The pharmacist knows what she's talking about. It’s never happened to me personally, but I’ve seen it happen to plenty of my friends. Whenever they caught a cold, it was like clockwork—their symptoms would either hit early or drag on much longer than expected.
Exactly. And honestly, I’ve lost count—it feels like it’s happened at least a hundred times by now. 😳 Yeah, yeah, I’m clearly the only optimist here actually keeping track of the tally. 😂
Look, just take a breath and relax. You’re only a week behind, and honestly, this is just your third time dealing with this in your entire life. Don't stress yourself out right now; you’ll have plenty of opportunities to make it up later, so don't even worry about it. ☕
Look, everyone’s body reacts differently. It’s just basic biology—some people can handle intense pain without blinking, while others are sidelined by it. It’s the same deal with swimming. You might be perfectly fine, thank God, but I’ve heard plenty of stories about people having to extend their recovery by a few days just because they went for a dip.
Emily Johnson67 said:Look, I wash my hair regularly whenever I get the chance, so I haven't dropped dead from it—those are just old myths. Sure, you should stay out of the direct sun, but a quick dip in the ocean isn't going to hurt anyone. In fact, the water is better when it's cold rather than lukewarm. Of course, all that assumes you don't have an appetite as massive as mine...🙄
Those aren't "myths," they're just old wives' tales, and I was simply pointing out where they come from. Besides, it's not like you're supposed to avoid swimming in cold water too. Honestly, I don't get how people can go even a couple of days without getting in the water. 🙄
Go see a gynecologist and look up some threads regarding endometriosis. Most women dealing with your specific symptoms are typically prescribed birth control pills, but honestly, your best bet is to sit down with a specialist and hear their professional take.
Let me give you some unsolicited advice. If there is one thing you shouldn't do during your period, it’s lounging in the sun or swimming—especially during those first three days. Heat dilates your blood vessels, which can lead to heavier bleeding. It’s the same logic behind why people say you shouldn't wash your hair while on your period; staying under a hot shower for too long just exacerbates things. Add in the risk of a heat headache from the sun, and it’s a recipe for disaster. Plus, let’s be real: the idea that it’s "easy" to swap out a tampon after every dip in the ocean because every beach has a pristine restroom and a private changing stall? Yeah, right. 🙄 She’ll have a much easier time if she just pushes the trip back instead of trying to hit the beach.
If you’re looking to delay things, you should consider birth control pills. If you aren't currently on them, go see your gynecologist to discuss your situation; they can prescribe a daily regimen of specific pills designed to help push back your cycle. To speed things up, your best bet is to drink a glass or two of red wine every day—it's really the only thing that might nudge the process along a bit faster. 😁
Could there be an underlying health issue at play here? My cousin went through something similar once, and it turned out she had an issue with one of her ovaries. Since ovaries tend to "rotate" during the menstrual cycle—one side one month, the other side the next—it can really impact things. It’s the same principle with pregnancy; every month, a follicle is activated on one side to allow for fertilization if there's contact with sperm 😁. In her case, she couldn't get pregnant during certain months because the ovary that was supposed to be "active" wasn't functioning correctly. I can't recall the exact medical details. Or maybe they're just running late... who knows? Mine have always been incredibly regular, right on schedule, though I've had them slip by two or three weeks maybe once a year. At the end of the day, if they don't show up, maybe you should give your OB-GYN a call, yeah? 😉
ruggedpanther64 said:Just sit back and enjoy the ride... Honestly, I dealt with this exact same issue when I was 16, and even now at 21, I just can't seem to lose the belly fat. 😢
That’s exactly my point. First, there's no way to do it, and then suddenly, it's just gone.
Kimberly Booth said:I think you have plenty to work with; it really just comes down to how you’re feeling.🙄
Look, let's be real: 120 pounds at 5'11" is way too light, especially for a guy. 🙄 Those are textbook model proportions for women.
Honestly, it feels like you’re still navigating those teenage years where hormones just run the show. My boyfriend was in his late teens back then, weighing maybe 130 pounds and standing just a bit taller than you. He couldn't gain an ounce to save his life; it wasn't until he hit his early twenties that he finally filled out, and now he looks much more solid. 👍 (and yeah, he’s 21 now) I had a very similar experience myself... up until I was about 18, my body barely changed at all despite eating the same amount. I truly believe things will balance out for you naturally over the next two or three years. In the meantime, just focus on maintaining a healthy diet—there's certainly no harm in that. 😁 Your body is still developing, so your metabolism is functioning differently right now.
briskbison28 said:A long time ago, 😁 a friend of mine went to see her gynecologist because she was skeptical about what I told her, and a decent doctor actually told her that you can't perform a vaginal exam on someone who is a virgin; they have to do an anal one instead. So, that means (I assume) you don't get a Pap Smear either🙂
Honestly, I don't understand how you all manage to deal with daily pads every single day. 😲😲 I really only reach for them on the very first day or the very last day of my cycle, and even then, it feels like such a chore. As for tampons... look, I know people say pads are a healthier option, but I just can't make them work for me. They irritate my skin constantly, they feel uncomfortable when I'm walking, and frankly, I just hate them. And thank God, I've never dealt with any infections or bacterial issues—not even since I started taking birth control pills, which can sometimes trigger yeast infections (and I've been on them for quite a while now). Also, I don't see what the big deal is about showering before or after sex; I actually look forward to doing it. Maybe that hygiene habit is another reason why I haven't run into any issues down there. 😍
Of course you need to get your blood work done; I don't see what the issue is there. 🤷 Pills can certainly cause various side effects, but they absolutely have no impact on your future fertility, so there is no reason to worry about that.
Susan Vaughn46 said:I met my current boyfriend online after dating for a year and a half, my ex from an eighteen-month relationship, and my best friend—who I’m constantly grabbing coffee with—all through the internet. To put it simply, I found my entire social circle online.
Karen Young17 said:I’m currently living with a guy I met online.
I’ve also met quite a few people online. 🥳 Less is more when it comes to experience... sometimes.
You’ve definitely picked the wrong place to ask that question on this Reddit thread. So many people here have ended up meeting in real life.
Anonymous said:Yes. Yes. 😍 Yes. 😍😍
Maybe they're out in the woods.
Even if you get a "yes" to every single question you ask, that doesn't mean you haven't just run headfirst into an idiot. 😉 In any case—good luck. It’s definitely worth a shot.
And here I was, thinking I was the exception to the rule. 😁 To be honest, I met my partner online too, though we eventually had a proper introduction through a mutual friend who went to elementary school with him and high school with me. All in all, it was absolutely worth it. 😍😍😍 I’ve actually developed some genuine affection for certain people here on Reddit—folks like malena_1309, Daisy, and even the Mafia. Even if our paths never cross in the real world, I truly value having them in my life like this. 🙂