Kevin Wilson8 said:It’s because of them that this whole mess just drags on, and honestly, it's wrecking my health.
I can't help but wonder how much of your parents' nonsense you're actually expected to swallow before you hit a breaking point.
When are you finally allowed to just snap and say, "ENOUGH IS ENOUGH"?
Is there even a moment where that's permitted?
How long are we supposed to keep paying them back for the good stuff they did when the bad stuff starts piling up?
Just let it rip; if they come at you, give them a taste of their own medicine.
If you want to keep your sanity intact, you have to make sure the people around you actually understand how their behavior is hitting you. They might genuinely walk around thinking everything is fine and that you're totally okay with how things are. But look, you can't fix any kind of relationship without honest communication being part of the equation.
Once everyone actually sees the situation for what it really is, maybe then you can start building some healthy boundaries.
Otherwise, you're just going to end up needing a prescription to deal with the fallout.