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Everything you need for a California wedding

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Kyle Campbell3 Kyle Campbell3 Member
35 messages
joined Nov 2018
#7221 ·
bluesailor9 said:Are you looking for something right in the heart of the city or an urban center where you can head out and explore, or are you after somewhere more secluded for a night or two to just unwind? We searched through Airbnb and found some really lovely spots.

I’d honestly prefer somewhere out in the countryside, provided there's a chance the house has a pool. It’s August, after all—it’s going to be brutal. And yeah, I've checked Airbnb and Booking, but along with everything else, nobody wants to rent a place out for just a single day.🙂🙂
Sam Clark4 Sam Clark4 Member
12 messages
joined Jan 2019
#7222 ·
I'm curious, did you guys actually sign any kind of formal contract with the band? We put down a deposit and hashed out all the details regarding the music and everything, but we never actually saw a written agreement. It's left me feeling a little bit uneasy...
Betty Long28 Betty Long28 Newcomer
2 messages
joined May 2019
#7223 ·
Sam Clark4 said:I'm curious, did you guys actually sign any kind of formal contract with the band? We put down a deposit and hashed out all the details regarding the music and everything, but we never actually saw a written agreement. It's left me feeling a little bit uneasy...

We certainly did. The document includes our personal information as well as theirs, specifies the exact amount of the deposit, and was signed by both myself and the band member who accompanied us to the meeting.
Gary Lopez13 Gary Lopez13 Newcomer
4 messages
joined Jan 2019
#7224 ·
Does anyone have any good recommendations for a camera? I’m looking for something in the ballpark of $1,000—nothing crazy expensive, but I definitely want something that actually produces decent footage, you know?

Thanks! 😊
Jessica Hall34 Jessica Hall34 Member
17 messages
joined Nov 2017
#7225 ·
I reached out to the band (Zaratino) to ask about their availability, and they were like, "We're free! Just shoot me a message with the date and your name so I can jot it down..."
And honestly, that was it. No deposit, no formal contract... We actually met up with him a few weeks beforehand when we had some downtime just to rough out a setlist. We already knew their style, which is exactly why we picked them in the first place. We just hung out over coffee for an hour, joking around and getting to know them..

The guys couldn't have been better. The vibe was absolutely incredible, and even months later, my friends are still asking me where on earth I found that band...
bluesailor9 bluesailor9 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Jan 2019
#7226 ·
Kyle Campbell3 said:I’d honestly prefer somewhere out in the countryside, provided there's a chance the house has a pool. It’s August, after all—it’s going to be brutal. And yeah, I've checked Airbnb and Booking, but along with everything else, nobody wants to rent a place out for just a single day.🙂🙂

I completely hear you. We actually ended up finding two houses out in the Sinj Valley. Both had their own pools and massive yards. One had five bedrooms and the other had seven, and we managed to snag them for just two nights. The trick was contacting the owners directly. Once we got them on the phone, we found they were way more willing to work with us than any big platform would be. Hopefully, that gives you a bit of a lead. x
Kyle Campbell3 Kyle Campbell3 Member
35 messages
joined Nov 2018
#7227 ·
bluesailor9 said:I completely hear you. We actually ended up finding two houses out in the Sinj Valley. Both had their own pools and massive yards. One had five bedrooms and the other had seven, and we managed to snag them for just two nights. The trick was contacting the owners directly. Once we got them on the phone, we found they were way more willing to work with us than any big platform would be. Hopefully, that gives you a bit of a lead. x


