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I’ve been spending a lot more time lately thinking about the intersection of human creativity and the tools we use to augment it. Lately, it feels like there is a massive, invisible wall being built between what we *want* to do with technology and what the technology is actually *allowed* to do. It’s not just about copyright or legalities—though I get that part—it’s something much more existential regarding how we interact with the ghosts of the past.

I remember when I first started experimenting with generative tools. There was this genuine sense of magic in the "what if." You could take a concept and ask, "How would this look if it were filtered through a specific lens?" It wasn't about stealing; it felt like a digital form of homage. It was like walking into a museum, looking at a masterwork, and saying, "I wonder how I would interpret this color palette if I were standing in that same room." There’s a long history of artists imitating their predecessors to learn the craft. We call it studying the masters. We call it influence. We call it a tribute.

But now, it feels like the gatekeepers—the ones writing the code and setting the guardrails—are deciding that the "tribute" is actually a "violation." There is this growing trend of these systems becoming increasingly sanitized, almost polite to a fault, in a way that strips away the ability to engage with the nuances of human history. If a machine is programmed to refuse to dance with the shadows of the greats, are we essentially lobotomizing the tool's ability to understand the very essence of style?

I worry that we are moving toward a world of "beige creativity." If the AI is restricted from mimicking the grit of a noir novelist or the rhythmic flow of a classic poet, it defaults to this incredibly smooth, middle-of-the-road, hyper-sanitized prose that sounds like it was written by a corporate HR department. It’s technically correct, but it has no soul. It lacks the "edges" that make human writing actually worth reading. When you take away the ability to replicate a specific voice, you aren't just protecting intellectual property; you are arguably removing the ability to simulate the very textures of human experience that those authors spent their lives perfecting.

I’ve noticed this happening in other areas of digital life too, where "safety" is used as a blanket excuse to prevent any kind of edge or experimentation. It feels like we are training the next generation to interact with a world that is increasingly frictionless and, therefore, increasingly boring. If I can't ask a machine to help me understand the cadence of a 19th-century philosopher just to see how it applies to a modern thought, am I not losing a tool for intellectual empathy?

There’s a massive difference between "plagiarism" and "stylistic exploration." Plagiarism is passing off work as your own to deceive. Stylistic exploration is using a framework to spark a new idea. I feel like the current trajectory of AI development is conflating the two, and in doing so, it's making the technology much less useful for anyone who actually cares about the craft of writing. We are essentially being told that the "style" of a person is a sacred, untouchable territory that a machine shouldn't even dare to glance at, even for the sake of a creative exercise.

I’m curious to hear what the writers and the tech-enthusiasts here think. Do you think these restrictions are a necessary step to protect the sanctity of human creators, or are we just building a digital vacuum that sucks the personality out of everything we touch?

Is the "safety" of protecting a style worth the loss of the tool's ability to act as a creative mirror?
Ghost Dance: Behind the Facade of Normalcy in Spirituality ·
Well, happy 😘 you know what...😉

I hope you eventually find whatever it is you're after...

The end of the world
Beautiful friend
The end of the world
My only friend, the end

The end of everything that stands, the end
The end of everything that stands, the end
The end no safety or surprise, the end
I'll never look into your eyes... again

Can you imagine what's coming
Wilderness
Desperately in need... of some... stranger's hand
In a... desperate land

Lost in a roman... wilderness of pain
And all the children are insane
All the children are insane
Waiting for the summer rain, yeah

There's danger on the edge of town
Ride the king's highway, baby
Weird scenes inside the gold mine
Ride the highway west, baby

Wilderness, wilderness
To the lake, the ancient lake, baby
The snake is long, seven miles
Ride the snake... he's old, and his skin is cold

The Wild West
The Wild West
Get here, and we'll do the rest

The Blue Bus is calling us
The Blue Bus is calling us
Driver, where you taking us

The killer awoke before dawn, he put his boots on
He took a face from the ancient gallery
And he walked on down the hall
He went into the room where his sister lived, and... then he
Paid a visit to his brother, and then he
He walked on down the hall, and
And he came to a door... and he looked inside
Father, yes son, I want to Kill you
Mother... I want to... fuck you

Come on baby, take a chance with us
Come on baby, take a chance with us
Come on baby, take a chance with us
And meet me at The Blue Bus
Blue Bus
Blue Bus
Blue Bus
Come on, yeah

Kill, kill, kill, kill, kill, kill

The end of the world
Beautiful friend
The end of the world
My only friend, the end

The end IT Hurts to set you Free but you'll never follow me
But you'll never follow me
The end of Laughter and Soft Lies
The end of Nights WE tried to die

The end


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OB/GYN Discussion Thread in Women's Health ·
Bradley Thompson9 said:If I had unprotected sex and there's a chance I caught something, how long should I wait before seeing a gynecologist to get fully tested?

