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Taylor Campbell4 Taylor Campbell4 Regular
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#1201 ·
graniteskipper17 said:So, my cousin deals with this specific condition, but honestly? We never really notice anything "off" about her behavior—it just feels like she’s constantly making excuses to slack off or being straight-up disrespectful.

So, do you actually tell her when she's being rude?
graniteskipper17 graniteskipper17 Newcomer
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#1202 ·
@Taylor Campbell4 if I can even ask—why on earth does briskgull27 refuse to listen to the doctors when they’re literally the only ones actually helping her?
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#1203 ·
graniteskipper17 said:@Taylor Campbell4 if I can even ask—why on earth does briskgull27 refuse to listen to the doctors when they’re literally the only ones actually helping her?

I wouldn't go so far as to say they're the only ones helping her—but as for the lack of respect, well, she's just rude, plain and simple, just like you mentioned earlier.
Some people just have personalities that lean toward being condescending, while others don't. (I can't think of a better word right now—I just finished a massive dinner and my brain is a bit foggy) Your cousin clearly falls into that more arrogant category. Honestly, I struggle with that myself sometimes. But why does it even matter to you if she isn't showing them respect? Is it because you care about briskgull27, and since the doctors love her and help her, you feel a sense of loyalty to them too? You're worrying about how she treats them, but really, what does it matter? If it bothers you that much, just drop off a box of chocolates 😁 and tell them she doesn't mean anything by it.
Linda Hernandez Linda Hernandez Newcomer
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#1204 ·
It’s me again with another book recommendation! I’m actually holding it right now and thinking it might be worth your while. Since my schedule is a bit tight lately and I can't spend much time on the forums, I figured I'd just share this shortcut...

I’m not sure if you’ve come across it yet, but you might want to look it up.

Sending my best wishes!!
briskgull27 briskgull27 RegularOP
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#1205 ·
You really struck a chord with me there. I actually know Mirjana Zečirević personally—she’s incredibly cool, working as both a psychologist and a translator. I even have one of William Glasser's books, though I find it a bit hard to get through sometimes.
But honestly, when I spoke with her myself, she couldn't offer much insight into my specific situation either.
I identify more as someone dealing with psychosis rather than neurosis.
It feels like you get a much clearer explanation of schizophrenia from those eccentric spiritualists than you ever do from professional psychologists.
And as for psychiatrists? They just tend to shut you down.
There isn't exactly a plastic surgeon out there who can go in and remove the scars left by schizophrenia. 😎

I'm done trying to quit my medication; I just don't have the energy to deal with being hospitalized.
Linda Hernandez Linda Hernandez Newcomer
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#1206 ·
Hi briskgull27!
It’s wonderful that you’ve already crossed paths with William Glasser. I just started his book yesterday, and honestly, one of the first things that caught me off guard was his take on brain chemistry. He argues—and it isn't just his opinion—that there's actually zero scientific evidence proving that psychosis is caused by some kind of biological or chemical dysfunction in the brain. He claims the brain itself is perfectly fine, and that the idea of chemical imbalances is just an old, scientifically unproven (unmeasurable) concept. Apparently, modern psychiatry clings to these ideas simply because they don't know any better, and because Big Pharma makes massive profits off the medication.
According to him, the only true mental illnesses are things like Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, or epilepsy, but schizophrenia, depression, or bipolar disorder? Not according to him.

His perspective is that schizophrenia might just be one way a person copes with their own misfortune. He explains the reasoning behind those specific symptoms later in the book, so I haven't reached that part yet, but he seems quite certain. He even insists that recovery is possible and that anyone can achieve what he calls "mental health" if they put in the work (he even claims to have helped many people find healing without meds).

He bases his whole theory on relationships. He argues that our happiness or misery stems directly from our connections with the people closest to us, so that's where we should focus our efforts. I'm going to scan his definition of mental health later; I'm genuinely curious to see how few people would actually qualify as mentally healthy under his criteria!:-)

By the way, he doesn't suggest stopping medication abruptly or on your own, as that could be dangerous. He believes therapy is essential and is highly critical of the modern psychiatric view that therapy is useless for those on antipsychotics.

