Ryan Wilson2 said:What kind of problems are we talking about now?
I’m certainly not delusional enough to claim I like everyone.
Why... I mean, it’s not as if you lose anything by being kind... quite the opposite, really...
I suspect that the sense of affection Enchantress mentioned isn't actually dependent on "love" in the grand sense. Think about it: when you have a falling out with a best friend over something trivial—it doesn't even have to be a massive blowout—they might not be your favorite person for a little while, but if the bond is genuine, you still know you care about them even when you're angry. You might not want to admit it during those more... intense moments, of course. Or think back to being kids and fighting with a sibling; you never truly convinced yourself that you didn't love them, at least not for long.
Not everyone is dear to me, but I make an effort not to actively dislike them... as a starting point, anyway.
Don't get me wrong, I'm no hippie...😳 😉