Benjamin Williams7 said:He is actually very responsible about it! He takes his meds regularly, visits his psychiatrist whenever he feels poorly, and he is even able to recognize when he needs to be admitted to the hospital... everything is under control there. I am fully aware that he won't ever be the same person; I just want him to function as normally as possible. Those headaches of his are so painful to watch. Now that I understand they aren't just typical headaches, it’s even harder. He describes it as if something is collapsing inside his head, or like his brain is falling apart—I honestly don't even know how to describe it.
It might be wise to request some diagnostic testing—an EEG, a CT scan, or whatever his psychiatrist recommends—to rule out any organic issues. Unfortunately, there are kinesthetic hallucinations where patients describe sensations like electric shocks, internal organ movement, or tingling in their limbs... so that could potentially be what is happening. It is difficult to say through an online forum; it could be anything at all.
Schizophrenia is an incredibly taxing mental disorder. In most instances, it is progressive and, unfortunately, incurable. Medication doesn't cure the condition; it simply manages the symptoms. Every individual responds to therapy differently. One person might be sedated and unable to concentrate on a low dose, while another might face constant hospitalizations and psychotic episodes even on maximum dosage. A common side effect of most antipsychotics is increased appetite—it isn't the medication itself causing weight gain, but rather the hunger. Maintaining a healthy diet and staying active, even just through daily walks, is essential. What is clinically certain is this: a later onset typically results in a better prognosis and course of the illness. Schizophrenia inherently depletes a person cognitively, emotionally, professionally, and socially. You correctly observed that your father seems different. This disease unfortunately alters personality, behavior, thought processes, and worldviews, often leading to emotional instability. The best way to support him is to ensure he adheres to his medication regimen and attends his appointments, while continuing to treat him as you always have. Engage with him and spend time together, but keep in mind that things may never return to exactly how they were before.
I served as the maid of honor for my cousin. She had her heart set on a specific, elegant evening gown she chose herself, so I went ahead and bought it for her.
The prevalence rate within the general American population sits at 1%. The risk of diagnosis increases significantly if there is a documented positive family history.
My husband and I have a small baby, and we want to start setting aside money for future needs like college tuition, driver's ed, and so on. We are looking at roughly $67 per month. What would be the most effective way to save? A dedicated child's savings account, a life insurance policy, or perhaps a housing fund if they allow such small monthly contributions? I am looking for recommendations. thanks🙂
velvetsailor26 said:So, I’m sitting there in my follow-up appointment, and the doctor drops this line about me having "psychotic elements." Honestly, it just went completely over my head. I've been staring at the ceiling trying to wrap my brain around what that actually implies, because, frankly, none of it makes any sense to me.
I’ll probably have to sit down and hash this out with her for a bit.☕
Even anorexia involves psychotic elements... an entire distortion of body image where a girl weighing 80 pounds still perceives herself as overweight.
We inherit a great deal from our parents, both the virtues and the flaws. Fortunately, most people possess enough self-awareness and capacity for self-reflection to recognize these patterns and adjust their behavior. It is certainly not an easy task, but it remains possible.
...What shocked me was his claim that under their canon law, individuals with mental illnesses are barred from marriage, and any such union would be considered null and void if the condition were discovered later😕. He specifically cited schizophrenia and manic depression, among others...
That typically applies only when a spouse intentionally conceals a severe illness or condition that fundamentally impacts the marriage, intimacy, or parenting duties. It isn't about discrimination or stigmatizing the sick. If both parties are fully aware of the situation when they wed, there is no issue.
There’s an old saying: if you start turning over stones, you might just run into a snake.😁 Well, if anyone actually wants to deal with that, be my guest.
Brandon Lopez6 said:Man, I feel you. Maybe too much so... I don't really have any advice, because if I did, I would've used it on myself instead of beating myself up like I have been lately.. 👎
And what if they are? 😕
But how am I supposed to *not* stress? (Seriously asking here, not trying to be provocative 😛)
We all have a past, regardless of what it looks like, and we cannot change it. When a partner shares that history with us, we simply have to decide whether to accept it or not. I don't see an issue there. The problem arises when we "accept" that past but allow ourselves to become obsessed with it—replaying old scenarios constantly, throwing it in our partner's face, or projecting those past events as inevitable future outcomes. In doing so, we end up sabotaging a healthy relationship ourselves. Jealous and possessive people are draining; they are difficult to be with, and such relationships either fail quickly or survive as low-quality connections where both parties remain unhappy. If someone recognizes their jealousy and possessiveness but realizes they cannot fix it alone, they need professional help. Otherwise, they will continue to sabotage their current or future romantic lives. Dwelling on things we cannot influence or change is inherently inefficient. It is better to focus on what you can control: yourself, your attitudes, and your behavior. If you cannot do this alone, seek professional assistance.
