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Sandra Parker3 said:Don't embarrass yourself by trying to cram every single art form into one category; you won't achieve anything beyond sheer chaos. It is better to leave spirituality to those who actually pursue it...

We aren't discussing the art subforum here; we are in the spirituality subforum, which means our objective isn't to categorize various artistic branches, but rather to engage in dialogue regarding spirituality itself. There are separate sections dedicated specifically to that purpose. If you have an interest in those areas, please feel free to post there—we have dedicated spaces for film, music, literature, and other arts. They even have their own chat 😉... among others
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In any case, I have stated my piece to ensure I don't drift too far off-topic
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The spiritual chat will not be reinstated in the foreseeable future, as I determined it was unnecessary, especially since the number of active members in this section hasn't decreased since the chat feature was removed; if anything, engagement has grown. I believe we are moving in the right direction🙂
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
placidorca16 said:Any chance you could ask them, if it’s not too much trouble?

I certainly can, though I have no intention of posting that here on the forum; I will send it to you via private message instead.
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
Kyle Nelson2 said:Does the kid have any other issues going on? Like, maybe with their speech or motor skills?
And did they deal with failure to thrive at some point?

Absolutely nothing at all. My little one speaks wonderfully, and his motor skills are quite advanced for his age... there isn't anything unusual about him; in fact, he is remarkably witty for a child of this stage.

placidorca16 said:Wait, is that psychologist's name John Doe by any chance?

I haven't the slightest idea, as I didn't inquire about that specific detail.🙂

@thanks Keith Jones76
The Spirituality subforum is currently undergoing a series of structural reforms.

I ask that you please direct your attention to the updated guidelines.

There are other PDF files where the chat feature has been disabled; for instance, the Philosophy section was without one for a period as well, and rather than attempting to force its return, users simply transitioned their discussions over to Spirituality. You are perfectly capable of doing the same, and I fail to see why this should be an issue.🤷

I request your patience while I complete the tasks I have set out to accomplish; once finished, we shall discuss the matter of the chat.

Let me be quite clear: attempts at coercion or undue pressure will yield nothing but further chaos. Such behavior will only increase my workload regarding these trivial grievances and serve to delay both the cleanup of the PDF file and the eventual reopening of the chat.

My position remains unchanged: the Spirituality section became far too focused on constant chatting and social gathering. Once I am satisfied that such activities are not the sole purpose of this subforum, we will establish a dedicated chat thread.

You will find it manageable to wait for a few weeks.
Sandra Parker3 said:How much weight do you actually put behind your promises, my dear friend?

Well, frankly speaking, given your rather condescending attitude, I have completely lost any desire to ever reopen a single lively discussion thread again.

Thanks
Chloe Wilson46 said:I am joining this request as one of the most active participants in the chat and various other private threads. For me, this forum has always been a sanctuary for relaxation, and I have developed a genuine emotional connection to all these topics, especially the chat. Even Florence Nightingale herself noted that I contributed more than most to specific threads, so I feel it is quite unfair for us all to be "punished" simply because of a few exceptions to the rule.

🤣

Well... let’s not get carried away here. I never claimed you were the single greatest contributor; I merely said kudos to you. That phrasing can certainly be read in multiple ways, and it could even be interpreted as sarcasm. You chose to interpret it exactly how you wanted—though I believe you completely misread the context—to suit your own narrative. Furthermore, I haven't been punishing anyone based on exceptions. You are facing consequences because you ignored my explicit request to stop using a thread for chatting when it wasn't intended for that purpose.

So, to all the chatterboxes out there: please calm down and find yourselves a different outlet for now. Sooner or later, a dedicated spirituality chat will be reopened.
Kate Fisher73 said:(@colour, you are a queen. 🙏 I was actually hoping to finally get flagged for being insulting just so I could write about how Bellwether isn't quite bright enough to realize how foolish Florine is, though I fear this "appeal" might not even go through, but regardless, I refrained from doing so out of respect for you 😁)

Coming from you, those words can only be taken as a compliment.
My thanks to you, and I would kindly ask that you do not penalize Enky for such carefully selected vocabulary. 🙂
The moderator, hiddenhound3, feels that this specific forum thread has become far too cluttered with casual chat and niche collector discussions. Consequently, she decided to lock those topics and launch a fresh one, explicitly requesting that everyone refrain from insults, bickering, or inflammatory comments. It is quite remarkable that it took a mere twenty posts for the group to descend into exactly that kind of hostility. Ultimately, hiddenhound3 concluded that such a topic simply doesn't belong here, as her primary goal is for this community to maintain an atmosphere of genuine peace and tranquility.

