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Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
ruggedcyclist74 said:Good grief, Jessica, I was simply asking for a number; I certainly didn't intend to throw gasoline on an already raging fire. 🙂

So, you actually don't know...

And it looks like you're out "celebrating" tonight as well. 🤣

And you aren't up late either? Honestly, this PDF is actually pretty good—mostly full of classy ladies, so I don't mind chiming in a bit more. This whole argument has been heating up for ages now, and it feels like it's never going to cool down to just a little smoke...

Yeah, tonight is our big celebration, Dubrovnik Night. I have to host the opening games all by myself while my better half is busy enjoying some drinks with the group. But after that, we're heading out to live life... maybe grab five sliders or some burgers, or... well, you know. Just a small, low-key night. Basically: bread and circuses—and since we're short on the bread, at least we've got plenty of circus left.

Let them in!!! (Better them than anyone worse...!)
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
ruggedcyclist74 said:So, what's the grand total on your warning count then? 😉

I haven't exactly kept a tally... but every time I earned one—aside from those health discussions where Dr. Blesimetar showed up pushing his own agenda, which caused me to distance myself from him—it felt different. A warning is fine if it makes you stop, think, realize you messed up, and move forward more carefully. But when you see someone post something and then get two and a half days of "medical leave"? Well, then it really feels like something is off. It’s almost as if someone is protecting them?? And that just leaves the rest of us, who are actually trying to help rather than just 93 milespushing people too hard, feeling frustrated.

Let's be honest here: there are moderators and admins who would truly call out "that individual" for their nonsense and wouldn't let them back onto the Forum pages easily. But then there’s Henry Edwards33, and a few others like her, who will forgive "that person" for the 27th time, saying they'll improve... even though those of us who have been around longer know they'll just keep doing the same thing, because that's just who they are.

However, just like a TV has an STBY button, the Forum has one too... The software thread has already lost several good contributors who simply couldn't deal with the drama anymore. The real question is when it'll happen to us—IF this circus being run by "that person" continues.

Maybe the answer lies in making some collective demands to the Forum owner—whether it's limiting the thread to just Synesis topics or something else. But it’s pretty clear that if that happens, the "accounting software" crowd might just close up shop.

It just goes to show how much damage a single bad screw can do to a machine...
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Richard Howard55 said:Wonderful. You’re "hanging out" at 2:00 AM and somehow "figuring it all out": shipping? transport? no transport? ... you jump to one website, then it flings you to another, then a third, and after bouncing around for a bit, you can't even remember where you started... just like that, for days on end.
Then you fall into some deep meditation regarding lines 11 and 12 on an IRS tax form... and you weep (tears of joy, obviously)... thanking God you were born during such a vital era, just to experience meeting Linić, digital tax reporting, reverse charge mechanisms, ....... and then come autumn, the JOPPD... a total dream that makes sleep impossible.☕☕

Exactly! And now it turns out I’m some kind of hero if I don't celebrate every single day, but maybe every third day instead? Even though it takes me four hours to do what you can knock out in one.

And here's what really eats at me: how am I supposed to let an employee take time off? Am I meant to find someone who could just sit in the store for a month straight—because they won't even learn the job in two months, so they wouldn't actually be helping anyway—and then where am I supposed to pull those extra few thousand dollars from? You know, unplanned expenses? Do you get all these new ridiculous regulations that basically strip away my right to work—even if I wanted to keep working until I'm 90? And doing it for free! On my own dime. Why did we waste ten years of our lives giving up almost everything...
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Richard Howard55 said:Yeah, sure... a holiday... more like a sales tax holiday! 😍
Can't sleep. Not happening. 😁

So, how exactly are we supposed to celebrate this one??
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Henry Edwards33 said:Just got back from the seminar. 😵

I feel like I’ve finally wrapped my head around everything, mostly because this was my second deep dive into sales tax regulations since the July changes. ☕

Lucky me—I won't actually have to deal with the fallout until I'm back from vacation.

From here on out, it’s strictly chamomile and herbal tea for me. I need to stay calm. ☕


So, she’s officially stressed out—though honestly, we can't tell if it's just the workload or if work is actually driving her crazy. Well, go enjoy your time off! We’ll manage just fine without you, even if "our dear citizen" decides to stay home for a while.
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Richard Howard55 said:Let's grab one. ☕☕

Alright, you're up too. Give me something. ☕☕ Just let the consequences slide!

