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Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
loneseal said:Abnormal circumstances drive people to abnormal actions. If you’ve been stuck in a chaotic environment for years, you aren't going to have the same perspective on things as someone who grew up in a stable, normal setting. For a Syrian guy, killing is just something happening constantly right next to him—it's his daily reality. It makes sense he won't be reacting to murder with the same shock as some Dane. It isn't about being "normal" or "abnormal," it's about what you see every single day.

And it’s not about stigmatizing Islam like some "intellectual" concluded, because I'm pretty sure if we were talking about a Canadian immigrant, we wouldn't be seeing this level of pushback.

So, does their lack of shock imply they’re actually going to kill?
Is suffering through all that trauma supposed to be a reason to discriminate against them?!

See, it’s not about stigmatizing Islam... it’s about people from the Middle East. Big difference.

frozencobra50 said:I’m not trying to "say" anything, I’m just observing that some people are pushing this narrative about Syrians who supposedly just want safety and an escape from war, implying they'd head back home once the fighting stops. It's as if they don't use their brains enough to realize these people have zero intention of ever going back... they don't want to be anywhere else except where their existence is guaranteed without them having to lift a single finger.

PS. Yeah, every Syrian is a refugee, even for economic reasons.

If you actually used your brain, you'd realize they have nothing left to go back to. The father of that dead child went back to Syria to bury his kid, his brother, and his mother, only to find 11 fresh graves filled with his family. He left in June. People flee a country where you lose 11 family members in three months. That place is scorched earth. What kind of irresponsible idiots would think they could count on a quick return or a normal life in Syria anytime soon? They have to look at Europe as their new home. They have to, for their own sake and their kids'. Whether you like it or not.

PS. No, not every Syrian is an economic refugee, for God's sake. Do you realize that entire country is a war zone?

PPS. How many refugees from the American Civil War actually made it back to their homes?

PPPS. You know how many American families are leaving the country right now as economic migrants, heading en masse to Germany?
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
So what’s the point of constantly trying to spin why these people are showing up? When you keep insisting they aren't refugees but just economic migrants, it honestly looks like you're trying to strip away their right to be here. It makes it seem like you're implying things aren't actually that bad where they are—even though they are—just so you can claim they're only after more cash and social perks at the expense of American citizens. To me, it sounds like you're just saying they're looking for a handout.

PS. Every Syrian is a refugee.
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
loneseal said:Look, Preat doesn't have any blind spots or biases here. We see exactly what kind of extremism is running the show in those regions every single day. Of course, most people coming from those areas aren't to blame, but let’s be real—there’s a massive amount of fear in our country. When we take them in, we're essentially increasing the risk to our own kids. Don't we have every right to be afraid? And honestly, don't we have good reasons for it, too?

Walter Grant5, nobody’s arguing with what you're saying. But honestly, we moved past where they are a long time ago. To them, taking a life is just business as usual. For us? It’s absolutely sickening.

😲
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
loneseal said:Living space has always been divided up; people have always split things into "ours" and "theirs." And let’s be real, they’ve always tried to grab what belongs to someone else. These local good Samaritans act like they’re blind, pretending they don't see the fact that most of America is totally uncomfortable with these newcomers because of who they are, what they bring, and how they look at us. If we were talking about taking in Canadians or Estonians, nobody would be pushing back like this. But when you’re dealing with groups where you have more than enough evidence that they won't assimilate—and could potentially harbor a bunch of unstable terrorists—that’s a whole different story.

Prejudice squared. Most of the world is just made up of regular folks. Completely normal people.
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
frozencobra50 said:And that is exactly what I was saying. These aren't war refugees; they're economic migrants. And on top of that, they're undocumented. 🙂

Sure, not everyone's a refugee—some are definitely just looking for work—but I highly doubt that's all you were actually trying to say.
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
graniteheron132 said:Look, I’m a refugee myself. My old man fled alongside me and my sister to escape those bloodthirsty hordes back home 😉 but, he stayed right there on the front lines like most of the capable men did. We had our paperwork in order, and once we made it to the US, we got our official refugee status—we were fully identified. We definitely didn't turn down any help, honestly; at that point, the only thing that mattered was surviving the border crossing. The way some people are acting now is just pure chaos. This isn't Syria or some other lawless wasteland; there needs to be some kind of order. I’m totally with Jessica Gonzalez on this one—if every able-bodied man runs away, who’s left to fight? Who’s actually going to step up and bring about change one day? Is the EU really going to just open its doors to every single citizen from every single country whenever a war breaks out?

