casualmaker13 said:Look, I think there's been a bit of a misunderstanding here, so let me try this one more time:
So, I was thinking about this: if I (the observer) am watching (the action) a tree (the object), then you basically have what you'd call a "process of observation." It’s kind of simple, I guess, but when you break it down like that, it really sets the stage for how everything else works. Maybe it's just me, but there's something interesting about seeing the interaction between the person and the thing itself.
So, it's pretty clear to me that I’m not some "process of observation," nor am I some dream of a tree, or even an action itself. I don't know what part of that isn't clicking for you.
To make things a bit clearer, let's look at another example:
I’m the splitter, I’m splitting the wood... which equals the process of splitting. But here's the thing: I am not the process itself, I'm not the wood, and I'm not the act of splitting. It's just how it works, I guess.
I (the thinker) think (the action) about something (the object) = the process of thinking. Does that mean I also have to define who I am and what I actually am in this equation?
I’m not the process itself, though I guess you couldn't really have the whole thing running without me.
When someone’s out cold. It just doesn't exist, honestly. (It’s not just about being an observer anymore. It’s become the actual content of consciousness itself.)
If you aren't actually conscious—like, if there’s no awareness there at all—then how on earth can you be the very thing that consciousness is supposed to be perceiving? It doesn't really add up, does it?
I’m not entirely sure what you were getting at there, but honestly? That statement just doesn't track. It feels pretty contradictory to me, if I'm being real. 🤷
Look, I see you’re still missing my point, so let me try to break this down a bit more clearly for you:
If you’re actually paying attention—like, really observing—you start to notice everything. It’s wild. You look at a tree and you aren't just seeing a plant; you're actually aware of the tree itself. You become conscious of the rhythm of your own breathing, the steady beat of your heart, your own sense of self, the ambient noise around you, even the flow of your thoughts and feelings. It's just... everything that's happening in the moment. All of it.
It’s kind of wild, isn't it? Like, you’re just standing there, staring at a tree or something, totally lost in the moment. Then, out of nowhere, this random thought hits you—you realize you left your house keys on the kitchen counter—and you have to turn around and head back inside. In that split second, you aren't really an observer anymore. You lose that sense of being aware of your own thoughts, or even your own existence. You basically become a movie playing on loop, completely detached from yourself in that moment. And honestly? You aren't even looking at the tree anymore. Life is full of these little lapses like that. I guess when those moments happen, you could say you aren't truly "awake" or mindful. You stop being the observer. It doesn't mean you've passed out or lost consciousness, obviously, but you've definitely lost that grip on your own awareness for a bit.
If this feels foreign to you and you just can't wrap your head around it, I guess you probably just need a bit more practice. Maybe you just need to spend some more time working on understanding how it all fits together before it clicks.
So, are you actually trying to tell me that being aware that you exist isn't... thinking? I mean, I guess that’s one way to look at it, maybe. But it feels like we're splitting hairs here.
As soon as you realize you actually exist, it’s pretty obvious that you start thinking. 🤷
That's exactly it. Awareness, or being truly present, isn't just some intellectual concept you can wrap your head around. It’s not a thought. I guess you really have to live it to actually get it. You have to experience it firsthand.
Can you actually get yourself into a state where your mind just... shuts off? Like, total mental silence? I guess I wonder if it's even possible to hit that zero point.
How... through anesthesia?
Because there’s really no other way... or are you claiming you can pull off something most people just can't?
Plenty of people are capable of it. If you can't do it, well, that's on you. Maybe just practice a bit and you might get there, but don't go around saying it's impossible just because you haven't figured it out yet.
But I asked you nicely to explain exactly where you end and where your thoughts begin. Describe that dividing line for me—how you actually differentiate yourself from your own thoughts.
Just because you can't put an equals sign between them doesn't mean they aren't equal... maybe you just have some conviction that prevents you from seeing the connection. The only way we can settle this is if you explain exactly where you see that distinction!
And if you can't pinpoint or describe the difference... then it probably isn't there.
