Posts by darkcyclist92

amberhound8 said:just grab an external HDD enclosure

👍

You need to purchase a 3.5" external USB enclosure that comes equipped with its own dedicated power supply if you actually want to achieve what people call a "portable" drive.

That said, small-form-factor drives have become so incredibly cheap and ubiquitous that massive desktop towers feel like an outdated relic of a bygone era, though you should be able to find exactly what you need on Amazon.

Should you build a custom SQL solution from scratch or just hunt for one? 🤔

Anyway, I suspect you'll turn up a much wider array of candidates on Stack Overflow, particularly when dealing with PL/SQL.

Morgan Ortiz6 said:
.......I had to save the subtitle file as "Unicode" in Notepad, but now that Unicode option has completely vanished from my Notepad menu. Instead of seeing normal characters, I'm getting a bunch of weird, garbled symbols everywhere.

How on earth do you think Unicode just disappears from Notepad? 😲 You simply open the file, select "Save As...", and the encoding options—including Unicode—will be right there waiting for you.

I don't personally use the specific software you're talking about, but frankly, that's irrelevant. The subtitle needs to be in Unicode if that solves your issue—which it clearly should—or if that fails, you use ISO. There is no third option here.

If you're insisting that the Unicode option has somehow evaporated, then go find a dedicated text editor designed specifically for handling document encoding.

driftinghound12 said:I couldn't find an existing thread for this, so I’m starting my own because I’m genuinely preoccupied with it... I view this more as a psychology question than a philosophical one. Throughout my life, I've made a conscious effort to be a good person—honest, fair, someone who pursues goals through creativity and hard work, and stays kind and helpful to everyone. I try to approach everything with a positive mindset. It would all be much easier to enjoy if there weren't people in my orbit who seem hell-bent on causing harm. Generally speaking, these are individuals who thrive on destruction, constantly seeking validation by stepping on others. They just seem drawn to malice.

One such person pretended to be my friend, only to steal my boyfriend after we had been together for years. Another is my sister; when I confided my plans to her, she rushed to execute them herself just to snatch the credit. She loves nitpicking me over trivialities and belittling me to others to make herself look better. Then there was a colleague at work who swiped one of my ideas—in a workplace where we're supposed to be collaborating toward a shared goal—and took all the praise for it.

Why are some people naturally drawn to darkness, finding satisfaction in tearing things down for their own gain? How are you supposed to handle them once they've already won? What can be done as a preventative measure? Clearly, I’m attracting this kind of energy somehow; perhaps I’m trying too hard to be nice or "good," making myself an easy target for exploitation. I also don't understand why society seems to reward these types. They’re arrogant and "resourceful," knowing how to grab what they want without putting in any actual sweat or effort. Nowadays, it feels like screwing someone over has become normalized, while being decent is treated as the anomaly. Lately, I've become so guarded and disillusioned with people that I don't trust anyone, let alone want to go out. It got so bad that I actually attempted suicide because the pressure from these toxic people became suffocating. I just feel like I'm worthless and that none of my efforts matter.🤦

Aww, don't go there 🙂 Look, it would be foolish to claim that your suffering is part of some divine plan where God exploits good people like you, though I suppose it might feel that way; however, the truth is, as that viper once pointed out, you are simply being naive. You absolutely must learn to guard your ideas. If you are working within a corporate team, you have to develop an instinct for timing—you need to know exactly when to speak up so the credit lands squarely on your desk, rather than whispering your thoughts to others only to watch them slip away and collect the accolades while you sit in silence 😉

And honestly, there is nothing wrong with wanting to earn your own medals; leave the cynics to themselves!

I have dealt with similar betrayals myself—two friends didn't just steal my ideas, they stole entire business ventures—but it turned out to be a catastrophic mistake for them. It is a sickening sensation when a close friend transforms into a plagiarist and a spy out of pure envy, but I suppose that is just the grim reality of human nature. That particular individual was always a monster, I knew that from the start, but et cetera, he was still a decent enough friend at times.