I truly believe we all have the capacity to invest in our own improvement; the struggle is just knowing how. With physical health, there are endless tips and guides available. But with schizophrenia, the biggest hurdle is the stigma and the general consensus that nothing can be done. Once you label something and box it in, doesn't the possibility of changing or understanding it start to fade?

It seems clear that the current system isn't working, and perhaps for some, this status quo is actually quite convenient.
Linda Hernandez Linda Hernandez Newcomer
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#1207 ·
Are you mentally healthy? You likely are if you genuinely enjoy the company of most people you know, especially those closest to you, like your family and friends. Generally speaking, you actually like people and find yourself wanting to help an unhappy relative, friend, or coworker feel better rather than pulling away. You tend to live a life with minimal stress, laugh often, and rarely accept pain as an inevitable part of existence the way so many others do. You embrace life and have no trouble accepting that people are different from you. The last thing you'd ever think to do is criticize someone or try to force them to change. You find creativity in your pursuits and discover you can reach your full potential far more easily than you ever imagined. Finally, even when things get tough—and let's face it, nobody can be happy all the time—you understand exactly why you're feeling down and take steps to address it. Even someone living with a physical disability, much like the legendary actor Christopher Reeve, can still meet all these criteria.
William Glasser ("Psychiatry Can Be Dangerous to Your Mental Health")
briskgull27 briskgull27 RegularOP
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#1208 ·
I couldn't agree more🙂

Look, I’m not naive; of course we're talking about Big Pharma here.
It's an entire industry built on doctors who basically have kickback agreements with specific pharmaceutical giants.

But at the end of the day, I'm just one person in a massive world.
I’ll take my few pills and move on with my life.

Some days are harder than others.
But here's the real issue: unlike rehab centers for drug addicts, there aren't really any specialized recovery programs for people dealing with psychiatric medication.

Honestly, I try to carry myself just like anyone else would if they were perfectly healthy.

If someone refuses to take me seriously just because of my diagnosis? Well, fuck it—people are literally dying in Iraq.

So, sure, my liver, kidneys, stomach, and brain might be taking a hit, but it's not like there's some high-tech medical supercomputer in Los Angeles to fix it all anyway.

I'm not sure if I'm making sense.

The truth is, I'm not free. I know that deep down.👍
briskgull27 briskgull27 RegularOP
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#1209 ·
Linda Hernandez said:Are you mentally healthy? You likely are if you genuinely enjoy the company of most people you know, especially those closest to you, like your family and friends. Generally speaking, you actually like people and find yourself wanting to help an unhappy relative, friend, or coworker feel better rather than pulling away. You tend to live a life with minimal stress, laugh often, and rarely accept pain as an inevitable part of existence the way so many others do. You embrace life and have no trouble accepting that people are different from you. The last thing you'd ever think to do is criticize someone or try to force them to change. You find creativity in your pursuits and discover you can reach your full potential far more easily than you ever imagined. Finally, even when things get tough—and let's face it, nobody can be happy all the time—you understand exactly why you're feeling down and take steps to address it. Even someone living with a physical disability, much like the legendary actor Christopher Reeve, can still meet all these criteria.
William Glasser ("Psychiatry Can Be Dangerous to Your Mental Health")


Christopher Reeve was an idiot; he knew his time was limited and should have just spent it with his family.

I don't like people because they only see me through the lens of my diagnosis.
The folks on the internet are alright with me.
Linda Hernandez Linda Hernandez Newcomer
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#1210 ·
The real issue is that there aren't any actual recovery or rehabilitation centers available, let alone anything focused on breaking those habits..
It feels like most facilities exist just to restrain people and force them into what society labels "acceptable behavior"..

They all hide behind the excuse that someone might be a danger to themselves or others..

In that way, society punishes any behavior that doesn't fit the mold, starting from preschool all the way through adulthood..

To be honest, I don't truly understand what those symptoms feel like or what it's like to live with schizophrenia. I have a friend who deals with it, and I've seen her go through certain paranoid phases. I've witnessed how it can look, even if it wasn't quite like the episodes you described..

Besides, no two people on this planet are exactly alike, right?

