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William Gonzalez3 said:Honestly, you all are such little fighters.
If the US military were made up of people like you, toppling the global order and establishing a new one would probably be nothing more than a joke.

That being said, I suspect this discussion on anarchism shouldn't get too... well, anarchic—we really ought to steer back toward the actual subject at hand.
In my view, everyone seems to be approaching this from the wrong angle.
Essentially, you are searching for viable, practical economic models—and every other kind of framework, for that matter.
However, you seem to be overlooking the fact that anarchy is, by its very nature, a utopian concept. Therefore, any economic model intended to govern within it shouldn't be anything less than utopian—which is to say, impossible.
The possible simply cannot function within the impossible.
So, perhaps we should pivot toward looking at more idealistic solutions.
For instance, let's consider how an anarchist society might actually operate, and what specific preconditions would need to be met for it to even work.
In an anarchist system, society would have to act in direct opposition to how things work today regarding those who cause harm to the community.
Instead of rewarding or celebrating them—instead of feeling that envy or thinking, "Look at him, he really made it, if only I could do the same"—everyone should simply turn their backs on them.
Workers would need to refuse to work for unscrupulous employers; families would need to distance themselves from members who choose paths of vice, malice, or general debauchery.
To take a local example, an organized anarchy on a forum like this would be entirely feasible if the members of every sub-forum just ignored those who stir up trouble, commit wrongs, or spread toxic thoughts and bad vibes.
In that scenario, moderators wouldn't even be necessary.
Broadly speaking, if we functioned that way, neither institutions nor authorities would be needed, and the world certainly wouldn't descend into chaos.

Look, what’s "possible" always stays tucked inside certain boundaries, right? But the "impossible"—man, that thing has zero limits. That means the "impossible," even when it feels totally incomprehensible, actually swallows up the "possible" too.
Basically...
the "possible" can actually function within the realm of the "impossible."

And get this—on the fringes of what we call possible, you’ve got those "marginal" types—you know, the weirdos and outliers my aunts used to talk about—who basically leapfrog over the boundaries. They smash through barriers and turn the impossible into reality just by existing (just look at any major scientific breakthrough in American history).

Oh, and time is a massive factor here. Why? Because what’s a total impossibility today could easily be standard procedure tomorrow.

@redtinker36 — I dig everything you wrote, really, but I’m tripping over one thing: how can you claim you're nothing without neighbors, yet argue that anarchy is the future? See, if anarchy is where we're headed, then your whole list only matters if your neighbors lose so much value to you that you become totally indifferent toward them. You only truly become "Something" once your neighbors mean absolutely "Nothing" to you.
So, anarchy only works as a path forward if you're "something" while being alone. Like lions out on the plains. There’s no room for two males to coexist there (unless they’re brothers, and even then, it's rare).
Did I totally misread you, or are we speaking two different languages here?
Alright, so... in Feedback & Suggestions ·
This whole joke about "paying up" would actually be funny if you guys weren't about to pull an even bigger stunt by handing out bans left and right.

Honestly, this April Fools' prank is pretty lame considering how things are going right now.

And let’s be real—what you’ve turned PZK into is basically just a way to discriminate against anyone who isn't a genius. It’s rare for someone to even know how to file a coherent appeal, and it's just as rare for any of the moderators to actually recognize one when they see it.

The bottom line? This forum is just going downhill... and it’s happening because the management lacks basic intelligence, tolerance, and a sense of humor.
Is it actually true? in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Man, everything about that whole 5th rabbit thing was just a blatant play for the "Reddit elite" crowd.
Is it actually true? in Feedback & Suggestions ·
As far as I can tell, every single moderator here went through some kind of special Chuck Norris training program just so they could act as the personal henchmen for big boss Chaka—so honestly, if you have to pay up for maintenance this "high quality," why the hell not?

Seriously, look at this thread... then look at this comment. Just perfect.
@Vertigo M,
Honestly, we’re all looking at what it actually means to be real with your friends through such different lenses that I don't even see the point in dragging this "type" of debate any further. It's just a total wash.

