CheckEmoji Community · the emoji forum
🏠 Home 🆕 What's new ❓ Unanswered 🔥 Popular 📡 RSS Members 👥 0 online log in · register
Home › Society › Couples Life › Weddings › Everything you need for a California wedding

Everything you need for a California wedding

Started by Anonymous · · 👁 27 views · 7.4K replies

📡 Subscribe to replies

Participants AElizabeth Kimbrisktinker15Sam Kim12Nicholas Gonzalez28Michael Ramos10Harold Ortiz61Jessica Wood5Alexander Ruiz2Thomas Sanchez532Sean Long4northernpilot72Raymond Brooks7mistylynx13rapidmason10Aaron Garcia80Taylor Walker17silvernomad21Linda Jones11Raymond Foster69Arthur RamosAlex Carter3Adam Walker19David King72 …
Sam Clark4 Sam Clark4 Member
12 messages
joined Jan 2019
#7241 ·
I’m curious—which florists did you all end up going with? I’d love to know how the pricing looks for decorating the venue, the church, the reception hall, and all that. If anyone has any solid recommendations, I’d really appreciate it.
P.s. I happened to see some work done by Miss and La Perla Flowers recently, but am I crazy, or does their stuff seem a bit on the pricey side??
mellowmarlin28 mellowmarlin28 Newcomer
8 messages
joined Jun 2018
#7242 ·
Michael Harris11 said:I usually just head there for quick haircuts—I haven't really gone in for full styling before—but they seem pretty solid. In fact, I'm actually planning on using them for my own wedding 🙂 I have a regular stylist I go to for cuts and color, but she suggested I let my hair grow out a bit so we can figure out the best look for the big day. Overall, I think they're great 😉 you might want to check out their Instagram page; you could probably find a style there that catches your eye

Thanks for the reply! 🙂
I was scrolling through their Instagram, and honestly, looking at their work, they seem like they really know what they're doing, though I was mostly wondering if a hairstyle will actually hold up all night—which obviously depends on the hair type 🙂 Mine is super thick and heavy, haha
But I'm sure everything will turn out fine. As long as it stays put until the party ends, I'll be happy 😁
Henry Mendoza95 Henry Mendoza95 Newcomer
9 messages
joined Oct 2017
#7243 ·
Hey, I’m looking to get some ballparks on pricing here. If you don't want to post it publicly, just shoot me a DM:
floral arrangements (for both the venue and the church)
getting around town—anyone have any intel on using the city buses?
custom cakes
Kyle Campbell3 Kyle Campbell3 Member
35 messages
joined Nov 2018
#7244 ·
Sam Clark4 said:I’m curious—which florists did you all end up going with? I’d love to know how the pricing looks for decorating the venue, the church, the reception hall, and all that. If anyone has any solid recommendations, I’d really appreciate it.
P.s. I happened to see some work done by Miss and La Perla Flowers recently, but am I crazy, or does their stuff seem a bit on the pricey side??