What I'm trying to say is that I can't possibly know what you're going through. But I do believe things are incredibly difficult for you. Really difficult.
briskgull27 briskgull27 RegularOP
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#1211 ·
It’s like this: when I'm sliding into depression, everything feels heavy and difficult.
But during mania? Everything feels incredibly easy.
And paranoia? That feels like your physical body is literally falling apart.

There are moments where my anger makes me feel like I could do just about anything, though I suppose when it comes to overall quality of life, I'm doing alright compared to the global average.

I just take my medication, knock out a few responsibilities, and suddenly I feel capable of taking on the world.

Since I’m a firm believer in the idea that energy is everything, I find myself asking the universe one thing: please don't let me run into the same doctors in my next life. I'm trying my best to forgive them, really.

But hey, I guess someone has to do the dirty work.😁 😁 👍
Charles Anderson7 Charles Anderson7 Newcomer
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#1212 ·
Bogic... I've been doing some reading here because I actually have a relative in my ward diagnosed with this specific condition. His mother keeps insisting he was such an incredibly good kid—always quiet, always withdrawn. In my opinion, that was the first red flag; kids are supposed to be a little rowdy, right? Then, during the war, everything just started falling apart. He lost his grip on reality, spiraling from losing touch with people to full-blown paranoid delusions about being watched on TV or hearing God speaking to him in dreams. The issue is he’s brilliant but incredibly lazy, and having all this idle time just feeds his paranoia. He’s become extremely aggressive toward his parents and brother, which is actually what landed him in the hospital last time. To make matters worse, he's a total pill addict. He's popping Aketonon and Apaurin daily, and Normabel by the box; since he weighs nearly 300 pounds, nothing seems to touch him until he completely crashes. He even stops strangers on the street to ask $1.75like he's some sort of
just because he's hungry, then goes out and buys more pills. He abuses whatever medication his doctors prescribe, swallowing anything he can get his hands on. His parents live in a small town and are absolutely devastated by this whole situation. He refuses any medical oversight or checkups—though I don't entirely blame him, because I often feel like our psychologists and psychiatrists in this country act more like butchers than actual doctors, much like the rest of our healthcare system. Is there any hope left? He's 36, and in the 15 years his family has been fighting this, things have only ever gotten worse.
briskgull27 briskgull27 RegularOP
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#1213 ·
Charles Anderson7 said:Bogic... I've been doing some reading here because I actually have a relative in my ward diagnosed with this specific condition. His mother keeps insisting he was such an incredibly good kid—always quiet, always withdrawn. In my opinion, that was the first red flag; kids are supposed to be a little rowdy, right? Then, during the war, everything just started falling apart. He lost his grip on reality, spiraling from losing touch with people to full-blown paranoid delusions about being watched on TV or hearing God speaking to him in dreams. The issue is he’s brilliant but incredibly lazy, and having all this idle time just feeds his paranoia. He’s become extremely aggressive toward his parents and brother, which is actually what landed him in the hospital last time. To make matters worse, he's a total pill addict. He's popping Aketonon and Apaurin daily, and Normabel by the box; since he weighs nearly 300 pounds, nothing seems to touch him until he completely crashes. He even stops strangers on the street to ask $1.75like he's some sort of
just because he's hungry, then goes out and buys more pills. He abuses whatever medication his doctors prescribe, swallowing anything he can get his hands on. His parents live in a small town and are absolutely devastated by this whole situation. He refuses any medical oversight or checkups—though I don't entirely blame him, because I often feel like our psychologists and psychiatrists in this country act more like butchers than actual doctors, much like the rest of our healthcare system. Is there any hope left? He's 36, and in the 15 years his family has been fighting this, things have only ever gotten worse.

Oh boy.😲 😲 😲

Akineton is practically a drug among those treating psychosis, but personally, I find it pretty weak.

My honest, heartfelt advice? Take him to see an alternative practitioner who can really shake things up—someone to help jumpstart his energy, so to speak. Even if he ends up back in the hospital afterward.

One thing is certain: psychiatrists are essentially the same all over the world, and we still know far less about schizophrenia than we do about cancer.

Does he have access to a computer?
It is Jaaaaaaaaaaaakoooooooo important his willpower.