So you're siding with Jessica Gonzalez, but have you actually checked if all the capable men are really fleeing? Or are you just agreeing with something that could be miles away from the truth based on a few refugee photos?!
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
frozencobra50 said:This whole thing has absolutely nothing to do with my original post, which stated that we aren't talking about war refugees here, but economic migrants. In fact, this just proves my point. If someone can't see that, there's nothing I can do for them.

But since I'm already here airing my grievances...
Everyone has the right to fight for a better life—them, me, you. But laws exist for a reason. They are meant to be respected. Not so hordes can just swarm into Germany without a care in the world for anything else.

I find it hard to believe that if I suddenly headed to Sweden right now and told them, "Hey, I'm here to live and work, so show me some hospitality," they wouldn't just tell me, "Slow down, buddy, there's some bureaucratic red tape we need to clear first." And honestly? I probably would never even get a long-term permit in Sweden. Meanwhile, Syrians are rushing into Germany like they're under some kind of spell, crossing borders illegally because they know damn well it's the easiest way to land a decent job—or if they don't find one, they'll just sit back on €900 in state welfare with housing paid for.

You think that’s a valid point? It isn't. At most, it's relevant to you and your personal bias, because you feel sympathy for individuals who have suffered, whereas you feel nothing for those who were smart enough to leave at the right time and do everything legally. But that's just your take. At the end of the day, both groups are simply economic migrants.

If Sweden shuts its doors on you, you just head back home to America. If Sweden shuts its doors on them, they go back to Somalia. That's a massive, massive difference, and it needs to be factored in.

And look, if you were in their shoes, wouldn't you head straight to where finding a job is easiest? Or at least somewhere where you'd have some social safety net and a place to stay while you hunt? It gives you that window of stability to actually find work. You wouldn't go to a place like that? Of course you would. So let's not even pretend otherwise.
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
Jessica Gonzalez said:I guess I actually see things the opposite way; it should be the Syrians themselves, specifically the young men, who step up to get Syria back on track. Honestly, who here or even on this forum is actually speaking out against women and children? Walter Grant5 is linking to Jergović for no real reason since we aren't even discussing that child here. It seems pretty wild that so many young men are risking their lives as refugees instead of serving on the front lines or working in construction and mines. That hasn't really happened like this before in history. There might be some new reasons for it, but it doesn't change the fact that this feels like something entirely different. You can't really compare this to the mass settlement of both Americas, because back then people were moving to conquer undeveloped territories. Here, large numbers of people are arriving in major European cities just to scrape by, often living right on the edge of the law.

Economic migrants have flooded the US to the point where Spanish is essentially one of the official languages in states like California, Florida, and Arizona. And yeah, plenty of those Latinos in the US are living right on the edge of legality. So, this hasn't just happened; it’s been happening throughout history. Large-scale economic migrations have always existed whenever there was a massive gap in development between places that were relatively easy to travel to.

And this whole thing about young men being ready to risk everything as refugees but not on the front lines... you got any actual stats? Has anyone here seen any numbers? Does anyone actually know how many young Syrians have died on the front lines over these last four years? How many brothers and friends have these guys buried? Do you even know the causes of the war in Syria, which sides are fighting, how the conflict unfolded, or what the situation looks like now? Did you know that four years ago, a civil war broke out in Syria where young Syrians were dropping like flies trying to oust Assad? Do you realize that back then, Assad specifically turned his military might against Sunni rebels and civilians just to pull ISIS into the mix? And now you’ve got government forces, rebels, ISIS, and Kurds all fighting there. The government has hundreds of thousands of soldiers, plus another hundred thousand in reserve. Do you know that the FSA, which has been fighting Assad's regime since 2011 and later ISIS, still counts at least 50,000 people after four years of war? Do you know how many young Syrians have picked up a rifle? A normal, smart young Syrian simply has nothing left to fight for there. That country is surrounded.
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
Charles Chase4 said:I find it hard to believe anyone would have an issue with that, especially when we're talking about people fleeing the devastation of war.