Anyway, I personally find people like you—honest and genuinely good—to be incredibly refreshing, and it is a shame there aren't more of you. So, do not let yourself fall into despair; do not allow the filth of others to corrupt who you are :P You simply have to realize that everyone is looking for their slice of the pie, and if you hand it to them, they will take the whole thing.

Whether that behavior is acceptable, moral, or just part of basic human biology... it doesn't matter. Don't waste your energy overanalyzing it.

As for your ex-boyfriend, yes, that was absolutely despicable. Unfortunately, I have witnessed far too many cases like that to deny it; you are right, people just don't have any backbone or morals left these days, do they? 🙂

Brandon Mitchell said:After everything I've dealt with regarding women lately, I’m starting to think the universe is just actively trying to screw me over for no reason. It feels like there's zero hope left. If you really want to know why I'm feeling this way, I can explain the whole thing in a DM, but honestly, maybe there really is such a thing as karma like someone mentioned earlier. If karma exists, it's clearly working overtime to ruin my life. It feels like no matter how hard I try, I'm just cosmically destined to fail...

On the contrary. In fact, I am quite interested to hear why you’ve reached such a bleak conclusion.

so maybe karma really does exist like someone else mentioned earlier, because if it does, the sign is clear that it wants to wreck me—essentially, no matter how hard I try, I am karmically destined for failure.

As far as I'm concerned, karma—or a recurring life pattern—definitely exists. For God's sake, the world would be mind-numbingly monotonous without it. In fact, I suspect existence itself couldn't function without it, otherwise everyone would lead identical lives or have total control over their destinies as 100% authors of their own stories.

But why on earth do you believe life is targeting you? While I agree that karma tends toward chaos, I don't buy that it goes so far as to completely destroy a person.

Brandon Mitchell said:It’s honestly pretty pathetic that you find this funny. Honestly, I’d love to see you swap places with me for a second... just to see how you’d actually react if some guy or girl—assuming you're into that—suddenly bit your tongue mid-sentence.

Give me a break, you actually got off easy. I once found myself in a situation even more harrowing than yours, where I wasn't just bitten, but ended up getting pelted with rocks by a mob down by the lake. It’s a good thing I didn't take a dip in that water, because I likely would have been assaulted and drowned.😂

Larry Walker24 said:just don't log into the forum

I honestly believe she lacks the self-control to actually follow that advice, which explains why she went looking for a "forced" ban in the first place; she practically begged for it.

But having her posts vanish for two whole weeks... that is going to be incredibly dull! 😢Ashley Ramos78, you better post something in here then!!!!!!!!! 😢

What a shame.

The one individual who consistently kept me laughing, provided the most entertainment, and truly made browsing the web an engaging experience has actually requested a Ban.

I can only hope they make a swift return. 😢

redbear2 said:Yeah, I stand by that. He wasn't exactly cooking up some grand scheme to take over the entire world.

I’ve been quoted on this thread before: "Every villain is a hero in his own mind."

Good and evil are subjective. What looks like pure evil in one person's head might just look like common sense to someone else. It all depends on whose perspective you're looking through.

Dammit, killing someone... It’s honestly stupid to even sit there weighing whether it’s a good or bad act. Of course it's evil. Even when people try to stack up heavy arguments to justify it, it doesn't change the math. And using pure ego as a reason? That’s just plain moronic.

Look, some people just find it totally cool. Life, philosophy, circumstances—it all shapes you differently. Some folks just "have" it in them, I guess. They were born that way.

If those points still don't convince you, my honest advice is to take a trip down to Central America—start with Mexico, Panama, or Colombia. It’s a good reality check. You'll find that the kind of philosophy we hold dear over here has long since checked out.

P.S. I actually have another interesting one just like it. Let's dive into the philosophical side of things here, too. 😉

There’s nothing foolish about asking questions. How can you possibly gauge the weight of a decision if you don't put it on the scale? Take murder, for instance. How can killing one person be viewed as a negative outcome if that single act saves ten others? To be honest, I’ve run through several scenarios in my head where letting ten people die just to save one would actually be the worse choice—but then again, that also carries its own weight on the scale. Let's look at it this way: imagine eleven average Americans. If killing one person ensures the other ten survive, then without that act, one lives and ten die. In that case, you have one killer and ten captives. In a setup like that, isn't killing the one actually the positive move? Why exactly would we call that an evil deed?