I ended up booking the florist in Atlanta, specifically the shop out in Malibu. At first glance, her rates seemed pretty steep, but once I sat down for a consultation with the owner, we worked out a price that actually made sense for my budget. The plan is for her to handle everything: decorating the main getaway car, the ceremony site, the bridal bouquet with two boutonnieres, and a corsage for the maid of honor. We’re also doing the reception table decor. Since I have quite a few tables to cover, we settled on a mix—half will feature elegant candelabras, and the other half will be lush floral arrangements. Honestly, they look perfect. The woman is a total pro. If you aren't looking for a full package, she can also just handle the reception tables and the bouquets, which would still be quite affordable. I highly recommend her. $667It really depends on how long the wedding table ends up being, but if you step back and look at the big picture, the only thing that actually matters is that the decor looks cohesive. Their design sense and their ideas for floral arrangements and styling are right up my alley, so I just gave them two specific colors I want. Beyond that, I told them to run with it—they can choose whatever they like. It’s not going to be a problem. 🙂)🎉
Amy Long8 Amy Long8 Newcomer
1 message
joined Apr 2019
#7245 ·
Hey everyone. I was right here on this forum when I was planning my wedding, scrolling through all the recommendations, so I felt like I owed it to you to leave my own two cents. Hopefully, this helps some future bride avoid feeling the same bitter resentment I’m sitting with today, eight months after the big day, just thinking about our photographer. To be honest, we picked Getty Images out of San Diego, which was a massive mistake. I don't even know what to call him—just a guy with zero integrity and absolutely no shame. Right after the wedding, he demanded the full balance immediately. Being an idiot, I paid the whole thing on the very first business day. If you're wondering why I didn't just pay a deposit or a partial amount, well, I let my first impression trick me. I couldn't have imagined something like this would actually happen. It's been eight months since the wedding, and I still haven't seen a single photo. Two months ago, I finally asked for a refund, and he promised me—and he said this "if my apology wasn't enough"—that he would move me to the front of the line. You know, "out of order" processing, despite it being half a year later. Well, another two months have crawled by and I'm still waiting for my turn. Anyway, good luck with your planning. I just hope someone like this doesn't come along and ruin your entire wedding and the memories you have of it.
Raymond Sanchez Raymond Sanchez Newcomer
4 messages
joined Apr 2017
#7246 ·
Felix 3575;74495117 said:Hey there, I was wondering if anyone could share some pricing info—feel free to DM me if that's easier—for:
floral arrangements (both for the venue and the church)
citywide transportation—does anyone have experience with the local bus system?
specifically regarding

Flora
Michael Harris11 Michael Harris11 Member
18 messages
joined Jul 2018
#7247 ·
Has anyone ever dealt with a situation where they put a deposit down on a wedding dress for a Friday, only to be told they had to return it by Saturday because another bride swooped in and claimed it? What happens if you still need the dress for your photo shoot? I sent a message to the boutique, but they won't be able to get back to me until tomorrow, and my stomach is already doing knots from the stress 🙂 thanks in advance!
Michael Harris11 Michael Harris11 Member
18 messages
joined Jul 2018
#7248 ·
Noah Wright4 said:If anyone is looking to rent a photo booth, just shoot me a DM.😁

We actually already have one bundled with our photographer, but thanks so much for the offer! 😉
rapideagle33 rapideagle33 Newcomer
8 messages
joined Oct 2017
#7249 ·
Michael Harris11 said:Has anyone ever dealt with a situation where they put a deposit down on a wedding dress for a Friday, only to be told they had to return it by Saturday because another bride swooped in and claimed it? What happens if you still need the dress for your photo shoot? I sent a message to the boutique, but they won't be able to get back to me until tomorrow, and my stomach is already doing knots from the stress 🙂 thanks in advance!

I’m a bit confused here. How—and when—would they even alter the dress for the new bride or get it professionally cleaned?

Bringing it back at 8:00 AM the next morning just isn't going to work. The only way that makes sense is if they have an opening later in the week—like mid-week—so they actually have time to handle everything. Usually, things don't move until Monday since most boutiques are closed on Sundays. I had a similar situation once; I had all of Monday to get it back so I could finish up my photos.
Michael Harris11 Michael Harris11 Member
18 messages
joined Jul 2018
#7250 ·
rapideagle33 said:I’m a bit confused here. How—and when—would they even alter the dress for the new bride or get it professionally cleaned?

Bringing it back at 8:00 AM the next morning just isn't going to work. The only way that makes sense is if they have an opening later in the week—like mid-week—so they actually have time to handle everything. Usually, things don't move until Monday since most boutiques are closed on Sundays. I had a similar situation once; I had all of Monday to get it back so I could finish up my photos.

I had a total moment of panic earlier! I heard this story about a girl who didn't even get her wedding dress until Saturday morning because it had been rented out just the day before. It sent me into a complete frenzy, and I started frantically messaging the bridal boutique... but everything actually turned out fine. I'll have my dress ready in time for the photo shoot that weekend, so it's all good now... 🙂 Thanks for the reply, anyway... 👍
Douglas Reed47 Douglas Reed47 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Apr 2019
#7251 ·
Hey everyone 😁,

