Posts by Daniel White15

Grace Turner said:A business transfer agreement.

Thanks!

If I’ve wandered into the wrong thread, please feel free to move this!

I could really use some advice here. I own a small business—it’s a sole proprietorship rather than an LLC—and since I’m planning to move out of the country permanently in the near future, I want to hand the reins over to my sister so she can keep the business running. Does anyone know what the standard procedure looks like for this? And more importantly, what kind of costs am I looking at?

This might sound like a bit of a silly question, but is there an option to essentially "gift" the business to her to facilitate the transfer? My goal is to completely walk away from the company once it's done.

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Roger Morgan2 said:Can cysts actually pop up again after a pregnancy? And when’s the best time to get an ultrasound on my ovaries if I’m worried about them? I've been feeling this weird discomfort around my left ovary for a while now, and every single time my period ends, the pain starts kicking in hard... It's definitely more on the left side than the right. It's not a bladder infection either; I already had a urine culture done and everything came back clear...
And could those cysts cause swollen lymph nodes in my groin?

Cysts can honestly show up at pretty much any time. For the most accurate results, you should aim to get your ultrasound done between day 5 and day 7 of your cycle—though sometimes even day 3 is recommended.

I haven't heard of cysts causing swollen lymph nodes before. Honestly, just go get that ultrasound done, and then you'll have some real answers! You might want to grab a standard blood test too, since swollen nodes can sometimes point toward inflammation or other underlying issues.

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goldenmoose25 said:Daniel White15👍
Thanks so much for sharing your experience. How long have you been drinking these teas, and how often per day? What’s the dosage? I’m definitely going to start; I really want to avoid surgery if I can. It’s been too long since my last check-up, and I’m terrified the cyst has grown.
I’m still on Cilest, mainly for contraception—it’s the only thing that makes me feel secure enough.
Where do you pick up your teas? At health food stores or somewhere like CVS?
Honestly, I think the cyst is down to my stress levels and this non-stop, frantic lifestyle. Too much nervous energy. I really need to get a handle on that.🙂

Hi! Here is some more great news from my side—there is NOTHING left on my left ovary!!! And get this, it’s been there for a year, despite all those hormones I was taking. I’ve been drinking herbal tea for four months straight now—I mean, every single day. My routine is simple: I brew about a liter in the morning, let it steep covered for about 20 minutes, strain it, pour it into a liter bottle, and take it with me when I head out to work. Honestly, whenever I get thirsty, I reach for my tea instead of plain water. What's in the mix? In that one liter, I add a teaspoon of calendula, a teaspoon of chamomile, a teaspoon of valerian, and a teaspoon of nettle leaf (you can find the root too, but for our specific issues, the leaf is what you want). I buy everything from local herbal apothecaries; I just feel like I can trust them the most. On top of all that, I’m also taking evening primrose oil and Vitamin E. Just a heads up though—be prepared to be running to the bathroom a lot! 😁.

I totally agree—stress and everything that hitches a ride with it really does a number on our skin. It’s just science, right? You get those stress hormones spiking, which then trigger a whole domino effect of hormonal imbalances, and suddenly, you're facing all that trouble. It's like a vicious cycle!

Was it some magic herbal tea or just the stars aligning? Honestly, who cares! All I know is that my tenant—who was absolutely nothing but pure trouble—has finally been gone for over two years now. I’m pretty convinced those herbal brews did the trick and cleared the air.

Good luck!

goldenmoose25 said:I’ve been on Cilest birth control for over a year now. About eight or nine months ago, they found a clear cyst on my left ovary. It was only about half a centimeter back then. Within four months, it grew to 3.5 cm, and at my last exam, it hit roughly 4.3 cm.
My gynecologist told me to stop taking Cilest since I was using it for contraception and gave me a referral for a CA 125 test, which came back normal. Because my doctor was incredibly blunt—basically offering zero explanation about what kind of cyst this actually is—I went to see a private specialist instead. She performed an ultrasound, showed me everything looked normal, and insisted it’s just a water cyst, so there's no reason to panic. However, she didn't mention anything about stopping the Cilest. Now I’m stuck. I don't know who to listen to. Should I keep taking the Cilest? If I recall correctly, oral contraceptives are supposed to have a positive effect on cysts.
Are there any natural methods that might cause a cyst to rupture, like specific teas or something similar?