I don't see the point in exhausting yourself over things that are fundamentally unchangeable.🤷 The past is set in stone. If you have identified yourself—which you clearly have—as a jealous and possessive individual, then I am sorry, but that is your burden to carry, not his. You need to learn how to manage those impulses if you intend to sustain a relationship with him or anyone else. Jealousy and possessiveness are purely destructive to partners.
So how am I supposed to start meeting people? Please, explain that to me. If I go to a coffee shop by myself, people are going to give me weird looks.
You aren't the only person on the planet without a social life; surely you have at least one friend out there. Even if you haven't spoken in a while, just give them a call. It isn't like you're going to meet someone by jumping off a roof.😉
If I just approach a random stranger outside, I'm risking getting slapped in the face.
I would walk out onto the balcony (since I can still move) and threaten to jump.
Something would have to happen, and I want to see what that is.
I don't actually want to die; I would just be faking it. I just want someone to take care of me and show even a shred of attention.
The police would show up, then the paramedics, and they’d haul you off to a psych ward. Depending on where you live, you'd stay there for a few days. If you sign the papers agreeing to treatment, they'll let you stay; if you refuse, they'll just send you home because they'll realize you were just putting on an act... And once again, you gain nothing. I assume everyone has at least one friend... look, New Year's is coming up, just go out and enjoy yourselves... it's better than ending up in a hospital. If things are truly that bad, you don't need to fake a suicide attempt—just go get help.
Carol Hall7 said:Look, you've gotta find a way to get him to stay on his treatment, whatever it takes. If you have to mention the hospital or call 911, do it. Just because you call for help doesn't mean he's automatically getting locked up. Someone mentioned earlier that there are long-acting depot versions of the meds too—basically one shot every six months and you're set.
It isn't every six months; it's more like every two or three. If a solid, long-term democracy is actually established, perhaps once a month.
"Marijuana," or specifically THC, remains detectable in your bloodstream for about two weeks. However, it will only show up if you opt for a targeted toxicology screen, which comes with an extra fee. Even if they run a tox screen and find traces of THC, there are no legal repercussions for you. In the States, consumption itself isn't a crime—only possession is. Don't worry.😉
Richard Moore73 said:I know I need help, but I have no desire to check into a clinic for three months.
Contact the doctor who prescribed them. No one gets admitted to a hospital just to "detox" for three months.☕ By the way, how on earth are you sourcing four boxes a day?
wanderingstag41 said:Hey everyone!! I'll get straight to the point... I just got my blood work back and some levels are high:
HEMOGLOBIN - 167 g/L (normal range 129-160)
Enzymes>> S-AST - 24 (normal range 11-38) S-ALT - 40 (normal range 10-33)😕 S-IBM - 52 (normal range 10-27)😕
...does anyone know what this means?? I'm 17 years old and haven't had health issues before, except for bronchitis, though I doubt that's related... I do smoke, and I have a drink on the weekends, but in moderation..can someone please explain what might be causing this..
Thanks a lot!
Don't worry. These values are almost normal. Your hemoglobin is slightly elevated, which is fine; the main concern would be if it were low, as that could indicate anemia. AST, ALT, and IBM are liver function tests, and even with these slight elevations, they don't suggest any pathological conditions (you might have consumed alcohol, eaten fatty foods, or taken medication shortly before the draw...). To put your mind at ease: chronic alcoholics see IBM levels over 1000.😁 Everything is fine.😉
feralcobra92 said:I really hope you're right about this! A colleague who’s been at the company for ten years told me straight up that my only real mistake was being the new kid on the block. Honestly, working at this government agency is such a trip because the bosses just couldn't care less about anything; they don't lift a finger to intervene even when things are going sideways. Most of the people I've had to deal with have been there for over thirty years, so they're totally set in their ways. I'm not even angry, I'm just genuinely heartbroken about it all. I used to show up to work every morning with such a huge smile on my face, but now? Now I honestly wish I could just close my eyes and never have to face this reality again. I actually tried to sit down and have a heart-to-heart with the person who makes my life a total nightmare, but she completely shut me out; she just stays stuck in her own little world and treats everything I say like a blatant lie. It's like I'm speaking a foreign language to her! If things don't turn around soon, I'm definitely going to start looking for a new job elsewhere. What a complete mess.
People like that exist in every workplace; it is simply a matter of making it clear that you will not be an easy target... Why would you tuck your tail between your legs and run? These types of personalities thrive when they can gossip about or belittle someone else... Be assertive 🙂, and once you are one-on-one 😬, watch how quickly they change their tune and move on to find a different victim.