Later,
@Vertigo M,
I honestly think we’re getting tripped up in this discussion because we aren't distinguishing between "genuine friendship" and the concept of "honesty."
See, when people talk about "genuine friendship," they really just mean a "real, true friendship"—basically emphasizing that a real friend isn't some fake persona playing a role.
But "honesty," as its own thing, means "saying or doing what we actually think," which also includes being honest with yourself.

When someone says "honesty is the foundation of friendship," I take that the same way I take "unconditional love." To me, both are just empty platitudes.

I feel like it’s actually a massive deal to allow yourself to trust someone so deeply that you don't even stress about whether they're telling you the absolute truth or not—because at the end of the day, isn't the most important thing just knowing your friend has your back?
Let me give you a super basic example. Say I’m a vet and you’re a huge animal lover. We agree to meet up at 5:00, but I’m running over thirty minutes late. I call your cell and say, "Hey, emergency popped up, I'll be there a bit later." When I finally show up, you ask, "So, what happened?" Why should I dump the whole depressing story on you about having to put a dog down because the poor thing was suffering and even steroids weren't working anymore? Why wouldn't I just tell you it was a false alarm and recount some old case with a happy ending instead? Why would I force you to listen to something miserable that you can't do anything about anyway since it's already over? You know what I mean?

If friends "should" be there for one another through the dark stuff, why wouldn't protecting each other from that darkness fall under the same umbrella?
Don't forget that a real friend is someone who doesn't use others to feed their own ego—and let's be real, being "excessively honest" is often just egoism in disguise.
briskraven28 said:But that’s precisely where the lack of trust shows up—when we start deciding what's best for someone else. Thinking "I don't want to hurt you" or "I want to protect you" (all under the guise of "good intentions") implies we view that person as less capable than ourselves... and frankly, can one truly trust someone they deem less capable?
So, I am in total agreement with N'dugu; there is no room for "intentions" in a real friendship—because wherever there is an intention, there is a goal, and wherever there is a goal, there is calculation.
(intention = calculation)
I could understand a friend staying silent because they simply weren't ready to talk about it, but withholding information specifically to protect me... well, that's where things start to feel wrong.

Maybe, but look—what you're saying kind of implies that friends have to be equals, like, perfectly level, otherwise they aren't actually friends at all.
So, what, if your IQ is off the charts like some genius and mine is just a solid 135, we can never be buddies?
Or
If you're a total knockout and I'm just your average Joe, does that mean we can't be friends?
Or
If you've got two Ivy League degrees under your belt and I only managed two years of community college, are we not "on the same level" enough to hang out?
Basically,
Is it impossible to have a friend unless they're on your exact "level," or is it actually possible for someone like me—despite all your brilliance, beauty, and education—to be your friend even though I'm just a regular person compared to you?
dustyskipper3 said:I suppose friendship is really just the desire and the sheer willpower to give someone more than you ever expect to get back from them. If you're just playing nice because you want a return on your investment, or if you're just using someone's influence and talents to get ahead... well, then I don't think that's friendship at all. It’s just a selfish calculation. And honestly, just returning good for good and bad for bad... that doesn't really feel like a virtue to me.

There was this Zen master who once said:

To those who have nothing, I will take,
And to those who have plenty, I will add even more.


At its core, I think friendship relies on honesty.
Maybe love can exist without being completely honest, but I don't think friendship can. A "friend" who just flatters you or lies to your face just to stay in your good graces isn't really a friend. A true friend is someone who tells you the truth, even when it hurts.

Love tends to be possessive, whereas friendship isn't. You can share a friend with others.

It makes me wonder... is love actually greater than friendship?
Jesus said: "Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends."

Friendship... it might never truly end, maybe not even after death, while love often does. Sai Baba once remarked: "If a friendship doesn't last until the very end, then it perhaps never truly existed in the first place."
It is quite sad, I guess, if you have to go through life discovering who your real friends are and who wasn't, but I suppose everything comes to light eventually.

Perhaps I should ask someone who understands people better than I do. Someone like:

Enes Kišević

Everything is—well—like....

