dustyranger64 said:The mods missed the mark on this one—honestly, they should've handed out more warnings and hit that ban button way before the halftime break!
Look, it’s not about picking on you. Not even close! It’s honestly just hoping that maybe—just maybe—it’ll finally click for you, you'll realize what you're doing wrong, and you can stop before things get messy.
Look, if you had come to us with a legitimate request to scrap this partial, we would have actually taken you seriously. But honestly? This whole thread is just a mess of fake claims, accusations, and baseless finger-pointing about persecution. It’s all noise. Because of that, the three LJES moderators have reached a consensus: your partial stays exactly where it is.
Just a few more details, besides the fact that the whole conversation is just one big, disrespectful mess:
And what about that... Allowed. It’s just plain wrong. Like, "cheat on your husband and you deserve..."—you know the kind of stuff people say. Total nonsense.
You need a catchy word.
Look, it’s not up to the mods or this forum to play moral police. If someone wants to cheat or back a shady decision, the moderators aren't going to step in and defend that behavior. Everyone has a right to their own opinion. Your take isn't "problematic" just because it's different from mine. You were only being problematic because you jumped into every single thread involving cheating or hookup culture just to lecture everyone else on their morals. Something extra, even when it wasn't even what we were talking about!
It’s such a basic one—one of our regular ladies starts an easygoing thread. Just a simple "Hey guys, what are we all hoping for in this new year of 2012?" she asks.
I’m totally craving one—or maybe even a few—passionate nights with a guy I definitely shouldn't be messing with! 😉
What are you responding to?
Wow... What a wish! Honestly, aren't you just fearless? Just jumping right in and diving headfirst into bed with anyone like that? No hesitation at all. I mean, aren't you worried about catching something, or maybe that they won't actually look out for you or take care of you? Just curious!
I've only got one wish: I hope everyone else starts thinking as smart as you do!
And that was on a totally harmless topic! Seriously. But then, whenever things actually get heavy—like when we're talking about real fraud or those brutal, life-altering decisions—your judgment just kicks in. It’s constant. You don't just critique; you go way beyond.
I mean, seriously, the kind of garbage that was being posted and allowed there? It’s honestly sickening...
Just because you think it’s disgusting when a guy admits he cheated—because he’s torn between his wife and this new woman he’s actually falling for—doesn't mean we can just ban people from talking about it. It doesn't work like that! Every time someone even mentions promiscuity, you lose it. You get all worked up and start preaching, but honestly? I haven't seen any change in your attitude at all.
That doesn’t mean you should be okay with that kind of behavior. Honestly, most people on the forums over there aren't fans of it either. But even when they don't agree with what someone is doing, they don't just treat that person like some lost sheep crying out for help. They aren't about that life.
Honestly, that doesn't mean anything to me.
Nothing! I just want the whole thing.
A forum for us to hang out and actually read what everyone’s putting down!
And since I’ve already got two failed marriages under my belt...
Honestly, I might actually know how to
help people with this more than you guys do...
It doesn't seem like you even care. And bringing up two failed marriages in a family doesn't prove anything. For ŽuD maybe, but for LJES? Not at all.
And this is exactly why the bias regarding the LJES mods stays.
It’s hard to put into words just how much we don't care whether you believe in God, nothing at all, or even some Holy Shoe.
Your refusal to accept any lifestyle different from what you personally deem "moral," that whole "poor me, I'm being bullied" routine—which is totally far from the truth (I'm pretty sure the mods and admins have seen your old threads and deleted posts, along with everyone else's)—all of that, plus your inability to see where you're messing up forum etiquette while instead spinning conspiracy theories about moderators going on crusades just to target you specifically (interestingly, not anyone else), is a way bigger issue.
Looks like Smod already gave his take, so I'm done here. Admins?
Look, my conclusion is that immoral behavior was being permitted, since I've been warned a billion times for "moralizing," and I'm always told to stop this or that. I mean, honestly, it makes you wonder. Every single time I pointed out that it isn't right for someone to cheat, or lie, or mess around with marriage and family, there was a wave of forum users attacking me, followed immediately by your warnings telling me to stop lecturing everyone...
dustyranger64 said:The mods missed the mark on this one—honestly, they should've handed out more warnings and hit that ban button way before the halftime break!
