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Are we at our happiest as children? in Psychology ·
The topic has been deleted, and I’ll be banning posts moving forward if this continues. Please, I ask you sincerely, do not encourage anyone to break the law, regardless of the reason...
Pets owners thread in Feedback & Suggestions ·
We could start swapping wise dog quotes now, but this document is clearly out of order. You've already answered the question, and since there's nothing left to discuss, I'm locking this thread...
There’s a thread about Zoloft and Halea over here that might be worth checking out...

I really think you should listen to your doctor. I’m assuming you aren't seeing two different physicians at once. If your current treatment plan is working perfectly for you, there isn't much reason to change things up. For any doubts, confusion, or if you're just unhappy with how things are going, your doctor is the best person to talk to about it...
Pets owners thread in Feedback & Suggestions ·
You haven't had access to Pets since April 21, 2013, because you received a partial ban regarding that PDF on that date. The specific reasons were outlined in the partial ban notice sent to you back then...
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
@Beyoncé, why so harsh on her? It’s unnatural and unhealthy when a child ends up acting like a parent to their own parents. Especially with an active, unaccountable father in the mix. And there’s really no sense in wondering why someone didn't seek help sooner. People struggle with mental health issues for years; many need time just to realize there's even a problem, and some never figure it out at all. Those who finally recognize they need help and decide to find it deserve our support. Tough love isn't always a bad approach, but it has to be used in the right context.

@Maria Myers3, this thread is specifically for exchanging information and support regarding schizophrenia. Feel free to post here. For general chatting and casual support, you can head over to this thread. 🙂
Unfortunately, until your mom starts taking her prescribed therapy consistently, things won't improve. Her father needs to get her to a doctor. It doesn't help to dwell on what should have been done differently to prevent this. Relapses happen even when people are following their treatment plans. It's better to focus on what can be done now to fix the situation.

I mentioned this once before, but she simply needs to commit to treatment. You might want to consult her primary care physician about the best next steps.

You've already taken the second step by deciding to seek professional help. It might be worth stopping by the Department of Social Services to see what resources are available. If your family is struggling financially and you're a top student, there might be scholarship opportunities out there—just a thought, you should definitely look into it.

And I honestly think your sister could really benefit from seeing a professional psychologist too.
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
Casey Gonzalez3 said:
Look, we really need to talk about paranoid schizophrenia, because there’s so much misinformation out there that it’s honestly exhausting. It’s not just "being a little suspicious" or being high-strung—it’s heavy stuff. We’re talking about a deep, terrifying disconnect from reality where your own brain starts playing tricks on you, making you feel like everyone is out to get you or that things are happening that simply aren't. It can be incredibly isolating. When you're dealing with delusions or hearing things that aren't there, it feels like you're living in a completely different world than everyone else. And let's be real, the stigma around mental health in America is still huge. People see someone struggling and they immediately jump to judgment instead of offering a hand. If you or someone you know is going through this, please don't just sit there and suffer in silence. Reach out to a professional or hit up the Department of Social Services if you need help navigating resources. There are people who actually get it and want to help you find some footing again. You don't have to fight those shadows alone.

Man, we’ve all been there with those obsessive-compulsive rituals... you know the ones. It starts small, like checking if you locked the front door, but then it just spirals into this whole thing. Honestly, it can get pretty intense.

What does paranoid schizophrenia even have to do with OCD? Seriously. I’ve got OCD myself, and there isn't a single connection to be found with any kind of schizophrenia. So, if you're gonna sit here and write stuff, at least use the right terms! Stop grouping OCD in the same context as schizophrenia—it's just not accurate.

By the way, you really need to go talk to a professional about this stuff. Seriously.

I'm totally lost. What are we even talking about here? Give me some context!

She actually used the right term. Please don't lash out at people for no reason.

There was no mention of a "disorder," just "behaviors," which aren't the same thing.
Furthermore, individuals dealing with schizophrenia can also develop OCD. (link)
Since this conversation hasn't really veered into an ethical debate or touched on the psychological side of things, I feel like it might fit better over in the Health sub... Best, Selim.
Grammar and spelling rules for posts in Forum Help! ·
analogwalker5 said:If it’s obvious a foreigner wrote the post, will their mistakes be corrected? Or does it not matter if the author is an American or a foreigner?