Everything that needed to be said has been said, and now we’re right back where we started. It’s the same old cycle: someone lights the match, someone else fans the flames, I probably toss a few more logs on the fire... then someone comes along and douses the whole mess with a massive blast from a purple fire extinguisher. And then? We just start all over again.
And that’s why I prefer these forum hangouts... what would I even have without them? He's one of our own!

You can have him, as long as you promise to keep him far away from me!!
- Typical over-dramatization by the synesis horde
- making a scene always works
- especially when this horde keeps poking at me
- I'm sick of those assholes who wrap everything up in fancy packaging
- nobody really gives a damn once they've actually bought in
- I refuse to let them screw me over
- they won't be screwing anyone
- this isn't just some mess, this is psychological warfare

If someone talks like this in front of a decent group of ladies, does that person deserve a long timeout?

I’ll take this chance to report to the HEAD moderators that we’ve been labeled a horde—so, I'm wondering if there are any consequences for a statement like that?
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Henry Edwards33 said:This is driving me absolutely insane 🙂

Only six hours until midnight, at which point I think I’ll trade this coffee for a glass of wine. 😉

I’ve got my vacation coming up in two weeks. Until then, I’m not even planning on taking a breath—just grinding through everything so I can enjoy myself without a shred of guilt once I finally clock out. 👋

So, "that guy" claims you let me get away with everything, so here I am—counting up all the warnings you've handed me... and yeah, they were all justified. I earned them. Sometimes my fingers move faster than my brain, and when that happens, you just have to deal with the consequences—it's just how things go around here. Also, regarding that thread he started just to try and prove everyone hates you (well, everyone except me—I've got your back!), I made sure to list out all the nonsense he wrote in those three or four posts. I really hope this gets flagged by a moderator, because it isn't right if you decide how to handle "him" based on those kinds of statements.
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Henry Edwards33 is deleting my posts... Can you believe the reason? Apparently, it's because I'm not giving him enough public credit... So what am I supposed to do then—ask him out to dinner?? He lives way too far away... And since we didn't even talk until midnight tonight, I guess there's no chance for coffee either.
I'm still thinking about what Lili P. said earlier—it really gets you wondering, doesn't it? It’s one of those things that sounds simple on the surface, but once you start peeling back the layers, there's so much more to unpack. I don't know, maybe I'm overthinking it—that's probably just my way—but I can't quite shake the feeling that there's a deeper point there. kaže:
The Associated Press is actually such a class act. I honestly dare anyone to go back and read through her posts—you’ll see exactly what I mean. Writing something like that to her was completely unnecessary and, frankly, just plain mean.

I just wanted to say thanks to everyone for the support. It really means a lot—honestly, reading stuff like this is pretty special.

Look, honey, you wiped my post, and honestly? It was actually pretty decent—well-written and respectful too. But now the whole thing feels pointless because his coworkers already told him he’d had enough. And once some random girl stepped in to take her shot... things just spiraled way past the point of no return. There isn't much left to say, really, but whenever he finally does reach out... man, he's going to have a lot to explain.

I really love that sentiment—the idea of stepping up just to help others. To me, that’s what truly matters most. And looking at this group of women—not that I can even list them all—it's incredible. They are always right there whenever something needs fixing or someone needs a hand. Even when I butt in with my own rambling and accidentally make things more complicated—which, let's face it, happens more than I'd like to admit since I'm coming from a completely different field—they still show up. Still, twenty years of running a business leaves its mark on you, I suppose. So, to all these wonderful ladies: please let me just say thank you. Thank you for everything—for the support, the help, and the friendship.

Is there even any point in responding to insults like that—you know, the ones where people claim someone is just getting paid? Honestly, it’s so ridiculous it actually makes me laugh. I’m nowhere near New York City, so if anyone thinks there’s some kind of actual benefit to running ads for a tiny little outfit like that... well, we all know exactly what's going on there. Microsoft is such a massive player that they don't need some small-time entrepreneur trying to "flex" their connection to them every time they overcharge for something they shouldn't have. But man, Iris is changing! From what I can see, things are moving in a really great direction. Every single update has been solid—especially since the VAT module is totally free now. Seriously, bravo!