Here’s my own experience: I took Cilest for ten years straight without a single break because every gynecologist I saw (and believe me, I have cycled through hundreds of them) told me I didn't need to take a break. And wouldn't you know it? I always ended up with a cyst on my left ovary. One time, it grew all the way to 7 cm, and my doctor sent me off for pre-op tests in a total panic! But since I had already had surgery on my right ovary as a teenager—where they ended up removing almost the entire thing—😠 I just told them, "Nope, you aren't putting me under the knife this time." So, I sought a second opinion. The doctor I see today told me, "Let's just wait and see. Take some medical leave, rest up, don't lift anything heavy..." and then we scheduled a follow-up for three months later. After that check-up, the cyst had shrunk drastically (it was down to about 1 cm)!

Regardless of whether I'm on birth control, I always seem to have a cyst on that ovary. The size fluctuates, though occasionally—though it's rare—there isn't one at all. About six months ago, my doctor diagnosed me with a multilocular cyst, which somehow persisted despite the pill until my last check-up, when it was identified as unilocular—I think it's a water cyst. During those six months after finding the multilocular one, I just said, "Okay, enough is enough." I turned to herbal remedies. My go-to blend is calendula, vervain, mugwort, and nettle. Did that specific tea combo work? Who knows! But the multilocular ones are gone, even if this so-called "ordinary" one has stayed the same size (38mm).

For the last nine cycles, I've dealt with unbearable migraines on the first day of my period (that's specifically that window when hormone levels drop during my seven-day break from the pill).

I suggested to my gynecologist that we just "toss" the Cilest, since the pills seem to be causing these cysts to grow, hit a peak, and then eventually shrink anyway. I'm still sticking to my herbal tea blend, but I've also started taking evening primrose oil (1300mg), Vitamin E (400), and hemp tincture to help balance out my hormones—which, by the way, is something doctors in America, the UK, and Germany often prescribe for cases involving fibroids.

I'm really hoping my next check-up shows that my plant-and-vitamin cocktail is doing its job. Even if nothing else happens, I just want the cyst to stay stable, because nature definitely takes its sweet time!

Give it a shot; you've got nothing to lose!

redharbor9 said:You can't just talk your way out of OCD! It’s not that simple, right? Since the issue involves both cognitive and behavioral components, you need specific, targeted methods to actually tackle it. Why settle for just chatting when you need real tools for the job?

I honestly have no clue where you're getting those ideas from, but that just isn't the case! Isn't it interesting how people get things mixed up? Legally speaking, "psychotherapist" isn't actually defined as a specific profession. There’s no such official designation. In reality, psychotherapy as a service can only be provided by a psychiatrist operating within a psychiatric practice. Simple as that!

What do psychologists and psychotherapists actually do all day? Honestly, they aren't breaking any rules or stepping outside their legal bounds! According to the regulations, they operate through licensed counseling centers or as professional psychological counselors—which means their core job is simply providing guidance and support. Think about it: having a psychotherapy certification on top of a psychology degree isn't a different career entirely; it’s just a massive bonus! It’s an extra layer of expertise that allows them to provide much higher quality care and more effective counseling. Isn't that exactly what we want from a professional?

If we start splitting hairs over the technical definitions of psychotherapy versus counseling, then psychiatrists—who are fully qualified to provide therapy—shouldn't even be doing half their jobs since that falls under counseling too! Honestly, I don't think there's any real need or even space here for this kind of legalistic nitpicking over job titles and service categories. Instead of debating terminology, shouldn't we just focus on pointing the author toward the highest quality care available? In my opinion, the real goal should be finding a specialist therapist who specifically works with children and focuses on OCD. Since psychologists tend to lean toward the therapeutic modalities that actually treat this effectively and quickly, you'll likely have much better luck finding someone in that field. Isn't it just absurd to put a child through psychodynamic therapy—which is what many psychiatrists tend to favor, especially when they're working off a referral—when it carries the risk of actually making things worse?

Spot on! That was written so clearly and precisely.

slybear13 said:I’m looking for some perspective regarding my son. He’s a bit quirky, but he’s such a bright kid—he’s almost ready to start school, and I couldn't be prouder! However, he tends to drift off quite often, and his focus on specific tasks is pretty weak; he’s always living in his own little world. He’s definitely his father's son, bless him. He already knows how to read and do basic math, and he can handle just about anything when he needs to, but he reminds me of myself so much. I was that type of kid too—someone who leaned toward creative outlets and had those OCD-like tendencies. It took me off the beaten path sometimes, but it also gave me an extra dimension of creativity, so I managed to turn it into something positive. Now, seeing that my son might be heading down that same road (nothing extreme, I turned out fine and have a great life!), I’m wondering: should I do something about it? And if so, what? I don't think he'll struggle intellectually in school—actually, he’s been brilliant there—but as a parent, I want to give him the right tools to navigate emotional hurdles like OCD. I don't want to ignore this if it requires action on my part. He’s starting school soon, and being distracted in class is definitely not the goal!