Look, it’s not about picking on you. Not even close! It’s honestly just hoping that maybe—just maybe—it’ll finally click for you, you'll realize what you're doing wrong, and you can stop before things get messy.
Look, if you had come to us with a legitimate request to scrap this partial, we would have actually taken you seriously. But honestly? This whole thread is just a mess of fake claims, accusations, and baseless finger-pointing about persecution. It’s all noise. Because of that, the three LJES moderators have reached a consensus: your partial stays exactly where it is.
Just a few more details, besides the fact that the whole conversation is just one big, disrespectful mess:
And what about that... Allowed. It’s just plain wrong. Like, "cheat on your husband and you deserve..."—you know the kind of stuff people say. Total nonsense.
You need a catchy word.
Look, it’s not up to the mods or this forum to play moral police. If someone wants to cheat or back a shady decision, the moderators aren't going to step in and defend that behavior. Everyone has a right to their own opinion. Your take isn't "problematic" just because it's different from mine. You were only being problematic because you jumped into every single thread involving cheating or hookup culture just to lecture everyone else on their morals. Something extra, even when it wasn't even what we were talking about!
It’s such a basic one—one of our regular ladies starts an easygoing thread. Just a simple "Hey guys, what are we all hoping for in this new year of 2012?" she asks.
I’m totally craving one—or maybe even a few—passionate nights with a guy I definitely shouldn't be messing with! 😉
What are you responding to?
Wow... What a wish! Honestly, aren't you just fearless? Just jumping right in and diving headfirst into bed with anyone like that? No hesitation at all. I mean, aren't you worried about catching something, or maybe that they won't actually look out for you or take care of you? Just curious!
I've only got one wish: I hope everyone else starts thinking as smart as you do!
And that was on a totally harmless topic! Seriously. But then, whenever things actually get heavy—like when we're talking about real fraud or those brutal, life-altering decisions—your judgment just kicks in. It’s constant. You don't just critique; you go way beyond.
I mean, seriously, the kind of garbage that was being posted and allowed there? It’s honestly sickening...
Just because you think it’s disgusting when a guy admits he cheated—because he’s torn between his wife and this new woman he’s actually falling for—doesn't mean we can just ban people from talking about it. It doesn't work like that! Every time someone even mentions promiscuity, you lose it. You get all worked up and start preaching, but honestly? I haven't seen any change in your attitude at all.
That doesn’t mean you should be okay with that kind of behavior. Honestly, most people on the forums over there aren't fans of it either. But even when they don't agree with what someone is doing, they don't just treat that person like some lost sheep crying out for help. They aren't about that life.
Honestly, that doesn't mean anything to me.
Nothing! I just want the whole thing.
A forum for us to hang out and actually read what everyone’s putting down!
And since I’ve already got two failed marriages under my belt...
Honestly, I might actually know how to
help people with this more than you guys do...
It doesn't seem like you even care. And bringing up two failed marriages in a family doesn't prove anything. For ŽuD maybe, but for LJES? Not at all.
And this is exactly why the bias regarding the LJES mods stays.
It’s hard to put into words just how much we don't care whether you believe in God, nothing at all, or even some Holy Shoe.
Your refusal to accept any lifestyle different from what you personally deem "moral," that whole "poor me, I'm being bullied" routine—which is totally far from the truth (I'm pretty sure the mods and admins have seen your old threads and deleted posts, along with everyone else's)—all of that, plus your inability to see where you're messing up forum etiquette while instead spinning conspiracy theories about moderators going on crusades just to target you specifically (interestingly, not anyone else), is a way bigger issue.
Looks like Smod already gave his take, so I'm done here. Admins?
Fine, it's true, maybe I went overboard sometimes, but man, just think about it yourself—how many times have I been insulted by everyone just because I made a STATEMENT that cheating isn't okay, or things like that, while nobody else faced any consequences, yet all the heat gets directed at me... 😢
dustyranger64 said:The mods missed the mark on this one—honestly, they should've handed out more warnings and hit that ban button way before the halftime break!
Look, it’s not about picking on you. Not even close! It’s honestly just hoping that maybe—just maybe—it’ll finally click for you, you'll realize what you're doing wrong, and you can stop before things get messy.