I originally pointed to egocentrism as the root cause when a kid snatches a toy or a candy bar away from someone else. Murder, though, usually stems from something different. Still, that whole "If I can't have you, nobody can" mentality? That's pure egocentrism and selfishness driving the blade.

Look, people like you and me—personally speaking—can be so genuinely charming and kind that we can win over absolutely everyone. Not just a few, but everybody. Conversely, we can be just as abrasive and malicious, reaching a point where we alienate every single person we encounter.

People sense that energy. No amount of philosophy or clever persuasion can change how they feel.

There is nothing foolish about weighing the options. How are you supposed to know the weight of a burden if you don't test it? And how can taking one life be considered negative if that specific act preserves ten others?

I anticipated those thoughts of yours long ago. However, I am more than willing to confront them head-on.

What is the actual distinction between the man who declares...
- Hey, I’ll save you ten people; I will sacrifice myself for you!

and the group of ten who respond...
- Fine, buddy, we’re with you. Go ahead and kill yourself for us.

This is my perspective: it is a matter of one valuable life versus ten worthless ones. I am not suggesting that murder (or even triage) isn't occasionally necessary, but for heaven's sake, you cannot simply claim that killing—even under the guise of triage—is fundamentally okay.

It is a logical fact that taking any life, even that of an ant, is an evil act. Regardless of the reason behind it.

I originally cited egocentrism as the reason children fight over toys or candy. Murder can stem from entirely different motivations. However, that "If I can't have it, no one can" mentality in killings is undeniably a byproduct of pure egocentrism and selfishness.

Exactly! You have hit the nail right on the head. Egocentrism is the driving force behind all murders, unfortunately. The ego is the mother of all disasters.

But while you argue that the ego is shaped by our environment—since you believe we are all born equal—I maintain that we are born with an inherent ego already intact. Many psychoanalysts have confirmed this for me, specifically Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung; I will quote him for you (assuming you find Freud's perspective acceptable for this discussion).

It might sound absurd to you, but this guy wrote exactly what I believe regarding this entire subject, and it is likely the first time either of us has read it.

The Id—the Id is an built-in component of personality residing within the unconscious. It contains everything psychological about an individual, all that which is inherited, primarily instincts or drives, automatic reactions. All psychic energy originates from the Id. The ego and superego could not function without the Id. The Id is the epicenter of everything animalistic, limitless, and primal. It recognizes no laws, no limitations, and no rules; it refuses to be restrained and acknowledges no prohibitions whatsoever. The Id operates on the pleasure principle to alleviate psychic tension. It is irrational, narcissistic, and impulsive. Within it, the libido (drive) is most prevalent.

Someone forgot to include the word "(innate)" before "drive" in that last sentence—either the translator or Freud himself. 😁

For some inexplicable reason, I don't even feel the need to read Sigmund Freud or Carl Jung, because I instinctively understand the essence of their writings. These prominent psychiatrists figured me out back when I was only eighteen.

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Let’s be honest: man will never truly succeed in defining the essence of his own nature. Whether you're looking at raw instinct, intelligence, sexual orientation, or that fundamental struggle between being fundamentally good or inherently evil—not to mention whether someone leans toward promiscuity or embraces celibacy—it remains an unsolvable equation. It is simply impossible. Beyond. It is nothing more than a collection of baseless whims, devoid of any actual intellect, expertise, or even a shred of legitimate scientific foundation. It is just as utterly nonsensical as tree theory.

Why did I bring up a "tree"? Because, in my estimation, a tree—be it a pear, an oak, or a willow, it doesn't even matter—is nothing short of a MIRACLE. While it’s true that every living creature possesses its own inherent wonder, a tree stands alone as the MIRACLE OF ALL MIRACLES! 🙂 I reject everything this man stands for—every single one of his theories, his fundamental laws of physics, and even his supposedly rock-solid mathematical foundations. And then, to top it all off, he claims to be producing oxygen? Give me a break!