So, I'm getting hitched at the end of August and I'm on the hunt for some solid catering. I was looking at Pirate, but they're already booked up for my date, which sucks.
I also need some leads on a wedding cake—though, full disclosure, I’m not really a big sweets person, so I definitely don't want anything super traditional or sugary. Also looking for flower recommendations. Since we're doing an outdoor ceremony surrounded by nature, I don't really need those stuffy, formal arrangements... I'll have my own decor mostly, just need someone to handle the actual flowers and set everything up without charging me an absolute fortune.
Seriously, please help a girl out. The date is creeping up on me and I feel like I'm starting to lose my mind a little bit.. 😵
Thanks in advance!
Nicole Morris20 Nicole Morris20 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Mar 2019
#7252 ·
Douglas Reed47 said:Hey everyone 😁,

So, I'm getting hitched at the end of August and I'm on the hunt for some solid catering. I was looking at Pirate, but they're already booked up for my date, which sucks.
I also need some leads on a wedding cake—though, full disclosure, I’m not really a big sweets person, so I definitely don't want anything super traditional or sugary. Also looking for flower recommendations. Since we're doing an outdoor ceremony surrounded by nature, I don't really need those stuffy, formal arrangements... I'll have my own decor mostly, just need someone to handle the actual flowers and set everything up without charging me an absolute fortune.
Seriously, please help a girl out. The date is creeping up on me and I feel like I'm starting to lose my mind a little bit.. 😵
Thanks in advance!


Look up Angels cakes on Facebook. I was absolutely thrilled with their cake because I didn't want something traditional either, and the price was incredibly fair.
Austin Thompson96 Austin Thompson96 Active Member
51 messages
joined Jul 2010
#7253 ·
Douglas Reed47 said:Hey everyone 😁,

So, I'm getting hitched at the end of August and I'm on the hunt for some solid catering. I was looking at Pirate, but they're already booked up for my date, which sucks.
I also need some leads on a wedding cake—though, full disclosure, I’m not really a big sweets person, so I definitely don't want anything super traditional or sugary. Also looking for flower recommendations. Since we're doing an outdoor ceremony surrounded by nature, I don't really need those stuffy, formal arrangements... I'll have my own decor mostly, just need someone to handle the actual flowers and set everything up without charging me an absolute fortune.
Seriously, please help a girl out. The date is creeping up on me and I feel like I'm starting to lose my mind a little bit.. 😵
Thanks in advance!

One doesn't argue about taste—but Pimpinella has excellent catering. 👍
Douglas Reed47 Douglas Reed47 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Apr 2019
#7254 ·
Nicole Morris20 said:Look up Angels cakes on Facebook. I was absolutely thrilled with their cake because I didn't want something traditional either, and the price was incredibly fair.

Thanks so much.. 👍
Douglas Reed47 Douglas Reed47 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Apr 2019
#7255 ·
Austin Thompson96 said:One doesn't argue about taste—but Pimpinella has excellent catering. 👍

