Everything would be fine if we didn't have such mindless laws. I went to see a urologist yesterday, and he tells me that since I haven't hit 35 yet—which is apparently the legal cutoff—I can't get the procedure done. So what now? Am I supposed to fly across the country just to handle this? It's ridiculous. The whole thing is so minor that I could practically do it myself, though I’d probably end up in prison for "self-harm" or some other legal technicality. 🤷
Sophia Lopez9 said:Trust me, I didn't choose this; I've been gay since birth. Even as a kid, I realized I was looking at guys differently than girls. I'd do just about anything to be straight.
Why are you even ashamed? Just embrace who you are.😉
I mostly did this for the fun of it, but also to meet people who have truly become dear to me, especially since I'm not originally from the US. I’m thinking specifically of Blue Lion, who has become such a great friend. Even though we haven't actually met in person, they are such an incredible person... I feel like I can talk to them about absolutely anything.
Me too! I'm joining the conversation. So, here's the deal: http://public.fotki.com/kika3321/ja/ I'm 5'10" and currently 154 lbs. My goal is to hit 132 lbs. I've still got some lingering pregnancy weight and cellulite to deal with... 🙄 I actually wanted to take some photos without my jeans on so my husband wouldn't give me a hard time about it, but honestly, the cellulite on my hips is pretty noticeable right now.
And hey, keep your fingers crossed that someone spots those details in your wallet, gives you a call, or finds some other way to get in touch and get it back to you.
I lost my wallet a few days ago, and this guy actually tracked me down on Facebook to send me a message. He left his number, we linked up, and he handed it right back to me—and get this, he wouldn't take a single cent for it. It’s honestly wild; I didn't think there were still people like that out there anymore 😁
Stick to the paths you remember walking and keep an eye on the bushes—who knows, maybe someone hasn't spotted it yet 🤷 Checking in with local radio stations might be worth a shot, or even posting some flyers on telephone poles. If there's paperwork involved, a good samaritan might think to drop it off there. I actually saw a note taped to a street lamp once that said something like, "Lost wallet here, call this number for a reward" 😁 Give it a try 🤷
A few years back, my old lady had her bag swiped (with all her IDs inside, of course). She tried calling the radio stations, but nothing turned up 🤷 Then, a day later, a guy I know called me because he recognized her photo in her mom's wallet 🤣 He’d also found the phone in the bag since the thieves only grabbed the cash and credit cards... apparently, the bag itself was found hanging from a tree in a neighbor's yard 🤣
I really hope luck is on your side and someone who recognizes you turns it in 🙂
Of course, I voted for the first option... personally, I don't think the mods are even going to weigh in on this one, because if they vote "no," we’ll just end up tearing them apart again anyway..
I wouldn't shut down the entire subforum; I’d keep the posts and the suggestions, but the complaint threads, the banned users section, and all that nonsense just don't make sense since everything ends up being handled through a DM to the moderator anyway (just asking for a friend, based on my experience). For the most part, I’m not even going to vote because none of these options actually work for me.
I’m stuck in that cycle again—facing a massive decision, tossing and turning all night, and just feeling like I want to crawl out of my own skin. It’s driving me insane.