Once the regulars decide to engage with more substantial subject matter—for instance, I don't believe user colour has ever contributed much beyond the chat room or trading digital stickers (though I would appreciate a reminder if my memory fails me, as scrolling through her entire history is quite tedious)—perhaps there will be a desire for a new discussion thread. If you are looking for that level of chaotic banter, there are two other sub-forums, similar to a local community bulletin board or a hobbyist message board, where you are more than welcome to play.

The overall integrity of this spiritual forum has been significantly compromised, and I have made the decision to address it; you are all encouraged to do the same.

This discussion is now closed.

Thank you for your understanding.
Jeremy Alvarez5 said:Alright, here we go. This thread is basically about the intersection of mental illness and religion—so half psychology, half theology. I guess I wonder if any actual scientists have ever dared to dig into whether specific types of mental disorders correlate with specific religions. Like, has anyone actually published data showing that a certain percentage of people with a particular condition belong to a certain faith?

It seems pretty clear that religion can be a really effective tool when helping people recover from addiction. You see it in those communities where they combine intense physical labor with prayer and deep religious conviction...

I’m honestly fascinated by this whole topic. I’d be super grateful for any thoughts you guys have, or even just some links or book recommendations if you know of anything good out there.

So, looking at Carl Gustav Jung, born in 1875, who went to boarding school in San Francisco, studied medicine, worked at a psychiatric hospital, taught at a university, and ran his own private practice. He had that whole complicated relationship with Sigmund Freud 🙂, developed his theories on personality, traveled around studying the traditions, history, and rituals of various tribes across Africa, the Americas, and India. He wrote about twenty books, including "Answer to job" [referring to the biblical figure, not a career job], and passed away in 1961. Interestingly, once he hit his 80s, he started working with a biographer who mentioned in her preface that he truly believed religious conviction plays a vital role in treating mental illness.

That leads me to my big question: if faith is so crucial for healing, could it also be a deciding factor in how these conditions develop in the first place?

Three, two, one... let's hear it!

PS

Since Jeremy Alvarez5 managed to kick off that discussion on suicide over in the philosophy section, which naturally flowed into spirituality and psychology, I was thinking it would be cool if this thread eventually made its way over there too. Ideally, I'd love to see this become a sort of grand tour through philosophy, religion, and spirituality—maybe even ending up in the history section down the road. Personally, I jump between all those subforums, but since some of the most interesting people I talk to here only tend to post where they feel most comfortable 🙂, maybe the mods could encourage them more? Maybe give them more space to speak up, share photos, or even memes and debates 😢. That way, I won't have to feel like a nuisance by reposting the same topic across every single board under different titles and trying to twist things to suit my own agenda, which—if I'm being honest—is something I tend to do. 🙂 Cheers to the hardworking moderators. 🙏 😍

It is my firm belief that this approach is misguided, primarily because I view religion in this context as nothing more than
a surrogate for the drug itself. Someone once famously remarked that religion is the opium of the people, a sentiment I agree with
unreservedly; I believe that using religion as a therapeutic tool is merely substituting one addiction for another. Whether it is humanitarian work,
animal rescue, or even sports, these activities often function as mere substitutes for dependency.
Addiction cannot be cured simply through a sudden spiritual conversion.

Religion and spirituality are matters toward which a human being should naturally gravitate by
instinct, rather than utilizing them as a tool to rectify past misconduct.

THERE IS NO PENANCE. We cannot undo the mistakes made in our lives through any action; we can only
accept them exactly as they are.

