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stormymaker24 said:Hey there!

My mom just finished up six rounds of chemo, and she’s actually starting radiation in about ten days or so. She was diagnosed with breast cancer, and they ended up removing the breast where the cancer was located.

So, I guess my question is: does anyone here have any experience dealing with the flu? Like, should she get the seasonal flu shot or skip it? Of course, she’s going to talk it over with her doctor, but I’m really curious to hear what you all have gone through when it comes to people who have been through treatments like this.

She’s always been super susceptible to the flu, too—it feels like there isn't a single year that goes by where she doesn't catch it.

Thanks so much and sending good vibes!

Anyway, I definitely think she should ask her doctor if it's a smart move to get vaccinated right now (since she's still technically in treatment), because her immune system is probably still pretty wiped out.🙂

As for me, my doctor makes sure I get my shot every single year since he puts me in that "high risk" category along with kids and retirees.😉
Lawrence Miller4 said:Hey everyone! Just wanted to pop in and say hi to the whole group... hope you're all doing okay today!

So, I just got my diagnosis for an unspecified type of breast cancer. I’ve already gone through surgery, and today the IHC results finally came in... Since I’m actually in my sixth year of med school, I was hoping maybe someone here could help me break down exactly what these findings are saying? I guess I'm just trying to wrap my head around all the specifics.

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Hey everyone, hang in there! 🙂

So, I think I’m finally starting to wrap my head around all of this... basically, the results show that the tumor is "feeding" off hormones, which I guess means I'll most likely be starting anti-hormonal therapy pretty soon, you know? It's supposed to block—or like, just really dial down—the production of estrogen and progesterone through either injections or pills, I think.

I actually went through that exact same treatment myself—it lasted about five months for me—mostly because my tumor was hormone-positive too, I guess.

So, I was just thinking about my living situation—I actually live in this house that’s basically split into four different apartments, so there are four separate families all under one roof—and there's this one older gentleman who lives here too, and he'll be turning 80 next January, which is pretty wild, and he actually went through breast cancer himself about eight years ago.

So, I guess I've been going through all of this for almost seven years now, if you can even believe that.

I guess you could say we’re both just feeling totally whole and incredibly happy right now, maybe? It’s such a good vibe, honestly! 🙂
Grace Fowler said:Hey everyone!!🙂
So, way earlier than we actually expected, the Doctor decided to skip the surgery 🤷... instead, he went with an RFA, which is basically a radiofrequency ablation—it's a palliative thing where they use control to kind of "cut off" the blood supply to the tumor mass so it turns into necrotic tissue. Honestly, I don't even know how to describe how I'm feeling right this second?!🤷 I just got my results back, and they’ve officially decided that I’m going to start on oral monotherapy, specifically Vyepisi capsules, and if all goes well, we should see complete control after two cycles.
Since I haven't really been in the mood for any pre-holiday cheer lately, I guess I'm finally hitting that fifth stage of holiday spirit... yuck, I mean, yum! I'm getting ready to order cookies and all my girlfriends are totally geared up and ready to go :-), 🙂😍
I'm actually feeling pretty good, not having many major issues, so I really believe the therapy is going to be okay, and we're already planning to head back over to Germany for immunotherapy... so there's absolutely no chance of staying stuck here.😁
Sending you guys nothing but good vibes and big smiles
Vasa din 😉😉

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We're right here with you 🙂
Melissa Kim45 said:......

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Amanda Nelson54 said:Unfortunately, I’m right there with you. All those phrases like "everything will be fine" or "just stay positive"—those little bits of "comfort"—they just feel totally hollow to me. I guess I just have to accept that things might not turn out okay, because cancer is cancer and that's just the reality of it. It rarely has a fairy-tale ending.

My dad is heading in for another biopsy this Wednesday... After a whole year, that little monster decided to show up again... So, the fight goes on, I suppose...

I honestly think the absolute worst thing you can do when everything feels totally hopeless is to just throw in the towel right away.
I'm pretty sure a lot of people chiming in here could probably tell you that once that initial shock wears off, they found themselves believing and hoping again, you know?
If you don't have those essential pieces of mindset, then the battle is kind of lost before it even starts, I guess.

You know, regardless of what's coming down the road for me, ever since I got my diagnosis, I just made the choice to really *live*.
How much longer?
Honestly, I don't really care about that part.
What matters to me is how I spend the time.
I’ve been through all the "standard" stuff—surgery, chemo, radiation, hormone therapy, the whole nine yards.
But even so, I try to find joy in every single new day.
Maybe not during those three or four days after chemo when I'm feeling so weak I could barely keep my lunch down, but by the fifth day...
I'll grab my husband's hand, get the princess in her stroller, and we'll head out into the sunshine.
And man, the sun just shines with this special kind of warmth, doesn't it?....