Look, if you had come to us with a legitimate request to scrap this partial, we would have actually taken you seriously. But honestly? This whole thread is just a mess of fake claims, accusations, and baseless finger-pointing about persecution. It’s all noise. Because of that, the three LJES moderators have reached a consensus: your partial stays exactly where it is.
Just a few more details, besides the fact that the whole conversation is just one big, disrespectful mess:
And what about that... Allowed. It’s just plain wrong. Like, "cheat on your husband and you deserve..."—you know the kind of stuff people say. Total nonsense.
You need a catchy word.
Look, it’s not up to the mods or this forum to play moral police. If someone wants to cheat or back a shady decision, the moderators aren't going to step in and defend that behavior. Everyone has a right to their own opinion. Your take isn't "problematic" just because it's different from mine. You were only being problematic because you jumped into every single thread involving cheating or hookup culture just to lecture everyone else on their morals. Something extra, even when it wasn't even what we were talking about!
It’s such a basic one—one of our regular ladies starts an easygoing thread. Just a simple "Hey guys, what are we all hoping for in this new year of 2012?" she asks.
I’m totally craving one—or maybe even a few—passionate nights with a guy I definitely shouldn't be messing with! 😉
What are you responding to?
Wow... What a wish! Honestly, aren't you just fearless? Just jumping right in and diving headfirst into bed with anyone like that? No hesitation at all. I mean, aren't you worried about catching something, or maybe that they won't actually look out for you or take care of you? Just curious!
I've only got one wish: I hope everyone else starts thinking as smart as you do!
And that was on a totally harmless topic! Seriously. But then, whenever things actually get heavy—like when we're talking about real fraud or those brutal, life-altering decisions—your judgment just kicks in. It’s constant. You don't just critique; you go way beyond.
I mean, seriously, the kind of garbage that was being posted and allowed there? It’s honestly sickening...
Just because you think it’s disgusting when a guy admits he cheated—because he’s torn between his wife and this new woman he’s actually falling for—doesn't mean we can just ban people from talking about it. It doesn't work like that! Every time someone even mentions promiscuity, you lose it. You get all worked up and start preaching, but honestly? I haven't seen any change in your attitude at all.
That doesn’t mean you should be okay with that kind of behavior. Honestly, most people on the forums over there aren't fans of it either. But even when they don't agree with what someone is doing, they don't just treat that person like some lost sheep crying out for help. They aren't about that life.
Honestly, that doesn't mean anything to me.
Nothing! I just want the whole thing.
A forum for us to hang out and actually read what everyone’s putting down!
And since I’ve already got two failed marriages under my belt...
Honestly, I might actually know how to
help people with this more than you guys do...
It doesn't seem like you even care. And bringing up two failed marriages in a family doesn't prove anything. For ŽuD maybe, but for LJES? Not at all.
And this is exactly why the bias regarding the LJES mods stays.
It’s hard to put into words just how much we don't care whether you believe in God, nothing at all, or even some Holy Shoe.
Your refusal to accept any lifestyle different from what you personally deem "moral," that whole "poor me, I'm being bullied" routine—which is totally far from the truth (I'm pretty sure the mods and admins have seen your old threads and deleted posts, along with everyone else's)—all of that, plus your inability to see where you're messing up forum etiquette while instead spinning conspiracy theories about moderators going on crusades just to target you specifically (interestingly, not anyone else), is a way bigger issue.
Looks like Smod already gave his take, so I'm done here. Admins?
In that response of mine, I admit I went too far in the SECOND sentence, but honestly, I was already incredibly frustrated by everything that had been happening.
On the other hand, just think about it and tell me if I wasn't right. You go out with someone for New Year's, everyone is drunk, things are casual, and you have no idea if you're hooking up with someone who is sick or not... Honestly, as bad as it sounds, I really didn't mean anything by it... Because I see plenty of people around me who have suffered from that, and I don't want that for ANYONE...
I suppose I should say that I’m sorry if I ever went too far... maybe. 😢
dustyranger64 said:The mods missed the mark on this one—honestly, they should've handed out more warnings and hit that ban button way before the halftime break!
Look, it’s not about picking on you. Not even close! It’s honestly just hoping that maybe—just maybe—it’ll finally click for you, you'll realize what you're doing wrong, and you can stop before things get messy.