The real debate lately seems to center on how this—this potentially inevitable, massive, and permanent influx of people with fundamentally different cultures and worldviews—will impact the lives and opportunities of those in the host nations, particularly when reading accounts suggesting there's little interest in assimilation.

Now, I’m not an expert enough to dive into a deep sociological analysis here, but from what I can gather, Muslim immigrants across Europe face significant integration hurdles at best. Given that, is it really such a scandal that people feel uneasy about these migrations occurring on the large scale we might be seeing on the horizon? 🤷 And that's not even touching upon the security concerns regarding undocumented individuals crossing borders en masse.

Ultimately, the solution should be for the US and the rest of the world to stabilize these regions so people can live normally in their own homelands, rather than simply relocating an entire population from one continent to another.

If nobody actually has an issue with it, why is everyone coming into the US strictly through smugglers? And why are they building all these walls around Europe?

Who’s even talking about this lately? Which two sides are clashing? It's all about those states being flooded by outsiders, right? Isn't that just the same old debate over whether we should let them in or not? Honestly, wouldn't the Prime Minister of a developed nation prefer to just ship everyone back to the desert? Are we actually ready to give up our blessed comfort when the route starts crossing through us? I bet a decent chunk of people would be screaming to build walls.

Look, it’s not just something to sit around debating or overthinking. This isn't a philosophical exercise; it's inevitable. Refugees are coming. Migrants are coming. It's way too late to try fixing things at the source—honestly, suggesting that to someone from Syria would be pretty insulting, given how much the developed nations, led by the USA, played a role in creating the chaos they're fleeing. Now, America and the rest of the West have to decide if we're actually ready for change (though most of us are probably just judging based on our own biases) to give people a shot at a better life—or at least, just a life. Sure, it’s risky. But are we willing to take that risk so they can have the kind of life we basically get by default? It’s that simple: either we are, or we aren't. And if we aren't, why? Just to protect our own way of life? Are we really going to put our lifestyle above someone else's actual existence? Above the right to live, to have dignity, and to get a fair shot at building something decent in the 21st century?

Are we actually ready to roll the dice? That’s the real question. You don't even start on a plan until you answer that. Right now, there isn't a unified answer across the US, so things are getting messy. It really comes down to what matters more: our identity as Americans or just being human. If we get this wrong, whatever's left of our national identity will just be a mask worn by things that look like us, but aren't. At that point, there's nowhere left to run or hide from the chaos, unless you blast off into space to get away from a planet crawling with human mimics. Refugees are already running for their lives from creatures just like them.

Look, in that whole argument of yours, economic migrants have every right to move, too. Should they just sit around in places like Somalia or Gambia waiting for the 21st century to finally show up? We’re already living in the 21st century and we're leaving our own country because we don't see any real potential in it—or in ourselves to fix it. So why should someone from Gambia just stay put and wait? What's the point of people in some of the poorest spots on Earth holding out hope? For what kind of future?
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
Anyone here actually delusional enough to think just because they happened to be born in some random spot deserves a decent life more than some guy from Syria or Gambia? Any of you small, ugly, spoiled brats around here? Just incredibly arrogant, twisted, and dim?
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
Noah Carter24 said:You basically answered your own question—they aren't refugees, they're just economic migrants.

So? You actually rooting for them to find a better life or what?
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
frozencobra50 said:All jokes aside... anyone actually using their brain is fully aware that the situation in Syria right now is an absolute catastrophe. But when you take a realistic look at the facts, you realize a massive group of Syrians are just leveraging this chaos to worm their way into countries that half of Europe dreams of living in. I feel for people, truly, but even I don't know what I'd do if I were in Angela Merkel's shoes. Would I take in 800,000 of them? Or just take 100,000 and tell the rest to get lost... I personally know a girl—really sweet kid—who is an economic migrant from Syria. Her father studied medicine in Chicago, her mother is from Mostar, and they lived in Syria until things started "boiling over." After that, they fled to Sweden and stayed there for a while (both of them work; the dad is a doctor, the mom is a teacher). Then, Sweden sends them to Canada because they can easily get citizenship there, which obviously doesn't sit well with them. People are going to such extremes that they’ve even divorced; three minors are left staying with their father in Sweden because, after the divorce, he doesn't have the right to Canadian citizenship, while she travels to Mostar with her brother and mother. That's how they'll live until the old man finally gets Swedish citizenship, and then they'll reunite. If they were genuine war refugees, they'd be happy to settle in Canada without all this hassle...

