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Everyone else seems to think the past should just stay buried in the rearview mirror. They say we need to look ahead, move forward, and stop obsessing over what happened decades ago...

But I don't see it that way at all. We shouldn't let that history rest in peace—not when it clearly hasn't found any peace yet. We need to drag it all out into the light of day so we can take a hard, honest look at what actually went down. We need to identify the culprits, figure out how many were involved, and pinpoint exactly who was working to tear the fabric of this nation apart versus those who stood up for what was right. You can't just sweep the villains under the rug. I refuse to look past it. It’s not just me feeling this way; others feel it too, even if they aren't speaking up.
Charles Lopez3 said:You’ve totally got him on your list,
just one more of those 265 newly minted, ultra-wealthy Americans
—except they aren't partisans.😁

Hold on a second—have you actually looked into who these people are or who their fathers were?😁

Because that’s exactly how the old regime handled their 'class enemies,' seizing homes, fine art, gold, and... well, using other more permanent methods too.
We need some serious vetting. Every single day, we’re seeing more and more of the fallout from failing to do this properly. It's time to figure out what kind of "spirit" is actually driving things here, because it's pretty obvious:

it isn't about minority rights, and it certainly isn't about dragging Boeing through the mud or attacking religious institutions.

🙄

...because that ugly mindset is peeking out from every corner. And while we're at it, regarding Boeing—we need an immediate investigation into those roughly 28,000 veteran pensions. We need to know exactly who is receiving them and what kind of people we're actually talking about if those funds are going to them. This needs to happen now.
Existential dread in Psychology & Therapy ·
placidwolf27 said:Lately, I’ve been finding myself spiraling into these long stretches of pure, unadulterated frustration—it’s enough to make me physically ill, an internal nausea that seems to bleed out into everything I touch. Every single sensation, every passing thought, every minor stimulus triggers these aggressive waves of negativity... it’s almost like despair forces its way into my mind through these irrational, looping thoughts. The end result is this crushing resentment toward life itself, which inevitably turns into self-loathing, and eventually, a bitter resentment toward my own mother just for bringing me into this mess in the first place...

When I actually manage to push all that noise aside—when I can finally exert some control over those irrational impulses—all that's left is this raw, naked sense of existing. It’s just the sheer, visceral sensation of a living organism simply *being*... and it is revolting. Truly, deeply, utterly revolting.

The only thing I can really do is endure it. I can attempt to numb the feeling with various substances—just to kill the sensation for a while, or perhaps to induce a momentary lapse in memory—but in the long run, the feeling remains stubbornly, relentlessly there.

I’m on antidepressants and things of that nature... they offer a marginal amount of relief, sure, everything is fine in that regard, but what am I supposed to do? How do I actually escape this sensation?

There are plenty of nihilists out there; maybe try accepting this as part of the human condition, like a philosophical realization about the nature of reality. To me, your posts seem very intellectualized, as if you're trying to use psychology or psychiatry to "fix" these existential insights... that seems to be your narrative...
Tamiflu: Just another useless drug? in Close to Politics ·
Is there even a single corner of this unfortunate country where people aren't constantly looting, cheating, or swindling one another?
Moderating LGBTQ+ content in politics in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Michael Davis9 said:The real issue here is that instead of stepping in when you saw a post targeting a specific group of people, you actually chose to validate it by highlighting one part of their argument as if it were correct.

It looks like the other moderators have already weighed in on this one.
Moderating LGBTQ+ content in politics in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Michael Davis9 said:Look, I didn't say you were quoting his entire post, just a specific section of it.

The moderator's response to a post where a certain group was being collectively labeled as having limited intelligence isn't some random ban or red card—it's simply a quote of a part of that post along with some extra context.

So? What’s the big deal about quoting that particular snippet?
Moderating LGBTQ+ content in politics in Feedback & Suggestions ·
wow, how did I miss bolding that specific part? 🤔 Honestly, I was just backing the great idea of having Željka show up at the party. Truly, a fantastic idea.

edit:

I can't believe I didn't realize someone here on this forum was twisting my words like this. I genuinely thought I had applied the bolding, but now I see I only quoted that first bit about arriving at the party- here.

Seriously, how can you twist things like this?