In any case, it is a fascinating subject. 👍

The literature I have studied regarding this matter consists of a small amount of Jung and a great deal of Peck.
I find myself short on time at this moment, but I will certainly continue to follow the development of this discussion.
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
nimbleviper142 said:What the hell is that supposed to mean? Look, I'm just throwing out suggestions and ideas, trying to be helpful... maybe it never crossed your mind to actually go ask around, which might actually help. Why do I even bother? 🙄

@redharbor9: I mean, it's not like they're gonna drag the kid to the first alternative practitioner they stumble upon. Sure, things might be desperate, but anyone with half a brain is going to do some research first. Though, most people don't really buy into that hypnosis stuff, so I doubt the OP is even considering it. Honestly, there's no point in arguing at this point.

Please, calm down. 🙂

I am merely inquiring whether such a thing is feasible and if you happen to have any prior experience with it.
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
nimbleviper142 said:Probably some irrational fear... maybe hypnosis could work? Not sure if that actually does anything for kids this young, but worth a shot if you're desperate..

They are also considering the possibility of hypnosis, though they are grappling with the exact same uncertainty regarding whether such a method is even viable for a child so young..
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
Matthew Hayes14 said:Something clearly happened at that daycare.
Maybe a teacher shamed him for making a mistake, like a mess with his food or something similar.
He spilled something, missed a target, who knows—maybe she just made him feel gross for what he did.
She shamed him because he didn't succeed (poor kid—he's only two!) according to her specific standards.
And how she expected things to go.
(It isn't easy for her dealing with toddlers and messy little kids, but they are still learning.)
Maybe she punished him, or maybe she just yelled or embarrassed him.

It would be wise to figure out exactly what is causing this shame
and address that specific issue.

Don't wait too long. The child is growing,
and it's a shame for him to grow up carrying this weight.
His poor little system is suffering day after day, along with everything else tied to it.
Protect that little body (four years old!)
and his young soul.
Save him, dear child.

It would be wise to figure out exactly what is causing this shame
and address that specific issue.

It isn't actually shame he's feeling, but rather fear... which was my exact motivation for starting this thread, to gather different perspectives on what might drive children to hold their bowel movements, given that we haven't encountered any such difficulties with our little one.
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
Gary James88 said:What exactly did he say he was afraid of?

It could be anything. You really need a child psychologist to sit down, run a full assessment, and look at his whole social environment to pinpoint what’s actually causing the stress. Honestly, this sounds like a reaction to daycare, though it could be something else entirely.

I'm also not totally clear on whether the psychologist started actual treatment or if they just had one single session.

To clarify the situation, he consulted with a highly experienced child psychologist in Boston. He underwent approximately ten sessions, which even incorporated the use of laxatives, yet nothing yielded any significant results. Ultimately, the specialist herself admitted her limitations in this specific case, suggesting that they simply have to wait until puberty begins.

However, I am certain that this is by no means an isolated incident.
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
vividbison13 said:Look, folks, none of this is going to work...
It pains me to be the one to say it, but you guys are acting like you've got all the answers when you really don't...
I'm coming at this from a place of total experience, hanging out here like some guy who’s seen it all, because honestly, I was the exact same kid growing up...
And I'd really like to save you years upon years of wasted time...
Not to mention the sheer misery you're going to put a child through by forcing things like castor oil down their throat or trying to push penicillin when it isn't needed...
Let me put it this way for you...
We've already figured this out—it's purely psychological...
Why?
Because it's the one way a kid can express their refusal without being outright disrespectful...
Try taking a few days off work, staying home with the kid constantly,
and then just casually mention that you might have to tell their favorite auntie or someone they actually care about that they're being difficult about using the bathroom...
I was exactly the same way; I went twenty-eight days without going once...
And you know what? It worked. For me, this lasted for years, and eventually, it turns into
this deep-seated aversion... To this day, I still find the whole process of using the restroom more unpleasant than most, but
now that I'm an adult, I have a better handle on things and can deal with my own issues more effectively...
The truth is, the kid is terrified, just like I used to be afraid of walking straight into a confrontation, because that standoff represents their stubbornness and their desperate need for attention...
The moment they finally go, that entire defensive wall comes crumbling down like a house of cards...

Thanks for listening.

Thank you for sharing that with us. It always feels a little easier knowing you aren't alone,
no matter how terrible it may sound.🙂

Matthew Hayes14 said:Something clearly happened at that daycare.
Maybe a teacher shamed him for making a mistake, like a mess with his food or something similar.
He spilled something, missed a target, who knows—maybe she just made him feel gross for what he did.
She shamed him because he didn't succeed (poor kid—he's only two!) according to her specific standards.
And how she expected things to go.
(It isn't easy for her dealing with toddlers and messy little kids, but they are still learning.)
Maybe she punished him, or maybe she just yelled or embarrassed him.