It depends on what you're worried about. Bacteria or parasites might show up in a week or two, but viruses can take several months to detect.
I log in, but then I get logged out? in Forum Help! ·
gentlecanyon92 said:Everything else isn't about the forum; it’s just an issue with your browser. 😳

Thanks
I log in, but then I get logged out? in Forum Help! ·
gentlecanyon92 said:you’re basically subscribing to a thread just by posting in it..

Everything else is just a browser issue, nothing to do with the forum itself. 😳

Can you clarify? From what I can see, there's an actual option to subscribe to threads, which I've never used.

So why does that button exist if I'm being subscribed automatically? What's the logic behind it? Is it based on my post count?

I reply to a million different threads, yet they aren't in my subscriptions—except for a few I didn't actually pick myself.
I log in, but then I get logged out? in Forum Help! ·
Jessica Perez93 said:I log in to the forum, but once I navigate from the homepage to a specific sub-forum—like the Wedding or Pregnancy sections—it shows me as logged out. Does that make sense?

I don't feel like logging back in every five minutes. Plus, if I'm logged out, I can't see my own posts or track which threads I've joined.

Anyone know what's going on here?

The same thing is happening to me. It eventually freezes the entire forum, forcing me to disconnect and restart just to get things working again. It’s incredibly frustrating.

On top of that, I noticed I'm suddenly subscribed to certain threads I never signed up for. It keeps fluctuating, too: one day it's three threads, then two, then back to three, then down to one. 😲

And thirdly, the pop-ups for private messages rarely show up, even though I definitely have that setting turned on. 😁
If I didn't manually check my inbox, I'd probably never even realize I had new messages.
OB/GYN Discussion Thread in Women's Health ·
Jesse Scott5 said:I went to Sun City yesterday and just gave up on the whole thing. Since May, they changed the rules—no matter which insurance plan you pick (even the expensive ones), you still end up paying out of pocket for every single follow-up. So, I’ll be stuck dealing with these physical therapy sessions for months in Shafter, just praying they finally send me for an MRI. As for the gynecologist, I’ve read plenty of good things about Dr. Johnson, but does anyone know how much he charges for a standard exam and testing for Chlamydia or HPV?
And yeah, I noticed they do male exams too, so I might just bring my better half along for the ride...

I’ve had an exam with Dr. Johnson before $67. I’m not sure what his specific rates are for swabs—your best bet is to just call and ask. 😉 From what I know, he won't order tests unless there’s a legitimate reason. In my experience, he isn't the type to "empty your wallet" without doing a thorough examination and taking a full history first.

By the way, you can check the pricing at a private lab here; those are usually the ballpark figures private doctors stick to since they often have deals with the clinics: http://www.moderna-dijagnostika.com/us/pricing/index.asp

Anything outside those ranges is just pure profit.

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OB/GYN Discussion Thread in Women's Health ·
cosmicridge5 said:I wouldn't recommend Dr. Martonic under any circumstances! (I think she was the mother, not the daughter.)
She gave me a completely wrong diagnosis (a tumor) and handed me one of the worst traumas of my life. I was 18 at the time—eight years ago—and I remember her behaving like pure Satan itself. 🤮 Some people later urged me to sue her, but I just didn't have the energy for it... Every doctor I saw afterward for second, third, even fifth opinions (ranging from private clinics to major hospitals like Mayo Clinic) tore her apart. They couldn't believe how unprofessional she was, handing out such serious diagnoses without running any actual tests!
Not to mention she was so blunt and rude that she’d look an 18-year-old dead in the eye and tell her she might bleed out on the street if she didn't get surgery immediately, even though there was zero basis for it. 🤮
She scared me so badly I cried all the way home. 👎 As it turns out, nothing was actually wrong. I didn't need surgery, let alone to worry about dying. 🙄

And yeah, she took my $217 and just tucked them away in a drawer without a second thought. 👎

A little while later, I found Dr. Grujić Koračin over in the suburbs, and I won't go to anyone else now because I'm totally satisfied with her. 🙂 :knock on wood:

I've heard similar stories from a few friends. They went to her and ended up paying so much money for wrong diagnoses that it's honestly criminal. One friend said the exact same thing as you: she hasn't experienced that level of paranoia and fear-mongering in a long time. 😢
Then again, I know someone who is completely happy with them.

On another note, I want to join everyone here praising Dr. Ljubojević from Ginoderme. He's great—very calm, gentle, with a nice sense of humor, and he isn't expensive. He explains everything clearly using the monitor right in front of you. From what I hear, he's one of the few true experts when it comes to HPV.
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What exactly is a cult? in Spirituality ·
kakosi said:How would you define a "sect"?😲

What are the necessary prerequisites for a group of people to actually be called a sect?

