Night Owl

I’ve been running into a bit of a crisis lately... For some reason, I simply cannot seem to wake up. It feels like it takes an eternity just to get my eyes open. Even when I make the effort to go to bed early, it makes absolutely no difference; I still can't force myself to rise at the hour I intend to, resulting in me sleeping far more than is productive. I have a massive amount of material to study, and I desperately need to instill some discipline by getting an early start each morning, yet here I am, failing miserably. Does anyone have any practical advice? What could possibly be causing this level of lethargy?
What should my next move be?
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Hey Joshua Jones, I've been this way for as long as I can remember..😁 And if I still have a lot to learn on that front, I suppose it's just some kind of defense mechanism, maybe..😁 😉
What can you do? It is what it is...😠

cosmicridge5, I have to say, it’s been feeling particularly heavy lately. It wasn't always this way, you know? This recent shift is what really has me feeling unsettled...

To sounds like pure burnout to me. Nothing scary, just your body running on empty.
Try loading up on multivitamins and fresh fruit; that usually does the trick.
Otherwise, you might be low on iron. That happens to me all the time—just feeling wiped out for no reason. For iron, I’ve heard liquid supplements or those specialized syrups from the drugstore are much easier on the system than standard pills.
Hope that helps a bit.
Or maybe you’re just over this brutal winter. We’re all pretty much counting down the days until spring hits.

That’s pretty standard for this time of year—I deal with the same thing every year right before spring hits. Might be worth upping your vitamin intake a bit. 🙂

Me 🙂

When I was dealing with anemia, I assumed that was the culprit.

But here we are—it's the second year in a row where my blood work looks fine, yet this exhaustion just won't quit...😲

Get a blood panel done. If everything looks normal, don't go rushing out to buy those supplements; save them for when you actually catch a cold or something else hits you.

Just align yourself with nature 🙂 remember the winter dormancy 😉

You seriously need to keep an eye on your blood pressure—I’m one of those people with chronically low pressure, and whenever my
stats dip below what my body is used to, I just
turn into a total zombie. I wake up feeling like I haven't slept in a decade, just completely wiped out,
but usually, I can shake it off by chugging a ton of water and some Gatorade to get my system back online.

could be:

- honestly? you just don't feel like getting up to study—subconscious sleepiness is a real thing

- weather sensitivity—your body just reacts to the changing seasons

- total burnout—grab some vitamins and MINERALS (pro tip: look for Floradix syrup with Ca+ Mg+ Zn—you can find it in Austria or order it from high-end pharmacies here in the States, definitely worth it)

- low blood pressure—better go check it

- anemia—get a blood test done

- hormonal imbalance—check your levels

- last one, though not impossible—early signs of depression (how are you actually doing, anyway?)

Yeah, depression...🙄

Btw, one more thing—for anyone dealing with depression—you might actually find some relief by cutting back on sleep (basically just trimming down those REM cycles). It’s been backed up by plenty of studies 👍

So, if you're struggling with actual clinical depression—not just that monthly mood swing nonsense—try capping your sleep at maybe 5 or 6 hours over a long stretch. Honestly, it really helps...

Also—get some sunlight or hit the bright lights (swap out your bulbs for something stronger and stop sitting in a dark room all day)...

Obviously, this is just supplemental self-care stuff; for anything serious, go see a doctor.

To be honest, I struggle with low blood pressure, though it wasn't hitting those extreme lows today—at least not when I checked this afternoon. My plan is to load up on vitamins and stay on top of my fruit intake, and I’ll be heading to the clinic soon for some blood work to see if an iron deficiency might be the underlying culprit. On another note, I’ve been dealing with bouts of depression, though things have actually been looking up lately; I’m feeling better than I have in a while, so perhaps that wasn't the primary driver. Still, the fatigue is genuinely concerning to me, as I feel like I could easily sleep for twelve hours straight, if not longer... 😲 And frankly, I don't think that's healthy.
I am naturally a "night owl," and my body is conditioned to staying up quite late, so I am currently attempting to retrain myself to head to bed at a reasonable hour... Sometimes, even when I do commit to going to bed, I find it impossible to actually fall asleep, which completely derails my entire plan to wake up early the next morning. Even on the nights when I actually manage to drift off on time, getting out of bed remains an uphill battle... 😢 I am holding onto hope that you all are correct and that this will subside once spring arrives... Or perhaps it will resolve with the right combination of vitamins, fruit, and minerals... 🙂
I appreciate the advice. 👍 🙂

Joshua Jones; one more thing—since you're heading to the doctor anyway, might as well get your blood sugar checked.