They won't.
Grammar and spelling slips happen all the time, even with native Americans. As long as the point gets across, it doesn't really matter for the discussion...

Nicholas King said:Where am I claiming that you're claiming something? My sentence ends in a question mark—I'm asking... 😬

Neither did the one I quoted. You asked if I was making a claim, then told me not to make one. To me, that felt like an insinuation, so I'll just leave it at my own interpretation...

Why does your response skip her first question ("who could possibly..."), which is why she even started this thread? It would be polite to address that too.

If being polite means answering that, wouldn't my selective response be impolite? 😕
I don't quite see why there's such curiosity about my reasoning, but I'll explain. Since I deal with moderator duties every day, I know what those powers entail. Regarding the specific permissions admins have, I know they exist because I've been told, but I don't know every technical detail, and I wouldn't want to spread half-truths. That's why I chose to focus only on the parts I handle daily and actually understand...
Grammar and spelling rules for posts in Forum Help! ·
Nicholas King said:I wouldn't go that far 😬.

Where am I making that claim? 😁 🤷
The original question was "Who is the person capable of..." — the discussion about moderators only came up later.

My response is specifically addressing the assumptions made regarding moderator authority. I quoted those parts just to be clear about what I was responding to...
Grammar and spelling rules for posts in Forum Help! ·
crimsoncanyon2 said:A woman once told me that a forum moderator could actually write posts on my behalf...

That’s just not possible.
,let alone just fixing typos

They can edit a post, but there’s always a note at the bottom indicating it was edited and by whom. For instance, here.
Editing is usually avoided unless it's for housekeeping—like merging posts, adding quotes to keep threads organized, trimming down massive blocks of quoted text, or scrubbing private info...

Thread titles might get fixed if they have typos, missing punctuation, or weird capitalization issues to help with search engines, but there isn't a public log showing which specific moderator made those tweaks.
Psychotropic medication discussion thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Chloe Roberts2 said:That doesn't actually give me any answers at all. So, thanks for nothing, I guess.

Let me be crystal clear: can Risperdal be prescribed for acute psychosis?

Honestly, I’m starting to get really anxious here, and I would truly appreciate a straight answer on whether Risperdal is used for treating acute psychosis. It’s incredibly important to me because, frankly, I’ve lost all confidence in my doctor.

There’s a chance my psychiatrist lied to me about my diagnosis; she once told me I was perfectly healthy and just had a behavioral disorder. So now I'm left wondering—is this whole "acute psychosis" thing just another lie too?

No one here can tell you if your doctor was being dishonest about your diagnosis or why they chose a specific treatment plan... You really need to ask her directly.
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
Donna Newman82, I know this is incredibly stressful, but honestly, this was the right call for both her and you. The doctors are going to take care of things. They’ll run the necessary tests to see if there are any neurological factors involved, figure out exactly what’s happening, and get a treatment plan in place.

Here is likely how things will play out:
She'll be hospitalized, because there's just no way to manage a situation like this on an outpatient basis. They’ll probably stabilize her with medication first, so you might not be able to see her for a day or two depending on how things go. Don't let that scare you; it's standard procedure. They use higher doses during hospitalization to get people back to a functional state as quickly as possible. And don't take it personally if she lashes out or blames you for being there once they let you in...
Just listen to the medical team and try—if you can, though I know it's hard—not to hunt for someone to blame. There isn't anyone. This wasn't something that could have been avoided. That's just life sometimes. Shit happens, and this truly isn't the worst-case scenario.
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
Donna Newman82 said:The old order from the psychic finally arrived on October 14th. I won't get into the specifics of how that went down. My dad is really struggling with it; honestly, it seems to be weighing heavily on him. I think the hardest part for him is feeling like his mother views him as the enemy, even if there’s some logic behind her attitude. He gets incredibly frustrated when she just won't listen to him. She’s still living in her own world—walking barefoot through the grass, throwing spoons into the yard because she got annoyed, tossing the blood pressure monitor in the trash... you never know what else she might do. Sometimes it makes me sad, sometimes it scares me, and occasionally, it’s actually just plain funny. She makes these incredibly cunning statements, almost acting as if the doctors haven't figured anything out yet. I've noticed she tends to slip into certain "roles" sometimes. Is it typical with schizophrenia for someone to feel like they can't move their arm, or believe they can't speak? That happens to her occasionally. Her recent interests are pretty wild, too; she's obsessed with local urban legends, spends all her time studying atlases, and goes on about things like the harp, frequencies, and whatnot. I suspect it’s just everything she’s ever read or heard bubbling up to the surface of her conscious mind all at once. Does that sound right? Oh, and the most fascinating part: the other day, she wrote something in Arabic. Just three letters that were supposedly someone's name. It's surreal, especially since she doesn't have any affinity for the Middle East or their alphabet. I don't know how to explain it, nezz, but it's as baffling as watching someone suddenly start speaking a language they've never studied.