So, here I am today, five years post-op.
I still look forward to every single morning because I don't know (and I really don't want to know) when my last one will be.

Life is just way too beautiful to waste it all on negative thoughts, if you ask me.🙂
So, I actually just celebrated my five-year anniversary since my breast cancer surgery the other day 🎉
and now I’m sitting here thinking about everything I want to get up to during my next fifty 😍

love you guys, darkviper5
Linda Campbell said:GUYS, I am seriously telling you again. That Beta-glucan 1.3 D (you know, from that specific American manufacturer) is priced at 60 tablets of 500 mg in Indianapolis $190


$190 = 80 bucks!!!!!!
northernfox9 said:http://www.zdravljeizivot.com/hr/in...ta-13_d_glucan

It's made by Transfer Point USA


I’m actually super curious about this too, so if you guys wouldn't mind, could you maybe explain what kind of ingredients and specific dosages we should even be looking for in a high-quality Beta-glucan?
Like, what’s the actual, official name I should be searching for?

And why is, say, this specific one from the States considered so good?

Because, just like Amy Hayes28, I’ve been falling down an internet rabbit hole and found so many different types of Beta-glucan out there:
- some are tiny at 20mg and others go all the way up to 500mg
- some come with extra vitamin blends and some are just pure
- there are tons of different manufacturers and distributors everywhere

So, please, if anyone has a second, could you enlighten a total newbie like me? 😍

PS. The funniest part is that none of the ones I found online in Germany cost anywhere near 100 Euros like they do here in the US!! They're more like 15 to 30 bucks.
Cold feet? in Health ·
Roger Smith6 said:When your core temperature drops, your hands and feet get freezing cold. Period.
Basically, in order to keep your torso warm (along with all those super important organs), your body just slows down circulation to your extremities to save up all that energy for the center. It’s pretty straightforward, really.
So, yeah, just bundle up and stay cozy.

good luck!

But what about when you're sweating while skiing and your toes feel like literal ice cubes?😬
I mean, I deal with this exact same thing constantly... last time I was thawing my feet out in the car, they were stinging so badly I think I actually saw stars for a second.😠
So, I went ahead and ordered these heated insoles online—they're made for ski boots, but honestly work for basically any boot or shoe.😁
There are tons of different kinds depending on how much you want to spend or what features you need.
http://search.ebay.com/search/search....ung&category0=

I'm gonna try them out next weekend, so I'll let you guys know if they actually work!👍
Cancer diagnosis - please help! in Health ·
Sarah Cruz2 said:I'm totally with you on this one!

Kyle Nelson2, I honestly think someone who can barely make it from their bed to the bathroom (which, let's be real, happens all the time with really sick patients—that's kind of why they're called critical cases!) probably isn't exactly ready to go out and hike some mountains! It seems like you might not quite get what we're talking about here. In situations like this, maybe it's better to just stay quiet, you know, just out of basic politeness.

dustypilot2😘

That whole "critically ill" phase for someone who just had surgery doesn't actually last forever, you know?
I'm pretty sure Kyle Nelson2 didn't quite realize what he was getting into when he spoke up like that 🙂
He was actually talking about that period of time once the shock of the surgery starts to wear off and recovery kicks in
So, it's super important that the patient—if they even feel up to it—gets back to feeling like themselves again, and things like an anti-cancer diet, picking up old hobbies, and doing some light, appropriate exercise are usually the biggest priorities 🙂
We should really try to help her take her mind off being sick and find a reason to smile again 🙂
And honestly, it’s just not right to mock someone like that just because you didn't understand where they were coming from 😉
Hang in there
🙂
How to perform a proper breast self-exam? in Women's Health ·
nimbleskipper13 said::2up:

love ya too! 😘
How to perform a proper breast self-exam? in Women's Health ·
Hey there, my dear doctor lady
Since you apparently didn't have the time to go back and re-read what I already said, let me just lay it all out for you one more time:
-this whole debate started because you insisted that my statement—you know, the one where I said that even a tiny little lump, no matter how benign it seems, could potentially grow into something malicious, though it doesn't necessarily have to—wasn't actually accurate
-well, I sent you a link where you can literally read all about it
I mean, sure, maybe it's just one case out of *who knows how many millions*, but I’m looking at this through the eyes of a patient, not some academic scientist
when it comes down to me, my own body, and my health, I really don't care about the statistics
I want, and I'm honestly searching for, the absolute best treatment possible