The day is, like, sunny
You are, like, cheerful
Moving along, like, unnoticed

Everyone is, like, doing great
Everyone is, like, alright
Everyone is, like, wild..

And you are, like, happy!

Life feels, like, being at sea
The birds are, like, free
The future is, like, in your hands

Conscience is, like, clean
And the sun is, like, bright
Oh heart, like, sing

Everyone, like, cares for everyone
Everyone is, like, a friend
Everyone, like, cares about you
And about the world..

And the day, like, passes
And you, like, keep smiling
And nothing, like, hurts you....

I'm gonna need a little more context on this one.
Look, to me, it feels way more logical that trust—specifically trusting someone's intentions—is the actual foundation. Being brutally honest and causing unnecessary pain isn't always the move; sometimes, by just keeping a painful truth to yourself, you're actually doing the kinder thing.
Like, say you find out you've got MS. Are you really obligated to drop that bomb on your best friend immediately, knowing exactly how much it's going to wreck them?
First off, I gotta say thanks to everyone for jumping in on this.

The winner was this post from... A I can't even begin to wrap my head around this—it’s just one of those deep, existential philosophical questions that keeps you up at 3 AM staring at the ceiling. Honestly? It feels like we're all just spinning our wheels in some cosmic hamster wheel, waiting for a sign that never comes. I mean, look at the state of things lately. Everything is just... chaotic. You try to make sense of it, you really do, but then you realize how much of it is just noise. Total nonsense. Just pure, unadulterated noise. Anyway, what was I saying? Right. It’s all a bit much, isn't it?I can't even begin to explain how much this whole thing just reeks of desperation—it’s honestly kind of pathetic if you think about it for more than two seconds. Like, seriously, does anyone actually believe this nonsense? It’s all just noise at this point, nothing but empty promises and smoke screens designed to keep people distracted while the real players move the pieces behind the scenes. I’ve been around long enough to see these patterns repeat over and over again, and frankly, it’s getting exhausting. People want to believe there's some grand design or a secret logic to it all, but most of the time, it's just pure, unadulterated chaos masquerading as a plan. You see these guys acting like they have it all figured out—acting all high and mighty—but deep down, they're just grasping at straws. It’s the same old story, different day, and quite frankly, I'm bored of watching it play out. AIt looks like you only sent one word—"merican"—so I'm not sure what you want me to rewrite! If you have a specific post or some text you need me to overhaul into that rambling, cynical, "world-weary" American voice we talked about, just drop it here. I’ll take whatever mess you give me and turn it into something that sounds like a real person talking over a cheap beer at a dive bar in Chicago or something. Send it over whenever you're ready. Hey, what’s up? Ready when you are. Just give me the word and we'll get this moving.eroded... (and then you hear people whining about how real American Heroes don't even know how to speak American.) 😕)

Dana Reyes said:Friendship is a learned skill. It is shaped by how we perceive the world and how we coexist with everything around us. Whether we have true friends or not says everything about who we are, because the value of a bond depends on our capacity to be vulnerable and stay true to ourselves. Simply listening isn't enough. You have to actually feel what they are going through—to carry a piece of their life within your own heart, standing by them through the highs and the lows. It means keeping a permanent space for them inside you, remaining loyal, staying steady, and accepting those flaws that don't mirror our own. A real friend is free from prejudice, expectations, and attachments; they simply want the best for you without reservation. Everything we need to learn in this life—concepts like sincerity, gratitude, tenderness, respect, and morality—is taught to us through the path of honest friendship. By building these bonds, we become better people, and our spiritual growth gains its full purpose, because by opening ourselves to a friend, we finally open ourselves to who we truly are.

I’d love it if Arah could shoot me a DM once they've cooked up that next question—just so we can hash out the details privately.

I gotta say, I really wanted to highlight this one thought from lone rider—it honestly hit me so hard it practically moved me to tears.

wiredmaker18 said:When I think about friendship, I can't help but feel like its true essence got buried somewhere in the past... leaving us with nothing but old stories to go on.

I'm not really talking about how everyone’s turned into a total materialist, or how everything nowadays gets filtered through some lens of self-interest and profit. It’s more about the lack of time... and more importantly, the complete absence of any real criteria that would even allow us to hope for change in the first place...