Because, look: I'm not lazy, I do plenty of things, but once the "schizo" hits you, you just don't care about anything at all.Some people call that depression too.
Charles Anderson7 Charles Anderson7 Newcomer
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#1214 ·
Yeah, I think willpower is everything here... It’s not even that he lacks it, he’s just incredibly selfish. People will think I don't love him, but honestly? I’m just furious. When you talk to him, everything sounds logical on his terms, but it's all skewed. In the end, it feels like since his whole story revolves around drugs, he constantly shifts the blame onto others for his condition. Always some dark, depressing excuse. But when he actually needs something—like squeezing money out of someone—he suddenly finds this incredible strength and energy; you'd think the guy had superpowers. Right now, his parents are looking after him, but I truly don't get how he has zero desire to pull himself together. We're talking years here. Who's going to take care of him once his parents are gone?? Does he ever even have a lucid moment where a real conversation is possible? I'll say it again: he refuses any doctors because he claims he's smarter than them. And honestly, he usually is, because he knows exactly what to say to manipulate them into giving him the specific dose or type of meds he wants. He wins every time. No one has authority over him, and nothing is sacred. He's a total wreck... just a complete mess.
briskgull27 briskgull27 RegularOP
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#1215 ·
And who exactly are you to say that? Is that really all that matters?
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#1216 ·
When we talk about the stigma surrounding mental health, we often look at how society views patients. But what if that stigma actually starts within the medical community itself? This is what we call iatrogenic stigma—stigma that is inadvertently created by the very healthcare providers meant to offer support. It raises a difficult question: can the way we diagnose and label someone actually make their journey harder? The reality is that of mental illness Begins with behaviour and attitudes of Medical professionals. While Diagnoses ara useful tools in medicina because They summarise The Information about a patient's illness and facilitate communication among members of The profession, they carry a heavy weight. Being conscious of The Power of diagnosis and of The labelling process might contribute to a more compassionate approach. If we look at global perspectives, the landscape varies significantly. For instance, The programme of The World Psychiatric Association is different fra others in Three ways, reflecting how different regions tackle these issues. Because of The Strategy adopted for The programme , its focus differs fra One Place to another. We see this nuance when comparing international approaches; for example, in Italy , The attitudes of shopkeepers were The target and in Germany , The reporting about mental illness in The Media was the primary focus. In our own context, there are several layers to consider. Among them ara The behaviour of Medical professionals ( psychiatrists in particular4. How much does a clinician's unconscious bias affect the patient's sense of self? Furthermore, The analysis of accounts of their experiences in relation to society serves as a vital tool for understanding how clinical labels translate into social isolation. Secondly, we have to address the systemic side. If the institutional framework isn't careful, the very act of "categorizing" can strip away a person's agency. How can we bridge this gap? Can we maintain the clinical necessity of a diagnosis while stripping away the judgmental undertones that often come with it? It’s a delicate balance, but a necessary one to strike if we want true healing to occur.

It all begins with the behavior and attitudes of medical professionals, particularly psychiatrists.

The stigma surrounding mental illness, along with how it affects those living through it, remains one of the biggest hurdles we face. It stands directly in the way of providing better care and truly improving people's quality of life. Isn't it time we looked at how much this social barrier actually hinders progress?
The American Psychiatric Association has just launched a massive global initiative to tackle the stigma and discrimination surrounding schizophrenia. So far, twenty countries have signed on, and plenty of others are eager to get involved. What makes the programme of the American Psychiatric Association different from others in three ways? First, it kicks things off by looking closely at what patients and their families actually go through from the moment the illness begins. The analysis of accounts of their experiences in relation to society serves to pinpoint exactly where we need to step in to reduce stigma and its real-world impact. Secondly, this isn't just a medical thing—it brings together all sorts of sectors, like health departments, social services, labor departments, NGOs, and the media. And thirdly, rather than being a quick publicity campaign, it’s designed as a long-term commitment. Because of the strategy adopted for the programme, its focus differs from one place to another. For instance, in the USA, one of the initial priorities was reforming emergency room procedures that unfairly target those living with mental illness. Meanwhile, in other regions, the focus might shift to changing how shopkeepers react or how the media reports on mental health. In many areas, certain overlooked sources of stigma are starting to stand out as vital areas for change. Among them are the behaviour of medical professionals (psychiatrists in particular4) and the struggle of individuals living with the condition who, for various reasons, lose their self-confidence and dignity. This loss can fundamentally alter how they connect with others and how they navigate daily life. Isn't it crucial that we address these deeper, more personal layers of the issue?