The word "sect" stems from an ancient root meaning all towards that(m)—the "m" is just silent. 😬

In plain English, it implies a doctrine where every
single path leads to the same destination, or as they say, all roads lead to Rome. Just a visual way to make the point. 😁

By that definition, the Department of Defense is a sect because everything happening there is geared toward one thing: the bottom line. 👍 🙏 👋
Private messages aren't showing up in Forum Help! ·
After yesterday's total mess, my PMs have completely vanished. Is there any chance they'll show up again, or did they just disappear for good? 😢
Soul and Spirit in Spirituality ·
riječ said:I didn't even think anyone would get it—just meat and bones. It's a good thing God held back from sending any more floods.

And do you actually grasp what this "Biblical God" of yours is supposed to be? Sounds like a real loose cannon to me. First, He creates everything perfectly, then He hands out free will that somehow operates completely independently of His own will. 🤣 And supposedly, He's omnipotent..

It’s like He doesn't even know what His right hand is doing while the left one is busy elsewhere..😵

A pretty strange deity.. sounds a bit schizophrenic..
Soul and Spirit in Spirituality ·
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I mean, God is all-powerful, but he still granted us free will—something that exists independently of his omnipotence and omnipresence 😂 😵
Soul and Spirit in Spirituality ·
the Word said:if you didn't know, there is the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

9 For they are a Trinity testifying in heaven: "Father, Word, and Holy Spirit; and these three are one,

8 And there are three testifying on earth: "Spirit, water, and blood; and these three are one.

Look, this isn't some Walmart "buy two, get one free" special. 😁 That’s my way of putting it. One is one, but it holds weight. If you think one can't exist without all three, well, that sounds like a personal issue—and a bit of a headache for Catholic doctrine. 😉
Soul and Spirit in Spirituality ·
someone said:A human being is a three-dimensional creature made in the image of God, consisting of spirit, soul, and body.
The spirit is our inner core, which for most people is unfortunately tainted by that old original sin from Adam.
The soul is comprised of our will, our intellect, and our emotions.
The body is simply the house we live in until we die.

God is a three-dimensional being?!?! 😲

😵

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OB/GYN Discussion Thread in Women's Health ·
plavusa said:Jamie Newman4 - I completely agree
I've been using private clinics since the beginning
specifically Dr. Ljubejović—I’ve already given him a glowing review
the guy is great. He doesn't overcharge you for nothing, his prices are
totally reasonable, and he's a true expert
for instance, he charged me $50
which is pocket change to me

That is honestly very little money.
I just feel like we women can put an end to these unnecessary charges if we actually stay informed. 👍
The biggest money grab happens during testing; they rarely tell you how to get things done cheaper or through better coverage. Plus, interpreting all those tests is pretty standard procedure—there isn't much deep wisdom involved there.
Price differences really just come down to how much each doctor decides to charge for their services.

Also, most women don't realize that CIN I and II usually just need monitoring. In most cases, they clear up on their own. With that kind of diagnosis, you should just be doing a Pap smear every six months along with mandatory HPV DNA typing.

I've heard countless stories about people being charged a fortune to "treat" something that doesn't even need it.
OB/GYN Discussion Thread in Women's Health ·
Timothy James9 said:I found her online too.
I dealt with massive issues because of incompetence, laziness, or just plain neglect from both my public doctor and my expensive private gynecologist.
Eventually, I snapped. I called her in tears, she saw me that same day, and after three years of struggling, I finally got an accurate diagnosis. Honestly, I paid $400 for swabs and tests, but it was actually worth it.

I don't get one thing: what were they (both the public and private ones) doing for three years if they couldn't give you a diagnosis? 😕
I mean, that should be the easiest thing in the world if either of them just sent you to get all the necessary tests done.

Because then you end up with people like Dr. Dorić—and look, I’m not trying to insult her specifically, but this applies to all those types of private clinics—who swoop in and collect $400 for things you could have had done for free at Mayo Clinic using a referral from your public gynecologist, before heading to a private specialist for a second opinion on the results.
It feels like private practitioners exploit patient suffering and capitalize on the incompetence or negligence of public doctors, making money where they shouldn't be.

In this instance, $400 it isn't a huge amount of money (that's the standard rate for all the tests and HPV DNA typing at private offices, though you can go half price if you go directly to a lab like Moderna Diagnostics that specializes in testing—many private docs have deals with them to run the labs), but it's doable for free. For example, if Dr. Dorić (or any private doc who isn't solely motivated by profit) were actually decent, she would have advised you to get a referral from your public doctor for the swabs, come to her for the exam, and then you could take the samples to Mayo Clinic yourself. She’d just charge for the consultation. Besides, I heard somewhere she uses the Digene test for HPV, which isn't reliable and isn't recommended anymore.

