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People who stand out from the crowd in Psychology ·
This whole thread feels a bit sensationalist to me. Honestly, I think it’s far too easy to fall into the trap of over-philosophizing everything. If I’m following your logic correctly, I could easily see myself being labeled that way. But I don't feel "different" just because of some abstract concept. It all comes down to a massive amount of life's little "details."
I really don't feel like sitting here and listing out all the reasons why I feel like an outlier.
Do our own desires actually make us unhappy? in Psychology ·
To want something, yet have the power to step back from that desire... to love without conditions. It’s just like loving. There’s nothing quite as beautiful as being unconditional.😁
Who watches the watchmen? in Spirituality ·
Boca is doing great... just give them some actual instructions on how to use 😁 ,then we can get back to the main point 👍
Who watches the watchmen? in Spirituality ·
steeleagle13 said:It keeps expanding and growing until physical death 😁

And then what? 🙂
I don't think that's where the story ends...
Who watches the watchmen? in Spirituality ·
Jeffrey Gray4 said:Emotions are constantly being generated as we experience the present moment.
We collect them inside ourselves, they pile up, and eventually, they become too heavy to carry.
By letting them out in small increments, we maintain our peace.

That’s just basic psychology.
I think you're mistaken if you believe you can actually silence emotions; sooner or later, they will explode unexpectedly.

Personal growth—which is essentially our individual consciousness at any given stage of life—is what makes emotions both the beauty and the fullness of existence, but also the burden, the unrest, and the discord. Do you agree?
I’m not talking about suppressed emotions. Those are definitely not healthy, and when the "cup overflows," they inevitably cause a break somewhere. But the issue isn't the emotions themselves; it’s us and our conscious mechanisms. It comes down to how we choose to react to a situation (an emotion). Will we be able to accept it and transform it through understanding or wisdom? Or will we suppress it, or react impulsively, swept away by the moment?
They are always there, just like reason. All that matters is the balance between the two. That balance is achieved through learning—through living, maturing, and doing the work... though some people never get there.
Emotions can be very effectively "quieted," but not through suppression or forced self-restraint. When you approach a situation—life itself—correctly, they feel less of a need to burst out unexpectedly, as 🙂
would say.
Who watches the watchmen? in Spirituality ·
Jeffrey Gray4 said:Wisdom isn't found by playing the controller, nor is it hidden in some struggle to master our emotions...
In our tribe, there is no hierarchy of who controls whom.
There is only one single consciousness within us all... what matters is how deeply we know ourselves and whether we understand what actually brings us joy versus what brings us misery...
Everything we wish we could hand over to a "controller" is just our own emotions...
Feelings don't come in neat, pre-measured doses, and you can't summon them on command.
They demand to be seen so they don't just sit there festering inside us.
A wise person knows how to vent them—letting them out constantly and without any shame
instead of letting them pile up... if you do that, they won't hit you quite as hard.
The "controller" doesn't exist because we have zero power over how emotions are created or how much of them we feel.
All we can do is let them out... and there’s no control in that process, only release.

P.S. placidharbor7, you're getting way too tangled up in this web of consciousness.

Could you walk me through your logic here?
I strongly disagree, and I can actually prove it through experience.
Who watches the watchmen? in Spirituality ·
Sure. Care to elaborate?
Meditation - Made in America in Spirituality ·
Jeremy Davis7, you need to write more about that... specifically regarding those psycho-physical "experiences" you had while practicing this technique..
Liberation as the goal. But for what? in Spirituality ·
coastalskipper92 said:I’m not particularly interested in discussing what happens after death, or things like past lives... that feels more like organized religion to me.

But regarding life itself... I’ve come to feel that true spirituality exists in total opposition to living. Because life is inherently, necessarily "messy."

And honestly? I don't even want that kind of spirituality. Is there anything less spiritual than craving absolute detachment, or longing for death while you're still alive?
If one were to live life in a constant trance, kept at arm's length, there would be no lessons left to learn. No real growth.

That doesn't mean those things shouldn't happen, of course; it just means I’ve chosen to stay present rather than retreat.

For instance, it’s quite frustrating when my current hormonal cycle feels much stronger than my spirit... when I'm feeling completely overwhelmed, when in reality, I just need a good night's sleep.🤣
A life without these shifts would be abnormal, frankly unthinkable.

There isn't a greater spiritual experience than, say, finding yourself doing things you never actually believed you were capable of doing.
And that is achieved through living, not by locking yourself away in a monastery or sitting in a lotus position for ten hours a day.

👍👍
Seeking support for suicidal thoughts in Psychology ·
Just stay brave. Take it one day at a time... keep those negative thoughts from cluttering up your head. Look for little moments to just unwind and find something to occupy your mind. Honestly, staying busy with work is a smart move—it gives you the sense that you’re actually in the driver's seat of your own life, both the good parts and the bad. Just keep hunting for ways to tackle your problems head-on and build up your own strength.
Best, 😉
Liberation as the goal. But for what? in Spirituality ·
Susan Kim18 said:Try looking at it from a broader perspective.

