Henry Edwards33 said:Jessica Grant56, out of respect for you and the handful of others who actually contribute here, I want to lay things out clearly. Moving forward, please take these kinds of debates and side stories over to the chat thread. This specific topic is far too valuable to be wasted on petty arguments.
Every single time this thread gets bumped by a question or a comment, a small group of you jumps in, and it always devolves into toxic back-and-forth about who’s the bigger expert. It’s completely unnecessary for people to lecture you on your skills or tell Business what they should be doing when neither of you actually knows the software inside and out.
I won't stand for it. Those of us who actually work with—or develop—this software need to be able to read through these posts carefully. We need to protect this high-quality information instead of letting it drown in a sea of insults and ego trips.
You have no idea how many posts I’ve had to delete, or how many people reach out to me via DM. If you want to argue, go to the chat thread. This space is strictly for software-related discussion. No exceptions. If you don't like that, you know where to take your complaints.
I’ll leave this post up for today, but it will be deleted shortly. Any further discussion regarding this should happen in the chat—our virtual coffee thread.
Look, Henry, feel free to just delete your reply tomorrow—honestly, I’m not interested in getting into a tug-of-war with anyone. I’ve been kicked off this thread twice before, so I can handle it again; after all, the internet is huge and there are plenty of other moderators out there who are more chill and easygoing. What really worries me is that "every single time" part—it starts up, then it dies again—why is that? Is the topic sterile or boring? We both know it isn't. So, if it's not that, is it just poorly moderated? I'm not here to judge, and I'm definitely not going to go running to someone to complain... If the owners are happy, then fine. Though, I totally agree that people jump too quickly to saying "you have no clue" or "this is pointless," but I guess that depends entirely on WHO is saying it.
Paul has always been a bit of a provocateur, but why shouldn't we have a little debate? It keeps things lively, doesn't it? At the end of the day, we aren't arguing over who's the most patriotic or who loves hunting more; we're just talking about which software we think is better (or more cost-effective) than the next. Sure, Paul has always been quick to insult others, so the pattern continues, but... I don't have to take him seriously, especially since I'm fully aware of my own limits—what I know, what I don't, and what my actual degree is in. When he insults someone, it reflects his level, not mine, and honestly, I've dealt with much worse. Where did everyone go who used to join in on those debates? Did you scare them off? Or did they just run away? That doesn't seem right at all. I won't list names—we both know who they are. Those discussions were actually pretty interesting and you could learn a thing or two. But—I guess that's all in the past now? Fine, then lock the thread and goodnight!
Go ahead, delete, ban, do whatever you want, but against whom?? If the three of us shut up, you might as well just write your own blog... And even that isn't allowed?? I don't have a magic fix, other than noticing that on other threads—non-Accountant ones, anyway—they seem to have a much higher threshold for tolerance.
P.S. I haven't posted since March 15, 2011. How "alive" or "dead" has this topic actually been between then and now?? Then the Business software showed up and brought a little life back to the party...