Nancy Watson82 said:I’m also wondering why insults like "you raised your kid on a cocktail of meds," "that poor child stuck in your claws," or "just go kill yourself" are tolerated. On other subforums, people get banned for that kind of filth, but here, at best, they just get deleted.
Because saying someone "raised their child on a cocktail of meds" isn't an insult.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, including the person who wrote that. If a parent thinks those medications are poison, then that's just their perspective.
Also, you reported 11 posts starting from May 1st, 2010—pardon me, I mean today after our PM exchange—so that makes 12 total reports, all of which the moderators have read through completely.
As I mentioned in my private message, I don't consider what was said to be an insult against you. Some of us use slightly different, sometimes even cruder language, but again, I don't think these are the types of insults that warrant sanctions.
On this forum, everyone has the right to express their views, regardless of whether the rest of the public agrees or disagrees.
Of course, any disagreement should be backed up with arguments and handled with dignity, though truth be told, that isn't always the case on the Parenting board.
Furthermore, if we start enforcing strict etiquette rules like you're suggesting, we'd probably see at least a 50% drop in active participants (yourself included!), and it's certainly not our goal to drive people away. Quite the opposite!