Get him to the ER.

Waiting until mid-October is just too risky...
To put it simply—every psychotic episode takes a toll on the brain. The longer someone stays in psychosis, the longer the recovery process becomes.
If it turns out it isn't psychosis, then great. But if it is, getting help sooner is always better.
I think what hurts him most is feeling like his mother sees him as an enemy, even if she has her reasons.

What kind of reasons?
Actually, the strangest part was when she wrote something in Arabic one day... just three letters that were supposedly someone's name...

How can you be sure they aren't just random scribbles?
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
Larry Lewis said:I didn't get an immediate F20.0 diagnosis myself—they actually had me on antipsychotics right out of the gate—but I know plenty of people who are prescribed APs without ever experiencing a single moment of psychosis. Honestly, it makes no sense to me; if those doctors looking after her mother didn't catch a psychotic break, then they’re either blind or incompetent, because if it's happening, it should be obvious from a mile away.

On the flip side, I remember heading into a local psychiatric ward for an evaluation just before my own worst episode hit—and let me tell you, I was already deep in the throes of it by then. The doctor on duty looked at me and decided it was absolutely unthinkable that I owned a car while being unemployed; he actually had the nerve to tell the elderly folks there that they should sell their vehicles so I could somehow find work. It’s absurd—I was already spiraling at the time, so it really makes me wonder about the actual quality of education these medical professionals are receiving... that's just my two cents.🤷

True, APs aren't just reserved for psychotic disorders.

As for how easily psychosis can be spotted, it really varies. I’ve seen cases where a doctor saw someone walk in alone, listened to their story, and sent them straight home. Because the patient didn't mention anything significant—nothing that made their family feel they needed medical help—they kept those details to themselves. It just wasn't important to them. 😁 Since nobody showed up with them to provide outside info, the conclusion was simply that they were a bit stressed, just like anyone else. Then, the next day, they were hospitalized for over a month. Turns out, they weren't just "a little stressed"... 🤷 😳
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
Larry Lewis said:The one thing I just can’t wrap my head around regarding this girl's mother is why she hasn't snapped out of that psychotic state yet—because, in my experience, coming back to reality is actually the easiest part of the whole ordeal. It’s what happens afterward that really guts you... I’m talking about the crushing stigma, the way friends and acquaintances suddenly vanish from your life, and even doctors who look at you like you’re some sort of walking disaster zone just waiting to lose control. Then you’ve got the depression, the crippling anxiety, and all that other misery that follows once the dust settles.🤷

If a woman is truly experiencing psychosis but they're only treating her for anxiety and depression, she isn't going to snap out of it anytime soon, if ever.

You can see how it's explained here:
Taylor Swift said:......for now, the doctors and psychologists have diagnosed her with anxiety and depression along with a few other minor things, but she isn't exactly honest with them, so they don't get the full story... though I suspect there's more to it than just mental health issues. On one hand, I think it might be paranoid schizophrenia... because she had another paranoid episode the other day. My son is only two and can't even string a sentence together yet, but he was carrying his grandpa's phone, and she started screaming that we needed to take the phone away because she was going to call 911... plus all sorts of other nonsense. She seems somewhat normal again right now, but I know these outbursts will happen again... she was prescribed some medication that she's taking... so far, I don't see how it helps, other than helping her sleep through the night....
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
Donna Newman82 said:I truly believe stress plays a part. She's been under constant pressure her whole life, and going through menopause right now definitely adds another heavy layer to it all...