Look, if you had come to us with a legitimate request to scrap this partial, we would have actually taken you seriously. But honestly? This whole thread is just a mess of fake claims, accusations, and baseless finger-pointing about persecution. It’s all noise. Because of that, the three LJES moderators have reached a consensus: your partial stays exactly where it is.
Just a few more details, besides the fact that the whole conversation is just one big, disrespectful mess:
And what about that... Allowed. It’s just plain wrong. Like, "cheat on your husband and you deserve..."—you know the kind of stuff people say. Total nonsense.
You need a catchy word.
Look, it’s not up to the mods or this forum to play moral police. If someone wants to cheat or back a shady decision, the moderators aren't going to step in and defend that behavior. Everyone has a right to their own opinion. Your take isn't "problematic" just because it's different from mine. You were only being problematic because you jumped into every single thread involving cheating or hookup culture just to lecture everyone else on their morals. Something extra, even when it wasn't even what we were talking about!
It’s such a basic one—one of our regular ladies starts an easygoing thread. Just a simple "Hey guys, what are we all hoping for in this new year of 2012?" she asks.
I’m totally craving one—or maybe even a few—passionate nights with a guy I definitely shouldn't be messing with! 😉
What are you responding to?
Wow... What a wish! Honestly, aren't you just fearless? Just jumping right in and diving headfirst into bed with anyone like that? No hesitation at all. I mean, aren't you worried about catching something, or maybe that they won't actually look out for you or take care of you? Just curious!
I've only got one wish: I hope everyone else starts thinking as smart as you do!
And that was on a totally harmless topic! Seriously. But then, whenever things actually get heavy—like when we're talking about real fraud or those brutal, life-altering decisions—your judgment just kicks in. It’s constant. You don't just critique; you go way beyond.
I mean, seriously, the kind of garbage that was being posted and allowed there? It’s honestly sickening...
Just because you think it’s disgusting when a guy admits he cheated—because he’s torn between his wife and this new woman he’s actually falling for—doesn't mean we can just ban people from talking about it. It doesn't work like that! Every time someone even mentions promiscuity, you lose it. You get all worked up and start preaching, but honestly? I haven't seen any change in your attitude at all.
That doesn’t mean you should be okay with that kind of behavior. Honestly, most people on the forums over there aren't fans of it either. But even when they don't agree with what someone is doing, they don't just treat that person like some lost sheep crying out for help. They aren't about that life.
Honestly, that doesn't mean anything to me.
Nothing! I just want the whole thing.
A forum for us to hang out and actually read what everyone’s putting down!
And since I’ve already got two failed marriages under my belt...
Honestly, I might actually know how to
help people with this more than you guys do...
It doesn't seem like you even care. And bringing up two failed marriages in a family doesn't prove anything. For ŽuD maybe, but for LJES? Not at all.
And this is exactly why the bias regarding the LJES mods stays.
It’s hard to put into words just how much we don't care whether you believe in God, nothing at all, or even some Holy Shoe.
Your refusal to accept any lifestyle different from what you personally deem "moral," that whole "poor me, I'm being bullied" routine—which is totally far from the truth (I'm pretty sure the mods and admins have seen your old threads and deleted posts, along with everyone else's)—all of that, plus your inability to see where you're messing up forum etiquette while instead spinning conspiracy theories about moderators going on crusades just to target you specifically (interestingly, not anyone else), is a way bigger issue.
Looks like Smod already gave his take, so I'm done here. Admins?
Well, look, back when I first joined this forum, I was pretty much a complete novice. It had only been a few months, and I honestly didn't have a clue about the rules or how things worked here. But, I guess things change. I’ve been around for a year or two now, and I’ve gone through almost all the rule PDFs, so I intend to follow them strictly, God willing. I’m not some kind of unreliable person you can't reach an agreement with. As for those times when I was acting out and giving you guys a hard time... well, my apologies for that.
dustyranger64 Asks:
It doesn't seem like you actually care about this. Bringing up two failed marriages within a family just feels like a hollow point that doesn't mean anything at all. As for ŽuD, I suppose it carries some weight, but for LJES, it really means nothing.
