I’ll use this thread to respond to Melody, since she decided to call me out.
MelodyNine said:Forum user Kate Foster12 has, predictably, decided to gloat about the fate of this very thread—which she participated in—remarking how she "finally understands why it's Kokošinjac." A profound insight, I'm sure. And incredibly petty, considering the girls she used to chat with so intensely—the ones she constantly cited when launching her own campaign for Trash moderator, claiming she had "all of Kokošinjac on her side." There's a thread about it if you care to look.
That was pure sarcasm. Honestly, feathers are flying everywhere here. If you took that as a provocation or gloating, maybe you should take a beat—take a deep breath, count to ten, or however long it takes to settle down...
Also, having served as a moderator myself, I know exactly how new moderators are selected—and it isn't through revolts on USA. My goal was simply to breathe life back into Trash, which you repeatedly described as dead in your own thread over at Kokošinjac. Sad.
Me, having all of Kokošinjac on my side? I talk to maybe three or four people there, none of whom belong to that "inner circle"...
MelodyNine said:In that lovely essay presented as the top topic on USA, it claims "malice" won't be tolerated on the forum. Really? You're at war with malice? How thrilling. Several users complained to me that Kate Foster12's comment—along with others who joined that chat to lecture people they were just talking to yesterday about their kids, problems, migraines, depression, or small joys—was perceived as deeply malicious. But lo and behold, that post wasn't flagged as a provocation or malice. It wasn't even carded. Meanwhile, mine was reported to admin with lightning speed for "provocation" and "persistent commenting on moderation," even though I only commented on that chat topic twice in two posts—since I wasn't even on the forum. I did the rest on USA. Commenting twice is hardly "persistent."
Furthermore, those who find my comment offensive but haven't been banned are more than welcome to comment—either in the thread or via PM. That's what threads are for: discussion, not for people to mark their territory...