"The Associated Press is actually quite a class act"... Ha!! Well put... I personally love them because they’ve always had my back—even if they were a little baffled by my style and my tendency to get a bit heated—but they accepted me anyway! And let's be honest, they actually *get* it. So, to the AP—my apologies for that wild rant about the way things were handled... you didn't deserve that, even though I knew exactly where his "politeness" was actually heading. He needed "arguments" and some breathing room, but he didn't have either, mostly because he has nobody to talk shop with. The fact that he didn't understand a single word when you brought up Microsoft is pretty obvious—he clearly hasn't a clue about Syn4!!

I don't want to sound like a broken record by complaining about the same guy again—but he’s been around for years now, and honestly, he hasn't gotten any better; if anything, he's gone downhill. Still, there is a solution to deal with him, so... we've already discussed how we're going to handle this situation.

So, here I am again—continuing the conversation just like Eugene O'Neill would say. I’ve got full support from Lily, who—get this—decided to give me another strike. She actually deleted my post too, probably because I was praising her a little too much?! Who knows what she's thinking, but hey, she's doing her thing... anyway, regardless of all that— I’m just out here trying to stand up for what’s right.Honestly, I don't see this as a negative thing at all—if anything, I actually like it more. It forces me to reel in my temper and watch what I say, making sure I adapt to the community we've built here, which has stayed relevant from the coast all the way across the country. To me, that’s a good thing! Thanks, Lili—just please don't even think about deleting this, because I truly mean it when I say you've earned the praise.
Terry Johnson3 said:I’d honestly file a formal complaint against this moderator because her handling of things has been unfair for quite a while now. She seems to tolerate insults from users like Eric Chase12 (who’s actually banned from all the forums) way too much—just look at his recent comment:
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Given how biased she is, I really think Lilla should be stripped of her moderation duties for the Accounting Software thread.

Using terms like "the aforementioned"... well, if it were just me talking, maybe you admins would believe me, but there are so many other people in this thread who feel like you've been acting like you own the place. Let them speak up.

As far as I'm concerned, I'm not active on all the different boards—just this one—and honestly, outside of our little back-and-forth, I haven't really been targeted. Lilla keeps me in line regularly, but that's by design; we have an understanding. I'm smart enough to know when I'm overstepping, so I actually asked her to give me a "tap on the wrist" whenever I go too far. I know my temper can be a bit much sometimes. It's easy to prove, though—anyone willing to look at the ban logs can see. And I'll admit it: Lilla always penalizes me for a good reason, and I don't argue; I just learn from it.

But that's where the difference lies. You? You're just stubborn—how many years has it been since you started breathing down everyone's necks?!? These younger users don't realize you've been acting this way forever. They don't know that your eyes bloodshot and your blood pressure hits 190 the second you see anything regarding Synesis. Over time, it’s turned into this sort of obsession where you jump down the throat of every single comment or discussion involving Synesis—even though you've proven more times than I can count that you don't have a clue what you're talking about. I know it hurts that nobody is singing praises for your software, or that everyone stays quiet about it, but hey, that's life.

I'm not going to dig up all your dirty insults and attacks; you've already made your point with this little pamphlet against Lilla. Honestly, you deserve five times the bans you've actually received. It might be worth looking in a mirror and thinking about where this path is leading you. Everything on this forum is part-serious, part-fun, and there’s really no point in ending up in a Brooklyn jail over Synesis. But if you keep trying to compare your Fićek setup to a Mercedes... who knows? It's not something to play around with!

Oh, and one more thing: Lilla, thank you for understanding me and keeping me in check—even if both this "aforementioned" pest and I lose our cool occasionally. I'm working on it. Also, I have to ask: did this "aforementioned" guy seriously start a whole separate thread titled "Attack Lilla"?!? What a true gentleman... really. This isn't even the first time, either; I've got plenty of notes on his ridiculous outbursts, but there's really no point in bringing them up now...
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Once pre-season kicks off, everyone here just loses their minds—I can barely find a second to check in on what my girlfriends are up to... When is that minimum wage hike actually scheduled to happen, and do we need to fix our paychecks right away if we're currently at the minimum?
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Well, happy Stephen's Day to you all!
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Richard Howard55 said:Bio! Bio!
To’s a very respectful 5:7:5 structure. 🙂

And now, capturing new licenses and versions has become—well, not literary, but more like a technical Haiku! 😍

Techno haka, you say?!?
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Richard Howard55 said:A Haiku for Jessica Grant56 🙂🙂

Look! An upgrade!
Jessica Grant56! It’s new again!
Give it a spin!

