stormyowl2 said:Look, Angela Wright, I don't think the doctor was reacting so aggressively because you suggested propolis; it was more like, "Who do you think you are suggesting treatments?" They went through medical school, not you.
As for specialists, I realized a long time ago that everyone is their own best specialist. I spent a year and a half being dragged around by doctors who insisted I just had some fatty tissue under my armpit. Finally, I took matters into my own hands, went to a private surgeon, and it turned out to be Hodgkin disease—exactly like what happened to your friend. TERRIFYING.
No, actually, she rolled her eyes because she probably assumed we were colleagues (it’s happened at hospitals before where people address me as "colleague," likely because I'm pretty fluent in medical terminology😍 once, a head nurse actually called me out after I corrected her for giving my mom the wrong concentration of mannitol compared to what was written on the chart—and this was back when I was either in med school or doing my residency😂, though I actually graduated in fashion design😁 ) so she acted like, "How did you end up in such a low-level position? You're basically throwing money down the drain."
Honestly, I totally get why they're so arrogant (shoutout to the few exceptions, may God bless them), but I've learned that the best way to handle them is to stand your ground and act like you're a neurosurgeon👍. That's basically how I managed to navigate the hospital system to get my mom the care she actually needed.