The death of critical thinking, the vanishing demand for knowledge-based careers, the decay of culture and art, and work itself... honestly, where do you even start...
The problem is a total lack of passion. People don't bother working on anything that actually matters unless there’s an immediate payoff. Everyone's just chasing that modern holy trinity: clout—whether that's being the talk of the local pub or trending on social media—status symbols, and hanging out with a curated crowd based entirely on those first two...

Friendship... it used to require this level of selflessness that people today act like is some kind of legendary heroic feat. It's not even a real thing anymore. You don't even see it in the stories we tell kids. Nowadays, the plot always ends with the girl riding off with the richest prince in the kingdom. Honestly, who gives a damn about genuine love if he isn't showing up with the keys to a Ferrari and enough gold around his neck to sink a boat...

The fact that someone would actually step up for a friend—even if it’s just a platonic thing—and go out of their way to carry the heavy lifting without being asked... people just write that off. They call it being a pushover or just plain uncool and passive. It’s like you can’t even show up for people anymore because you're too worried about looking desperate or being judged by the crowd...

Let them think if they even have the brainpower left... They can ponder whatever they want, but I still stand by what I said. Real friendship isn't just some business transaction or a way to climb the social ladder. It’s something else entirely, something that doesn't fit into any of those shallow categories...

In my old, romanticized, hippie-cowboy brain, friendship carries the same weight as keeping your word, being brave, staying honest, and playing fair. It’s about selflessness and, above all, love. But I’m not talking about that kind of love where two people try to pull magic tricks just to get laid... I mean the kind of love found in those silly picture books, where you share something with a brother, cut it into uneven pieces, and give him the bigger half...
Nowadays, most people would just laugh at that. At best, they’ll give you some lip and say, "Hey, why don't you just split that evenly among us, brother?"...
The more time passes, the more I expect that "dear brother" to just plow right through us and snatch whatever little we have left...
So what now? Honestly, the easiest move is just to shrug your shoulders and admit there's nothing left to be done...
Maybe we can't. Probably can't do much about it, honestly... but that doesn't mean we just drift with the current and let life shape us however it feels like.
There’s this beautiful analogy in physics that perfectly captures the state of society today and just how easily the masses can be led...
An object at rest stays at rest until some outside force kicks it into gear... basic physics.
Look, I’m just not interested in letting outside forces mess with my head, especially not the kind of nonsense that's running rampant these days. I'd rather just do my own thing...
Even if it’s for nothing else, I’m doing it because I can't shake the feeling that I haven't betrayed my own principles... even when everything happening around me makes it look like the whole world is upside down...
So what if they are. Doesn't mean they're actually any good. Can't people just change? Whatever. By refusing to play along with that kind of compromise, at least I get the satisfaction of knowing I didn't trample over my own principles...

Let them laugh and call me a weirdo if I drop cash on some random gift for my best friend. I don't give a damn if they think I’m being frivolous. Like their desperate climb for social status comes for free or something... Give me a break. If they can't wrap their heads around the fact that I can spend an entire night hanging out in a room with a female friend without things turning physical—and that those nights are actually more meaningful and worth way more than chasing a pack of shallow, airheaded models—then fine. Let them believe what they want. Who cares. They’ll never get it anyway. Their priorities are basically the exact opposite of mine...
Giving something to a friend, or someone you love unconditionally, and actually finding joy in their happiness—knowing it was your actions that put that smile on their face? To most people today, that’s some incomprehensible mystery. They see it as something worthy of scorn, if not outright insanity. And that's not even touching on anything bigger than that...

Fine, let them think what they want. I'd much rather be called crazy if it means keeping the sound of laughter and the honest, happy eyes of my best friends in my head...

An answer straight from the cave—which, if you ask me, is just as simple as it is damn profound.