I have a fireplace in my house, and every single time I grab a log, I find myself staring at it—examining its contours and its texture—until it hits me that I am quite literally holding a fragment of the sun in my hands. In truth, I know it to be true. It is a cold piece of the sun.

Nature is so overflowing with substance and sheer wonder that it is frankly absurd to imagine something as minuscule as a human being attempting to insert themselves into the equation as an author. Superiority? What a joke. That is my definitive stance on humanity—and honestly, it applies to a piece of wood just as much as it does to us. 🙂

Looking for people who are withdrawn, guarded, disillusioned, or just emotionally repressed for some PM chats 😁 Daaaa, I’d love to meet someone :P

I have a knack for forming genuine, high-quality, long-term friendships with individuals who struggle with self-repressive psychological diagnoses—whether they've been formally diagnosed or simply feel like they fit the description 🙂 To me, they are perfectly normal. My one non-negotiable rule is that they cannot be aggressive toward others; I once nearly lost my mind during a confrontation involving a group of people, a whole neighborhood, and an entire city, and I have no desire to repeat that chaos :P

I’m in my 30s, though mentally I’m still very much in my 20s. Since I don't have the heavy responsibilities of a wife or children, it’s unrealistic to expect me to be living in that "adult" headspace yet.

Just a heads-up: if you are someone who can actually tolerate spending time with me online despite my concrete layers of social armor, you might find yourselves being pressured to hang out in person, so beware of your cruel intentions, meow 😉

ps: I’m not gay. Not even remotely
ps2: I can get incredibly busy and might be inconsistent with replies, but I am always here somewhere
ps3: None.

Thank you, and I hope you enjoy your conversations 😁

redbear2 said:There isn't really any other way to define it, unless you're one of those people who believes every single action is strictly good or evil. I don't see much point in commenting on that, though. It feels unnecessary.

So, you're asking if I believe a person has a fully formed personality right at birth. By framing it that way, you’ve basically already decided my answer is "no," haven't you? You’ve got your own quote sitting right there above, setting the stage.

Follow the logic here. What I'm really saying is that a person isn't born with any of this. built Personality.

I say... there is.

Personality isn't just one thing. It’s built from the inside out—a mix of what's happening under the hood and what the world throws at you.

Here’s where you and I differ:
I’ve always leaned toward the idea that our environment—the philosophy of our surroundings—is what ultimately carves out a person's identity. You know, those core instincts, drives, and specific personality traits we carry around. My take? We all start out perfectly fine. We're born "OK," just sitting there somewhere in the middle, waiting for the world to shape us.

Here’s my take on it:
We’re born with a certain personality—set instincts, drives, and traits that are just hardwired into us. It's a given. Because of that, we have no choice but to bend those traits to fit our surroundings, or what you might call the prevailing social philosophy.

I didn't say that. Everything you just listed could be purely genetic—honestly, some of those traits couldn't even manifest any other way. I’ll just point out that I'm not entirely sure what exactly you're defining as "characteristics."

If you really want a shocker, here it is: I honestly don't see any real distinction between humans and animals. I could give you enough examples to make your head spin, but I’m not interested in trying to convince you—or anyone else, especially not some self-proclaimed philosopher. Just look at warfare. It’s the ultimate proof of what a "human" is capable of when the Law in general vanishes and all that social philosophy falls away.

This feels like the opening salvo of a personal attack that doesn't actually have much to do with the topic at hand. It seems like you’re feeling a bit threatened. You're throwing out wrong assumptions about what I actually believe, seemingly in hopes of undermining my point.

Fine by me. I’m not really interested in sinking to your level, but I will point out that your assumptions about me—which have absolutely nothing to do with what we're actually discussing—are dead wrong.

You're spot on when you say I believe there are fundamental differences between humans and the rest of the animal kingdom. Of course there are—just like there are distinctions between any other species out there.

Look, my argument is that most people aren't just born "not okay"—they’re actually born bad. It’s philosophy and environment that turn them into decent individuals (assuming they weren't born good to begin with).

