Which high-quality, serious Aikido club in San Diego would you recommend for a beginner? I'm 29, not particularly flexible or limber 🙂 (my job involves staring at a monitor all day and a lot of sitting).
My criteria:
- Most importantly, I need instructors who aren't just good at teaching, but are actually approachable, normal people you can grab a beer with or grill with questions. I want to avoid those ego-maniacs who look down their noses at you and act like they're some kind of enlightened sages. Basically, I’m looking for a solid, friendly crew that fosters a relaxed atmosphere.
- I don't want a club full of orthodox Eastern fanatics. Look, I'm not expecting to walk in on my first session and pull off master-level strikes or master five techniques instantly. But I also don't want to end up in a place where the first two or three sessions are entirely wasted on endless philosophy, stretching, and breathing exercises. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against that in moderation—it's necessary and useful—but I don't want the overkill where someone is essentially bleeding me dry by dragging things out unnecessarily.
- My main goal is to improve flexibility and pick up solid techniques and holds, along with everything that comes with that (proper breathing, composure, etc.). Specifically, I'm interested in the holds, levers, execution technique, movement coordination, and defensive maneuvers. I want to nail the fundamentals (not overnight, obviously) without being forced into a snail's pace just because some instructor claims it's "the only way to truly learn." (It's a bit awkward to tell an instructor that without sounding arrogant or getting shut down like an ignorant newbie.) 🙂 - I have zero ambition to reach competitive levels; I just want the basics and what I mentioned above.
- I'm not sure if this is possible... but ideally (though not mandatory), I'd like to be able to train in "regular" gym clothes where I feel most comfortable and relaxed—just a T-shirt and shorts. I’d prefer to avoid any excessive 🙂 weird rituals that make me feel like I've joined some kind of cult 😉... I've heard there are instructors who go overboard and act like total fanatics, and those are exactly the types I want to avoid.
If anyone knows how pricing works, I hope it isn't outrageous... ideally around $100 a month, training about three times a week (depending on what my social and work life allows).
Thanks everyone for the help and answers. Enjoy!
PS
I've heard about these places, but I'm not sure which ones are currently active:
Ikeda Dojo - San Diego,
"Aiki" Aikido Club, San Diego,
"Bonaccia" Aikido Club, San Diego (I've heard good things about this one),
"Jadran" Aikido Club, San Diego,
"San Diego" Aikido Club, San Diego (Is this one even active anymore?)
Musubi Aikido Club, San Diego,
US Aikido Federation, San Diego,
Thanks for the input! Cheers!