It would be wise to figure out exactly what is causing this shame
and address that specific issue.

Don't wait too long. The child is growing,
and it's a shame for him to grow up carrying this weight.
His poor little system is suffering day after day, along with everything else tied to it.
Protect that little body (four years old!)
and his young soul.
Save him, dear child.

It would be wise to figure out exactly what is causing this shame
and address that specific issue.

That is precisely the concern—that their entire intestinal system could become permanently deformed over time, potentially leading to serious complications.
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
Gary James88 said:What exactly did he say he was afraid of?

It could be anything. You really need a child psychologist to sit down, run a full assessment, and look at his whole social environment to pinpoint what’s actually causing the stress. Honestly, this sounds like a reaction to daycare, though it could be something else entirely.

I'm also not totally clear on whether the psychologist started actual treatment or if they just had one single session.

That is precisely where the difficulty lies; reaching him is nearly impossible. He will express fear and then simply shut down, refusing to utter another word.

As far as I am aware, there was only one visit, as the parents lost interest in pursuing further sessions. That particular specialist merely suggested that this was likely the result of some form of stress. It might truly be beneficial to seek out a different professional.

In general, the little one is quite a delicate child, and they were seeing a doctor at least once a month. There are constant colds and fevers, even if nothing is particularly serious.

I cannot say for certain; perhaps he experienced some level of stress during those temperature checks... I really have no idea.
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
Gary James88 said:Does he only wet himself at daycare, or does it happen at home too?

If you think there's a psychological angle to this, your best bet is starting with a child psychologist. Since this has been going on for two years now, it's definitely getting harder to tackle, but I’d imagine it's still fixable before puberty hits.

It happens constantly; he never goes voluntarily. To be honest, I suspect he isn't even going during the day anymore, but rather just having accidents in his sleep throughout the night.

If there is any suspicion that these issues stem from psychological roots, the most prudent course of action would be to consult a child psychologist. Although resolving such a situation becomes significantly more complex once a problem has persisted for two years, I am confident that finding a solution remains entirely possible before puberty begins.

When we asked him why he stayed silent at first, he was completely unwilling to discuss it, eventually admitting through much insistence that he is simply afraid.
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
James Ramirez10 said:Has the kid seen a psychologist yet?

Yes, though he mentioned they are simply waiting for puberty to hit, so nothing definitive has been established quite yet.🙄
Reflex retention in Psychology ·
I am starting this thread because I’ve been thinking quite a bit about a situation involving a friend’s young son.
The boy is four years old, and ever since he started preschool two years ago, he has been refusing to have bowel movements.😢It causes him an immense amount of physical discomfort and pain.

Since the child has already been seen by several different doctors, and their collective consensus is that he is perfectly healthy from a physiological standpoint, my own conclusion is that he is somehow consciously attempting to suppress his natural reflexes. He cries intensely, jumps around, clings to whatever he can reach, and suffers through visible spasms.

Perhaps my assessment is incorrect, but the situation is truly distressing. The parents were told that the issue is psychological in nature and that it will likely resolve itself naturally by the time he reaches puberty.😲
I was once in a relationship with someone who struggled with bipolar disorder and manic depression. They possessed an incredibly sensitive and gentle soul, paired with a brilliant, creative mind.

While I never let their mental health struggles become a point of contention between us, I will certainly not claim that navigating the situation was easy.
Sauna (2008) in Movies ·
A tense, highly stylized historical horror film from the Finnish-Chinese kung fu film tradition.
The story unfolds during the late 16th and early 17th centuries within the marshlands bordering Sweden and Russia.
Representatives from both the Swedish and Russian courts embark on a joint expedition intended to establish a definitive border and finally bring a protracted war to an end.
That serves as the basic framework of the plot; I suggest you experience the rest for yourselves. 🙂

While it may not boast a high rating on IMDb, I found myself deeply impressed by the work. It is gripping, features stunning cinematography, offers a compellingly original narrative, and is elevated by dialogues that feel meaningful, almost philosophical in nature.

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