I’m not sure how to respond to that. All I can say is that at birth, an individual can't be anything other than neutral. They haven't done anything yet, so there's no foundation to judge whether they are fundamentally good or evil.

Humans might be the most advanced beings on Earth, but against the raw power of nature, we’re just... philosophers.

Fair enough, I'll concede that point—if we define high intelligence as the ultimate stage of development. Though, I could probably list several organisms out there that could give us a run for our money.

Humans can't be a force of nature. We can only (philosophically speaking) dissect and exploit that force. Which is pretty much all we do, by the way. That goes for wind, the sun, electromagnetic fields, fruit, fire, or oil.

Take a tree. That's a solid example. Can a human create something remotely like a tree? Something that grows on its own without pulling mass from the ground, turns water and sunlight into a massive, rigid structure, and somehow "produces" 300 pounds of pears?

No. And for the same reason, you can't predict what kind of kid someone will turn out to be.

I don't think comparing humans to trees is helpful here. I could ask, "Can a tree launch a pear into space?" or "Can a tree solve math problems?" but what's the point?

What am I trying to tell you? Just that humans aren't some superior species. We can't be. And I'm saying this because you keep insisting otherwise by denying my point—acting like humans are "super beings" who can do anything.

Like I said before, you keep making this personal, which wasn't my intention at all. I don't see how that helps this discussion. Personally, I put humans in the same category as raccoons. Hope that makes you feel better. Honestly, raccoons probably contribute more to the global ecosystem than we do.

Fine, if that's just your eccentricity talking, let's talk about wars, theft, and seizing territory.

That's just egocentrism.

Not quite a perfect fit, but it works. 😁 The > gave a great example—Hitler.

Do you really think Hitler was the embodiment of evil from the moment he was born?

ps: You think people wouldn't steal so much if there wasn't a Law (philosophy) in place? Why does the Law exist at all? You know why? To ensure everyone is forcibly "okay." 🙂 Just so we don't... kill each other off.

To maintain order, sure, I agree. The thing is, humans are just animals, as we've already established. The whole point of a community is acting together to make survival a bit easier; naturally, you need order to keep that going.

That’s why things like the EU exist, or why America used to be a thing. 🙂 Look, the moment someone says, "I want the big chocolate bar," 300k people end up slaughtered, violated, or burned, and everyone was born "OK," only to have everything go to hell!

I suspect that wars between entire nations were caused more by external influences than by absolute evil within the human "soul."

So, you're only a good person as long as the Law exists—that's the philosophy. As soon as it's gone... instincts (human traits) take center stage. The innate ones.

I don't see any issue with this happening among other animals.

You don't need to overcomplicate it. All a human can "learn" in that field is Ebola, AIDS, and other massively lethal mistakes, and cloning sex with clones will just result in a freak. And a SERIOUS one at that.
It would be just great if the whole planet turned into freaks; that would be a truly "smart and scientific" move for humanity.

Are you claiming that humans are responsible for developing those diseases? You don't believe in the existence of viruses that cause them independently of human action?

Then man would be (only) a philosopher and say... "whoever acts, errs." 🙂 Touching.

But the truth is, the entire process of evolution relies on that.

I'm telling you—humans just mess up by trying to tinker with the rules of nature. That's it. Nothing else. And once they make a serious mistake... even nature won't help them. ☕

Fine.

PS: You get the last word, I'm out.

Thanks for your generosity and your boldness.

You never really know. There might actually be a reason why he’s such a piece of work. It doesn't make it okay, obviously, but it makes it understandable.

I agree.

In my view, Hitler was an above-average intelligence, a highly capable leader—he was simply born with that drive. He had a remarkable knack for selecting the right tools and people to achieve his objectives, most notably choosing Rommel, a man others might have dismissed, and recognizing him as one of the greatest field marshals of the Wehrmacht, not to mention the experts who built up the Luftwaffe and the naval forces of the Bundeswehr... even today, scientists are baffled by certain technical solutions they developed, sometimes even copying details sixty years later because he was so far ahead of his time.