And anyway, I gave you those examples (just two out of like, infinity squared) where doctors were being totally negligent or incompetent, and on top of that, super arrogant (kind of like you, if I'm being honest!) rather than what you took it to be, which was examples of young girls getting sick:
in that first instance, the poor girl's illness got so far along that she couldn't be saved because the doctors failed to properly examine her, despite a palpable lump being right there
and in the second case, this one doctor kept telling her that the lump in her breast was nothing but a cyst (based on a mammogram, no less!!) and told her not to panic, saying she could just get it removed whenever she wanted, along with her appendix just in case it decided to inflame one day!!!! Like, seriously!!!
But in the end, she did get that lump removed, and it turned out it wasn't a cyst at all, but cancer!

These aren't even extreme outliers, they are, unfortunately, just way too common a reality!
You can read so much about this online, and it's definitely one of the reasons why women decide to just have lumps removed! Obviously not everyone does, but plenty of them do

Two people I know actually went ahead with bilateral mastectomies without even having any lumps (one was only 24 and the other was 29) strictly because of the high frequency of cancer in their families (maybe they should've tested for the BRCA gene, I guess, but who knows?) and they did it upon their own request, following doctor's orders, of course!!

Four of my coworkers decided to have breast lumps removed even though they were just FA

purely out of fear!

And no, the decisions made by those six women don't represent the entire world
but then again, I don't know the entire world either!

So, that's it from a primitive immigrant girl who hasn't graduated from medical school or earned a PhD, but does have access to the internet😁
How to perform a proper breast self-exam? in Women's Health ·
nimbleskipper13 said:...You really shouldn't mix this up with those wild theories claiming any woman with a benign cyst can just opt for a mastectomy because of her "fear level," and then insist the doctor HAS to go along with it.

I mean, I think you're kind of doing a "switcheroo" with the facts here,
because nobody was talking about mastectomies when it comes to cysts, but rather removing a nodule based on someone's "level of fear."

I guess you might have skimmed over the details a bit too fast,
How to perform a proper breast self-exam? in Women's Health ·
nimbleskipper13 said:What exactly are you even trying to prove here? I mean, is your whole point that every single doctor out there is just totally clueless or, like, straight-up dangerous? That seems like a bit of a stretch, don't you think?
So, I mean, do you honestly think every single woman needs to rush out and get her breasts surgically removed the second she feels even the tiniest little lump? I guess it’s just one of those things where people jump straight to the most extreme conclusion, maybe? Like, I don't know, it seems like such a massive leap to go from "oh, wait, what's this?" to "okay, let's just take them off entirely," which feels kind of wild if you really think about it, I suppose.
Honestly, you’re kind of doing a bad thing here—like, I guess you're just totally fueling this unnecessary panic and basically stirring up all this distrust toward doctors... which probably isn't helping anyone at all, really.

I mean, I guess you could say you’ve got a pretty awesome way of putting things, honestly! 🙄
So, like, I was just sitting here thinking about how you could basically prove that... well, nothingness actually exists? It sounds totally wild, I know, and maybe I’m just overthinking things while I drink my coffee, but there's kind of this whole vibe where if you try to point to "nothing," you're actually pointing to a concept, which means it's sort of *something*, right? It's such a head trip, honestly, but I guess if we're really digging into the void, proving absolutely nothing is the ultimate challenge, haha!
I’m only really pushing back here because you told me I was wrong, so I guess I just felt like I had to make my case, you know? 😉
Not that I'm trying to start a massive panic or anything, but honestly, I don't think you need to worry too much about it... I mean, I guess the girls here pretty much know me by now, and they definitely tend to take a little longer when they're reading through stuff like this, so we've got plenty of time to figure it all out together! 🙂
Watch out for those pothole scams, seriously!!
Look, I don't know if it's just me, but I feel like there's this weird thing where people think that if you're rocking an all-white outfit, you've basically ascended to some higher plane of existence or something, but honestly? If you're just wearing white, you aren't exactly gods or anything. 😉!
Hey there! How's it going?
How to perform a proper breast self-exam? in Women's Health ·
So, I think I have a perfect little example here to back up what I was saying earlier about how "certain" doctors just aren't up to the task
you should probably go check out posts 6 and 7

for anyone who doesn't speak German, I'll give you the gist:
This was a post from Isabel R (just a loose translation, really): ...she was only 21; she felt a lump when she was 19 and went to see a doctor
but nobody actually took her seriously, they just kept insisting that you can't get breast cancer that young...
fast forward to now, and she has metastases in her lungs, liver, bones, skin, and maybe even her brain...😢

and honestly, the story about Susanna Kamps is even more intense:
she's 38, and about a year ago she felt a lump and headed straight to the clinic
they did a mammogram, and the doctor insisted everything was totally clear
Susan wanted to just have the lump removed, but the doctor told her:why don't we just take out your appendix too while we're at it, since it might get inflamed someday!!! basically telling her not to panic and that waiting six months for a follow-up would be plenty.
But she pushed for it, especially since her sister had dealt with breast cancer too, and guess what happened in the end??
It was cancer!!

