Lisa Morales4 said:Man, if that's the case, then you're basically unreliable—just some chaotic troublemaker everyone needs to steer clear of.🙄
Hmm... or maybe you just misunderstood what "obedience" meant growing up, so you expressed your free will through defiance. You know, essentially screwing over anyone who (as you so eloquently put it) had been placed in a certain "box" of responsibility, or anyone who trusted you to finish something. By being defiant, you probably blew things up without considering the impact on your team—assuming you actually care about anything other than yourself or the consequences, and assuming you even care about the "responsible" person asking you for help.
Oh, don't worry, I remember being a total toddler during my teenage years, telling my parents "N-o, I w-i-l-l n-o-t!" But that was safe to do at home, because a threat of a timeout was just a sign of love,
whereas consequences for that kind of disobedience at school would have cost way too much.
Folks, it brings to mind Jesus's parable from a recent Bible reading about the vineyard owner who had two sons. When he called the first one to help, the son said, "No," and left. But later, he changed his mind and went to help. When the owner asked the second son to help, he obeyed immediately.
A question for Nemruth Dag and the rest of the world: which son actually pleased his father more?
A follow-up question for Nemruth Dag and the rest of the world: why did soldiers in the civil war shoot their own comrades over something as trivial as a handful of dried plums?
A question for the intellectuals: why does Zloca Destruction place such importance on obedience?
An additional question for the intellectuals: what do trust and love actually mean to Zloca Destruction?
I get the feeling you completely missed the point of what I wrote.
But fine, let it be. I’m too lazy to go back and fix anything.
In principle, I wouldn't mind certain people avoiding me—quite the opposite, actually. 🙂 But no, I can handle dealing with them.
So it's hardly a tragedy if our paths cross.
Anyway, regarding the topic...
I was watching a documentary about what happens when people follow authority figures unconditionally.
It was an experiment where a group of students were tasked with "punishing" another group of students with electric shocks whenever they gave a wrong answer.
Of course, the professors had coordinated with the second group to intentionally give wrong answers, so there weren't actually any real electric shocks, but the first group had no idea.
Maybe only six of them refused; I don't know the exact number, but only one person explicitly said they wouldn't do something like that.
The rest did exactly what they were told.
Some seemed genuinely distressed when they heard the others screaming (they were acting, obviously), yet they still kept pressing the button to inflict pain.
The worst of them all was one girl who appeared to be the most sensitive and mild-mannered of the bunch.
All in all, a fascinating experiment.
Perhaps some of you have seen it before.
I found the link here if anyone is interested.
I see now that the second group were actors, but I watched this ages ago and my memory is a bit fuzzy.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milgram_experiment