I already told you clearly, but you just don't seem to get it. I exist in states where there isn't a single thought, feeling, or image in sight, and I perceive that state through my consciousness via my senses. I can't put an equals sign between myself and my thoughts because I know they aren't the same thing. It's the same deal with my emotions in any given moment, and the same goes for my body.
The distinction is actually pretty simple: I perceive my thoughts, my feelings, and my body, much like I see a tree, a TV, a seagull, or even you, and I know I am none of those things.
Why? (I'll give you a slightly more detailed explanation since you seem to need it)
Because if I kill a seagull, chop down a tree, start a fire, and eat it, the seagull and the tree are gone, but I'm still here.
Consciousness is a 'process' that provides you with insight (perception) of yourself and your surroundings. All your realizations happen through that process, but that doesn't mean those realizations, feelings, or thoughts are necessarily the 'content' of consciousness itself!
Even someone who isn't particularly bright could look at a TV program and think the show is the 'content' of the TV set... but we know that's not how it works. The TV set just reproduces the program; the program reaches the TV via an electronic signal from a studio or a satellite.
It's the same with consciousness... for you, it reproduces your 'reality' by interpreting a 'signal' that exists outside of you and independently of you. To call that interpretation the 'content' is to be deeply unaware of the very nature of your own awareness.
But now I finally see why you think 'you' aren't the same as your thoughts... honestly, you've got a completely flawed conceptualization of your own self-awareness. You're staring at the 'television' and believing the 'show' is actually what's inside the 'TV set,' reducing yourself to just a viewer sitting in front of a screen... a passive observer playing a secondary role in your own life.
What a shame.
Wrong again. You're trying to project your own version of me onto me, but your perspective is way too narrow for that to work.
I think I've made my point, so there's no real need to keep repeating myself.
Actually, you've identified with your own thoughts so much that you think you cease to exist whenever your thoughts stop. You've accepted that as the ultimate truth (your own little religion), and you think you're somehow better or wiser than people who go to church or believe in urban legends and boogeymen.
Do you have some physical organ that you call the 'I,' or is this 'I' actually just an abstract mental construct created by your mind?
If we’re talking about how your mind works—and let's be honest, that's exactly what this is—then the "self" is just another thought. It's basically a mental construct or some cognitive concept you've built up. So... if there's no thought, there's no you. Claiming the "self" exists independently of thought is probably one of the biggest loads of nonsense out there. ☕
What's actually nonsensical is trying to lecture people about something you can't even wrap your head around, acting like an expert on an experience you haven't actually had.
Since you're so convinced you *are* your thoughts, does that mean you're thinking 24/7? Like, do you think while you're sleeping, or do you just cease to exist the moment you hit deep sleep?
I bet there are plenty of moments during the day where your mind just goes quiet. Tell me, do you stop existing then?
And just for fun, when you're having sex or hitting an orgasm, what's going through your head? Are you "there" in those moments, or are you gone?
Also, I'm curious—what were you thinking about during those nine months in your mother's womb before you were born? Did you exist back then, or were you nothing?
Maybe you'll finally wake up once you try answering those.😲
So, you’ll admit to being the 'observer,' yet you deny being the 'process of observation,' even though you're fully aware that the whole process is happening INSIDE YOU!?
That is fascinating, truly!
Let me give you another example to make it clearer:
Me (the woodcutter) chopping (the action) wood (the object) = the process of chopping, wherein I am certainly not the process itself, nor the wood, nor the act of chopping.
Me (the thinker) thinking (the action) a thought (the object) = the process of thinking. Do I need to define who and what I am in that scenario too?
Using a physical action as an analogy for cognitive processes is pretty much spot-on, mostly because cognitive processes happen entirely WITHOUT your willpower. If I walk into a room holding an umbrella, you CANNOT help but identify the object in my hand as an umbrella!
In that moment of identification, you aren't performing some grand task... the process is spontaneous and unavoidable... you can't see the object without instinctively knowing what it is.
