In-laws or a spouse from a different background: what would you choose?

ZDS said:kick them out

That goes without saying, assuming they haven't already moved out. I guess I wouldn't put up with grown kids living under my roof either.

HomoSapien said:The size of my John doesn't even matter here, since I'm basically a Black guy with American citizenship. 😳

Oh, please. As if we need more people trying to paint the whole world in boring black and white strokes.🤣

Ahmed, quit messing with decent people; you’re going to end up causing some real trouble for the kids.

An American woman can... A Falconer, not 🙂

Only guys from the Orthodox faith count—specifically Mexicans, Russians, or Greeks.

Not much else I could do. My kids were raised with Christian values, so this is just the logical move for us.

God, have mercy on all these narrow-minded, primitive people in here! 🙂 🙂

gentleeagle45 said:Dear fellow forum members,

Imagine a day when your child—regardless of their age—comes to you and announces they are getting married. But then comes the catch: "But Mom, Dad... 😉 he isn't from our background, our faith, or our way of life; he is actually [insert a group you personally struggle to accept]!"

How would you handle such a situation?

Hmm... let's see... if someone from my household brought home an American or a Muslim... the first thing I'd do is give them a serious thrashing (my own child, obviously), then I'd kick them straight out of the house and tell them to never show their face to me again 😬 ... They wouldn't dare mess with me 😎

granitemarlin77 said:👍 🙏 👍
Anything but that.
My 14-year-old nephew? Man, the second he hears a girl’s Mexican—I mean, if she's even remotely from that part of the world—he’s gone. Just vanishes. He’ll walk right past a Miss Universe type just to stay clear. What is wrong with kids today?
Man, he just loves him.😘

🤣 🙏 👍

Sienna said:And there you have it—I’m the one getting blamed... while that guy is out here trying to pull all sorts of nonsense on me... hehhehehe

Social services will likely take your kid way before they ever deal with "that guy." 👍

But hey, let's be real: which year are we talking about? Probably once society actually teaches you some manners and you finally qualify as a full-fledged member of civilization. 😉

Valderrama said:The thread starter is basically boiling everything down to one word—Muslim. Personally, as a Christian, I’d be against it. That much.

So much for that supposed Christian love, I guess.

coppercanyon3 said:Not much else I could do. My kids were raised with Christian values, so this is just the logical move for us.

Would it be easier for you if your son brought home an Orthodox guy as his boyfriend, or if he introduced a Muslim girl as his girlfriend?

Dennis Green62 said:Would it be easier for you if your son brought home an Orthodox guy as his boyfriend, or if he introduced a Muslim girl as his girlfriend?

That’s not the point.............................................. .................................................. .......

No son of mine.........

dustyeagle92 said:That’s just what he tells you to your face, but when Uncle isn't looking, this is how he actually acts.😘 😘 😘

Nah, please. He doesn't listen to country music, and he sure as hell isn't into anything related to the neighbors—I'm positive on that one. I know my nephew inside and out. Anything remotely associated with them? He won't touch it with a ten-foot pole. Smart kid, though.😘

wow, you might as well have just invited your bearded son-in-law over to crash on the couch!

mistyseal11 said:wow, you might as well have just invited your bearded son-in-law over to crash on the couch!

Like he’s some pet you can just put on a leash and keep in a crate 🤣 🤣 🤣
The guy basically just wants a bearded house pet 😂

nah, honestly, this usually hits hardest for those folks who swore up and down they’d rather end their own lives than deal with a kid acting out like that...

Killed😲
Just because of some bearded pet you can mess around with🤣 — total nonsense😬

HomoCroat said:Homosexuality isn't a disease, but homophobia and xenophobia absolutely are—and they're incredibly dangerous, highly contagious, and utterly destructive. To make matters worse, those two "ailments" are notoriously difficult to cure.

Exactly.

@Sana honey, and you too, coppercanyon3, I hope you both get to live in actual functional countries, rather than the dysfunctional ones you pretend to inhabit here. We all know you aren't actually broken... though, socially speaking, your condition would probably disqualify you from custody rights. 😉

But since you're clearly just joking around, let's not take anything this drunk Sam Alvarez15 rambles on about seriously.

Dennis Brown2 said:Don't take offense at the question, but if you really are gay, tell me—do you and John ever actually think about what it looks like when you're performing oral sex on one another?
Or when you're taking turns anal sex? I mean, isn't that what the anatomy is for?
I am asking this in good faith, and I’d ask the moderators to please refrain from banning me.

For the record, I would never kick my daughter out of the house just because she brought home, say, a Black boyfriend. I’m not a racist.
Of course, I wouldn't kick her out—she's my child—but I would pull that guy aside, deal with him quite violently, and make sure he's sufficiently beaten and broken before telling him very politely that if I ever see him near my daughter again, I will absolutely destroy him so thoroughly that even a team of specialists at Mayo Clinic won't be able to fix him.

hja, look, it's not the poor guy's fault. To him, being with a white woman is the ultimate trophy. Why bother hitting him when he views this as his greatest life achievement?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage