Susan Garcia said:cherryblossomgirl... why does every woman feel the need to jump to the defense of other women, especially when it comes to blondes?
I’ve probably heard more about that blonde than you have... At the end of the day, I might actually be right about her being an idiot, even if I don't follow her posts closely enough to know for sure...
Fine, at least get my username right if you're going to mention me. 🙄 Yeah, maybe we're all just lost in the woods here... now we're supposed to start analyzing people based on a couple of posts? Honestly, kudos to those of you who think you can judge someone's entire character instantly. If I ever find myself confused, I'll be sure to ask you experts, since clearly you all know everyone here much better than they know themselves.🤣
Amanda Flores2 said:I really need to vent for a second... I’ve been struggling with these tiny breakouts all over my face, and honestly, it’s destroying my confidence. I feel so incredibly self-conscious. I’ve been seeing a dermatologist for months now—just going through the motions—but nothing seems to be changing. It’s frustrating, really. People keep telling me how beautiful I am, but I just can't see it; I feel terrible. I look at all these girls walking around the city with absolutely flawless skin—it feels like they're everywhere—and then there’s me, feeling like I want to hide whenever I step outside. Even when I'm talking to someone, I can't help but wonder if they're just staring at my blemishes instead of listening to what I'm saying. Every single morning, I find myself staring into the mirror for ten minutes straight, checking every possible angle, picking at my skin like some insecure teenager... even though I'm well past that stage. And yet, everyone insists it isn't even that noticeable—that they're just minor little spots! Why is it so hard for me to just accept this as part of who I am and stop obsessing over it?
Look, honey... a couple of years ago, my skin wasn't great either, but thank God it cleared up eventually. Either way, it isn't the end of the world! Besides, this isn't permanent. At the very least, you have makeup available to cover things up today (I'm not necessarily preaching heavy foundation and all that, but if it helps you feel more confident...👍 )! There are people out there dealing with much heavier stuff, though I know our problems always seem to be the biggest... For example, I have major issues with my legs! I'm thin, but my legs are just a disaster... and they'll always be that way. But those little breakouts of yours will vanish one day! Until then, don't let it get to you and stop thinking you're ugly. If everyone tells you that you aren't, believe them—I'm sure they aren't all lying to you! Just remember: there will always be something you aren't happy with, but try to embrace it as part of yourself. You definitely have beautiful features, so highlight them! If you have great legs, show them off! If you have a gorgeous smile, use it! If you have amazing hair, wear it down! Just keep moving forward like that and everything will be fine! 😘
James Allen6 said:Look, Blondy, let me explain things to you.
If you look above, you can see how Susan Garcia felt bold enough to respond like that. Now, if you check the main thread to see what kind of issue he is actually dealing with—and how he intends to "solve" it—you might realize he probably won't. I guess... how many times has he already changed his mind? Maybe try connecting the dots regarding the type of people who respond by belittling someone else's weaknesses. Yes, you asked a fair question. There are certainly people who vent their frustrations here on the forum. But as the smart hiddentrucker16 says, they won't be dealt with that easily.
He likely hasn't even heard that there is a group called Blondy🙂 And even he admits it—in reality, he would never say those things to your face... guess why...
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@ cosanostra...no, I wasn't talking about the moderators. From what I've seen, they're all actually great and deserve credit.
@ baron...and there you go, showing your prejudices... specifically against blondes. Luckily, I don't care about that. I try to show people who they are based on their character, not their hair color. I don't judge anyone by their hair or their username, either.😛 And to be clear... I didn't say I get insulted every single time I comment. It happens occasionally, but I frequently notice when people start picking fights with others.
I agree, you can't vent your frustrations away here, but what can you do? I suppose there are still optimists out there hoping things will work out for them.
So, just like the title implies... I’m wondering how much truth there actually is to this... It’s happened to me more times than I care to count: I’ll post a simple comment, only to be met with a barrage of insults. I honestly don't get why people lose it over a single observation. Or worse, you have people who take everything so incredibly literally that they jump down your throat over a minor nuance, like someone looking for any excuse to start a fight. I genuinely try my best to respect everyone's perspective. At the end of the day, this is an online forum—everyone should have the right to speak their mind, provided they aren't being abusive toward other members. So, why is it that some people are so hell-bent on arguing, insulting others, or acting like they have all the answers? Is this really just a dumping ground for people to vent their frustrations because they have nowhere else to let off steam, or... Anyway, I'd love to hear what you all think about this.🍿
Thank God, I don't have any direct experience with this, but from what I understand regarding the prognosis: To predict how the disease will progress and the ultimate outcome, several factors are critical: - The condition of the lymph nodes in the armpit (if they are involved, the outlook is much tougher) - The size of the tumor: essentially, the larger the carcinoma, the higher the risk of recurrence. - Hormone sensitivity: patients whose tumors are hormone-sensitive (meaning they possess receptors for female hormones like estrogen and progesterone) generally have a better prognosis and survival rate. - The type of tumor tissue, specifically the grade of malignancy: a Grade 1 tumor with mild cellular changes carries a good prognosis, whereas a Grade 3 tumor—where cells are rapidly dividing and showing significant changes—is a bad sign. Now, you already know her specific grade, the tumor size, and all those details...
I imagine this is incredibly difficult for you; anyone would struggle if they found themselves in a situation like this. Just stay strong and hang in there. Above all, be a pillar of support for her and stay right by her side—I truly believe that’s where you can help her most.😘 And one more thing: try not to let her see that you're just as scared as she is.
Charles Young said:Look, I already said it—the law is being broken here. Advertising alcohol is strictly prohibited, so I have no clue what kind of loophole allows Martini to run ads... while they can't even touch brandy 🤣
It’s just the obvious influence of a force greater than the law: money 🙂
From what I can gather, you were arguing that alcohol isn't actually being advertised, just beer—which gets treated more like a food product... but fine, whatever.😘
By the way, if we're talking advertising, I'd much rather see them promote something local, like some small-batch bourbon or a domestic wine, instead of Martini. Then again, I don't work in marketing, so take my word for it with a grain of salt.🤣
Charles Young said:Making certain drugs legal would be the single biggest blow to organized crime we could ever deliver.
Legalization means better quality control. People wouldn't be dropping dead from some "dirty" batch of street junk... and trafficking wouldn't exist on this massive scale.
Keeping drugs illegal doesn't make them any less available, nor does it make them "less harmful."
Look at alcohol. You don't see ads for hard liquor everywhere; only beer gets classified as a basic food product. Even then, laws are being skirted constantly. But whatever. Just like so many other things out there...
Alcohol definitely gets advertised... just look at an ad featuring George Clooney sipping a Martini, for instance. Plus, back in the day, you'd see commercials for General Motors or FedEx popping up several times a day on all the major national networks, including CNN. It was constant—I can't remember the exact names of every brand or all those bottles they showed on screen, but yeah, it happened.🙂
I honestly don't know... it's not that I'm desperately trying to gain weight, but the reality is that even if I wanted to—I just can't.
I've read through all the posts Kyle Collins2 mentioned and Kate Flores4, but... it doesn't matter. The truth is, I eat incredibly unhealthy food and I'm constantly snacking; I think the only time my mouth is actually empty is when I'm sleeping. This has been my life since puberty, so we're talking years here... and yet, the scale won't budge. Sure, I stay very active, but even so, I don't get how I can eat this much volume without seeing any change...😕 It’s probably because my metabolism runs as fast as light. 😳
Morgan Williams4 said:I have a question regarding weight loss. I noticed that I rode about 559 miles miles on my bike last month, yet the scale hasn't budged. Not to mention, the extra fat on my stomach and lower back isn't shrinking at all. It was the same thing last year when I did a 932 miles mile tour over two weeks; I'd get home, step on the scale, and instead of losing weight, I'd actually gained some, and the body fat remained. Does anyone know why this happens? By the way, my average cruising speed is between 22 and 16 miles mph, and I rarely ride for less than an hour!!
I'm not entirely sure (though I don't quite understand 😕 ) why you aren't seeing a change in your waistline, but the reason your weight is staying stagnant despite all that cycling is simple: muscle is much denser than fat. Essentially, you've strengthened your muscles through all that riding, making them larger and heavier, which is why the number on the scale stays the same.
Fasting for seven days straight? Man, you’ve gotta hand it to them—that takes some serious grit...
I have this friend who does a total fast every Monday. She doesn't eat a single thing all day, claiming it's the perfect way to reset after a heavy weekend of eating. She says she’s felt amazing ever since she started making it part of her routine...
Since I have a high IQ, I possess all the typical traits—except for narcissism and everything else that usually comes with it. In my view, those personality quirks depend on the individual rather than being a direct byproduct of intelligence...
Thank goodness we aren't living in Afghanistan... God forbid... grr 😬 Anyway, I think I've already voiced my entire take on this subject, and besides, the guy who started this thread hasn't shown up in ages... who knows, maybe it was just some clueless 17-year-old kid who thinks he's seen it all 🤣 , someone who's probably experimented with everything under the sun by now, so... 👋
Kimberly Rogers2 said:I feel like you’re totally overlooking the fact that people don't just pop a pill or try a substance solely to "get high"—it's not an either/or situation. It’s not like using drugs automatically means someone is incapable of having a good time sober; it could be that they actually *need* it to reach that level of fun in the first place.
I didn't overlook anything. What kind of logic suggests you need something like DRUGS just to have a good time, even once? Seriously, come on. It’s better if they just get hammered on beer like a regular person; at least that does less damage.
Honestly, I’m done arguing about this. Fine, let them do it—if they want to spend their lives chasing a high just to feel anything at all, more power to them. But truly? I just feel sorry for people like that. Before you ask why... It’s pretty obvious: they’re either bored out of their minds, or they're just miserable souls who can't find a shred of joy without a crutch. And I’m not just talking about hard drugs; I mean people who need to drown themselves in booze just to function. It’s pathetic. I remember back in high school, there was a phase where grabbing a drink or getting a little buzzed felt like the ultimate rush. But things changed. Now that I’ve got my driver's license and I'm out driving around the city, I’ve completely cut all that stuff out, and honestly? Life is incredible. I have an amazing group of friends, we go wherever we feel like, and I have a blast every single time—completely sober, no weed, no booze, nothing. So, I don't get the urge to constantly push boundaries or tempt fate, even when the consequences aren't immediate.😕 Why bother risking everything when you can see that plenty of other people are having the time of their lives without relying on any of that nonsense (whether it's drugs, weed, or just heavy drinking)?🙂
placidranger said:Yeah, and? I could take drugs, too. Doesn't mean I'm giving up everything else.
Look, it's fine. Do what you want and consume whatever you please; live your life. 🙂 It just feels wrong to be sitting here on this forum listing the "benefits" and effects of drugs. To me, that’s just unhealthy and frankly almost 👎
So what? Why bother chasing a high when you could just do something that won't wreck your system? It's not even a question.
placidranger said:Nobody would touch the stuff if there wasn't a payoff. Some things can absolutely wreck your life—don't get me wrong—but they provide a hell of a rush too.
And then there are things that provide plenty of satisfaction without ruining you... zero negative consequences.
There’s no way to rush this process; it’ll take as long as it takes. You might shave a little time off if you stop hammering away at that spot constantly—or, if you can manage to resist the urge while you're being irritated, maybe try not playing in those sneakers.