Well, at this point, all that's left are a few gaps that should fill in by early spring... then we'll see how things shake out. ☕😵
boldfalcon3 boldfalcon3 Newcomer
1 message
joined Mar 2019
#7228 ·
Hi everyone, I’ve been lurking in this thread for a while now and the info here has been incredibly helpful. We’re finally starting our own hunt, so I figured I’d jump in and share what we know, even though our big event isn't until Fall 2020. 😁 Here is a quick rundown of the latest intel we’ve gathered so far:
The Pirate Ship Restaurant - For 2020, they’ve bumped the Saturday price up to $50 per head (it was $48 back in 2019), and they require at least 140 guests. Fridays are $46 with no minimum. They offer catering $33 per person. This was actually our top pick, but unfortunately, it fell through because it felt way too cramped for our group of 150.
Palace Hotel - Saturday is $49 with a 160-person minimum. They have a great basic menu that you can mix and match with other options without extra fees. On Fridays, there’s no minimum requirement. Catering is $30 per person, held on the lawn out front. They provide their own table candelabras which, if I’m being honest, are a bit underwhelming and plain—but if you don't mind that, it could save you a decent amount of money...
Mr. & Mrs. Hall - The base menu is $39. It's a lovely room with really charming servers and an engaging MC. The guest minimum is 130. Friday pricing remains exactly the same.
Nautic Hall - They are still finalizing their pricing structure and won't have anything set until April; at least, that’s what they told us. I’m assuming prices will climb just like everywhere else. 🙄

As for the band, we haven't made a call yet. If anyone has any insight on current rates, I could really use the help. I found some old numbers posted on this forum, but since that data is two or three years old, I have no idea if those prices still hold water. Our "shortlist" includes Yellow Cab, The Cube, Tip-top, Volar, XXS, and Wrong Way for XXS. 🤔
Sam Clark4 Sam Clark4 Member
12 messages
joined Jan 2019
#7229 ·
boldfalcon3 said:Hi everyone, I’ve been lurking in this thread for a while now and the info here has been incredibly helpful. We’re finally starting our own hunt, so I figured I’d jump in and share what we know, even though our big event isn't until Fall 2020. 😁 Here is a quick rundown of the latest intel we’ve gathered so far:
The Pirate Ship Restaurant - For 2020, they’ve bumped the Saturday price up to $50 per head (it was $48 back in 2019), and they require at least 140 guests. Fridays are $46 with no minimum. They offer catering $33 per person. This was actually our top pick, but unfortunately, it fell through because it felt way too cramped for our group of 150.
Palace Hotel - Saturday is $49 with a 160-person minimum. They have a great basic menu that you can mix and match with other options without extra fees. On Fridays, there’s no minimum requirement. Catering is $30 per person, held on the lawn out front. They provide their own table candelabras which, if I’m being honest, are a bit underwhelming and plain—but if you don't mind that, it could save you a decent amount of money...
Mr. & Mrs. Hall - The base menu is $39. It's a lovely room with really charming servers and an engaging MC. The guest minimum is 130. Friday pricing remains exactly the same.
Nautic Hall - They are still finalizing their pricing structure and won't have anything set until April; at least, that’s what they told us. I’m assuming prices will climb just like everywhere else. 🙄

As for the band, we haven't made a call yet. If anyone has any insight on current rates, I could really use the help. I found some old numbers posted on this forum, but since that data is two or three years old, I have no idea if those prices still hold water. Our "shortlist" includes Yellow Cab, The Cube, Tip-top, Volar, XXS, and Wrong Way for XXS. 🤔

For XXS, I know they charge $2,400, and the deposit is $400.
Nicole Morris20 Nicole Morris20 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Mar 2019
#7230 ·
I tied the knot a few weeks ago, so I thought I’d share my experience. We kept things intimate with a little party for 25 people, and we managed to pull the whole thing together in just 2–3 months. Hopefully, this helps someone out:

Church: Saint Anthony at Poljud Stadium. The church is stunning, and the sermon was even better.

Venue: It wasn't a traditional hall, but we held it at the Rudin tavern. We went with Menu 2, which included—prosciutto, cheese, French salad, tuna salad, anchovies, soup, black and white risotto, veal and lamb cooked under the bell, plus drinks. I think that covers everything! The food was fantastic (except for the soup, which was a bit watery), totally homemade, and we all ate our fill. As soon as one platter was cleared, the servers were already bringing out the next one. It was only $29 per person. Why so cheap? Well, they just started doing events recently and haven't built up a huge reputation yet, plus they likely only work when they have a booking. We were also allowed to bring our own desserts and cake.
The owner was incredibly friendly. He let us decorate the space and set up the tables exactly how we wanted.