While Hitler was a natural "mover," it was his upbringing that diverted that innate power away from moving the world forward and toward using it as a weapon of vengeance against the world. That is a philosophical theory, I suppose. You’re essentially arguing that he was born neutral, and his environment turned him evil, isn't that right?

I disagree—that explanation falls short. Even if we assume Hitler wasn't inherently evil in his soul, he certainly wouldn't have engineered a scenario to slaughter half the planet. Especially not someone as brilliant and capable as he was.

I know there is a fundamental difference because I see it in myself. In the midst of the absolute worst chaos, under the most crushing circumstances and massive problems, I will find the positives, the meaning, and the solutions, and I will push a "frenzied mob" toward the very best versions of themselves. I am simply wired that way, and you don't learn that in any school.

redbear2 said:There isn't really any other way to define it, unless you're one of those people who believes every single action is strictly good or evil. I don't see much point in commenting on that, though. It feels unnecessary.

So, you're asking if I believe a person has a fully formed personality right at birth. By framing it that way, you’ve basically already decided my answer is "no," haven't you? You’ve got your own quote sitting right there above, setting the stage.

Follow the logic here. What I'm really saying is that a person isn't born with any of this. built Personality.

I say... there is.

Personality isn't just one thing. It’s built from the inside out—a mix of what's happening under the hood and what the world throws at you.

Here’s where you and I differ:
I’ve always leaned toward the idea that our environment—the philosophy of our surroundings—is what ultimately carves out a person's identity. You know, those core instincts, drives, and specific personality traits we carry around. My take? We all start out perfectly fine. We're born "OK," just sitting there somewhere in the middle, waiting for the world to shape us.

Here’s my take on it:
We’re born with a certain personality—set instincts, drives, and traits that are just hardwired into us. It's a given. Because of that, we have no choice but to bend those traits to fit our surroundings, or what you might call the prevailing social philosophy.

I didn't say that. Everything you just listed could be purely genetic—honestly, some of those traits couldn't even manifest any other way. I’ll just point out that I'm not entirely sure what exactly you're defining as "characteristics."

If you really want a shocker, here it is: I honestly don't see any real distinction between humans and animals. I could give you enough examples to make your head spin, but I’m not interested in trying to convince you—or anyone else, especially not some self-proclaimed philosopher. Just look at warfare. It’s the ultimate proof of what a "human" is capable of when the Law in general vanishes and all that social philosophy falls away.

This feels like the opening salvo of a personal attack that doesn't actually have much to do with the topic at hand. It seems like you’re feeling a bit threatened. You're throwing out wrong assumptions about what I actually believe, seemingly in hopes of undermining my point.

Fine by me. I’m not really interested in sinking to your level, but I will point out that your assumptions about me—which have absolutely nothing to do with what we're actually discussing—are dead wrong.

You're spot on when you say I believe there are fundamental differences between humans and the rest of the animal kingdom. Of course there are—just like there are distinctions between any other species out there.

Look, my argument is that most people aren't just born "not okay"—they’re actually born bad. It’s philosophy and environment that turn them into decent individuals (assuming they weren't born good to begin with).

I’m not sure how to respond to that. All I can say is that at birth, an individual can't be anything other than neutral. They haven't done anything yet, so there's no foundation to judge whether they are fundamentally good or evil.

Humans might be the most advanced beings on Earth, but against the raw power of nature, we’re just... philosophers.

Fair enough, I'll concede that point—if we define high intelligence as the ultimate stage of development. Though, I could probably list several organisms out there that could give us a run for our money.

Humans can't be a force of nature. We can only (philosophically speaking) dissect and exploit that force. Which is pretty much all we do, by the way. That goes for wind, the sun, electromagnetic fields, fruit, fire, or oil.

Take a tree. That's a solid example. Can a human create something remotely like a tree? Something that grows on its own without pulling mass from the ground, turns water and sunlight into a massive, rigid structure, and somehow "produces" 300 pounds of pears?

No. And for the same reason, you can't predict what kind of kid someone will turn out to be.

I don't think comparing humans to trees is helpful here. I could ask, "Can a tree launch a pear into space?" or "Can a tree solve math problems?" but what's the point?