Michael Davis9 said:
I honestly can't help but wonder what everyone's thinking about this lately. It feels like there's so much going on that we could all benefit from just sitting down and having a real, deep conversation about where things are headed. I’m curious to hear your thoughts—does anyone else feel like we're hitting a turning point? kaže:
It would be absolutely wild if Željka decided to show up at that party just to cause a complete scene and stir the pot! 🙏 I can only imagine the look on the organizer's face! 🤣

I honestly feel like people in that community—whether you call them gay, homosexual, or whatever else—just seem to lack any real intellectual depth.
Moves like this only end up hurting themselves in the long run. If UIO had just played their cards right, they could have walked away from an event like this with some serious wins for the company. 😍 It really just comes down to being smart about it. 👍


The moderator's response to that post—where everyone was being collectively labeled as low intelligence just because they were gay—wasn't actually some kind of formal warning or disciplinary strike. It was really just a snippet taken directly from the original post itself, followed by a little sarcastic nudge: "Nice one, chief." 🙏''.

Is there anything else that needs to be added?
Something I've never seen before... in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Ryan Gomez4 said:Just because someone has an opinion doesn't make it right. But honestly, that's not even the point here. The real issue is that despite everyone else complaining and the moderator stepping in, this user is still turning the thread into their own personal blog.

What exactly do you mean by a "correct" theory regarding Nibiru?🤣

Anyway, I thought the user was actually complaining about this:

This is a PDF alternative site; you're only allowed to mention gods like these here.

For everything else, go check out the PDF religion sites.

I mean, come on, what kind of "rule" is that? If it isn't about the rules and it's just people whining on a blog, then whatever.
Wage garnishments and collections in Law ·
Joshua Martinez7 said:Hey everyone, I’ve got two questions here—hopefully someone knows their way around this stuff. Both deal with asset seizures and seizing personal property. Let's say you get hit with an enforcement order at 8:00 AM stating you can't touch your movable assets until an inventory is made, even though you have the right to appeal which would technically stay the order. If you manage to sell that car at 8:10 AM and the buyer heads over to the DMV at 8:30 AM, will they actually be able to transfer the title to their name? And if they succeed, leaving nothing left to satisfy the seizure, does the person who sold the car face any consequences? Like, how exactly do they answer for that? Also, what if the car belongs to a corporation? Say they issue an invoice dated a month ago—making it look like the car was sold well before the enforcement order ever existed—but the buyer doesn't actually transfer the title until a month later (after the order has already arrived). Will the seller be held liable? Specifically, who takes the fall—is it the LLC itself or the individual signing off on everything, like the CEO? Is this considered a criminal offense?

The same logic applies to the buyer's side of things. For example, a buyer picks up a vehicle from a company that issues them an invoice, and the buyer plans to handle the registration swap once the current tags expire—which isn't exactly the "proper" way to do it, but it happens all the time. At the moment of sale, the seller didn't have an active enforcement order against them (so you couldn't really say they scammed the buyer, even if they're currently ignoring an order they haven't acknowledged yet), but what are the buyer's options if things go sideways? Are they just stuck sitting there and taking it, or can they still transfer the title based on that invoice? Also, does anyone know how long it takes for a lien or a notice to actually show up in the system so the DMV sees that the property is restricted? Does that happen immediately upon service of the order, or only after the window for an appeal closes?

It all comes down to Articles 20 and 21. The official regulations regarding vehicle registration and license plate standards.

When you’re looking to collect a debt, the process starts when the court issues an enforcement order. This isn't just pulled out of thin air; they base it on official legal documents and specific records from the DMV regarding the debtor's vehicle ownership. Once that order is issued, the court sends it straight over to the DMV to make sure the lien is officially recorded. By getting that lien filed in the vehicle registry, the creditor effectively secures a legal interest in that car. It's a lot like how a bank secures a loan against a house—it ensures the asset is tied to the debt.
So, what actually happens when you record a lien against a vehicle in the official registry? It’s basically like putting a giant "Do Not Touch" sign on someone's property that everyone can see. Think of it this way: once that lien is logged, the owner isn't exactly playing with a clean slate anymore. It changes the whole dynamic of the car's value and how it can be handled. Here’s the breakdown of the fallout: First off, it kills any chance of a smooth sale. If someone tries to sell that car, the buyer—or more likely, their bank—is going to see that red flag immediately. It’s like trying to sell a house with a massive mortgage dispute hanging over it; nobody wants to inherit someone else's debt. Then there's the issue of credit and collateral. That vehicle is essentially tied up. You can't just use it as leverage for another loan because the primary creditor already has their hands firmly planted on the title. It’s locked down. Essentially, it serves as a public warning. It tells anyone looking at the DMV records exactly who has a legal claim to that asset. It’s a heavy-duty way to ensure that if a debt isn't paid, the person can't just drive away with the collateral.
Think about it this way: you're looking at the priority status of a bondholder's claim, specifically calculating from the moment the enforcement order is officially served to the local police department. It’s all about that specific starting line for when those rights kick in.
There’s a massive legal loophole being exploited here regarding vehicle titles. Basically, there is a total ban on recording any changes to ownership or adding liens to a vehicle based on an enforcement officer's order—regardless of when that order was actually issued. If they try to push through one of those orders after the fact, it simply carries no legal weight. It’s like trying to change the rules of a game halfway through the fourth quarter; if the call wasn't made when it was supposed to be, it doesn't count.