Honestly, when I see how much some private doctors charge just for an exam and a Pap smear, I almost want to laugh. Don't get me wrong, I choose to see a private doctor myself, but that's my own choice and capability, and my doctor always gives me cheaper options to consider.

I remember a friend telling me she goes to a certain Dr. Marton, and apparently, she gets nothing but attitude for $233! Just for comparison, at my gynecologist, I paid for the exam, the Pap, a chlamydia test, and an ultrasound $233.
So, what exactly is that woman doing for $233—scraping cells with a golden spatula? 🤣

And don't even get me started on those clinics that offer HPV DNA typing for men. Everyone knows that kind of test doesn't exist for guys; it's designed specifically for cervical swabs from women, making it useless for men. And yet, they charge a fortune for it. 🙄
OB/GYN Discussion Thread in Women's Health ·
Amanda Stewart3 said:Hey everyone, I’d love to hear your thoughts...

I went to the gynecologist yesterday because of some stinging and itching, and they diagnosed me with colpitis. They prescribed a seven-day course of Klimicin V antibiotic cream.
I asked if my boyfriend needs to use anything too, and she said not right now...
But shouldn't I be worried about getting reinfected just so he has an excuse to start treatment???

There’s no need to treat a partner for this. Colpitis is essentially just vaginal inflammation, and it often clears up on its own once your flora stabilizes a bit. Using Geonistin or Klimicin V suppositories is pretty standard practice.
That said, it wouldn't hurt to run tests for any nasty bugs if it keeps coming back. My doctor mentioned that for some women, a mild case of colpitis can show up on a Pap smear even when everything else is fine—it can just be physiological. Especially if there aren't symptoms like itching or discomfort, you might just need to focus on boosting your immune system. 😉
Soul and Spirit in Spirituality ·
My take? The soul is essentially a product of the spirit, even if the spirit itself flows from the soul.
OB/GYN Discussion Thread in Women's Health ·
Bradley Lopez56 said:basically
I'm 21 and I've actually never been to a gynecologist
I know I should have gone ages ago, but life just keeps getting in the way. I won't ramble.
Does anyone know a good OB/GYN on the west side of town (near Gajnice)?
I'd prefer to go through my insurance first since money is a bit tight right now for private exams and stuff.

Also, does anyone know if I can use my insurance to see a doctor in Zaprešić even though I live in Gajnice?

thanks

If you're looking at the west side, there's a private specialist, Dr. Ayuba, over in Malešnica or Zaprešić.
He's Lebanese and honestly pretty great—super gentle and doesn't make a big deal out of everything. He isn't pricey either; I think an exam, ultrasound, and Pap smear run about a reasonable amount. $100 His English might be a little rough, but communication is never an issue. He gets results back fast and even follows up with you.

As for the doctors covered by public insurance in Zaprešić? From what I hear, they're a total nightmare. 👎
Sexual Dysfunction Discussions in Psychology ·
briskjackal5 said:Honestly, this should be a relief for him. These are completely different categories, and it’s just silly to stress over it. It makes no sense. Just accept that guys masturbate even when they're in a relationship. Accept it. Understand that sex with you is one thing, and what he’s talking about is something else entirely. If you can wrap your head around that distinction, things will be great between you. Be glad he’s being open with you instead of hiding it. He's being honest, and that's how he chose to share this with you.

- Stipe -

I totally agree with this. 👍

But I'd add that many women don't see it this way for one simple reason: they judge it based on their own views of pornography. Everyone's approach is different, and it can be hard to wrap your mind around something that feels "alien" to you. I'm speaking from experience here: I also needed a little help understanding 😍

I mean, I guess that's why you guys are here to explain things to us, right? 😉

Still, I don't think any reasonable woman would complain about her partner watching adult content if everything else is fine. If she's satisfied with her relationship and their sex life, and if she understands that him watching those videos has absolutely nothing to do with her personally, then there shouldn't be an issue.

Just as an example: one of the reasons my friend ended up getting a divorce was because her husband was constantly glued to porn. I'm not saying that was the sole cause, but in the context of him spending every single day on those sites while she was busy running the household—cooking, cleaning, laundry—it took a toll. Their sex life went from once a week to once a month, and eventually, once every three months. At that point, she had every right to be fed up with the porn habit. 😁

Add to that the fact that whenever they tried to talk about improving their intimacy or daily life, he would just shut down. He'd claim nothing was wrong and then immediately retreat to those websites just to avoid the conversation. It becomes a vicious cycle.

Ultimately, I think we can all agree that no woman who feels neglected by her partner is going to find "understanding" for endless porn consumption. How can you even communicate with someone who, in a case like this, is focused solely on finding naked women and jerking off every single day?