How do you all deal with this, or how have you handled family members facing this? When they start with the delusions and paranoia, I understand intellectually that it's just her mind misfiring, but sometimes her comments genuinely shake me or leave me feeling confused and even a bit scared. Like yesterday, I was scrolling through YouTube and the video skipped ahead when I wasn't even touching the playlist. She gave me this intense look and asked, "Huh? Why do you think that happened?" Honestly, I didn't know how else to react besides using sarcasm—it's basically my defense mechanism. xD But in all seriousness, I found myself wondering if the video actually did skip on its own. I know it's not what she claims, but then again, what if it was? I feel like I should be the stable one, but instead, I end up spiraling right along with her.

It all really comes down to the specific circumstances at hand...
Ideally, you shouldn't encourage those ideas, but arguing with her just to prove she's wrong might hurt her feelings and damage the trust she clearly has in you. While that second option is less likely, you could easily find yourself in a position where you simply can't agree with her logic. It might be best to just change the subject before you both get caught up in her delusions...
Once her treatment plan is fine-tuned to match her specific needs and starts taking hold, there might be an opportunity to challenge her perceptions and ground her back in reality... though, of course, it really comes down to the individual case. You should feel free to touch base with her doctor regarding the best way to handle things...

It’s hard to truly grasp how she sees things... her connections are just incredible. To someone else, their perspective is just as real as yours is...
I’ve always made it a point to let people know that I respect their perspective, even if it differs from mine. I would never lie and pretend to see, hear, or smell something just to agree... but acknowledging how they perceive the world is usually enough to keep that trust intact.
Donna Newman82 said:I'll be spending this week looking after my mother. To be honest, my sister hasn't been much help; she refuses to admit that Mom isn't acting like herself. She insists there’s something else going on—some kind of negative energy or something, I can't quite put my finger on it. Anyway, Dad is going to sit down with her doctor and lay everything out plainly.

So, what does it matter if I’ve diagnosed her? It’s all pretty general anyway. To me, the specifics only matter because I need to get some kind of baseline understanding—honestly, I'm just trying to keep my head above water right now. I started connecting the dots to schizophrenia because so many of the symptoms seem to align perfectly.