So, have they still not put you on the list yet?
Something I've never seen before... in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Ryan Gomez4 said:You forgot you actually joined this thread because of the Nibiru discussion. If the connection between those gods I linked you to and Nibiru isn't clicking, then you clearly don't know much about it.

And nobody wants massive walls of text on any PDF, especially when we're dealing with entire series.

Look, I’ve gotta say it—and I’m saying this as someone who's been lurking on one of the biggest conspiracy sites on the web for years—way too many people argue that Nibiru is just a metaphor for the second coming of Jesus aka Wormwood. You really only have to Google it to see that theory everywhere.

It's a huge theme within Abrahamic religions (YHWH, prophets, messiahs, etc.), which makes them such massive targets for alternative theories and conspiracy forums.
Shoutout and thanks to the "Spirituality" PDF moderators in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Alright, look, you’ve officially earned two red cards from me: one for insulting other users on this Reddit and the second for breaking our rules by reposting content that was already deleted.

I’m going to drop that deleted post right here:

Brenda Cook4:
You're going to get a warning,

electricstag16
Oh, how merciful of you.
Brenda Cook
Look, this is the last time you're making a post like this in this thread.
electricstag16:
That remains to be seen, depends on you. If you keep picking at me, threatening me, or trying to police my thoughts and what I can say, then I'm going to have to push back.
Brenda Cook
If you have an issue with how things are moderated—or if you feel like you need to be in constant contact with the mods—just send a private message.
Any more posts like this will be wiped immediately.
electricstag16
So, do moderators play by a different set of rules? You can just throw threats around, delete whatever you don't like, and derail the conversation because there's nobody above you to call you out? Isn't that just a massive abuse of power? Talk about double standards.
Brenda Cook
Honestly, I think I've been incredibly patient up to this point. So, please.
electricstag16
Oh, absolutely. You've shown such incredible tolerance and professionalism. Truly, bravo.

If you look at our chat history on page 14, it was all about communicating naturally. I really tried to handle this delicately, asking you not to be patronizing or to go after other users. I even suggested that if this topic or the whole sense of spirituality behind it isn't your thing, you should just move on. But no luck.

And this is all happening after I specifically asked you to stop attacking people in the discussion. Some of those insulting posts were already scrubbed. Then I asked swifttiger75 to step in, but nothing happened. Then came more reports against users, more pleas to stop, and still nothing. Even the site admin wondered why I hadn't stepped in sooner (back when I was the only moderator) regarding this specific post of yours, which Ego eventually had to sanction. We finally decided together to take partial action.

* Just a reminder: it is strictly forbidden to publicly share someone else's private messages. It looks like swifttiger75 actually posted his own PM here.
Conspiracy Theories in Feedback & Suggestions ·
No, we aren't just talking about minor topics here—that’s stuff for Politics. This? This is... ugh, it’s much bigger than that. We’re looking at something of global importance, believe me.😁
Conspiracy Theories in Feedback & Suggestions ·
William Bennett53 said:Just the other day, I stumbled upon a thread where the author was asking forum members—though he specifically targeted Americans rather than those he deemed "outsiders," implying only certain people were patriotic enough for their opinions to matter—whether people are afraid of former CIA assassins walking among us today. Is it a paranoid question? Yes. Do we actually know if anyone from the old agency or its members are committing murders today? We don't. So how can such a question not be classified as a conspiracy theory?

Oh, come on, you’re missing the point entirely. It’s all just noise at this point. Take the latest craze, for instance—people are obsessing over whether some kind of messiah will arrive now that Ariela Sharon has passed, following those claims made by the late Rabbi Yitzhak Kaduri. Or look at the wild theories about smart meters turning everyone into mindless zombies, or the fear that some rogue asteroid like 2013 YP139 is going to slam right into us. It's all part of the same frantic pattern.