Desserts: My husband's sister made the cakes and dessert spread, and they were perfect. We had cheesecake bites, cake pops, Canadian style sponge cake, strawberries, apple beer cakes, pastries, muffins (and a few others I can't recall). The cake had three layers: chocolate, then bloody berry, and finally Jaffa. If anyone is interested, feel free to DM me 😛

Photographer: Bonačić Studio. They were total pros—super laid back, and we spent the whole time laughing with them. We haven't received the photos yet since it's only been two weeks.

Flowers: A family friend of my husband does floral design privately, but honestly, we weren't thrilled. We thought we’d save some money by going this route, thinking it would look just as good as a professional florist, but unfortunately, it didn't. I specifically asked for light pink and white roses for my bouquet, but I ended up with green ones. She didn't warn me about the color shift, and looking back, we should have just gone to a standard florist.

Music: Also a family friend of my husband's. He was amazing, and we danced the night away.

Wedding Dress: I didn't want a traditional gown; I wanted a long, flowing white dress. I'm not a fan of anything too revealing or lacey. I searched all over San Francisco and found the perfect one at Ann's boutique. If you prefer simpler styles, definitely check her out. The quality is wonderful—I wouldn't trade it for anything.

Bolero: I picked this up on sale at Panda for $50. It looked absolutely perfect with the dress.

Hair: Michelle at the salon in the La Perla City Center. They did an updo for me, and it took only 45 minutes, yet it held up perfectly through the entire night. Highly recommend!

Makeup: Helena Dželalija. She is worth every penny. She works quickly and is so meticulous. She gave me exactly the look I wanted without any of the pushiness I encountered with other artists—no one asking, "Why don't you want bigger lashes?" or "Shouldn't we contour your lips more?"

Invitations: Pixar Graphic Studio. Our invites were ready in just two days, and they even gave us three different designs to choose from.

Favors: We ordered these through a Facebook page called "Magnets, Favors, Pictures, & Souvenirs." We decided on chocolates customized with our names and wedding date. Everything, from the design to printing and shipping to our house, was done in about two weeks.

I think that's everything! If I remember anything else, I'll post it.
Justin Wright Justin Wright Newcomer
9 messages
joined Jul 2018
#7231 ·
Does anyone know of any wedding dress boutiques other than Glamour Sposa?
Looking for options in San Francisco or the surrounding area. Thanks! 🙂
Michael Davis17 Michael Davis17 Newcomer
4 messages
joined Mar 2019
#7232 ·
I was wondering if anyone knows where I might be able to rent a wedding suit in San Francisco, Savannah, or maybe San Diego? A good friend of mine is getting married soon—
Sam Clark4 Sam Clark4 Member
12 messages
joined Jan 2019
#7233 ·
I was wondering if anyone here has ever used a photo booth instead of traditional wedding favors? It seems like such a blast for the guests, but I’m stuck on how to actually "force" everyone to participate. My goal is for every single guest to have a little keepsake to take home, so in this case, their photo would be the favor itself. I really don't want people heading home at the end of the night without a souvenir. Any ideas on how to pull this off? I'd love some suggestions! 😊
Michael Harris11 Michael Harris11 Member
18 messages
joined Jul 2018
#7234 ·
Justin Wright said:Does anyone know of any wedding dress boutiques other than Glamour Sposa?
Looking for options in San Francisco or the surrounding area. Thanks! 🙂

Well, you have Vesna Sposa—though I haven't gone there myself because I’ve heard quite a few negative things, and she's located right near Joker. Then there's the Lipoto boutique over in Poljica, near Auto-America. I actually ended up finding my dress there, even though I hadn't planned on stepping foot in that shop at first. It felt like they didn't have much variety, but I figured, hey, I've got nothing to lose... it's right in the middle of the city, so I thought I'd just take a look. And honestly, I found "the one" the second I walked through the door. I tried the very first one on and told them, "As far as I'm concerned, this is it..." 🙂 (and that was after visiting several other shops). There's also La Perla City Center, though I skipped that one since I heard it gets pretty pricey. If you're looking around the Sinj area, there are boutiques run by Mila, Claudio, Annmarie, and I think Helen too. Mila has an absolutely amazing selection—the dresses are so much higher quality and prettier than what you'll find at Glamour Sposa, where everything looked a bit washed out. Claudio, on the other hand, doesn't have much of a selection...