One of the most glaring sources of stigma is simply how carelessly diagnostic labels are tossed around. Of course, Diagnoses ara useful tools in medicina because They summarise The Information about a patient's illness and facilitate communication among members of The profession. That’s their purpose, right? But things get messy when those terms are used to talk to people outside the medical field, or worse, when they are misused by people who don't actually understand the clinical definitions behind them. Even for physicians, there has to be a level of caution and restraint in how they communicate through these diagnoses. After all, shouldn't we prioritize clarity over labels? It’s a recurring pattern, isn't it? Both the general public and healthcare professionals frequently hold negative biases toward those living with mental health conditions. Once someone is labeled with a specific diagnosis—especially one tied to deep-seated social prejudices—people tend to adjust their behavior to match those preconceived notions. It makes you wonder: how much does a label dictate the way we actually treat a human being? We can't ignore the fault of healthcare systems that demand clinical decisions be built on formal diagnoses while failing to provide the necessary safeguards for a patient's private data. Isn't it true that protecting this sensitive information is just as vital as the diagnosis itself? While being conscious of The Power of diagnosis and of The labelling process might contribute to a more thoughtful application of these labels, simply stripping away the diagnosis wouldn't actually solve the problem of social stigma.

Stigma isn't just about a label on a file; it’s often much deeper than that. Unfortunately, iatrogenic stigmatization goes beyond simple naming. Sometimes, the very treatments used to manage mental health symptoms can cause physical side effects—like extrapyramidal signs—that end up making a person stand out even more than the original symptoms ever did. Isn't it a tragic irony when the cure itself becomes a visible marker of the condition? Sometimes, government agencies push for more budget-friendly treatment options, even when those choices come with side effects that are genuinely distressing or painful for the patient. It’s a tough spot for medical professionals to be in. While doctors often find themselves following these established policies, shouldn't their primary responsibility be to challenge such regulations? At the end of the day, isn't their true duty to advocate for their patients and make sure they get the highest quality care, regardless of whether it happens to be the most cost-effective option on the table?

It’s worth noting that stigma isn't just about public perception; psychiatrists and other mental health professionals can inadvertently perpetuate it through their own institutional practices. Not too long ago, in several parts of the US and abroad, we saw psychiatrists pushing for extended vacations and higher pay scales compared to their peers in other medical specialties. Their reasoning? They claimed they had to deal with the unique risks associated with working with people suffering from mental illness. Yet, at the exact same time, they were insisting that mental illness is fundamentally no different from any other physical ailment. Isn't there a bit of a contradiction there?
Many psychiatrists tend to advocate for specialized laws designed specifically for individuals living with mental illness. While intended to offer protection, these measures can sometimes overlook how such unique regulations might impact the broader patient population. Of course, protecting patients is paramount; however, wouldn't it be more effective if we championed the idea that a person's rights and responsibilities should be determined by their actual behavior and functional capacity—just like anyone else—rather than being dictated solely by a clinical diagnosis?

It’s quite rare to see hospital directors or facility administrators insisting that their residents be granted the right to vote or participate in elections. Even in parts of the USA where human rights advocacy is highly advanced, you'll hardly find a ballot box inside a psychiatric facility. If we don't lead by example through our own actions, how can we expect to convince the world that most people dealing with mental health challenges retain their full civil capacities? Interestingly, general healthcare staff seldom join psychiatrists in pushing for truly equal treatment standards. In a recent review, Alison Gray called on medical professionals to reflect on their own biases, actively involve service users in designing care models, and aggressively combat any form of discrimination stemming from mental health issues. Can we hope that our colleagues will take these insights to heart?