Do those hitmen walking among us actually feel any fear? Is asking that question purely paranoid? Yeah, probably.

I see you aren't afraid.😁

I honestly don't know if anyone here would actually be interested—or even how many people might want this—and I'm not entirely sure if it even fits the vibe of this forum. But look, I’m just checking in as a regular member to say that I’d personally love to see a PDF like that. To keep things from getting too dry, you know? After all, everyone has their own little way of finding joy in the small things. 😬
Conspiracy Theories in Feedback & Suggestions ·
William Bennett53 said:Exactly. 👍
Take a scenario where some high-profile figure vanishes, and suddenly her supporters are flooding the boards with hundreds of posts blaming the government, the FBI, old-school communists, the CIA... you name it. Naturally, those claims belong in a conspiracy theory PDF, yet their followers would be absolutely mortified if they were actually categorized that way. Of course, by the time the truth finally comes out—say, it turns out she just went on a long trip to a small town in rural Montana—it's already too late.

Therefore, most topics could only be moved to such a PDF once it’s proven there was actually a conspiracy at play; an ex-post PDF is essentially meaningless.

I mean, it’s pretty obvious what constitutes a conspiracy theory if you just take a quick look at some of the major online forums dedicated to them (like GLP or ATS, for instance). If we can't have a standalone PDF, then maybe we could just add it as another section on Alternative.

*Look, your example isn't even a conspiracy theory; it's just standard American politics. I mean, whether we're talking about corporate greed or old-school FBI surveillance, those aren't conspiracies—they're just facts. 😬Beyond that, any subject can be viewed from multiple perspectives. Take the debate over same-sex marriage, for example; there's hardly an American forum out there where that hasn't been a topic of discussion... and so on.

But you definitely won't find conspiracy theories being opened up in Politics. I don't see them there, which is why I'm suggesting you check the web to get a better sense of what actually qualifies.
Conspiracy Theories in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Benjamin King17 said:What are your thoughts on introducing a dedicated subforum for "conspiracy theory" discussions?

I'm down. Let's do it! 👋
Religion PDF: Testing the argument on same-sex communities in Feedback & Suggestions ·
dustyranger64 said:Even if you could somehow use that logic just to test consistency, it still doesn't hold water. Incest is banned because of the high inbreeding coefficient—basically, the massive risk of developmental issues or birth defects in kids. That's a factor that just doesn't apply to same-sex couples.

That isn't really an argument. First off, same-sex incest wouldn't face those inbreeding risks anyway, and even in straight incestuous relationships, people could always opt for contraception or sterilization.😁

Anyway, I see where Daniel (who is a nearly flawless forum member) is coming from logically. His point is that if the current push to redefine marriage aims to remove gender barriers, then we have to ask: where does the line get drawn? Ultimately, it's a legitimate question to challenge the idea of 'consenting adults' being the sole basis for a 'right' to marry. If marriage is truly a fundamental human right, then the state shouldn't have the authority to impose restrictions on it. However, we have plenty of other examples—like polygamy, polyandry, or polyamorous communities—that highlight the flaws in that specific line of reasoning.

I want to emphasize—since I see some confusion here—that I am not equating homosexuality with incest (which would be absurd). I am simply following the logic I laid out earlier and what Daniel mentioned in his opening post.

Besides, it’s not like nobody else on this planet has asked this (even if it sounds bizarre) Jeremy Irons Worries gay Marriage . I won't go posting links to those kinds of debates in the Senate.

since incest is prohibited

Here in the US, that's the case, and our family laws clearly define which lineages are off-limits. It’s not the same everywhere, though. In the USA, there aren't specific regulations on that, and in France, from the era of Napoleon until, I think, just two years ago, they didn't have those prohibitions either. Now they've banned it and made it a criminal offense.
Incident in San Antonio in Close to Politics ·
It’s all been crystal clear for quite some time now.
No one is allowed to call anyone a "patient" anymore, but you should absolutely be able to say you view something as a disorder. What kind of nonsense is it to restrict our vocabulary like this? Who decided we can't label certain things? Sure, maybe calling a religious person "sick" isn't the move, but why can't I say that believing in the supernatural feels like a psychological disorder to me? Or why can't I say I view homosexuality as a disorder? Honestly, if we keep going down this path, we won't be able to say anything at all.🙄
William Gonzalez3 said:Just like the title implies, I've got a bit of a grievance...


I can feel your poster's remorse 🥳
And honestly, doing this in a place this serious? Unbelievable.