Clearly, that identification is a spontaneous RESULT of perception that manifests in your consciousness as a thought (an umbrella). Calling that a conscious "action" would be just like claiming that a gland secreting hormones is a "deliberate action."
So, you can keep ignoring the obvious if you want, or you can live under the delusion that you can willfully exist in a state of "no thoughts"—but that's just plain nonsense. No matter how hard you try, you can't help but "label" the objects (concepts) you perceive, which is something even modern fMRI scans have scientifically proven.
Sure, you can choose to think... in the same way you can choose to control your breathing... but the second you stop consciously managing your breath, it just keeps going on its own.
I am not the process, even if that process can't exist without me.
Repetition is the mother of self-hypnosis. ☕
It seems like you're still not grasping what I meant, so let me clarify:
If you are the waking observer, then you are aware of everything that is happening...
That’s actually what we call the 'reactive mind'... a mental state where cognitive processes, due to a lack of intentional reasoning, are reduced to spontaneous reactions (like automatically naming things you recognize).
You could call it 'conscious unconsciousness' or 'sleeping observation,' but that doesn't change the fact that both states (reactive and deliberative thinking) are equally 'conscious'—the difference lies solely in self-control, or rather, the total absence of it.
If this feels foreign to you and you can't wrap your head around it, you probably just need a bit more practice and some deeper understanding to get there.
Or maybe you're just leaning on that standard, trendy "spiritual vibe"—believing that if you repeat enough "spiritually acceptable stereotypes," you can somehow borrow the credibility those tropes usually hold among the latest crop of "lifestyle gurus." ☕
Exactly—awareness or mindfulness isn't a thought. To truly know that, you have to experience it.
Water isn't H2O... you have to experience it to know!
See what happened there? You can plug absolutely anything into that kind of cognitive claim, allowing you to assert whatever convenient nonsense fits your mood at the moment. Unfortunately for you, statements like that only serve to reinforce the very valid suspicion that you're just recycling well-worn, widely accepted, and utterly hollow phrases used by every "New Age influencer" and spiritual charlatan out there.
Plenty of people are capable of doing it; if you aren't, that's on you. Just practice and maybe you'll get there—just don't go around claiming it's impossible just because you personally haven't mastered it.
Plenty of people are capable of dematerializing themselves and then rematerializing somewhere else—say, traveling from New York to Los Angeles in about 14 milliseconds. If you can't pull that off, well... that's your problem. Keep practicing and maybe you'll succeed, but don't claim it's impossible just because you lack the ability.
As usual, we’ve got another empty cognitive assertion that carries zero actual argumentative weight.
This whole discussion is just degrading from post to post. Your stance has shifted from offering unsolicited advice—basically just being condescending—to attempting to argue with logically contradictory statements, and finally settling into making totally baseless, cognitive claims about your supposed "abilities."
Judging by how this conversation is going, I expect your next few replies will devolve into playground logic, something along the lines of "my dad is stronger than your dad." ☕
I told you clearly and you just won't get it: I exist in a state where there isn't a single thought, feeling, or image, and I perceive this through my consciousness via my senses.
So, you're claiming that perceiving oneself isn't a mental process, even though the "self" that you're perceiving in "that state" is still a verbal (and therefore mental) concept?
You experience "yourself," yet you deny that the experience of the "self" is a mental-linguistic process?
If the answer to that is yes, then you clearly have some serious conceptual issues stemming from a total lack of awareness regarding your own cognitive processes, basic logic, and common sense. 🤷
Since the rest of your post is basically just a repetitive denial and an appeal to that same inadequate physical analogy... I don't see much point in repeating myself.
If you actually decide to step up, promote your own cognition, and give some honest answers—without leaning on those tired "spiritual" clichés or empty psychological claims—then maybe we can actually have a conversation. But honestly? I’ve got zero interest in your spiritual propaganda or this self-delusion you're running with.
Go ahead and enjoy your little "ego" over there, in that void where there isn't even a single coherent thought to be found. 😉