In my case, the Estée Lauder moderators just let violett and Victoria88 insult me. They call me an idiot and say I'm acting crazy—all because I don't shower them with kisses over their fake "luxury" hauls. I also don't play nice with users who prioritize spending on themselves over their own kids. I just say what I think without being a suck-up. Mind you, I have never once used profanity against anyone. And my reports? The moderators completely ignore them. Funny enough, when I called one of them a hypocrite, she deleted my comment instantly. I guess they're too busy for everyone else's posts—and there are several of them, not just one—but I bet they have plenty of time to gossip about me with the other mods.
Look, I can play dirty too if I decide to sink to a level I've never hit before, but I'll try to stay above it.
Edit: One of my reports was to get this specific comment removed, and honestly, it's harmless compared to the others:
Victoria88 said:...I don't know if she's ever bought anything more expensive than $3.25..
...so the lovely moderator decided it didn't need deleting, just moving from the main thread to the chat room. Brilliant. My compliments to her. 🙄 Moderator: Go ahead and ban me for questioning the moderation. Let's keep everything perfectly "consistent." 🤮
Is calling someone an idiot or saying they’re fighting with their own brain actually considered insulting here? On Estée Lauder, apparently not. That kind of stuff is totally "in," and posts like that never get deleted or penalized. Instead, people just spend forever in the chatroom gossiping about "that Victoria88," and of course, the moderator doesn't have the time to step in 🙄. Unless I am the one who reacts—which happened just once a few days ago—then suddenly her response is lightning fast. I can report posts all day long, but nothing happens.
So, go ahead. You moderators and admins can keep laughing or plotting "what to do about Victoria88" behind the scenes, which is what I’ve heard happens anyway. Or maybe you think I wouldn't know because I'm not from New York City? If that's the case, you clearly don't know your members, and you definitely don't know me. I am not some suck-up looking for favors, and I'm certainly not a hypocrite. I have no interest in playing games or hovering around people just to stay in their good graces—which explains why people can say whatever they want about me without any consequences. But the second I speak up, boom, 45 points deducted for "insulting a user." Fine. I called someone stupid. It's an insult, take the points. But when people write the things I mentioned earlier about me, everyone just shrugs :klap: and there are no penalties or deletions. It's barbaric. And what? Are you really proud of yourselves for that? My compliments.
Mhm... yeah... maybe this can continue for a while, but only until I decide I've had enough. That will be happening very soon if this post doesn't get a result. I’ll handle it the way online harassment is handled. Legally, of course. I don't know how to do anything else except through official paperwork and institutions.
Susan Anderson33 said:I'm really into maxi dresses lately. Can you actually find anything decent around here?
You can find them at C&A. There's also a woman selling them via Instagram boutiques if you're interested. Just shoot me a PM and I'll give you her handle or connect you two directly.
We totally missed the downtown shopping center today. I ended up grabbing a few short-sleeve tees instead. They had sizes ranging from 50 to 54, so there was plenty to choose from.
Don't forget, if you have VIP status, you're entitled to a 10% discount. Just text the keyword CENTRA to 13131. You'll get a code to show at the register. Simple as that.
I shop at H&M. They don't carry plus-size suits, but I can fit into an XL or L sometimes... there’s this specific line, the Divided Basics, that fits me perfectly. I wear a US size 14/16, but in that specific line, you can really only find t-shirts—nothing else. In the "standard" H&M XL, there is absolutely no way I'm fitting into those. Those are just tiny little shirts that make you want to cry when you see the XL label; they're clearly made for someone of average weight. But the sizing in this line feels real. Plus, the shirts are priced at $23 and most importantly for me—they are actually long. Every single shirt I buy ends up being too short, especially after a wash. These seem pretty high quality, though. Now comes the first wash, and then we'll see how they hold up.
- These are from my personal collection. They've been played, but they aren't damaged at all.
Price: $10 each or $50 for both +Standard USPS shipping $1.75, or $2.25 total for both +Certified mail $3.25, or $4.00 total for both +Local pickup via FedEx $3.25
There’s no way I’m like Kik. I’m a size 4 in Kik and a 4 in C&A most of the time, though occasionally a 6. That’s actually my first plus-size number! A 1XL would be massive on me, yet according to Bonprix, I’d be a 14?!
Honestly, I won't order anything. It's too much of a risk, and the prices aren't exactly cheap either... this thing for $17 requires spending more than a specific amount. It says so on their websites, I don't remember the exact figure, but it's pretty high.
The Calzedonia outlet is definitely its own thing when it comes to $3.75. I haven't really looked at their dumbbells, though. Honestly, I’ve regretted buying standalone items before 😂. It's not their fault, though. It's just my own clumsy mistakes 🤣.
And I can't... I just can't. If I did, I'd have to deal with more stuff on top of it. It’s too small an amount anyway, and I'm done spending money right now. So, I think I won't 😢.
Mine definitely aren't. I know Italian sizing runs about four sizes smaller. In other words, this 54/56 would actually be a 50/52, which would fit me much better. Besides, I rarely wear a size 50, and it’s not like I suddenly gained weight and jumped to a 56 overnight. It's a good thing it didn't occur to me to order that skirt in a size 50.
Usually, I wear a US size 18 or 20. But according to their sizing chart, I’m looking at a 24 or 26🤷. Are these things just running super small? Because what even is a size 2—is that for a baby? 🙂
Has anyone here actually shopped on this site before?
One more thing—if anyone else is placing an order, I’d love to jump in on it. Or if someone wants to tag along on mine, let me know. There’s a minimum order requirement,$66 and this skirt is only $56.
crimsonviper14 said:That shirt is actually pretty nice. I guess I’ll have to check Kik's site to see what else they've got out. I just checked their website and honestly, I can't find the news. Is it one of these?
They deleted my photo 🙂:.
Basically, no, I don't see the picture online—but this is plus size. They go up to 5XL. These aren't those "small" sizes that stop at a 14; they strictly run from 1XL to 5XL.
They also have some pretty beige options in those same sizes and similar cuts, but I was dead set on black.
There’s actually a great selection of tees and tops too. The fabrics are decent and the cuts are modern. They've definitely leveled up lately. If I had more cash, I’d grab way more stuff. It wasn't like this before.