Based on this post, it doesn't actually sound like the child has OCD. Labeling specific behaviors on your own can often lead you down the wrong path. From the very limited info provided here, there isn't enough evidence to suggest an OCD diagnosis, and honestly, making diagnoses in early childhood isn't recommended because many things are just part of normal development. OCD is a serious disorder, so please don't jump to conclusions so easily. If you feel your child's behavior is deviating from what is considered typical, please reach out to professionals. You mentioned that you had similar behaviors as a child and didn't seek help, so I have to ask: why do you feel it's necessary for your child now?

I would really appreciate it if we could clear some things up once and for all so we can move past this. A psychotherapist isn't someone who just finishes a "basic" degree. A doctor who specializes in psychiatry and becomes a psychiatrist is NOT necessarily a psychotherapist. Likewise, a psychologist who graduates and specializes in something like clinical psychology is NOT automatically a psychotherapist either. Both paths require completing additional specialized training in a specific therapeutic modality (depending on their interests and leanings) before they can officially call themselves psychotherapists. According to American professional regulations, a psychologist can practice psychotherapy if they complete the required training, and the same applies to medical doctors under the laws governing medical practice.

I’ve noticed people frequently claiming that psychologists only perform CBT—which is totally incorrect—or that psychiatrists only do analytical or dynamic therapy—again, totally incorrect. Both groups can practice any type of psychotherapy as long as they have been properly trained in it.

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Sarah Wood2 said:So, I’ve got this feeling she’s leaning way more into neurology lately, especially since she’s working over in the trauma unit... but man, I really need a second opinion from someone who actually knows their stuff. Like, a total pro. Does anyone have a specific name—first and last name, please—of a top-tier specialist they’d vouch for? Also, does anyone happen to know the best way to get an appointment with George?

John Smith works at the Mayo Clinic within the psychiatric hospital (they're actually temporarily operating out of the dermatology building while the main facility undergoes renovations).

Have you thought about doing some psychological processing to help clear up the differential diagnosis? It’s actually pretty common to do that—but only if that's what you feel you need!

Are you looking for a private psychologist or psychiatrist, or are you trying to go through your insurance referral?

Thomas Martinez67 said:Hey, I actually have a quick question for you, Gerald Rivera60
So, I was wondering, what would the cost be for a psychological profile if we decided to skip the cognitive ability testing part?
Would that basically cut the price in half? 😁

would 🙂

Kenneth Perez10 said:I am not entirely certain how the legal framework is structured here in the States, but I suspect that, ideally, only licensed psychologists or properly qualified professionals should be authorized to conduct psychological diagnostics. It seems inevitable that this would reduce the number of unqualified practitioners in the field.
It isn't merely about administering a test and totaling up a score; the clinical history is just as vital, as is providing correct instructions during testing, and—just as importantly—interpreting the results after the fact to determine the appropriate intervention!

Furthermore, a major flaw with many personality tests is how predictable they are for the individual taking them.
I mean, what would you even check if you were trying to avoid being disqualified from a job and encountered questions like, "I wake up in the morning feeling refreshed and in a good mood... yes/no"? It is fairly obvious which answer is the "correct" one to give.

Legally, it's set up so that only licensed psychologists are allowed to administer these tools. I totally agree that anyone can learn the mechanics of how to give a test or how to grade one (assuming we're talking about objective tests rather than projective ones), but what sets a psychologist apart from everyone else is knowing exactly what to do with those results once they're in hand (assuming, of course, we're talking about a professional who actually knows what they're doing 🙂). The downside of objective personality tests is that answers can be predicted, but every single test has built-in validity scales to detect if someone is trying to game the system—it shows exactly where someone is being dishonest. Sure, if someone is determined enough, they might try to slip through, but you have to manage the questions (which can easily exceed 200!) and understand exactly what each statement is measuring (though that's certainly not impossible). That's why, during testing, we combine different approaches and supplement them with projective tests, which even a seasoned psychologist couldn't crack unless they were specifically trained in that particular method.

