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I’ve been chewing on this topic for a while, so apologies if I should have brought this up sooner. Mods, feel free to move this over to the psychology sub-forum if you think it fits better there.

I remember a time when I was barely aware of what was happening in the world around me. I remember hanging out, a different pace of life, and people just feeling more present. Back then, "recession" was just a term for economics majors, "tablet" meant a piece of chocolate, and terms like "sharing" or "liking" didn't exist. For me, the shift started around 2010—though maybe the seeds were planted back in 2008.

As much as I used to cheer for technological progress and welcomed Facebook and all that other digital noise with open arms, I find myself hating the whole mess now.

Privacy is essentially a relic of the past; we all know it. The constant grip on smartphones, tablets, and various gadgets is spiraling out of control to the point where people are completely tethered to their devices and social media.

Looking at the people around me, I suspect chiropractors and massage therapists are thriving because everyone walks around with their heads permanently tilted down toward a screen. I pass the local grocery store and the clerk is glued to a phone; I go to the dealership for car service and the receptionist is scrolling through Facebook; I see a friend from across the street, but she's too busy checking in on her phone to notice me. I didn't even wave. Even at a coffee shop, you'll see a couple 😁 just staring at their own respective Facebook feeds.🙂

It hit me then that my vision of the future—back in 2005—has shifted from something bright to something quite grim.

Social culture is shifting. It feels like a certain part of the West is bleeding into our way of life, and frankly, it isn't looking good. It feels less like progress and more like a scene straight out of *Idiocracy*.

Friends and acquaintances mostly stay inside at night; nobody goes out anymore. Everyone is hunkered down in their little digital boxes. I’ll take a walk through the neighborhood and the streets are empty. No one is out there. It’s eerie. Where did everybody go?

I remember laughing at Rydler (Jim Carrey) in *Batman* because of his obsession with those little boxes when I was a kid.😁

What is the future actually going to look like?🤷

I used to be skeptical when people predicted depression would become one of the top health crises by 2020, but that skepticism has evaporated. It seems like psychiatrists and psychologists have been drowning in work for years now.

I’ve thrown a lot of thoughts into this thread. I could write an entire book on this, but this is just the core of what's on my mind right now. It might seem a bit disjointed, but that's the gist of it.

What’s your take? Have we become addicts to technology? Have we traded genuine human connection for digital convenience? And what kind of fallout are we looking at?
I don't know what to do next... in Psychology & Therapy ·
Your story hit home.

I’d suggest looking into university housing and picking up some shifts through a campus job board.

Regardless of how much your parents push back, you need to be firm and stay the course. Write down exactly why you're making this choice based on what we discussed; you'll find much more peace of mind being true to yourself.

Best of luck.
Wall Street: Money Never Sleeps in Movies ·
Christian Taylor3 said:Bud Fox!

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Honestly, Charlie Sheen's minute. Cameo. It works surprisingly well. If nothing else, he managed to pick up a few things from his mentor in the process. 😁

By the way, Oliver Stone decided to run it back. Cameo. In the original, he really wasn't anything special on the Trading Floor.

Bud Fox proves that "Greed is good" is the whole point; everyone’s just a hustler enjoying their own little score.

The way he sold off Blue Star—where his old man used to work—is exactly the kind of move Gordon Gekko would have pulled. Bud Fox just had a slightly better moral compass; he modernized the firm first and then cashed out. After all that fighting to keep the place alive during the takeover, he’s finally reaping the rewards of the sale, though honestly, it might be more accurate to say he enjoyed it right up until the crisis hit.

What a transformation of both character and craft. Honestly, that’s the most poignant moment in the entire film.

The movie is solid—actually, it’s pretty great. It doesn't follow the original closely, but this sequel works as a smart pivot. Honestly, it's a nice change of pace compared to the usual junk playing in American theaters right now. (Except for that Devil movie.)

The cast is solid. Shia LaBeouf was alright, though I think he could have delivered more.

Michael Douglas is great, but you can really see him fighting his own health battles in real life.😢

Josh Brolin, thumbs up.👍

A little something from Gekko. Her acting is solid enough, though she struggles with her expressions—it’s hard to tell if she’s about to cry, laugh, or just stare blankly. Her emotional range is basically the Steven Seagal emotional chart.

Eli Wallach in "The Good, the Bad and the Ugly"—definitely a thumbs up from me.

The soundtrack is killer, and the cinematography is top-tier—that domino sequence was easily my favorite part.

8/10. Short and sweet. I could probably write a whole manifesto on this, but honestly, I just can't be bothered. 🙂

Definitely worth a watch, though you really should see the first one first.
Skyline (2010) Discussion in Movies ·
Hey there.

