Posts by Gerald Grant3
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The absolute worst are the people who think their opinion is the only one that matters. 🤦
Everyone else is just out to ruin the kids and the youth. 😁
It’s not even about being able to do whatever the hell I want when I'm alone. It’s just that the whole concept of marriage has never sat right with me... (honestly, not just marriage, but any kind of partnership where someone starts questioning... where I've been, where I'm going, or heaven forbid... if I can't do something myself!)
....so all this stuff about traveling, or shaving my legs, or whatever else people obsess over... it's just a bonus 😍
Oh, thanks a lot... either I'm a genius or I should just end it all 😁
Jokes aside, the pressure from everyone around you is massive... why would things be any easier for you than they are for us? So fine, let's just beat you to death then...😲
Wait, seriously, has anyone actually explained why this thread is even sitting in the psychology section? 🙂
I’ve always known I wasn't built for symbiosis... so why go and make life miserable for myself and someone else? Thank Bog, I feel good, I'm satisfied, and I don't have any desire to change a thing.😉
Every time someone starts a thread about being single... a bunch of self-righteous busybodies jump in to insist it’s just a temporary phase that’ll eventually pass. They basically try to make you feel "broken" just because you aren't coupled up.
If someone is happy and perfectly fine being single, why shouldn't they be?
It feels like we’re constantly forced to apologize for it.🙄
...now I'm watching this person sink lower in my eyes every single day...and what really bugs me is how I didn't catch it sooner...I mean, nobody changes overnight...either he’s a damn good actor, or I'm just terrible at reading people...🙂
Seriously, there’s more of us out there... we don't need all this massive drama, nor do we need to be in pairs or constantly chewing on the same old tired topics.
Maria Collins65 said:Bullseye. 😁
+1😍
...Oh, I forgot one major thing... maybe I just got lucky, but since all this started, everyone around me has stepped up and been incredibly decent. My family, my friends, even my coworkers... and even though they haven't lived through this mess themselves and don't truly get how much it sucks... they really showed up for me and gave me all the support I needed when things were at their absolute worst.😍
It’s more than just that perspective for me... I constantly feel like I’ve been handed a second chance... an opportunity to fix things, change them, or just make them better. Like this whole thing is some kind of transitional phase... thank God everything is looking up 🙂