Gerald Rivera60 said:As far as I know, an independent psychologist can't just order these tests on their own.
As for how accurate they actually are... that's a complicated issue.
It all comes down to predictive validity—essentially, how well a test score correlates with actual job performance.
In roles where you can easily quantify success, establishing that correlation is straightforward.
However, for many positions, even measuring performance itself relies on subjective and often arbitrary criteria.
Theoretically, any test is useful if its selection ratio is higher than the base rate.
The base rate is the percentage of successful hires without any screening at all; the selection ratio is the percentage of successes among candidates chosen through a specific process.
The problem is that base rates are rarely known. No US company is going to hire every single applicant just to establish a baseline.
Generally speaking, the more complex a role is—requiring specialized knowledge and skills—the lower the base rate. For simpler jobs, the base rate is higher.

Look, if a psychologist is licensed, they actually *can* order tests as an individual. But let's be real—it's pretty rare to see an unemployed psychologist buying up expensive testing kits. Usually, someone employed at an institution (like a local high school, for example) might order specific professional selection tests to take on some freelance work. In those cases, they’re acting as a private contractor rather than working through their employer. Makes sense, right?

By the way, I really appreciate your breakdown regarding how reliable these tests are. My only worry is that very few people here will truly grasp the nuance, since there aren't many folks on this forum who actually work in psychology professionally. Just a bit of advice from a future colleague to a current one: try to keep your answers a bit more down-to-earth and common-sense based! 🙂

wanderingcrane97 said:Is there maybe some psychologist who actually handles the testing and analysis of personality assessments in person? I’m asking because I figure hiring an individual might be a cheaper way to go than bringing in some big firm.

Honestly, I actually think you’ll save more money by going through a firm! When you hire a company, you're essentially just paying the sales tax. If you try to hire someone as an independent contractor, those payroll taxes and withholdings end up being significantly higher. Even if you try to set them up under a specialized intellectual property contract, you're still looking at a much higher total cost—I mean, you'd probably have to shell out an extra 40% on top of their net rate just to cover everything. Isn't it easier to just deal with the flat tax?

If you really want to stick with an individual, though, shoot me a private message and I can send some names your way.

wanderingcrane97 said:Does anyone know where I can pick up some psychological personality tests used during job hiring processes here in the States?

Is there a specific firm out there that offers this kind of testing as a service?

Keep in mind that psychological tests can only be ordered and administered by licensed psychologists. There are several publishing companies that handle distribution—for instance, the state employment agencies, the psychology departments at major universities, or even Slap. The selection isn't massive, but it exists! I know for a fact that both the Sirius Center www.centar-sirius.hr and Creativa (www.creativa.hr) specialize in this area and come highly recommended. The tests they use are extremely reliable, and as always, the interpretations are handled by licensed professionals. If you head over to those links, you'll find plenty of details on what their business consulting services actually entail.

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I absolutely cannot recommend Dr. Grujic—just, NO. When it comes to their psychological approach to patients? Zero points. For me, heading to the gynecologist is honestly pretty stressful because of a whole history of procedures dating back to my teens—everything from various cleanings to complications following those surgeries, you name it. Because of that, I look for a doctor who is actually kind (regardless of whether they're male or female) and who takes the time to properly inform me. I can't stand being treated like I’ve never heard a single word about medicine in my entire life, or like the appointment is some divine favor they're doing for me! They seem to forget they exist to serve us, not the other way around. Instead, I highly recommend a male gynecologist over on Bosutskaja Street; his office is located right within the microbiology clinic. He is such a normal, decent human being! He explains everything in great detail, provides concrete information, stays up to date with the latest medical findings, and most importantly, he doesn't view you as just another "case"—he treats you like a person who is actively taking charge of their own health. Honestly, I have so much respect for you ladies who managed to endure comments from certain doctors, not to mention any inappropriate physical conduct. If that happened to me, I bet the local news would run a headline about some "unhinged" patient attacking an "innocent" physician!

For your daily supplement—which you’ll need to swap out pretty frequently—just add about seven drops of pure lavender essential oil. You can pick some up at the local farmer's market at that little boutique shop, I think it's called Saxo, right across from the Dubrovnik Cafe. It’ll definitely help soothe the symptoms! Now, look, it isn't going to magically cure Candida if that's what you're dealing with, but lavender works wonders as a preventative measure. Think of it this way: once you're getting things sorted out with conventional medicine, let lavender be your go-to for maintenance and staying ahead of the curve. Trust me on this one; it's tried and true. My sister is actually a PharmD and a certified aromatherapist, and I've personally tested this method myself!
good luck😉