Anyway, I hope that helps... 😉
Michael Harris11 Michael Harris11 Member
18 messages
joined Jul 2018
#7235 ·
Does anyone know where I can find a house with a pool for a girls' trip? We're looking at August 23rd or 24th for about 20 people. I feel like I've messaged and called everywhere already... there are some places available, but they're asking around $1333 for just two days, which felt like way too much money to me :/
Michael Harris11 Michael Harris11 Member
18 messages
joined Jul 2018
#7236 ·
Sam Clark4 said:I was wondering if anyone here has ever used a photo booth instead of traditional wedding favors? It seems like such a blast for the guests, but I’m stuck on how to actually "force" everyone to participate. My goal is for every single guest to have a little keepsake to take home, so in this case, their photo would be the favor itself. I really don't want people heading home at the end of the night without a souvenir. Any ideas on how to pull this off? I'd love some suggestions! 😊

Personally, I'm planning on doing both 😁 meaning I'll prepare actual physical favors while also renting a photo booth so the guests can have fun—plus, we get to keep all those cute wedding shots for ourselves...
Michael Harris11 Michael Harris11 Member
18 messages
joined Jul 2018
#7237 ·
mellowmarlin28 said:Hey there,

Has anyone here actually been to the D-art salon in San Francisco?
I'm thinking about getting some extensions done, so I wanted to see if you guys have any firsthand experience with them...👍👎

Hvalaaaa 😉

I usually just head there for quick haircuts—I haven't really gone in for full styling before—but they seem pretty solid. In fact, I'm actually planning on using them for my own wedding 🙂 I have a regular stylist I go to for cuts and color, but she suggested I let my hair grow out a bit so we can figure out the best look for the big day. Overall, I think they're great 😉 you might want to check out their Instagram page; you could probably find a style there that catches your eye
Justin Wright Justin Wright Newcomer
9 messages
joined Jul 2018
#7238 ·
Michael Harris11 said:Well, you have Vesna Sposa—though I haven't gone there myself because I’ve heard quite a few negative things, and she's located right near Joker. Then there's the Lipoto boutique over in Poljica, near Auto-America. I actually ended up finding my dress there, even though I hadn't planned on stepping foot in that shop at first. It felt like they didn't have much variety, but I figured, hey, I've got nothing to lose... it's right in the middle of the city, so I thought I'd just take a look. And honestly, I found "the one" the second I walked through the door. I tried the very first one on and told them, "As far as I'm concerned, this is it..." 🙂 (and that was after visiting several other shops). There's also La Perla City Center, though I skipped that one since I heard it gets pretty pricey. If you're looking around the Sinj area, there are boutiques run by Mila, Claudio, Annmarie, and I think Helen too. Mila has an absolutely amazing selection—the dresses are so much higher quality and prettier than what you'll find at Glamour Sposa, where everything looked a bit washed out. Claudio, on the other hand, doesn't have much of a selection...

Anyway, I hope that helps... 😉

Thanks so much🙂
Noah Wright4 Noah Wright4 Active Member
71 messages
joined Mar 2012
#7239 ·
Michael Harris11 said:Personally, I'm planning on doing both 😁 meaning I'll prepare actual physical favors while also renting a photo booth so the guests can have fun—plus, we get to keep all those cute wedding shots for ourselves...

If anyone is looking to rent a photo booth, just shoot me a DM.😁
Nathan Phillips9 Nathan Phillips9 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Mar 2019
#7240 ·
Hey there,
Does anyone have recommendations for a solid hairstylist who does mobile services? I need someone who can come directly to the venue—the wedding is being held out in Salt Lake City.
Thanks a lot

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