wanderingbadger44 said:Me neither. 🙂 That is exactly why I keep a whole drawer full of extra pens ready for anyone who finds themselves empty-handed. I have no interest in wasting my energy on people who already have everything they need.
We shouldn't be teaching students that showing up to class without their supplies is no big deal, because that kind of attitude just sets them up for failure later on.
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This is a heartfelt message intended for everyone shaping our children's futures—from teachers and principals to parents, counselors, journalists, and school inspectors.
If someone sits there without a pen and ends up burning through their precious exam time just searching for one, asking to borrow one, or scrambling to find a solution, then honestly, that’s where I start to have a real issue. It’s like watching someone lose the race before it even starts because they weren't prepared for the basics.
I find myself wondering which path would be easier for me: simply handing him a pen, or getting caught up in an exhausting argument with the people listed above. You hit the nail right on the head. 🙂
Will he end up being an idiot? Well, that would be quite a shame. 🙂
I’ll continue this conversation assuming we aren't talking about kids from families struggling to make ends meet. In those cases, I’d certainly show a bit more empathy and tact, especially if parents are forced to choose between buying school supplies and putting food on the table.
As for everyone else, in some perfect version of reality, I could tell them straight to their faces that enabling these habits and forcing them to continue only hurts the children; it teaches them how to be irresponsible without facing consequences, yet you can't say that without being labeled a monster or some self-important, misguided academic—it’s just nonsense. My God, I don't understand the logic. We ignore basic upbringing, the passing down of values, and the guidance of these kids until they hit eighteen, and then what? Do we expect them to magically transform into mature, responsible, honest, and hardworking adults the second those candles are blown out on their eighteenth birthday? Believing in Santa Claus is more logical than that line of thinking.
At least within the school system—which, based on your description, means your specific staff, specialists, and principal—there ought to be an understanding of how harmful these practices are, along with some mutual support. Since that clearly doesn't exist in your workplace, the path of least resistance makes sense, but I have to say that such an approach toward students is just ugly; it’s obvious that the educational component is completely missing. As someone who is often targeted by informal criticism because I advocate for these standards, I can tell you plainly that it never crosses my mind to criticize my fellow teachers when there isn't a stash of twenty pencils available because the kids didn't bring their gear and the parents don't care. None of my colleagues in the counseling department or the principal would dream of making a scene either. It all seems to come down to luck, really—whether you happen to land in a faculty that possesses actual expertise and the will to apply it, or one that provides actual support for its staff when they are right, rather than just catering to certain individuals who are either incompetent or opportunistically taking the easy way out just to avoid any friction.