The new flick from Rogue just dropped. Based on the trailer, it looks pretty intriguing, even if it clearly borrows DNA from "War of the Worlds," "ID4," and maybe even "Crysis." 🙂

Hopefully, it manages to actually be good, rather than being just another mediocre entry in the sci-fi invasion genre.

Trailer 1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nya6qDsxDuE

Trailer 2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mns8E...eature=related

IMDB

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1564585/

I checked the Broadway site for a US release date, but haven't seen anything yet.
Anyone know about those little glass suction grips? The transparent ones that stick to surfaces to hold things in place?

Does anyone know where I can pick some up in Chicago?

Thanks 😁
OCD: General Discussion Thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Jason White41 said:Hey everyone... I've been dealing with this one issue for years now, but this year it’s hitting me hard... OCD—Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
It all started about 7 or 8 years ago—checking locks, checking the stove... honestly, the stove is my biggest nightmare. But lately, it’s gotten way worse, especially on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays when I have to head over to campus around 2:30 PM. I just can't shake this OCD thing—I'm constantly checking outlets for no reason, double-checking every damn thing a hundred times, making sure the water is off a hundred times, or obsessing over whether I actually turned the stove off after heating up lunch... like, staring at the dials thinking "is it set to 0,0,0,0,0,60?" and then checking that ten thousand times. Then, once I think I've checked everything, I lock the door and immediately start wondering if I actually locked it—so I end up checking that too, acting like a total lunatic, locking and unlocking it a thousand times... my head hurts so much doing this, it makes me want to end it all.
Then, once I finally get to college—since I'm always running late on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays—by 4:00 PM I'm sweating bullets, my head is pounding, and I'm just a nervous wreck.

Anyone know how to get rid of this crap?
..or has anyone else dealt with something similar to what I'm going through?....please help me

You check them once before leaving the house and spend the rest of the day on edge. You’ll probably spend the whole time convinced your kitchen is going to burn down because of the stove, only to walk through the door completely frazzled, just to realize everything is perfectly fine. 😁
And that’s the routine every single day, until the symptoms finally start to fade.

If you feed an OCD compulsion like a bad habit, things only go one way. Whether you’re doubling down on rituals or just spinning your wheels, you're essentially fueling the fire. It’s a downward spiral.
OCD: General Discussion Thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Tyler Moore said:I’ve been dealing with this disorder for about eight years now. It isn't something I face every single day; it tends to flare up periodically. Sometimes I’ll go a year, or even just a few months, without any issues at all, but then it comes back... When I was younger, I didn't really recognize it as a problem. It wasn't until later on that I realized what was actually happening. Honestly, I feel pretty isolated because I don't have anyone to turn to or anyone I can truly relate to who is going through the same thing. My parents don't really grasp why this needs medical attention; they either don't pay much attention to it, or perhaps they just don't want to acknowledge that I've been seeing a psychiatrist on my medical records. For the most part, I'm not entirely sure how serious my situation is. It involves things like occasional intrusive, violent thoughts, or sudden urges where I feel like I might😕do something impulsive, like screaming at the top of my lungs in a crowded bus or something similar. Or sometimes I’ll find myself reading only the first and third word of every sentence and repeating them over and over again—though before, it used to be the first and second words. Other times, it's small things, like placing an object on a shelf and then picking it up and putting it back down repeatedly until it finally feels "right." If I don't seek treatment for this, is it possible for things to get worse?
😕🤷

What does "treating it" actually mean to you? Unless you convince yourself you're in the driver's seat, letting the rituals take over will just turn them into your new normal. That’s how OCD works. It’s like if you flipped a light switch twice yesterday just to make sure nothing bad happened to your partner or parents—once you do it, you want that sense of relief to stick. Before you know it, those actions become a daily routine, and your tolerance for the anxiety drops. You get what I mean.
For me, the battle is with obsessive thoughts hitting from all angles. I fight them every day. I managed to strike a deal with myself where I don't rely on physical rituals—though I still have my ups and downs—but the thoughts remain. Honestly, I don't think pills can fix the mental loop; you just have to move forward. Focus on your goals, live your life, and maybe then the OCD just burns itself out.
OCD: General Discussion Thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Jeffrey Ramos4 said:Finally found someone else who’s actually walking through this same kind of hell. Tell me—what do you do when those thoughts start creeping in? For me, I just spiral straight into total panic...

Take deep breaths and try to remind yourself—and it’s the truth—that these thoughts only hurt you, not anyone else. It’s like how repetitive tasks can help ground you; give it a shot. It's much easier to just freeze up in a panic if you stay stationary.
Try to keep your hands busy when they strike. If you can muster enough focus to distract yourself, it helps. It's tough to get anything done when your mind is racing like that, but with practice, you might find a middle ground.👍
OCD: General Discussion Thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Jeffrey Ramos4 said:I’ve been through the ringer—psychiatrists, endless prescriptions, hospital stays... and yet, these violent thoughts still follow me around like a shadow. Maybe I should just write a book about my own head and these impulses. Something biting, sarcastic, and darkly funny... if I can actually get it finished before they finally catch up with me.