These are just the stories of two young women shared on a forum
and I really don't think they're lying, because they have absolutely nothing to gain from this
and sadly, there are way too many cases just like this
way too many
😢
How to perform a proper breast self-exam? in Women's Health ·
nimbleskipper13 said:I mean, I don't know, it doesn't really seem right to me... like, a simple cyst or even a fibroadenoma will NEVER turn into something malignant, you know? I guess those days when doctors used to just jump straight to surgery for everything are pretty much over now. Honestly, I think they don't even bother with a biopsy for a cyst anymore unless it starts growing way too big and starts pushing against all the surrounding breast tissue, or maybe if it starts messing with the milk ducts or just becomes impossible to compress during an exam, but otherwise, it seems like people just leave them alone.
So, basically, when you're dealing with an FA, they always make sure to run a fine needle aspiration biopsy—you know, that cytological verification thing—just to be absolutely certain about what's going on, and I guess they usually just leave it alone unless things start looking a bit sketchy, like if there's some unexpected inflammation or necrosis popping up, which would obviously change the whole game.
So, I was just thinking about how even things like FA can actually shift around a bit in size depending on where you are in your menstrual cycle, which is kind of wild when you think about it, and I guess they might also tend to grow a little during the MLS season—not that it’s a guaranteed thing or anything, obviously—but then once you hit menopause, they usually just start to regress again, I suppose.

I mean, I don't know, maybe I'm just tripping, but I feel like I actually read some totally different claims somewhere else, I guess?
I'm not really sure if you happen to know any German or anything, but hey, I'm just hanging out here!
So, I was just sitting here thinking about that whole fibroadenoma thing, and honestly, it’s kind of a lot to wrap your head around, isn't it? Like, you hear a word like that and it sounds so incredibly intense and scary, but then you talk to a doctor or look things up, and it turns out it's usually just one of those benign little lumps that doesn't mean anything too crazy is going on. I guess it's just one of those things where your body does its own weird thing sometimes, and maybe it's nothing to sweat over, though I totally get why anyone would feel a bit freaked out at first! It's just one of those random health quirks, I suppose.
I mean, I'm right here too, I guess! Just hanging out and staying in the loop, maybe? Anyway, I'm around if anyone needs me! I mean, honestly, it’s just so incredibly clean, you know? Like, everything feels totally spotless and just... pure. I guess I’m just being super picky, but there's something about that kind of clarity that just makes me feel so much better, maybe even a little bit more at peace with everything going on. It's just such a good vibe, really.
I mean, I guess you could totally read those claims if you really wanted to, especially those last few paragraphs... maybe? It’s all kind of there if you look closely enough, I suppose.

So, I was thinking about how things work over in Germany, and honestly, it feels like they’re getting super cautious lately, where they end up removing all these "safe" lumps just because people are spooked, you know? I guess it mostly comes down to the fact that some doctors aren't even totally sure about their own diagnoses, which is kind of wild when you think about it. It seems like there are just way too many cases where radiologists might miss something or fail to spot a malignancy, maybe because they lack enough experience, or perhaps they just don't have the right high-tech equipment on hand, or whatever. It's all just such a weirdly delicate situation, I suppose.
I mean, I guess it’s just that deep-seated fear some women have, you know? Like, they’re sitting there during a biopsy just worrying that the doctor might totally miss the mark—like, what if there actually *are* malignant cells right there, but they just don't hit the spot? It’s such a heavy thing to deal with, honestly.
I mean, since they’ve had cancer cases pop up in the family before, I guess that fear is just driving them toward it all over again, maybe? It’s like, once you've dealt with that kind of thing, it just stays in the back of your mind, you know?