What am I trying to tell you? Just that humans aren't some superior species. We can't be. And I'm saying this because you keep insisting otherwise by denying my point—acting like humans are "super beings" who can do anything.

Like I said before, you keep making this personal, which wasn't my intention at all. I don't see how that helps this discussion. Personally, I put humans in the same category as raccoons. Hope that makes you feel better. Honestly, raccoons probably contribute more to the global ecosystem than we do.

Fine, if that's just your eccentricity talking, let's talk about wars, theft, and seizing territory.

That's just egocentrism.

Not quite a perfect fit, but it works. 😁 The > gave a great example—Hitler.

Do you really think Hitler was the embodiment of evil from the moment he was born?

ps: You think people wouldn't steal so much if there wasn't a Law (philosophy) in place? Why does the Law exist at all? You know why? To ensure everyone is forcibly "okay." 🙂 Just so we don't... kill each other off.

To maintain order, sure, I agree. The thing is, humans are just animals, as we've already established. The whole point of a community is acting together to make survival a bit easier; naturally, you need order to keep that going.

That’s why things like the EU exist, or why America used to be a thing. 🙂 Look, the moment someone says, "I want the big chocolate bar," 300k people end up slaughtered, violated, or burned, and everyone was born "OK," only to have everything go to hell!

I suspect that wars between entire nations were caused more by external influences than by absolute evil within the human "soul."

So, you're only a good person as long as the Law exists—that's the philosophy. As soon as it's gone... instincts (human traits) take center stage. The innate ones.

I don't see any issue with this happening among other animals.

You don't need to overcomplicate it. All a human can "learn" in that field is Ebola, AIDS, and other massively lethal mistakes, and cloning sex with clones will just result in a freak. And a SERIOUS one at that.
It would be just great if the whole planet turned into freaks; that would be a truly "smart and scientific" move for humanity.

Are you claiming that humans are responsible for developing those diseases? You don't believe in the existence of viruses that cause them independently of human action?

Then man would be (only) a philosopher and say... "whoever acts, errs." 🙂 Touching.

But the truth is, the entire process of evolution relies on that.

I'm telling you—humans just mess up by trying to tinker with the rules of nature. That's it. Nothing else. And once they make a serious mistake... even nature won't help them. ☕

Fine.

PS: You get the last word, I'm out.

Thanks for your generosity and your boldness.

You never really know. There might actually be a reason why he’s such a piece of work. It doesn't make it okay, obviously, but it makes it understandable.

I agree.

For God's sake, killing someone... it's idiotic to even debate whether that is a good or evil act. It is obviously evil, regardless of how heavy the arguments behind it might be. And claiming pure egocentrism as a justification is particularly moronic.

Then again, there are those for whom such things are perfectly acceptable. Life, philosophy, and circumstance taught them otherwise. They are simply "built" that way, in my opinion; they were born with it.

If you still find those points unconvincing, my honest advice is to take a trip to Central America—visit Mexico, Panama, or Colombia first. Go somewhere where the philosophy we hold dear here has long since vanished.

PS: By the way, you have another similarly interesting philosophical topic posted here 😉

northernsailor102 said:I’ve been sitting here for quite some time now, wrestling with thoughts of ending it all. Honestly, after observing the sheer absurdity of human existence and actually participating in this charade, I haven't been able to find a single legitimate reason to keep enduring this ongoing agony. It makes me wonder: what is your reason—or perhaps several reasons—for staying alive? Where does that primal urge for self-preservation and survival actually come from? What is it that forces you to keep going? What are you living for, what are you fighting for, or what have you dedicated your entire life to? Why is it that you manage to drag yourself out of bed every single morning?
I am not asking about some grand, cosmic purpose. I am asking about the practical, raw reasons why you choose to live over and over again.

It would probably be far more productive to host a thread dedicated to finding "legitimate" reasons for suicide, given that most of those justifications are utterly nonsensical.

There are enough reasons to live to fuel ten lifetimes, but I suppose if you fixate solely on one dark speck, you’ll remain blind to the light.