So? You for or against them chasing a better life?
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
And then there's these young guys who are supposed to go off to war—against whom, for what, honestly nobody even knows... Just people running from the kind of stuff any sane person would run from. Now they're reaching out to us for help. So, who actually has the bigger obligation here: answering their plea, or them answering the call to fight? Who's really more at fault if someone says no?

Who's the bell ringing for: them or us?
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
Jessica Gonzalez said:Do you even watch the news? They were talking on the evening broadcast tonight about both the North American route and the "African" route. The boats coming from Africa are mostly just young men. In Budapest, you mostly see groups of 5 or 6 young guys fighting over trains. Those aren't really refugees.

As for your point about Saudi Arabia and the others, nice try, I had a good laugh. The truth is they just don't want them; to them, these are just poor, dirty people. Instead, they have even poorer workers from India and Bangladesh. It’s all just business, and to them, these people are just pawns and statistics. That's why they have visas for them.

So what if they aren't refugees? Would you honestly choose to live the way they do in the 21st century? Where? In Somalia, Mali, Gambia, or Eritrea? Or maybe Syria, Palestine, or Afghanistan? Following war caravans or stuck in the desert? Living in total poverty and hopelessness? People are just following the money, because nowadays, cash is the only guarantee for a decent life. That's the same ideology that let you live comfortably instead of struggling at the bottom of the barrel. If the map had been drawn differently, the North America could have been the absolute backside of the world. What then? You'd still be there? You'd actually WANT to stay there?

It's pretty simple. What does Europe have to sacrifice to give these people a shot at something? What do you personally have to give up so one guy from Syria can get an opportunity? How much will life in Europe change, and how much will your own life change compared to before these people arrived, versus how much their lives change compared to where they started? Just some basic questions.
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
Life, life always comes first. Watch your head; you can figure out the rest later.

And look, nobody’s actually chained to the dirt they were born on. If it’s your fight, fight. If it’s not? Run. You aren't stupid. Besides, graves are everywhere and they all look pretty much the same—let's not get too carried away with all this "duty" talk.
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
Those few horrific accidents were basically what opened up the North American route. When you pay someone to get you into Europe, they’re the ones picking the path. And clearly, people weren't willing to shell out for the sea route anymore—not nearly as many as before.

It's also possible they're prepping some kind of offensive against ISIS, so they're letting smugglers basically evacuate people.

Or maybe it's just that the collective mindset shifted; enough people finally decided they'd had enough and dragged all the indecisive ones along with them.
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
RIP to Arsenal and sending love to the boss 😢
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
Just pure philosophy and staring deep into how everything connects back to me.
The rest is just noise.
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
Sam Brown20 said:No, I don't, but I remember seeing that specific atheist argument somewhere once, and it triggered this thought, which is why I brought it up.

It's foolish to lump modern Christianity together with how things were 1,900 years ago—you know, during the Crusades or the Inquisition. It's like saying you wouldn't call modern-day Germany primitive just because sixty years ago they were still clinging to some pretty backward ideas. Look, I believe plenty of Christians still picture God as some old man floating on a cloud, but honestly, that's more a matter of education, and frankly, it's irrelevant when even the "intellectuals" struggle to wrap their heads around it. Just because you can't grasp something doesn't mean you have to reject it. You accept it in its simplest form and then spend the rest of your life trying to figure out the incomprehensible parts at the beginning.

Not sure how to even respond to that, but you definitely aren't really debating the core tenets of theism here.
Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021) in Soccer ·
Sam Brown20 said:I’m with you on that, but let’s be real—nobody was actually implying that. Not even mainstream Christianity.

Nobody.
just looking at the picture that started this mess. modern Christianity and what it was 1,900 years ago both fail right out of the gate by treating God like a person. honestly, it doesn't matter if people today are less spiritual than they used to be—it's all basically at a playground level of understanding anyway.
saying Christianity doesn't view God as a person is just ridiculous.