Honestly, you don't even have to deal with the old "record this, then launch that" routine anymore. You just hit the button, it tells you which version you're running versus the latest one available... and if you give it the thumbs up—it handles everything itself. I actually finished my update just yesterday.

Wait, was that supposed to be a Haiku?
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
wiredmarlin41 said:You're mistaken; he walked straight into a trap, and his posts are getting more frantic by the minute.
Don't let Richard Howard55's calm tone fool you; right now, he's dangling a carrot, but believe me, he's holding a stick behind his back. Honestly? It’s more likely that Richard Howard55 will just end up being an idiot, leaving him with nothing to do but bang his head against a wall. 😁
The best move is to step back and let him handle this himself—slowly and systematically—without us interfering.
I've already done my part; she'll finish him off. 😁
At the end of the day, whether we actually prove anything to him is irrelevant. What matters is that potential customers know exactly what they're getting when they invest in Techno or Synapse.

But WHY???? Why are you all trying so hard to prove something to someone who isn't even worth it?? What value does he actually bring? What knowledge or help is he offering? Honestly, I deal with enough clients who think they know more than I do. When I offer them the right item—something thoroughly tested, vetted, and top-tier—they don't want that one; they want *that* other one. If I tried to sit there and explain why my option is better, I'd have to spend at least an hour on it. So why bother?? I’ve just given up on trying.

On the other hand—let's be real here... this discussion could go on forever because you can't compare software modules like this in a forum thread. And even if you could—again: why?? I know (I've got a brain, after all!) that Pupils makes massive amounts of money. Every single legal change translates into hundreds of thousands of dollars for them because their user base is huge. I kind of hate them for it, but hey, David Bowie is David Bowie—he had a good nose for this, bought foreign source code, and made it work... so, fine. He didn't steal it. And as time goes on, they’re getting better; they even provide free updates now and are more flexible with feedback. The software is performing better too. Then you have these little garage programs—built just to get the job done—but they don't even hold 1/10th of the market share that Pupils holds. Look, let them try; let the customers decide, that's fine. What really bothered us was the constant Jump into the conversation whenever anyone mentioned Synapse, always followed by that inevitable: "but Techno does it this way..."

And I don't want to drone on: for me, this thread should be about HELPING people who actually need it. This tug-of-war with someone unprovable just wastes time and space—especially considering Richard Howard55, who is both willing and capable of spending her time much more wisely by helping others, and I get the impression she knows this software inside and out!

Oh, and one more thing: I don't think any of this actually helps potential buyers!! In fact, it seems to me like it just clouds the whole picture... It's like comparing a Fiat to a Merge, and that's just not a fair fight.
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
I told Richard Howard55 exactly what I was thinking... that he’s basically led her out onto thin ice here, and honestly, it just ends up hurting everyone involved. Besides, we all know from experience—you can't prove anything to someone who refuses to see the truth anyway. Even though he hasn't acted this way in years, there's a reason for it: look at him now, making such a huge scene, overshadowing everyone else just to find some scapegoat we can all point the finger at... We've seen this exact same pattern play out so many times before!
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Not all bad things are created equal!!

I decided to take a little break from the forums and get away from some of those truly irritating users... (or just one user, really—since there aren't many guys around here, she's already back again)
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
I am politely asking all the ladies out there—and honestly, anyone else too—to just let us have our peace starting at midnight on March 9th. Just give us a break for the next 364 days, please? It was fun while it lasted, I guess, but now it’s time to get back to our regular, boring routines.

Lili, did you actually catch that "coughing virus" everyone's talking about?? I went down to the CVS to ask about it, and the pharmacist told me—can you believe this?—that people are still coughing for over a month. Cheers to that... personally, I think I've got another ten days of this ahead of me.
Virtual Coffee Break - Chat in Business, Accounting & Taxes ·
Raymond Martinez10 said:Wait a second!!!
it’s not Jessica Grant56, it's dUbO 🤣🤣🤣

Huh?? And did you even congratulate them?!? Seriously, Raymond...??