Olivia Evans8 said:To whole "friendship" thing? It's basically just what I call my bond with my inner circle. I don't have a massive squad or anything, but honestly, sometimes I look at my buddies and wonder why they even bother with me... but I know they're real because they aren't like everyone else out there. They're different. I'm seriously stoked to have them in my life and I wouldn't trade them for anything... I know, I know, sounds like some middle school essay bullshit, but honestly, I don't think you can get any deeper than that 😬

But honestly, I have to bring up moon girl’s take here, because she’s really hitting on one of those deep, messy, beautiful human things—our capacity to actually forgive someone.

Jessica Cook11 said:You meet someone and you just click—you see this one trait in them that hits right, and they feel the same about you. You hang out for years, building that bond. Then, out of nowhere, they pull some absolute garbage move—trash your car, hook up with your girlfriend, stiff you on a loan, whatever. And instead of owning up, they just ghost you because they can't handle looking at themselves in the mirror...
Real friendship? That’s being able to welcome that person back with open arms, acting like nothing ever happened, because you still see that first thing you loved about them. It's about facing the stuff they're too afraid to face themselves.🙂


Before we dive into the whole debate, I just wanted to give everyone a quick heads-up: the poll our moderator, Caveman, is putting up allows for multiple votes. So, if you vibe with more than one perspective, go ahead and vote for all of them.

Later, y'all
paranoid personality disorder on Reddit in Psychology ·
rowdyjackal5 said:Look, those points from 1 to 7 are actually correct.

But this part here:

People with Paranoid Personality Disorder often possess a fierce sense of independence and tend to be highly critical of others.
Furthermore, they frequently develop negative stereotypes about people who don't share their specific worldview (you should definitely check out those PDFs on Religion and Politics).
Their suspicion regarding the bad intentions of others can manifest as heated arguments, or alternatively, through total withdrawal (the "ignore" option).
They prefer staying within the "safety of their own home"
and frequently misuse alcohol or other psychoactive substances (marijuana, LSD, tranquilizers, etc.).


none of that is accurate, not even a little bit.

it’s just a paraphrased version from the unabridged DSM-IV.

so, what's the move now? 😲😁

maybe try asking yourself—honestly—what exactly about those "controversial" claims rubbed you the wrong way?
paranoid personality disorder on Reddit in Psychology ·
lonegardener said:Exactly. You have to account for whether there might actually be some objective reason for them to feel that way.

Honestly, you see all kinds of wild stories circulating online. Sometimes I find myself almost impressed by the sheer creativity involved—thinking up ways to trick some naive email user into handing over their credit card info. Of course, that admiration only lasts for a few minutes before it turns (at least in my case) into a sudden urge to break something. It’s truly incredible how much people are willing to resort to scams and pure selfishness.

Ha, in this day and age, where there's a predator lurking behind every digital corner, it’s hardly surprising that being "hyper-vigilant" is basically a survival skill. Add to that the frantic pace of life forced on us by tech, and honestly, Panic Disorder should be the default setting for everyone.
I really wonder what happens when Panic Disorder teams up with being Paranoid—because given the direction this world is heading, I wouldn't be shocked if we all ended up there. 😲😁

Sandra Parker3 said:I also wanted to touch on something else—unless it was already covered in that intro post or somewhere else, I can't quite recall😁

since I've been called Paranoid or just a total pathology by certain people... it’s mentioned in a few spots if a certain colleague cares to remember😁
well, I have a bit of an observation regarding that

I've noticed that the exact kind of people who could easily be diagnosed with, I don't know, Paranoid Personality Disorder or whatever the clinical term is...

are actually the ones who "find" those traits in others, projecting them onto anyone they clash with and labeling them as sick or paranoid...
it's one of those things that used to fascinate me until I realized that this is literally their whole modus operandi, which is probably part of the symptoms itself...🙄

nothing for me
but it looks like you're prepping for a moderator role, adjusting your vocabulary and everything... 😉

You're talking about projection... and you're spot on.