For example:

My husband's grandfather was named Anthony
he used to work as a mail carrier
on Sundays, he’d wear a little tie to church
he can't quite recall if it was on his left or right ear
but he says they told him that was just how things were done in Miami
Anthony had a mixed-breed dog, maybe a German Shepherd
named Rex, or maybe it was Baksy—he can't remember exactly

That’s really all he remembers
and even what he does remember, he isn't entirely sure about

And he is the only descendant left

So, that's the sum total of Anthony's life

Just imagine life on Earth, say, 100 years after you're gone, and look at amberbadger8's life and her presence on this planet from that viewpoint. Will there even be anyone left to remember her? What do our thoughts, our desires, our needs, or our very existence at this specific point in space and time actually mean? And what will you even take with you, and where exactly...?

Just imagine it and tell me—isn't it absurd?

A single flash, we appear, we plant a few seeds, and then we vanish....

But....
Just because something is absurd doesn't mean it isn't worth it...


..well, if you view life through that lens, then a massive amount of things can seem truly absurd. So absurd, in fact, that you might start questioning how much every single "your" moment of life is an absurdity, right?
..but I don't think it's necessary to frame things this way. Just because we don't understand something doesn't mean we have to shove it into the context of the absurd..
but fine.. I get what you're trying to say, but why?
..isn't life meant to be lived?
..personally, I believe in reincarnation, so I feel like I'll "carry myself" with me—whoever I manage to shape myself into.... so everything isn't quite as absurd to me as it seems to you..
Liberation as the goal. But for what? in Spirituality ·
Susan Kim18 said:...well, isn't it?

..maybe that's just our human perspective talking, filtered through a bit of pessimism.. but I get the sense you feel differently.. 🙂
Liberation as the goal. But for what? in Spirituality ·
Susan Kim18 said:It definitely is absurd.

Sometimes I find myself thinking...

I don't even remember wanting to come HERE...
And I honestly have no clue what keeps pulling me INWARD...

When we actually start questioning our motives,
if we're being truly honest with ourselves,
and we know this isn't just about chasing pleasure or running away from pain,
all we can really say is: I HAVE NO IDEA...

..so, is life itself absurd?
Debates about meditation in Spirituality ·
..Respect goes to those who actually try to share their meditation experiences constructively while staying open to new insights.. everything else is just petty bickering and a complete waste of time... then you have those people who claim to have something to contribute, but they’re really just throwing words around at someone who isn't currently "open to similar realizations"... It’s a good thing that many people lurking in the background read this; they pull actual insights from these posts, even if they don't jump into the fray... otherwise, the whole thing would be an exercise in total futility... honestly, some people could really use a lesson in humility if they want to grasp the sheer brilliance being written here..
OCD: General Discussion Thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Roger Morgan4 said:I certainly hope so... 🙂

You aren't wrong... unfortunately.
Zen is everywhere in Spirituality ·
Edward Flores4 said:Spot on. Honestly, Zen is found precisely in the fact that there's nothing to achieve. No specific practice or ritual actually "leads" you to Zen—it just doesn't work like that. Think of these exercises more like clearing out the clutter in your garage; they help you sort through your own personal baggage and mental noise, but those tasks themselves have absolutely nothing to do with the essence of Zen itself.

That’s true, but let's not go to extremes here. Everything is interconnected. Even stripping away personal issues has everything to do with Zen... ultimately.
But fine... I get what you're getting at.
Seeking support for suicidal thoughts in Psychology ·
rapidgull3 said:How does someone deal with suicidal thoughts being on their mind every single day?

..Basically, you have to overhaul your rotten mindset and how you view the world...
..There are plenty of ways to swim out of those waters...
Find a professional to talk to...
..Get some books that actually help...
..I've been in that exact hole myself...That’s why I’m telling you—don't lose hope. Solutions are all around you...you just need to aim yourself correctly and help will come from everywhere...
..But the most important part has to come from you...And that is a genuine desire to live...
Feel free to shoot me a DM if you ever need advice.....
Just speaking broadly here, through these threads...
Later.
The Psychology of the Crowd in Psychology ·
😍 Good grief, amberbadger8, what kind of Robert Frost is this?

It’s not Robert Frost, just me being modest. 🙂
The Psychology of the Crowd in Psychology ·
..good grief, that word of the day 🙂
The Psychology of the Crowd in Psychology ·
Look, here’s how I see it. You can view mass psychology as a direct result—a manifestation of energy—that represents what we might call a certain kind of (un)realized potential. This energy
starts at the strongest links and radiates outward until it hits a saturation point, yet ultimately remains anchored to someone's individual potential. It functions like a peak surrounded by its own surrounding landscape.
..all coalescing into a singular, majority-driven unity that spans the entire planet...