Auditory hallucinations—specifically hearing voices—are among the most common symptoms of schizophrenia. These aren't just background noises; they are distinct voices that only the individual can hear. Often, these voices engage in their own conversations, comment on what the person is doing, offer unsolicited advice, or direct criticism toward them.I’ve actually found myself getting into heated arguments with them too, even resorting to some choice words once in a while. Voices don't just whisper; sometimes they give orders. This brings us to what clinicians call imperative hallucinations. They wouldn't even let her walk all the way to the edge of the yard yesterday. On top of that, they had the nerve to tell her she was being messy and needs to do more cleaning. -.-
Hallucinations aren't actually that common. When they do happen, people start seeing things that simply aren't there—anything from strange, flickering lights to more intense visions like monsters or demons. She claims she saw these dark silhouettes, though that doesn't necessarily mean anything was actually there. I know plenty of people who have experienced similar visual distortions or hallucinations. In her case, she’s convinced she saw and heard extraterrestrials arriving for us, even flying right over her house. I sometimes experience somatic hallucinations, which means I feel physical sensations that aren't actually triggered by any real stimulus. For instance, I’ll get this unsettling feeling like my internal organs are shifting around or even disintegrating inside me. Other times, it feels like an electric current is surging through my legs. I often find myself linking these sensations to darker thoughts—like the idea that some unseen force is physically attacking or destroying me. She’s connected it to all sorts of things—claiming people from all over the world are sending her love, or on the flip side, that someone is actively draining her energy. She even mentioned feeling these little "energy vampires" crawling around her legs, trying to suck the life out of her. Honestly, she wouldn't say who sent them... I haven't the slightest clue.
Delusional ideas are essentially false beliefs that lack any basis in reality. They aren't just simple mistakes; they are deep-seated misconceptions built on an irrational foundation. One defining characteristic of a delusion is that it remains stubbornly resistant to logic—you can't simply reason someone out of them. Furthermore, these beliefs usually clash directly with the individual's actual education and their cultural background here in America. When someone is struggling with this level of paranoia, they truly believe they’re being followed, plotted against, or even wiretapped. It reaches a point where they feel like people can read their minds, force unwanted thoughts upon them, or exert total control over their physical movements and emotions. They start believing that invisible forces are pulling the strings or that microchips have been implanted to manipulate them. There's also the tendency to believe they are actually someone else—usually a famous historical figure or a celebrity—or that they possess supernatural abilities. They might even think they're receiving coded messages through the TV, radio, or newspapers. I saw this firsthand recently. She was convinced someone was reading her mind and controlling her every move. At one point, she even tried to use a SIM card she found at work, believing it contained some kind of tracking device. About a week after this behavior started, she became convinced she had the power to heal negative energy just by waving her hands around her body. She claimed this "gift" was left to her by her spirit guide, who she believed had to leave because certain outside forces were destroying their connection. On top of all that, she kept talking about the love of her life, and she's convinced that songs are being used as secret messages sent to her—that people are actually manipulating her movements just to force her to play a specific song meant for her or someone else in our family. One specific type of delusion involves ideas of reference—this is when a patient becomes convinced that other people's actions are directed specifically at them, or that random events and strangers hold some strange, often negative, significance tailored just for them.(For instance, she once claimed that a city bus suddenly swerved toward certain buildings before turning sharply, interpreting the maneuver as a direct warning meant only for her. She insisted everyone on the bus looked bewildered and that even the driver seemed confused by his own driving... then there was the time she pulled into what she called a "positive spot" in a parking lot, claiming voices in her head compelled a driver to charge straight at her and that specific location, though she managed to dodge him. To her, even the driver appeared disoriented, as if he didn't understand why he had driven that way.) It’s similar to how someone might believe that people on a TV show or a radio broadcast are actually talking about them.

And honestly, how can I not suspect schizophrenia? Maybe it's something similar to... well, that time she was thrashing around on the floor like something out of a horror movie. She couldn't even speak back then; she just completely blanked out. The next day, she started falling into these trance-like states where her eyes would roll or squint, her head would drop, and her hands would go numb. That was the hardest part for me to witness, and thankfully, it hasn't happened since, but she still has these paranoid outbursts. She talks to herself, scribbles constantly in notebooks, draws...

During an initial psychotic episode, clinicians typically don't jump straight to a schizophrenia diagnosis right away, even if the signs seem obvious... that's just how the practice goes. It’s only once a second episode occurs that they officially record it as schizophrenia...
Schizophrenia - General Discussion in Psychology & Therapy ·
Donna Newman82 said:A friend of mine suggested that I should say an entire generation is being skipped over. What do you all think about that? O.o

Solomon, please, let's move past the old wives' tales and neighborhood gossip. Even science doesn't have all the answers yet. Schizophrenia doesn't necessarily have to come from a parent who has it; it can appear in someone where it hasn't been seen in the family for generations. It isn't just about genetics; there are many different factors at play. Honestly, it’s complicated, and it might not be worth stressing yourself out over, IMO.

Focus instead on supporting your mother in a practical way. If she's experiencing psychosis, then she isn't receiving the right treatment. They told you she was just anxious, but therapy for anxiety is nothing like therapy for psychosis. Until she gets the correct treatment, she won't get better—in fact, things could actually worsen, and it's important you realize that so you don't waste energy. She won't understand if you tell her she's ill, because that's the nature of psychosis; the person loses touch with reality and can't see it any other way until the medication starts working. The right medication...

She needs to see a doctor again (specifically a psychiatrist, not just a general practitioner), and whoever goes with her should provide the medical history. That's standard practice here.