Sandra Parker3 said:I also wanted to touch on something else—unless it was already covered in that intro post or somewhere else, I can't quite recall😁

since I've been called Paranoid or just a total pathology by certain people... it’s mentioned in a few spots if a certain colleague cares to remember😁
well, I have a bit of an observation regarding that

I've noticed that the exact kind of people who could easily be diagnosed with, I don't know, Paranoid Personality Disorder or whatever the clinical term is...

are actually the ones who "find" those traits in others, projecting them onto anyone they clash with and labeling them as sick or paranoid...
it's one of those things that used to fascinate me until I realized that this is literally their whole modus operandi, which is probably part of the symptoms itself...🙄

nothing for me
but it looks like you're prepping for a moderator role, adjusting your vocabulary and everything... 😉

Man, the paranoia is real. 😁
paranoid personality disorder on Reddit in Psychology ·
You’re preaching to the choir, lonegardener.
I mean, look—just because someone is being suspicious, even if they're being totally extra about it, we can't just go around slapping a diagnosis of Paranoid Personality Disorder on them. That's not how this works.

(By the way, what's your credit card number again? 😲)
paranoid personality disorder on Reddit in Psychology ·
dustyskipper3 said:Aha, I see how it is. It all looks like a transparent trap, doesn't it? Like some suspicious moderators are just trying to bait us into discussing paranoid personality disorder on Reddit, just so they can claim we actually have it. That's the plan, I suppose.

🤣

If I were to paraphrase Lao-cea:

I put my faith in everyone who writes under their own name, including the anonymous users and all the clones out there.
That is what I call the virtue of faith.👍

Nah, this thread wasn't started by a mod, just some random user.
I think your paranoia is just acting up. 🤣

Sandra Parker3 said:Haha, I actually noticed this one first myself.
But honestly, those quotation marks should be around "home"
because they aren't talking about an actual house, and let's be real, safety is something we're all chasing right now, though I won't speak for everyone else...

So, you have this sense of security built on things like:
belonging to certain subreddits (safe havens), regional ties, loyalty to "certain" authorities... etc. I'll try to remember more later, my brain isn't quite firing on all cylinders right now.🙂 It’s fascinating how this whole "supportive" act plays out through constant monitoring and groupthink—you know, the whole "I got your back" thing, where people just trade stupid emojis like 🙏 or 👍. You always see the same crowd essentially co-signing each other's posts.
To me, it feels pathological; I honestly don't know what kind of diagnosis to slap on it, but when I'm hanging out with someone close, I don't feel the need to blindly validate every single idea they post online—in fact, I often avoid it—but look at this mess...

I won't even touch the second point; it's just a total smokescreen.🙄 😍

A slightly shorter opening post wouldn't hurt either, but whatever... 🤷

edit:

Oh, I see that last question now.
I get skeptical sometimes too, not that I'm faking it, but I wouldn't go so far as to say it qualifies as a personality disorder, though... 🤷 😁

Actually, the quotation marks are exactly where they need to be. Why?
Because people dealing with Paranoid Personality Disorder tend to feel way more comfortable "inside the walls of their own home," and since they handle stress so poorly, there's a higher risk of developing Agoraphobia.

Now, I get what you were getting at, and we really ought to distinguish between "cults"—where a bunch of "fanatics" band together because they share a specific paranoid belief system—and just members of minority groups.

Some things are culturally driven, some are social, and then there are specific life situations that drive certain people to huddle together in groups that essentially ignore the outside world (the majority) while displaying defensive or hyper-cautious behavior. The surrounding community usually reacts to these groups with frustration, annoyance, or even straight-up rage, which just completes the loop of mutual distrust.

Take the animal rights crowd on Reddit, for instance—they have this specific subgroup that fights for animal rights through their posts.
Since their views are in the minority, it leads to that exact cycle of isolation and backlash I mentioned.

Sandra Parker3 said:Haha, I actually noticed this one first myself.
But honestly, those quotation marks should be around "home"
because they aren't talking about an actual house, and let's be real, safety is something we're all chasing right now, though I won't speak for everyone else...

