Hold on a second... are you actually comparing those two things?😲

Are you even aware that discriminating against someone based on their race, gender, or sexual orientation is illegal in this country?

Or are you still living in the Middle Ages?

Look, I live by my own convictions, not by some rulebook that I had no hand in writing...

The real question is, what's wrong with having an opinion?

Don't I have a right to my thoughts? Or have the liberals stripped me of that, too?...
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#31 ·
neonhound10 said:Look, I live by my own convictions, not by some rulebook that I had no hand in writing...

The real question is, what's wrong with having an opinion?

Don't I have a right to my thoughts? Or have the liberals stripped me of that, too?...

Of course, you’re entitled to your opinion. I’m honestly not sure why I expected this particular topic to be any different from the usual collection of regressive, Neanderthal perspectives you tend to favor.

My mistake.
David Vaughn4 David Vaughn4 Member
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#32 ·
Hey everyone, could you do me a favor and head over to the "Latent Homophobia" thread? I started it recently, and honestly, it’s a pretty deep dive with some really solid points laid out there.

Thanks, folks.

😁
neonhound10 neonhound10 Active Member
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#33 ·
slywolf45 said:Of course, you’re entitled to your opinion. I’m honestly not sure why I expected this particular topic to be any different from the usual collection of regressive, Neanderthal perspectives you tend to favor.

My mistake.

🙂

So, am I supposed to sue you now for being insulting?

And what about all of you who claim to be fighting for rights while simultaneously trampling over everyone else's?

Honestly, a gay man is a walking paradox in itself because he isn't interested in women,🙂

which basically means he's discriminating against the opposite sex.

Besides, your lectures and "enlightened" stances barely reach the nearest stars, so they're pretty hard for someone like me to wrap my head around...

I actually enjoy pushing back against this forced, cookie-cutter version of the world—that's just who I am—whereas you just go along with the crowd, and that's who you are.

Isn't it just wonderful how diverse and colorful this world is, having to endure both your "intellectuals" and us degenerates?

I truly love it...🙂
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#34 ·
David Vaughn4 said:Hey everyone, could you do me a favor and head over to the "Latent Homophobia" thread? I started it recently, and honestly, it’s a pretty deep dive with some really solid points laid out there.

Thanks, folks.

😁

🤣

Stop trying to plug your own thread here...😁
neonhound10 neonhound10 Active Member
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#35 ·
David Vaughn4 said:Hey everyone, could you do me a favor and head over to the "Latent Homophobia" thread? I started it recently, and honestly, it’s a pretty deep dive with some really solid points laid out there.

Thanks, folks.

😁

Thanks for pointing that out, I definitely got a bit carried away...

I lost my train of thought, but this guy from the thread 🙂

My apologies once again.
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#36 ·
neonhound10 said:🙂

So, am I supposed to sue you now for being insulting?

And what about all of you who claim to be fighting for rights while simultaneously trampling over everyone else's?

Honestly, a gay man is a walking paradox in itself because he isn't interested in women,🙂

which basically means he's discriminating against the opposite sex.

Besides, your lectures and "enlightened" stances barely reach the nearest stars, so they're pretty hard for someone like me to wrap my head around...

I actually enjoy pushing back against this forced, cookie-cutter version of the world—that's just who I am—whereas you just go along with the crowd, and that's who you are.

Isn't it just wonderful how diverse and colorful this world is, having to endure both your "intellectuals" and us degenerates?

I truly love it...🙂

exactly👍
Gary James88 Gary James88 Active Member
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#37 ·
neonhound10 said:🙂

So, am I supposed to sue you now for being insulting?

And what about all of you who claim to be fighting for rights while simultaneously trampling over everyone else's?

Honestly, a gay man is a walking paradox in itself because he isn't interested in women,🙂

which basically means he's discriminating against the opposite sex.

Besides, your lectures and "enlightened" stances barely reach the nearest stars, so they're pretty hard for someone like me to wrap my head around...

I actually enjoy pushing back against this forced, cookie-cutter version of the world—that's just who I am—whereas you just go along with the crowd, and that's who you are.

Isn't it just wonderful how diverse and colorful this world is, having to endure both your "intellectuals" and us degenerates?

I truly love it...🙂

So does that mean a straight man is discriminating against his own gender just because he isn't into guys? 🙂
David Vaughn4 David Vaughn4 Member
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#38 ·
Honestly, the guy is his own walking contradiction since he doesn't even care for women 🙂

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slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#39 ·
neonhound10 said:Thanks for pointing that out, I definitely got a bit carried away...

I lost my train of thought, but this guy from the thread 🙂

My apologies once again.

Good grief, he didn't catch on!!🤣 🤣

But then again, why am I even surprised?😕
neonhound10 neonhound10 Active Member
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#40 ·
Gary James88 said:So does that mean a straight man is discriminating against his own gender just because he isn't into guys? 🙂

Honestly, you might actually be worse than I am... You just can't seem to wrap your head around a guy who talks so bluntly and simply that even a toddler could follow along... 😁

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