You were telling people they shouldn't try to force others into mental hospitals, yet now you've diagnosed your own mother with sch and are fixated on it. Where is the logic in that? 🤷
Not every psychotic episode means schizophrenia. Psychosis can occur within several different disorders, and as for your mother, she could experience one single episode and never deal with it again.
Kyle Lee7 said:My psychotherapist mentioned to me last week that since their rehabilitation program doesn't actually account for psychotherapy (much like how they wouldn't include physical therapy in a standard plan), it falls under the category of a regular psychiatric consultation. Since those are limited to three visits per year, anything beyond that means we'll be paying out of pocket $33.
Normally, you'd see a therapist once a week. If you skip vacations and holidays, that works out to about 45 sessions a year. So, if I'm paying for 42 of them at $100 each, that's roughly $1400 annually just for psychotherapy. It’s still technically cheaper than seeing a private practitioner—who usually charges $300 or more per session—but it feels incredibly silly. I mean, psychotherapy is its own established category, and this specific clinic is a premier referral center that has been doing this for 60 years... and now, all of a sudden, psychotherapy effectively doesn't exist? Unless, of course, the folks over at the psychiatric hospital manage to talk their way out of covering it.

Bit by bit, we are starting to look more and more like the USA (and not in a good way...).
It's honestly not surprising when you consider the fact that 35% of the population ends up subsidizing healthcare for 100% of the users. ☕
Personally, I'm one of those people who pays for the standard coverage plus supplemental insurance, and yet I still end up going to my neurologist privately and my gynecologist privately...

Nicholas Myers said:I have to admit, this is news to me. I’ve heard whispers about extra fees floating around, but I haven't seen anyone state this officially.

From what I understand, there are referrals for outpatient care, and psychotherapy definitely doesn't fall under the umbrella of a simple "consultation."

Furthermore, there is no regulation stating a limit on annual visits—the mention of three follow-ups usually refers to post-hospitalization check-ins within a six-month window. There is also no rule saying, for instance, that a GP can't refer someone to a psychiatrist ten times a year.

Those kinds of numbers are just hallway talk, unofficial chatter. Officially, I haven't seen a single document mandating a cap on annual psychiatric visits or a specific number of physical therapy sessions for any given diagnosis. 🤷

To be specific about this, a primary care physician can issue a D1 referral that covers outpatient treatment for an entire year, provided they only issue one to a patient annually. They simply list psychotherapy as the reason...
It’s up to the specialist now to decide the duration and frequency of the treatment. Once they issue that referral, Medicare is out of the equation... We'll see if we need to renew it this time next year...

I know there’s been some debate about whether Medicare will actually cover weekly psychotherapy sessions over the course of a year, but from what I’ve gathered in these threads, there was also some confusion regarding the part under LOM’s jurisdiction. My response specifically addresses that... As for the initial number of sessions permitted per specialist, nothing has changed from the previous policy... For now, at least...
Psychotropic medication discussion thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Brian Young5 said:I’m not sure which thread this fits best in, but I’m dealing with this constant tug-of-war between staying sober and actually having a social life.
Ever since I started on some heavier meds—think Seroquel, Depakote, and Normabates—I’ve been strictly avoiding booze. But man, there are endless opportunities where people push it on you. You’re just sitting around, or you’re at a launch event or a promotion, and suddenly everyone’s asking what you want to drink. Every time I say "no thanks," or ask for a soda or water, I get the eyebrow raise. Either they hit me with a barrage of questions, or they start lecturing me about how "one beer or one glass of wine won't hurt."

Usually, I try to dodge it by saying I’m doing a detox, or if I actually trust the person, I’ll admit I overdid it in the past and need to stay healthy now (which is true). Sometimes I go full "confessional mode" with people I’ve known for nearly a decade—telling them about the times I completely embarrassed myself, doing weird yoga poses at parties, saying things I can't even remember later, or sending furious texts to people I was clearly having a volatile moment with.

But honestly, this whole culture of drinking at every single break, celebration, birthday, or even a casual hangout really grates on my nerves. This obsession with being hammered, or at least smelling like a brewery... it’s exhausting. When I tell people no, I constantly feel like they’re looking at me like I have a stick up my ass. Their interest just vanishes, or they look disappointed, and then they give me these suspicious looks when I insist I can have fun without the alcohol. It’s like they think I’m judging them.