So, you have this sense of security built on things like:
belonging to certain subreddits (safe havens), regional ties, loyalty to "certain" authorities... etc. I'll try to remember more later, my brain isn't quite firing on all cylinders right now.🙂 It’s fascinating how this whole "supportive" act plays out through constant monitoring and groupthink—you know, the whole "I got your back" thing, where people just trade stupid emojis like 🙏 or 👍. You always see the same crowd essentially co-signing each other's posts.
To me, it feels pathological; I honestly don't know what kind of diagnosis to slap on it, but when I'm hanging out with someone close, I don't feel the need to blindly validate every single idea they post online—in fact, I often avoid it—but look at this mess...

I won't even touch the second point; it's just a total smokescreen.🙄 😍

A slightly shorter opening post wouldn't hurt either, but whatever... 🤷

edit:

Oh, I see that last question now.
I get skeptical sometimes too, not that I'm faking it, but I wouldn't go so far as to say it qualifies as a personality disorder, though... 🤷 😁

What's your take, Sha? I’m being dead serious here when I suggest that half the people hanging out on this Reddit thread probably struggle with this disorder.
Obviously, Narcissistic, Schizotypal, Schizoid, Borderline, and Avoidant disorders share a ton of common ground with Paranoid tendencies, and they often show up side-by-side with Paranoia.
There are nuances that set them apart, sure, but you also have to consider how certain "threatening circumstances"—you know, like having to watch your mouth so you don't end up getting canned from your job😁—can actually bake those paranoid traits deeper into someone's psyche until they become permanent.

lonegardener said:I have to take issue with the idea that someone with these characteristics should be labeled "disordered." Honestly, calling people that feels like blatant discrimination against those of us who are just naturally more cautious. 😍

Why the pushback, my friend lonegardener? Are you starting to see some of those paranoid streaks in yourself too?🤣

Sandra Parker3 said:Ugh, I honestly can't be bothered to slog through that massive opening post again. Seriously, props for the breakdown, but... I'm just not sure if all these people who constantly nitpick actually fall into that "disordered" category too. 🤷

And don't even get me started on the little cliques hanging out here
and those people using air quotes

Oh, absolutely. People with Paranoid Personality Disorder are always objecting, criticizing, or holding grudges. On top of that, they view any critique directed at them as a personal attack and feel this desperate need to get even.
They never, ever apologize for their own screw-ups.
paranoid personality disorder on Reddit in Psychology ·
Hey everyone,
I’ve been scrolling through Reddit and I noticed there isn't a single serious thread about the specific disorder mentioned in the title—which is crazy, because honestly, looking at some of the behavior from users like 😲, there are plenty of red flags right here. So, I figured I'd drop a little breakdown of what we're actually talking about.

First off, here are the official diagnostic criteria for you guys:

A. This involves a pervasive pattern of distrust and suspiciousness toward others, where their motives are interpreted as malicious. It starts in early adulthood and shows up in various situations via four (or more) of these traits:
1) They assume, without any real evidence, that other people are out to exploit, deceive, or screw them over.
2) They’re constantly obsessed with unjustified doubts regarding the loyalty or trustworthiness of their friends or colleagues.
3) They refuse to confide in anyone because they’re terrified that whatever info they give will be used against them.
4) They hold grudges constantly—basically, they can't let go of perceived insults, contempt, or injuries.
5) They look for humiliating or threatening subtext in even totally benign remarks or events.
6) They notice attacks on their character or reputation that nobody else even sees, and then they react instantly and aggressively, usually by going on the offensive.
7) They frequently, and without cause, doubt the faithfulness of a spouse or sexual partner.

B. You don't diagnose this if it's happening strictly during Schizophrenia, a Mood Disorder with psychotic features, or any other Psychotic Disorder—or if it's caused by direct physiological effects, like a neurological issue (think temporal lobe epilepsy).