I guess what I’m trying to say is that when you're dealing with something like a fibroadenoma—you know, one of those "safe" little lumps that isn't even a big deal—the whole call to just go ahead and have it removed really comes down to the woman herself, I suppose. Like, at the end of the day, it’s her body and her choice, so if she wants to get it taken care of just for peace of mind, that's totally her call, maybe? It's all about what feels right for her personally.
So, like, I mean, sure, a doctor can give you all the info and suggest what to do, but if you ask me, I’m pretty certain that like 95% of women who decide to just go ahead and have those little lumps removed are doing it mostly out of pure fear, you know? It’s just because breast cancer is such a massive, scary thing that pops up everywhere these days, so everyone is just kind of panicking.
I mean, I totally get that fear, I really do... like, it’s such a heavy thing to carry around, you know? I guess I just feel it deep down sometimes too, if that makes any sense. It's like this constant, nagging little thing in the back of your mind that just won't quit, maybe? But yeah, I definitely relate to that feeling more than I probably should admit.
How to perform a proper breast self-exam? in Women's Health ·
nimbleskipper13 said:That’s just not true at all!!!
Honestly girls, maybe we should all try to get a little more educated on this... I mean, especially nowadays when there’s just an endless amount of info about breast cancer floating around online...

Just take a quick look at some of these American sites:

www.prevencijaraka.org/rak_dojke.php

www.breastcancerfund.org

www.breastcancer.org.

www.europadonna.org

👋

Well, please enlighten me then,
what part isn't true?😕
How to perform a proper breast self-exam? in Women's Health ·
Alex Foster6 said:So, I was doing a little digging on Google earlier... and honestly, it doesn't even matter if it's coming from your dad's side or your mom's side... you can inherit things through either line, or you might not inherit anything at all and still end up facing cancer... 🙄

I mean, why are you letting this weigh you down so much?
Genetics is really just one tiny piece of the whole puzzle when it comes to why cancer happens, right? Like, sure, you can test for the BRCA gene, but even if that shows up, it isn't some kind of guaranteed prophecy that you'll actually develop it or anything like that.
The main thing is just staying on top of your regular checkups and making sure you mention to your doctor that there’s a history of breast cancer in your family.
Just try not to get stuck in that negative headspace, because life is way too short for that, I guess.
🙂
darkviper5
How to perform a proper breast self-exam? in Women's Health ·
coastalorca3 said:And honestly, scars can be pretty sexy, right? Like, who even needs glands, seriously? pffft...

🙂

I mean, you really shouldn't go suggesting someone cut up the hottest girl on the forum unless there's a super solid reason for it! 🙂

Septimus, maybe you should just focus on your boobs for a bit, who knows, maybe you'll find two new hotspots in there 😁

I'm starting to get this weird vibe that you might actually be a guy, or am I just imagining things🤔??
after a procedure like that, the scar is usually only about an inch or so and basically disappears completely
and honestly, any little lump, no matter how "innocent" it seems at first, could totally turn into something nasty
well, it could, but it doesn't have to, I guess
and really, no tiny little bump is worth all those fears and sleepless nights a woman has to deal with because of it
around here, it's pretty much standard practice to just get them removed; better safe than sorry, right? 🙂

...."a gland or whatever".....
🙄 ccccc....
How to perform a proper breast self-exam? in Women's Health ·
Carol Harris64 said:So, I guess you could say it’s basically nothing, if you really think about it, which is kind of funny, isn't it?
I mean, honestly, there’s definitely something to be said for it, I guess... maybe? Like, you know how it is when you just have that gut feeling that something is actually kind of legit? It’s like, yeah, there's definitely something there.
Man, I guess that damn thing is still hanging around, isn't it? It just won't budge, honestly.
And honestly, I guess it still hurts, you know? Like, it just won't quit.
So, like, how on earth do you even deal with that?????? I mean, seriously, does anyone actually have a clue how to get rid of it? It’s just one of those things where you stare at it and think, "Okay, what now?" maybe there's a trick to it or something, I don't know, I guess it's just super frustrating when you're stuck like this, right?

So, I was just sitting here wondering... do you think there’s like, some kind of special herb, or maybe a specific ritual, or even some wild old-school technique—honestly, I'd even settle for some wicked witchcraft at this point—that could actually make this whole damn ache in my shoulder finally go numb and just... stop? I don't know, maybe there's some secret remedy out there that works like magic, I guess.

I mean, I was just sitting here thinking, what if we actually went ahead and pulled that dash out? It’s kind of a wild thought, I guess, but maybe it would change the whole vibe of the thing, you know? Like, I don't know, it might make everything feel way smoother or something, though I'm probably overthinking it, haha! Just a random little idea floating around my head, I suppose. 🙂
Honestly, it’s such a minor little procedure, and I really think it'll just sort everything out for you, like, once it's done, all that pain and those constant worries will just kind of melt away, I guess. 🙂