Yeah, I've heard they're awesome... definitely gonna give them a ring soon. Thanks! 👍
Nathan Phillips9 Nathan Phillips9 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Mar 2019
#7256 ·
Please DM me if you know a musician who can play the violin for a wedding ceremony
I need someone for September 1st in Manhattan at St. Patrick's Cathedral
casualstag22 casualstag22 Newcomer
1 message
joined Jun 2019
#7257 ·
Hey there!
I'm looking for a wedding cake for a smaller ceremony... I'm torn between Auntie Mammoth (their signature cake) and Luke in Miami. Anyone here dealt with them before? Is it actually worth the price tag? Any info helps!
Kyle Campbell3 Kyle Campbell3 Member
35 messages
joined Nov 2018
#7258 ·
Hey everyone, I'm looking to book a vocalist and a keyboardist for an upcoming wedding. If you happen to have any solid recommendations, I'd really appreciate it if you could shoot me a DM. 🕺 😁
Kyle Campbell3 Kyle Campbell3 Member
35 messages
joined Nov 2018
#7259 ·
My history with the Vesna Sposa bridal boutique runs pretty deep, so I think it’s best if I start right from the moment I first walked through their doors.
Right when I walked into the Salon, the lady there—who I didn't know at the time—asked if I had a specific vision in mind, likely referring to the wedding dress silhouette. I told her I’d spotted a photo on Vesna Sposa's Instagram profile that I absolutely loved. She asked to see it, so I pulled it up. After taking a look, she gave me the news: "It really is stunning. Unfortunately, though, that was from last year's collection and isn't available anymore." I was pretty bummed because it was gorgeous, but we moved forward with the appointment anyway. I ended up trying on four different dresses, and in the end, I settled on one specific Vesna Sposa design. They mentioned the price includes a discount. $1833 The employee mentioned back then that she would see just how much of a discount she could swing, which is ultimately why we ended up with that final price. As for the initial quote, she stated the amount was... $2667I was told that I needed to pay a quarter of the total by the middle of the month, with the remaining balance due once the wedding festivities wrap up. I followed those instructions to the letter and dropped off the initial twenty-five percent payment. While I was there, I mentioned to the manager again that there’s a specific dress I saw on Instagram—the same one I originally inquired about. She asked to see the post, then pointed out that the gown was a Berta. Aside from the fact that the rental fee is pretty steep, she noted that they only have sizes 6 and 8 available in stock. Once I heard what the price tag looked like... $4667 As for renting, I’ve officially given up on the idea. One of the employees told me again not to worry, suggesting I could just swap my wedding dress for another one before the big day if something else arrived that I liked better. After that conversation, I actually left the Salon feeling a bit more at peace. Earlier this year, around June, I went to a random boutique for a final fitting with my maid of honor, whose wedding was also approaching. Honestly, I’m just glad I went, because now I can explain exactly why things went south. When I walked in, I saw a dress on a mannequin that looked strikingly similar to the ones posted on your Salon’s social media. I spoke with the manager and explained my bad luck so far—specifically how the rental prices were astronomical and the standard sizing was incredibly limited. When I showed her your post, she pointed out that the dress on her window mannequin was the exact same style. I immediately asked about the size and the rental fee. I won’t go into every detail, but the price was half what I expected, and the fit was perfect. She mentioned it was a Crystal Design piece and gave me the model name. The very next day, I called your boutique in Washington, D.C. I gave them the short version of my story and asked if that specific dress could be delivered to St. Anthony. It was. Once it arrived, the manager called me, and I headed in for a fitting along with my maid of honor and my sister. The employee didn't tell me what size had been delivered, though she did mention she thought it might be too tight. Her response to my hesitation was a classic, "Just try it on and we'll see." Needless to say, I barely managed to pull it past my knees. It was surreal, considering I had tried a size 4, which fit me perfectly, at that other boutique. Regardless, I asked the manager about the price. She casually remarked, "It's a little cheaper than yours." Is any commentary even necessary? Over the phone, the lady from the D.C. location had explicitly told me they would deliver the dress for $7,950, with absolutely no possibility of a discount. I couldn't believe my ears. Instead of addressing the discrepancy, the manager just kept insisting, "Oh, don't worry, your current dress is perfect; there's nothing better in the shop." I laid everything out for her right then and there. I told her I would be filing a formal complaint detailing this entire ordeal from start to finish. When I asked how her colleague could quote one price while she quoted something completely different, she offered no explanation—she just kept defending herself. In an attempt to salvage the situation, I asked if the credit could instead be used to have an evening gown made for my mother so the money wouldn't go to waste. She flatly refused, claiming it was "company policy." Her logic? "Rental money isn't the same as purchase money." Apparently, since they were "holding the dress for me," that money is locked into that specific transaction and cannot be used for anything else. So, how does that square with her earlier claim that I could simply swap my dress for a different rental? It is a mess of contradictions, inconsistencies, lies, and terrible business practices. I said my piece, and as I was leaving, I broke down in tears. Her response? "Let it all out; have a shot of whiskey, you'll feel better." Following the guidance of the labor inspector in Miami, I am submitting this formal complaint and expect a response within the legal timeframe. I am fully aware of how this works. You can set whatever prices you want, and you can put whatever terms you want in a contract, and we agree to them by signing. But what I *can* do is share my experience everywhere possible, so that at least one other girl doesn't have to deal with this nightmare.
Well, here we go, ladies. I hope I’ve been able to help someone out here. 🙂😠
restlessmoose17 restlessmoose17 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Jul 2019
#7260 ·
Looking for a makeup artist who does house calls. What are your thoughts on Violeta Kekezovic or Ana Grgic?

You must log in or register to reply here.

Log in Register

🔗 Similar threads