mistymoose57 said:Oncology and neurosurgery are two completely different things. Honestly, you're talking a big game for someone claiming to be a "medical professional." Once you actually learn the basics and stop bashing colleagues without having any real insight into the situation, feel free to reach out. ☕
Exactly🙄. There is zero teamwork here. It’s the same dysfunctional vibe my mother has been dealing with for two years while battling glioblastoma—she doesn't have a dedicated neurologist who actually tracks her progress or talks to her oncologist. Instead, we show up for appointments, and then the oncologist has to sprint through the halls of the hospital just to hunt down some random on-call neurologist who might be willing to grace us with their presence and look at her scans. Everyone is just waiting for a chance to trip one another up or stab a colleague in the back, but it's the patient who ends up feeling the blade. Sure, the system is a disaster, money is tight, and resources are scarce, but I seriously question the ethics and basic morality of the staff at Mayo Clinic when they can't even maintain professional courtesy among themselves, let alone toward patients who are essentially being processed through a revolving door.
And please, don't try to sell me that tired, out-of-context, incredibly stupid line about how "we're all struggling and it's hard to bond with patients"—it makes me sick! My mother has all the emotional support in the world; she doesn't need it from you! If I, a thirty-year-old woman, can rise above the crushing reality of watching her die without help, then surely every medical worker—who deals with death as a daily, natural occurrence—can manage the same. You aren't gods, and you can't perform miracles beyond human capability, so if you can't handle that reality, stay out of medicine! What my mom needs from you (which God knows you are capable of providing, just like anyone else) is a healthy doctor-patient relationship and a neurologist who finally takes charge of her case before she passes away.😠