It’s probably better if I don't list everything I've dealt with. Regarding that "before they happen" part: intrusive thoughts rarely actually manifest. At least, that’s what I’ve managed to prove over the last decade.😁

If you give those thoughts any weight at all—no matter how twisted or dark they seem—they tend to show up more often. For me, it was this paralyzing fear that I’d hurt my parents. It was three months of pure agony and anxiety until talking it through with a psychologist helped dial it down to a manageable level. That worked for those specific thoughts... at least for that time.
OCD: General Discussion Thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Jeffrey Ramos4 said:Kudos to you for staying off the pills. For me, it’s been a different story... I’ve been battling these intrusive, unwanted thoughts for six months now, and they just hit me out of nowhere. It’s an uphill battle every single day. It started with these sudden urges to hurt my dog—vivid images of actually doing it—then it shifted to hurting my mom, and now it's even turned toward myself. This whole thing is starting to feel much more serious than just "annoying." And honestly? I’d trade places with those people who just deal with constant cleaning compulsions any day of the week.

Believe me, the discomfort is identical whether it's cleanliness issues or violent thoughts. It all leads to the same place. For me, it started with contamination fears when I was a kid, then religious obsessions, then the thoughts about killing people—family, friends—or hurting myself. You wouldn't believe the panic inside my head. On the outside, I looked perfectly fine, but internally, it was pure hell.
When I didn't realize what was happening, I didn't pay it much mind. But once the intrusive thoughts showed up, the panic set in. I read books, emailed therapists online, and even saw a psychiatrist once. He suggested two types of medication—one for anxiety and one for depression, which is quite the cocktail for a 17-year-old 👎. It didn't help much; if anything, it made the thoughts feel more real, so I quit after just one day 😁. After that failed experiment, I sought out a specialist who works with young adults, and since 2003, we've been doing intensive therapy. Since 2005, I've felt better and clearer. The light switches, the hand washing, the repetitive tapping on walls—that's gone. But the intrusive thoughts remain. They arrive without logic and leave just as suddenly; I still haven't found the "trigger" that activated my OCD
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If the OCD is weighing on you this heavily and feels like it's escalating, you aren't alone. Try to find a professional to talk to—not friends, because they won't grasp the nature of intrusive thoughts—maybe once every two weeks. It helps to know you don't have to navigate the understanding part by yourself
OCD: General Discussion Thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Anyone else dealing with this? Looking for some insight on progress, or ways to quiet the intrusive thoughts and repetitive loops.

I’ve been stuck in this cycle for a decade now. There is progress, but it feels like moving at a snail's pace😢, especially when you're trying to manage without any medication😁
If you're reading this and wondering what I mean, here's a link

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obsessi...lsive_disorder

(Mod, if this topic has already been covered, feel free to delete.)
The Departed and American Beauty, hands down.
briskhound2 said:Ah, John Carpenter... looks like the guy finally lost it once half his filmography had already been remade (we've got Fog in the mix too) and then there was Attack... which was a decent enough refresh, though I still lean toward the old version. A quick buck here and there, nothing fancy, just a bunch of unknown actors, but hey, the movie still hits the spot. They announced a remake of Escape from New York a couple of years back, so who knows... maybe he'll live long enough to see every single one of his movies get ripped off.

I’ve watched the old version of "Attack" three times now. It’s dark, terrifying, and all that... but this new remake is actually worth a look. It deserves to be called an excellent reconstruction, though it's the only one I can think of that stays close to the original.🤷

The new " fog" doesn't hold a candle to the classic, but then again, that’s the rule with most remakes.

Take Snyder’s work, for instance—"day of the dead." Cold, sharp, and incredibly dark. Just another remake that actually hits the mark.
I can’t recall a single time where a remake actually beat out the original. Every few years, we get some tired reimagining, like a fresh take on "Assault on Precinct 13," or... I can't even think of another one. The last remake I sat through was "The Day the Earth Stood Still," which wasn't even over-the-top; it was just plain bad.
The whole point of these remakes is that there's no new idea behind them—just a blatant cash grab built on old nostalgia. At this rate, we'll be seeing more remakes than original films every year, which is pretty depressing.
My Bloody Valentine 3D in Movies ·
Valentine's Day is an interesting watch—not a masterpiece, but there are a few solid scenes in there. As for the movie itself, it feels like a mix between "I Know What You Did Last Summer" and "Prom Night." I'd give it a 4/10.
Armin in Movies ·
Just watched it for the first time. I’m not really one for grading movies, but I will say this: it’s rare to see a film like this even imagined. Armin is definitely one of them.