Joshua Jones said:I’ve been having a real issue lately... For some reason, I just can't seem to wake up—it feels like it takes a hundred years. Even when I go to bed early, I still can't manage to get up at the time I want to; I just end up sleeping an absurd amount. I have so much studying to do and I really need to get some discipline together and start rising early, but lately... it's just not happening. Does anyone have any advice? What could be the reason behind this?
What should I do?
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Every night, I set my alarm for around 8:30 PM. As soon as it goes off, I just slam the lid shut—if I give myself even five more minutes, I don't end up seeing the light of day until 11 AM.😲
I dream an insane amount during that window, and I wake up feeling completely exhausted from all those dreams.
I love sleeping in, but I could always manage to force myself to be disciplined, especially before a big exam. But lately... there were days I barely managed to drag myself out of bed in time to make it to the test—and usually, if I'm running late like that, my stomach starts knotting up from the nerves before the sun is even up.
Still, I think I know what the root cause is—I absolutely loathe this exam I'm studying for. And since I actually failed it, I suppose I find it even more "delightful" now.
I'm going to take three or four days for myself to just type away at this screen at all hours without a shred of guilt—or do something else entirely—and sleep in whenever I feel like it. After that, it'll be a strict regime of early mornings—I'll probably have to beg my sister to shake me awake and blast music until I'm upright—then it's study, study, study. I'll also cut out the late afternoon caffeine and stop going out until this exam is finally behind me. Hopefully, I can catch a decent rhythm, because I can't keep living like this.

I guess we’re all dealing with the same thing as students... I’m running into all the exact same issues...

I honestly used to think it was just a total lack of discipline on my part (which, yeah, I definitely don't have), but after reading your posts, now I’m really not so sure..

I mean, sure, discipline helps, but let's be real—it isn't always that easy..

My blood pressure is totally fine, and my blood sugar... well, I actually have no idea. But I am dealing with a hormonal imbalance, and I started taking some new medication recently, so maybe there's a connection there???

Then again, when I think about it—springtime always pulls me out of bed early, but this winter has felt just plain wrong..

Robin Collins5, that whole thing about the internal clock being off is so real! 🙂 Today I actually dragged myself out of bed at 8:30 AM, and honestly, that’s my biggest win of the day (I don't know if anything better could even happen!)

And yeah, I’ve realized that when I’m actually excited about what’s ahead, I can wake up whenever I want. But when my schedule is just packed with routine, heavy, or boring chores? Ugh, I just can'tttttt get myself out of bed... Seriously guys, let's spice things up a bit; find something to look forward to so getting up doesn't feel like such a struggle! 🙂

Well, here we go again... it’s the exact same story on my end. 😢 It took me a good two or three hours just to physically drag myself out of bed! Even after I actually managed to wake up, I found it impossible to get moving; I couldn't even force my eyes open... it was absolutely BRUTAL.
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Joshua Jones said:Well, there you go... I'm dealing with the exact same thing over here. 😢 It took me two or three hours just to drag myself out of bed! I mean, I’m technically awake, but actually getting up? Impossible. I can barely even force my eyes open... It's honestly brutal.
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I've lived my entire life like this. 😢 My alarm goes off at 6:00 AM, and if I manage to roll out of bed by 7:00, I consider it an early start. Most days, I don't even make it out until 8:00...

If this isn't how you usually feel, you should seriously get some basic blood work done—check your blood pressure, glucose levels, and hemoglobin. It’s quick, easy, and provides a solid baseline. Leave the complicated diagnostic stuff for later; there's a good chance the culprit is one of these simpler physiological issues.

In the meantime, try eating more fruits and veggies and find ways to move around during the day—just enough to get your adrenaline pumping a little. And when that alarm hits in the morning, try to find a reason to push yourself. If your only motivation is "getting through the day," then yeah, jumping out of bed is going to be a massive struggle... but give it a shot.

Good god... I was just reading back through my notes about those nightmares from last year. I couldn't get a decent night's sleep to save my life! I was pulling 19 hours of sleep a day and still felt completely wiped out. After running every single test imaginable, I finally saw a psychologist, and it turns out stress was causing full-body muscle spasms. My muscles wouldn't relax, even while I was asleep! And let me tell you, ladies, that is a legitimate form of chronic fatigue. I was given some relaxation exercises with the goal of learning how to catch those spasms in the moment and force the muscles back to a normal state.
Well, here's the kicker... My doctor decided this was the root cause of every other health issue I have, so now he thinks there's no point in treating anything else. Makes total sense, right?
College is a complete joke.

Come on, man, I had no idea it was that widespread. Betty Hill82, what kind of exercises are we talking about here?

Oh, sure, because what we all really need right now is more exercises!
I frequently find myself waking up feeling even more exhausted than when I finally crawled into bed the night before. Perhaps my muscles are cramping up too—it's hard to say. Honestly, how on earth are they supposed to actually relax during sleep if they won't just let go? It's infuriating, really.😠