Whatever. Honestly, I'd like to come back, and I can give you my word that whatever bullshit happened at the start won't be happening anymore.
dustyranger64 said:The mods missed the mark on this one—honestly, they should've handed out more warnings and hit that ban button way before the halftime break!
Look, it’s not about picking on you. Not even close! It’s honestly just hoping that maybe—just maybe—it’ll finally click for you, you'll realize what you're doing wrong, and you can stop before things get messy.
Look, if you had come to us with a legitimate request to scrap this partial, we would have actually taken you seriously. But honestly? This whole thread is just a mess of fake claims, accusations, and baseless finger-pointing about persecution. It’s all noise. Because of that, the three LJES moderators have reached a consensus: your partial stays exactly where it is.
Just a few more details, besides the fact that the whole conversation is just one big, disrespectful mess:
And what about that... Allowed. It’s just plain wrong. Like, "cheat on your husband and you deserve..."—you know the kind of stuff people say. Total nonsense.
You need a catchy word.
Look, it’s not up to the mods or this forum to play moral police. If someone wants to cheat or back a shady decision, the moderators aren't going to step in and defend that behavior. Everyone has a right to their own opinion. Your take isn't "problematic" just because it's different from mine. You were only being problematic because you jumped into every single thread involving cheating or hookup culture just to lecture everyone else on their morals. Something extra, even when it wasn't even what we were talking about!
It’s such a basic one—one of our regular ladies starts an easygoing thread. Just a simple "Hey guys, what are we all hoping for in this new year of 2012?" she asks.
I’m totally craving one—or maybe even a few—passionate nights with a guy I definitely shouldn't be messing with! 😉
What are you responding to?
Wow... What a wish! Honestly, aren't you just fearless? Just jumping right in and diving headfirst into bed with anyone like that? No hesitation at all. I mean, aren't you worried about catching something, or maybe that they won't actually look out for you or take care of you? Just curious!
I've only got one wish: I hope everyone else starts thinking as smart as you do!
And that was on a totally harmless topic! Seriously. But then, whenever things actually get heavy—like when we're talking about real fraud or those brutal, life-altering decisions—your judgment just kicks in. It’s constant. You don't just critique; you go way beyond.
I mean, seriously, the kind of garbage that was being posted and allowed there? It’s honestly sickening...
Just because you think it’s disgusting when a guy admits he cheated—because he’s torn between his wife and this new woman he’s actually falling for—doesn't mean we can just ban people from talking about it. It doesn't work like that! Every time someone even mentions promiscuity, you lose it. You get all worked up and start preaching, but honestly? I haven't seen any change in your attitude at all.
That doesn’t mean you should be okay with that kind of behavior. Honestly, most people on the forums over there aren't fans of it either. But even when they don't agree with what someone is doing, they don't just treat that person like some lost sheep crying out for help. They aren't about that life.
Honestly, that doesn't mean anything to me.
Nothing! I just want the whole thing.
A forum for us to hang out and actually read what everyone’s putting down!
And since I’ve already got two failed marriages under my belt...
Honestly, I might actually know how to
help people with this more than you guys do...
It doesn't seem like you even care. And bringing up two failed marriages in a family doesn't prove anything. For ŽuD maybe, but for LJES? Not at all.
And this is exactly why the bias regarding the LJES mods stays.
It’s hard to put into words just how much we don't care whether you believe in God, nothing at all, or even some Holy Shoe.
Your refusal to accept any lifestyle different from what you personally deem "moral," that whole "poor me, I'm being bullied" routine—which is totally far from the truth (I'm pretty sure the mods and admins have seen your old threads and deleted posts, along with everyone else's)—all of that, plus your inability to see where you're messing up forum etiquette while instead spinning conspiracy theories about moderators going on crusades just to target you specifically (interestingly, not anyone else), is a way bigger issue.
Looks like Smod already gave his take, so I'm done here. Admins?
Look, you can't just pin all the blame on me. Not when none of you actually bothered to sit down and have a conversation with me to point out where I went wrong, what I messed up, or even just try to find some common ground. I mean, I’ve been a moderator on forums before, so I know how this whole thing works. I'll admit it—I overstepped. I went too far. But honestly, you guys didn't give me, or even yourselves, a fair shot at fixing things, especially since I know I've crossed the line more than once. We're only human; we make mistakes and we regret them. I have zero intention of causing more trouble or being a nuisance here. If that means I don't write a single comment at all, then fine. All I really want is to be able to read the discussions, and that's it.
dustyranger64 said:The mods missed the mark on this one—honestly, they should've handed out more warnings and hit that ban button way before the halftime break!