To put this in plain English regarding our little community here:

Basically, it's suspecting that everyone is plotting conspiracies against them—like thinking the moderators, specifically 😁, are out to get them for no reason at all (just check the DSM manual if you don't believe me).
Then there’s the unjustified suspicion regarding whether friends or fellow users are being loyal—constantly overanalyzing everyone's "bad intentions." (I mean, just look at how much people freak out about those supposed "clones" attacking us all the time 😁).
And if that loyalty turns out to be real—like, if a user someone thinks is a "malicious" clone 😲😁 suddenly does something genuinely nice—they won't accept it. Why? Because they can't trust them. (Because they're a clone, obviously, right? 🤣).
Then there’s the fear of being sincere; hardly anyone here wants to use their real name because they're terrified that even basic info will be weaponized against them.
If a user (or heaven forbid, a moderator) tries to help out with a problem—say, a poorly formatted thread—that user might take it as a personal jab, assuming they're being called stupid.
And don't even get me started on how often a simple joke is taken as a massive personal attack. 😲
When someone—and god forbid it's a moderator 🤣—slightly undermines a user, it creates these bitter feelings that just linger forever.
Then you see those insane counter-attacks in discussions because someone felt their reputation was bruised (or maybe that's why people start handing out bans so impulsively? 🤣).

But check this part out:
People with paranoid personality disorder often have an intense sense of independence and are incredibly critical of everyone else.
On top of that, they tend to develop negative stereotypes about anyone who doesn't share their exact worldview (you really see this in the threads about Religion and Politics).
People who think everyone is out to get them might go off on some wild, heated rants, or they just shut down completely—you know, that whole "ignore" tactic.
They’re obsessed with staying tucked away in the "safety of their own homes"
and they end up leaning way too hard on booze or other stuff like weed, LSD, or prescription pills just to cope.

So, there it is, folks. Given what we've talked about, how many of us here on Reddit actually deal with paranoid personality disorder? 😁
Why do wise people always sound so profound? in Philosophy ·
Simplicity is where the real magic happens.
The "average Joe" just loves overcomplicating everything—honestly, why even bother? It’s because they lack any actual foresight. 😁

...so the title of this thread is 😵, but let's be real, the whole thing is basically 😵 anyway, which is why I decided to jump in here so fast, since I'm also 😵
Transience in Philosophy ·
Look, Mark Torres14, I get where you're coming from, but what the hell even is a "philosophical God" supposed to mean?
Look, friendship is a tight-knit thing—it’s built on this fundamental trust that you've actually got someone's back, whether they're asking for a favor or just struggling in silence.
Alright, after taking a few months off to clear my head, we’re jumping back into our Philosophy Contest—basically designed so we can dump a bunch of different perspectives in one spot, you know? It's meant to help us sharpen our own views or maybe even flip them on their head if we're feeling adventurous 😲😁.
Look, out of respect for the folks who think doing this via PDF files in the Philosophy sub is a total drag, we aren't doing this weekly anymore. We're moving to once a month.

THE GROUND RULES:
The contest stays open until Sunday, March 22, 2009, at 7:30 PM;
Each user gets exactly one shot at an answer;
Keep your answer to the size of a single standard post;
The person who drops the question picks the winner, and then that winner gets to pick the next topic;
The person asking the question has to throw in their own answer too;
But let's be real—you can't just vote for yourself to win;
Once the deadline hits, the thread is fair game for general discussion;
After that, we’ll run a public vote to crown a "People's Choice" winner as well;
That voting period lasts for one week from the start;
Don't try to vote for yourself—it's a non-starter;
Both winners get a permanent spot in the top-tier Hall of Fame;
I'm asking everyone to please hold off on commenting on the entries until the submission window closes.

Hopefully, we all actually enjoy putting our thoughts together and reading what everyone else comes up with.
One last thing—for the love of God—please actually read the rules. 😁
Appeal regarding Shadyev's JL Karton in Feedback & Suggestions ·
Yeah, honestly? It’s a bummer that rowdyhawk10 shot down your idea like that.
It would be wild to see what happens if that actually took off—I mean, at least among us non-religious types—how much those debates over on the Religion board would blow up, and whether people might actually chill out and stop being so damn insulting to one another.
Debates about meditation in Spirituality ·
That whole bit about how they don't even have a clue what they're talking about, yet they still act like experts—man, that hit home. That’s basically my entire life story right there. I’m constantly out here spilling everything, being all "selfless" and open, while secretly being incredibly selfish underneath it all. It’s my own little version of perfect balance. And honestly? No fancy meditation or zen nonsense required. Just good old-fashioned, straight-up common sense. 😍