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So, I’ve actually been a godparent twice now, back when I was still a college student. Since my bank account was basically non-existent at the time, I didn't even bother asking the kids what they actually wanted for their gifts 🤣
they just ended up getting whatever was considered standard at the time.
Like, a girl would get a gold necklace and a guy would get a watch.
And honestly, if they weren't totally thrilled with them, neither one of them ever let it show. If they had, I would've felt pretty terrible, but they were both just super chill about it 🙂
I really think people are right when they say kids don't even grasp the whole point of a First Communion.
It probably makes more sense to move those ceremonies to a later age, where you can actually choose when you want to "renew" your faith. As it stands now, kids are just reciting these phrases from memory without having any clue about the actual meaning or the weight behind the words they're saying.
Nicole Martin83 said:Okay, so "contact" happened on Jan 1st. Putting "contact" in quotes because there was zero actual sex—just some fingering. The only issue is he tried to push it in, but since I wasn't feeling it, my muscles just tensed up and obviously nothing happened. So, my big question is: could he have finished and then basically shoved sperm inside me with his fingers???
I got my period on Jan 11th (which was day 27 of my last cycle), then my ovulation felt super weird. Even during my period (which lasted its usual 6 or 7 days), I was dealing with nausea and headaches, and I was peeing constantly—though my doctor at the local clinic told me it’s probably just gastritis since I was freaking out over finals at the time.
Since I couldn't just relax about it, I took a test on Jan 20th and it was NEGATIVE!
Then I got my next period on Feb 2nd, lasted 6 days, but right before that, my breasts started hurting—which has never happened to me before. I can't say for sure because my memory is a bit fuzzy, but...
And again, around ovulation, I was peeing like crazy, though no nausea this time, just some acid reflux—but I've dealt with that for years so maybe it really is just the gastritis...
My third period came on day 28 of the previous one, so March 1st (my cycles are usually pretty much 28 days), and it was heavier than the last two. It's still going, though it's winding down now.
But what's really messing with my head is that my lower stomach is still so bloated! Mind you, everything I eat sticks to my stomach (I'm naturally thin), so maybe that's why????
What I actually want to know is: has this happened to anyone else? Getting pregnant without actual sex (I've never slept with my boyfriend...), but where sperm gets pushed in via fingers,
plus having three periods and a negative test???? 😢 😢 😢 😢 😢
I am losing my mind here and I need help! I already posted in the "Am I pregnant" thread, but nobody really gave me any clarity, and since you guys here actually have experience with pregnancy...
(Also, my labia look a little wider and kind of rough—could that be from the fingering, like they stretched during the "contact"?)
Please help me because I'm seriously stressed out. Honestly, the thought of taking another test and finding out the worst makes me feel sick. I'm young, I'm in college, and I have really conservative parents, so this situation is definitely not ideal. 😢 😢 😢 😢 😢
You're actually in college and asking a question like this????😕
I don't even know if I should be laughing or crying at this point.🤷
James Rogers8 said:So, like, four days ago I ended up with this super painful inflammation on my clitoris. It honestly hurts so bad even when I'm not touching anything, and even just wearing underwear feels like torture. I tried drinking some cranberry tea and doing chamomile compresses, but the swelling hasn't gone down one bit. I'm totally out of ideas on what else to try, and I'm also kinda freaking out about actually going to see a doctor or a gynecologist. If anyone here has dealt with something similar or has any advice at all, please help me out because this pain is seriously becoming unbearable! 🙏
Wait, why does your profile say you're male?
😕🤣
Jaffa🙏🙏 (but honestly, just that one from Crvenka😁)...
So, I've just been sticking to my routine with a prenatal vitamin and some prenatal omega-3.👍
I'm totally on board with that!👍