Look, it’s not about picking on you. Not even close! It’s honestly just hoping that maybe—just maybe—it’ll finally click for you, you'll realize what you're doing wrong, and you can stop before things get messy.
Look, if you had come to us with a legitimate request to scrap this partial, we would have actually taken you seriously. But honestly? This whole thread is just a mess of fake claims, accusations, and baseless finger-pointing about persecution. It’s all noise. Because of that, the three LJES moderators have reached a consensus: your partial stays exactly where it is.
Just a few more details, besides the fact that the whole conversation is just one big, disrespectful mess:
And what about that... Allowed. It’s just plain wrong. Like, "cheat on your husband and you deserve..."—you know the kind of stuff people say. Total nonsense.
You need a catchy word.
Look, it’s not up to the mods or this forum to play moral police. If someone wants to cheat or back a shady decision, the moderators aren't going to step in and defend that behavior. Everyone has a right to their own opinion. Your take isn't "problematic" just because it's different from mine. You were only being problematic because you jumped into every single thread involving cheating or hookup culture just to lecture everyone else on their morals. Something extra, even when it wasn't even what we were talking about!
It’s such a basic one—one of our regular ladies starts an easygoing thread. Just a simple "Hey guys, what are we all hoping for in this new year of 2012?" she asks.
I’m totally craving one—or maybe even a few—passionate nights with a guy I definitely shouldn't be messing with! 😉
What are you responding to?
Wow... What a wish! Honestly, aren't you just fearless? Just jumping right in and diving headfirst into bed with anyone like that? No hesitation at all. I mean, aren't you worried about catching something, or maybe that they won't actually look out for you or take care of you? Just curious!
I've only got one wish: I hope everyone else starts thinking as smart as you do!
And that was on a totally harmless topic! Seriously. But then, whenever things actually get heavy—like when we're talking about real fraud or those brutal, life-altering decisions—your judgment just kicks in. It’s constant. You don't just critique; you go way beyond.
I mean, seriously, the kind of garbage that was being posted and allowed there? It’s honestly sickening...
Just because you think it’s disgusting when a guy admits he cheated—because he’s torn between his wife and this new woman he’s actually falling for—doesn't mean we can just ban people from talking about it. It doesn't work like that! Every time someone even mentions promiscuity, you lose it. You get all worked up and start preaching, but honestly? I haven't seen any change in your attitude at all.
That doesn’t mean you should be okay with that kind of behavior. Honestly, most people on the forums over there aren't fans of it either. But even when they don't agree with what someone is doing, they don't just treat that person like some lost sheep crying out for help. They aren't about that life.
Honestly, that doesn't mean anything to me.
Nothing! I just want the whole thing.
A forum for us to hang out and actually read what everyone’s putting down!
And since I’ve already got two failed marriages under my belt...
Honestly, I might actually know how to
help people with this more than you guys do...
It doesn't seem like you even care. And bringing up two failed marriages in a family doesn't prove anything. For ŽuD maybe, but for LJES? Not at all.
And this is exactly why the bias regarding the LJES mods stays.
It’s hard to put into words just how much we don't care whether you believe in God, nothing at all, or even some Holy Shoe.
Your refusal to accept any lifestyle different from what you personally deem "moral," that whole "poor me, I'm being bullied" routine—which is totally far from the truth (I'm pretty sure the mods and admins have seen your old threads and deleted posts, along with everyone else's)—all of that, plus your inability to see where you're messing up forum etiquette while instead spinning conspiracy theories about moderators going on crusades just to target you specifically (interestingly, not anyone else), is a way bigger issue.
Looks like Smod already gave his take, so I'm done here. Admins?
Well, Bliss gave her take, sure... But seriously, guys, maybe just think about this for a second and lift this
partial ban, because it feels completely pointless to me. I spend a lot of time here with
you all, yet I'm being restricted like some guy getting kicked out of a Starbucks for smoking.