It was quite red initially, but now—four weeks post-op—it’s shifted to more of a pinkish hue (I suppose the color just fades over time). I’m mostly just hoping it doesn't spread too much, because that would mean dealing with a thick, ugly keloid in a visible spot, which would honestly be such an aesthetic nightmare for my self-confidence. I am doing everything in my power to prevent that from happening, though—I’m avoiding sun exposure, making sure not to strain my arms too much, and using medical patches (which I feel somehow helps "hold" the skin together). I've also started applying some vitamin E oil, which seems to work wonders since it's quite oily and easy to spread... all in all, I'm being extremely cautious about it. 😁 Sam Hayes, where is your keloid located? Did yours come from a surgery as well?
@fadedmarlin402/">@@fadedmarlin402 - honestly, it’s healing—the wound has closed up and most of the scabs have finally fallen off.
@Amanda Allen92/">@@Amanda Allen92 - I think you’re right; skin texture varies so much, and I suppose where the scar actually sits makes a huge difference too. For instance, I have another scar somewhere else that's barely even noticeable—it's just a tiny, thin line... but this one on my upper arm? Good grief. This is actually the second time I’ve had to deal with it spreading, which is pretty scary considering it hasn't even been four weeks since my surgery. I guess if it were in a less obvious spot, I probably wouldn't be sweating it this much, but seeing it right there just makes me cringe 😢 oh well, it is what it is, I suppose... Oh, and I was wondering, could gaining weight affect how fresh scars stretch out? I think I might have put on maybe two pounds since the procedure 😂
Hi there... I recently had a surgical procedure, and I’ve started noticing that my scar is beginning to widen—so I'm thinking it might be time to start applying something before it spreads too much (it's located on my upper arm) So, I was wondering if it makes sense to treat a new scar using rosehip oil in combination with Dermatix (that silicone-based scar gel)? For instance, maybe applying Dermatix in the morning and then the oil in the afternoon? Or would it be better to just stick to one product? I'm mostly asking because I wouldn't want to cause some kind of adverse reaction by mixing things or overworking the skin, I guess. That Dermatix was pretty pricey, around $110 for that little white tube, so I'm assuming you get what you pay for 🤷 (has anyone here actually tried it?) Any and all advice is welcome Thanks so much!
P.S. I really don't mean to lecture you—and heaven forbid I offend you, because that’s truly not my intention at all—but I just wanted to share how I’m perceiving this whole "issue" of yours. In my view, the core of it might actually just be your perspective... though, I suppose it's hard to say for sure through a computer screen, isn't it?
Honestly, looking back at this thread, you’ve posted more about your own situation than all of us combined—which really makes it easy to see who you are. It feels a bit manipulative, if I'm being honest, and maybe even slightly hypocritical too. It’s also pretty obvious that whenever anyone offers even the slightest bit of constructive criticism, you immediately go on the attack—it's like you take everything so personally. I suppose the truth hurts, otherwise, you wouldn't be reacting this way. Seriously, you really need to make up your mind; with such an abrasive and evasive attitude, you aren't just going to face social rejection now, you might end up totally isolated forever. We all get it, really—we can see you're struggling—but aggression isn't exactly the solution to solving personal problems. I feel bad saying it, but it's just the reality here. Anyway, I wish you the best... hopefully you can grow up soon, or find some healing, or whatever helps 🙂
Dear Chris Cooper5, I suppose I’m a bit of an odd duck myself—and honestly, if I had to choose between having a friend like you or just being alone, I’d take the solitude every single time. I’d much rather deal with my own company than be called a "friend" by someone hypocritical and two-faced. It’s that whole... well, one minute I might feel some affection for you, and the next, I just find the whole thing distasteful. Normal, decent people don't play those kinds of games, you know? And from what I can gather, you’re definitely a master of them. 😁 Socializing hasn't exactly been easy for me either, especially after everything I've gone through—dealing with various mental health struggles and all that. But I try to make an effort every day. Other people might certainly be different from you, but then again, they're only different because you're so uniquely yourself. You really shouldn't change who you are for anyone else, but that mindset of yours—that "people just get on my nerves" attitude—it tends to push others away. It's probably no wonder you feel like you don't quite fit in.
I don't actually drink coffee at all, and I have to say—I feel pretty incredible... honestly, you guys might want to consider cutting back on the caffeine intake a bit too