I’m running out of ways to decline gracefully without looking like a total buzzkill or making them think I’m on rehab. To be fair, nobody has actually asked me if I'm an addict yet, except for one old friend. How do I turn down a drink while remaining easygoing, witty, and polite instead of sounding like a total killjoy? My doctor and therapist suggest I just tell them I don't like drinking, but I hate lying. Especially because, truth be told, I actually love the taste of a good dry red. There's also this nagging fear that if I'm honest, they'll just write me off as some boring puritan.

All this psych and pharma therapy is supposed to improve my social life, not wreck it through forced prohibition. What do you guys do in my shoes? It’s fine when I’m with my lifelong friends, but it’s a nightmare when meeting new people, which happens all the time lately. I’ve even had two relationships fall apart because of this. People want to be around someone on their level, and those who live to party don't want a "teetotaler" in their circle—one guy even told me he felt judged because I was watching their drunken antics from a sober vantage point.

And one more thing: whenever I’m at a party, I always have to be the first to leave. I take my evening Seroquel, which makes me incredibly sleepy, so I usually stretch it out until about 2 AM before heading to bed. Of course, people always ask why I’m leaving early, probably thinking I’m bored, and they likely wonder if they should even bother inviting me next time.

Just today, some guy invited me "for a beer" for a first date, or whatever. I’m debating whether to tell him right now that I don’t drink, or just surprise him when we meet (though I can already see the look of discouraged indifference in his eyes if I do).

I thought about posting this in the recovery threads, but people post here way more often, and unlike some of the folks in those groups, I’m on medication just like you guys.

Person A: Why don't you drink?
Me: Uh-uh...
Person A: What do you mean?
Me: It doesn't sit right with me. (Option A) / It doesn't work for me. (Option B)

🤷

I’ve only managed to keep a conversation going once...

Person A: How come you don't?
Me: How come you do?

And that was that.
😁

I haven't really touched alcohol in over a decade, maybe twice total during that whole time. So, I've had plenty of these conversations...

I've given my friends more detailed explanations, obviously. This is just for the random strangers who stick their noses where they don't belong.

So now, if anyone wants to roll their eyes in disbelief, go ahead until you pull a muscle. That's their issue...

P.S. If there's interest in continuing this discussion and sharing experiences, I might put something together and move these posts to a separate thread. 🙂
Psychotropic medication discussion thread in Psychology & Therapy ·
Quincy:
Altec777 As Brian Young5 says...
I called my primary care physician today to request a refill for my Seroquel 300 XR, which I’ve been taking for quite some time. She told me that since I've been on it so long, it's just too expensive, and she flatly refused to write the prescription... She didn't even bother suggesting a generic alternative. I have the official recommendation from my psychiatrist, and having used this medication for two years now, I expected much more support than this...

I know there have been some changes to the healthcare system lately, but I find it hard to believe a GP could just flat-out refuse to prescribe a specific medication without even mentioning a generic alternative... It seems unlikely...

Does anyone know anything about this? Has this happened to anyone else...
I missed this at first, but I nearly fell out of my chair when I finally read it...

Altec, didn't they tell you they weren't going to write any more prescriptions for him? Or maybe they're just waiting until you finish this current bottle... Sorry to ask, but I'm honestly baffled...

The standard guideline is that primary care physicians should write prescriptions for more affordable alternatives to what a specialist prescribes, provided the cheaper option wasn't already specified in the initial findings. This doesn't always mean switching to a generic—sometimes those can actually cost more—but in most cases, it's about finding the generic version...

Regarding that point you made, my colleagues over at the health clinic mentioned—and I’ve seen some things online too—that there might not be any cheaper alternatives for the Seroquel in South Dakota form. They aren't entirely sure if one even exists... so take that with a grain of salt...

Could you take a quick look at those two threads regarding the healthcare "reforms" in the Health PDF...I don't see a link provided here... could you please share it?, I'll get that link over to you shortly...Perhaps someone here in the medical or pharmaceutical field who works with these PDFs might have more specific insight... I'm also wondering who exactly handles formal complaints against a physician, and what the actual grounds for doing so would be...