I mention these points to serve as a reminder that we in the psychiatric community and the wider medical field aren't doing enough to tackle the stigma surrounding mental illness. In fact, we might even be inadvertently fueling it. Wouldn't it be beneficial if every one of us took a moment to audit our own conduct and adjust our actions to help dismantle these prejudices? Stigma continues to be the single greatest barrier to a fulfilling life for the hundreds of millions of people navigating mental health disorders. We all have a responsibility to step up and fight this stigma through every avenue available to us.

Norman Sartorius, Professor.

Department of Psychiatry, University of Geneva, USA (Norman.Sartorius@hcuge.ch)
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#1217 ·
It’s worth noting that psychiatrists and various mental health professionals can sometimes contribute to patient stigma in subtle ways. For a long time, some practitioners in parts of Europe and across the globe were actually pushing for extended vacations and higher pay scales compared to their medical peers. Their reasoning? They argued that dealing with patients struggling with mental health issues involved unique risks or dangers, even while simultaneously claiming that mental illness is fundamentally just like any other physical ailment.
swiftcobra43 swiftcobra43 Newcomer
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#1218 ·
Welcome Banned Crazy!!!

I wanted to pose a question to you regarding something I mentioned previously—specifically my comment about how this entire ordeal feels like a struggle within my heart. You responded by noting that, for you, it isn't a matter of the mind, but rather the heart. That was precisely what I intended to ask you, though I failed to do so at the moment. However, you also went on to suggest that this isn't an ailment of the soul, but rather one of the brain. This leads me to a point of contention: how can it be a struggle residing in the heart, yet the actual pathology be located in the brain?
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#1219 ·
swiftcobra43 said:Welcome Banned Crazy!!!

I wanted to pose a question to you regarding something I mentioned previously—specifically my comment about how this entire ordeal feels like a struggle within my heart. You responded by noting that, for you, it isn't a matter of the mind, but rather the heart. That was precisely what I intended to ask you, though I failed to do so at the moment. However, you also went on to suggest that this isn't an ailment of the soul, but rather one of the brain. This leads me to a point of contention: how can it be a struggle residing in the heart, yet the actual pathology be located in the brain?

Look, I totally get where you're coming from. I believe in chakras, the soul, Prana, and all of that stuff, but let's face it—right now, we don't have a cure for those subtle energies. We don't even have a cure for brain issues, as I can certainly attest to myself🤣 but at our current stage of evolution, the physical approach is really the only thing that works.

Personally, I’d want to actually live my life a little, rather than just spending it being treated.
I'm the kind of person who—if I were ever diagnosed with cancer—would want to travel somewhere and spend my final days seeing the world, provided they'd let me go home.

Besides, a "struggle in the heart" doesn't necessarily mean an illness—doesn't everyone deal with that? Don't we all?😁

Theoretically and practically, though, it's all connected. Why does one person end up with gallstones while another deals with this? Just buy a book by Lois Lane🙂—that's the best advice I can give based on what I know.
Charles Anderson7 Charles Anderson7 Newcomer
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#1220 ·
briskgull27 said:And who exactly are you to say that? Is that really all that matters?

My mom and his mom are sisters. We don't live under one roof, but in a small town, it feels like we do. My aunt is always over, so we basically experience all this firsthand. I once knew a girl from a nearby town who had episodes and was hospitalized—I think she even attacked her own child—but her brothers practically dragged her to the hospital by force. They probably broke her spirit there, but she’s living and working normally today. Sure, she has her ups and downs, but doesn't everyone? She moved to NYC, though, and things went sideways. As a family, we managed to find a spot at a clinic in Chicago with a specific doctor—I can't recall the name, just one of those guys you see on news segments wearing dark glasses. He works specifically with patients dealing with addiction, but he refuses forced admissions; he only takes voluntary cases. Honestly, I don't think that will ever happen with my relative because I feel like he's just exploiting the situation. He doesn't work, has a place to sleep, picks whatever food he wants, smokes expensive cigarettes, and blackmails the family for money or else he'll start causing scenes in public. He sleeps whenever he wants, acts however he wants... if he feels like going to a concert, he goes. If I could act like that, I would too. But the worst part is how he treats his mother every single day. It breaks her heart. There are days when I’d love to just slap him myself. But fine, he’s sick. So I'm asking: is this behavior actually okay to tolerate??

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