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You forgot your heels and that mini skirt! ☕

velvetnomad16 said:I'm totally with you on the "absolutely nothing" part

..yeah, exactly like that 😁

Around 20. 🤷

I only keep in touch with about 15 people regularly. Everyone else gets blocked and deleted pretty much immediately! 🥳

44 users online, 5 on mobile, 252 offline.

36 right now... I'm already talking to most of them

73, though I’m probably chatting with about 10 of them on a daily basis. As for the rest? We might touch base once in a blue moon, and honestly, there are some I don't talk to at all anymore.🤷

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I’m actively chatting with about ten to twenty people right now. Everyone else is just an acquaintance or someone I know from the skydiving community.. 😁

I don't have Microsoft 🙂

I'm all about texting 😍

steelskipper4
If all else fails, I’m at least going to try and stay locked in on that initial spark—just so I don't forget what I was feeling in that very first moment

As for what happens after that? Who knows

casualfox0 said:Hey Pol Pot, I feel like I could almost quote most of your posts word-for-word and just sign my name at the bottom 🙂.
I’ve always been quite indecisive, though I really try to limit those moments to a minimum. Even small things can be a struggle—like trying to decide which brand of laundry detergent to grab at Target. I find myself weighing every single variable, from the price point and volume to the manufacturer, treating the decision with this intense perfectionism as if my entire life depended on making the "correct" choice... it's just how my brain works when I'm in organizer mode.

My husband actually helps me navigate this quite a bit. I’ve started handing over all the "trivial" decisions to him, deciding ahead of time that whatever he picks will be perfectly fine with me... and honestly, any 😁 usually works out great! Most of our bigger choices are made through long talks together anyway. However, when it comes to decisions that affect only me—mostly stuff related to my career—I still find myself struggling to pull the trigger on my own.

That tendency toward being indecisive is just part of who you are, and it isn't going to vanish overnight. What you really need to do is start taking small risks and just make the call, while learning to embrace the consequences. At the end of the day, it's those consequences that seem to worry both of us the most.

We’re exactly the same. It’s the consequences and the FEAR that one wrong move will ruin everything. That’s the real issue: the fear of what happens next.

Why do we assume everything will turn out terrible no matter what we pick?
Are you just a natural pessimist? Because I definitely am.

And why haven't we built up a solid value system? It feels like either everything is going to fail, or things are rarely ever truly great.

I caught some of it last night—didn't see the whole thing from the jump, but honestly, who cares? It’s such a great show. I actually watched it a while back, and apparently, they decided to bring it back on 👍

I'm looking for recommendations for a high-quality dentist who actually cares about doing things right rather than just rushing through appointments—I don't mind going to a private practice.

Thanks!

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at any jewelry store🤷

steelskipper4 said:

PolPot says:


I might make a decision if I happen to be tagging along with someone while they shop and I spot a shirt that catches my eye, even though I never actually intended to buy anything at all. In that scenario, the entire checklist of logic—price, genuine intent to purchase, whether I actually need it right this second—is completely bypassed; I’m simply selecting a color and calling it a day. However, the very instant I begin to actually THINK (wondering if it will pair well with the jeans and shoes I already own, or how long the summer will last so I can actually get some use out of a short-sleeved shirt...), that's when my decision-making speed hits a brick wall.

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It is that fleeting second before my brain kicks in to weigh a dozen different criteria. That moment is incredibly brief, and compared to the heavy analytical process that launches just a heartbeat later, that initial, purely intuitive sensation—entirely devoid of conscious emotion—simply evaporates... by the end, I can't even remember what I subconsciously gravitated toward at first glance.....

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This is more of a theoretical point....

It feels like theory to you because you aren't accounting for that "gut instinct" within the body—that visceral reaction which wants or doesn't want something regardless of your willpower, making its own executive decisions. Try listening to what your body is telling you during your next few choices; it costs you absolutely nothing, and you might see what happens. Use your brain merely to interpret what the body is feeling.

“If you make the wrong choice, your body knows it, just as anyone else's body would; but if you make the right choice, your body knows that too, and it relaxes, instantly forgetting that a choice was ever even made.”

"Price of coffee", Carlos Castaneda

In principle, this idea about gut feelings actually makes sense, but I’ve never been the type of person to make snap judgments. Whenever a major decision comes my way, I already know I’m going to be agonizing over it for days, right up until the very last second when the deadline hits. Maybe I really should start paying more attention to that initial instinct.

Do you struggle with something similar?

Just go get checked out by a doctor... honestly, my grandma always used to say: "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure."

Am I really the only one struggling with this constant indecisiveness?

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I don't know, I’m just feeling really skeptical about all of this... I’ve never been much of a conspiracy theorist, but something about what happened here just feels off... I couldn't even finish watching the whole thing, honestly 🙂