It’s ironic; I was under the impression people were out here searching for the Holy Grail, yet here you are looking for reasons to cease existing. Not bad.

redbear2 The user states:
Now that we have reached the conclusion that "good" and "evil" are merely constructs of pure cynicism—and that even the act of murder can be interpreted through either lens depending entirely on the context—one must confront the underlying question: What kind of person is the killer? Are they fundamentally good, or are they inherently evil?

That’s a fair question, but we’re drifting into pure philosophy now, so let’s not get bogged down in that. Besides, you'll eventually arrive at your own realization regarding whether killing is a good or an evil act all on your own.

You’re out here hunting for some deep philosophical justification just to decide whether murder is a good or bad act, but I couldn't care less about that intellectual scavenger hunt.

Don't you dare lie and suggest I claimed children lack a sense of self.

You asked whether I believe a person possesses a fully formed personality at the moment of birth. By asking that, you’ve essentially made the preemptive assertion that they don't—you've already boxed yourself into that conclusion. You have your own quote right there above to prove it.

I say... it exists.

The fundamental difference between our perspectives boils down to this:
I am firmly convinced that environment—the philosophy of one's surroundings—is what ultimately carves out a person's identity, shaping their instincts, their deepest drives, and their core characteristics, whereas we all enter this world fundamentally sound, simply waiting to be molded by the world around us.

And here is my position on the matter:
A person is born with a fixed personality—a set of innate instincts, primal drives, and core characteristics—that they will be absolutely forced to bend and adapt to their environment, or what we might call the prevailing philosophy of the world around them.

If you really want to be shocked, then let me drop this on you: I personally believe there is absolutely no distinction between man and beast. I could provide enough examples to make your head spin, though I have zero interest in wasting my breath trying to convince you or anyone else—especially not some self-proclaimed philosopher. Just look at war. It serves as the ultimate proof, especially when you consider what a "human being" is actually capable of becoming during wartime, in those moments where the Law (philosophy) has completely vanished.

I maintain that most human beings aren't just born "not okay," they are actually born fundamentally flawed, yet it is through the influence of philosophy and their environment that they are eventually molded into functional individuals—provided, of course, they weren't already born stable.

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Man is undoubtedly the most advanced creature on this planet, yet when faced with the raw, unyielding power of nature and the forces of the Earth, he is nothing more than a philosopher.

Man cannot be a force on this Earth; he can only dissect and exploit existing forces—which is precisely the only thing he ever actually does. This holds true whether you're talking about the wind, the sun, electromagnetic fields, fruit, fire, or petroleum derivatives.

Take a tree as a prime example. Is it actually possible for a human being to engineer something even remotely resembling one? I'm talking about a biological machine that can simply sprout into existence without drawing mass from the soil—something that converts nothing but sunlight and water into a massive, rigid, towering structure, while simultaneously "manufacturing" 300 pounds of pears out of thin air.

It’s simply impossible. It is equally impossible to predict or define exactly what kind of child will be born.

What am I even trying to get through to you? It’s simple: a human being is not some inherently superior entity. We aren't. And the reason I’m hammering this point home is because you stubbornly insist on the exact opposite by constantly contradicting me, clinging to this delusional notion that humanity is somehow a supreme being capable of conquering anything under the sun.

What you’re describing is nothing more than the byproduct of pure, unadulterated egocentrism, a phenomenon that is all too common in children.

Fine, if you insist on dismissing this as nothing more than mere eccentricity, then let us pivot to more substantial matters—let us talk about warfare, about theft, and the raw, unapologetic seizure of territory.

It isn't exactly a Hershey’s bar, but it'll suffice. 😁 The Author provided an excellent example—Hitler.

Do you honestly believe people wouldn't be stealing left and right if the Law (philosophy) didn't exist to stop them? Why does Law in general even exist? I'll tell you exactly why: it exists to ensure that everyone is forcibly kept "okay." 🙂 So that we don't... slaughter one another.

That’s precisely why organizations like the EU exist, and why America was once a reality 🙂 Look, the moment someone decides they want a bigger slice of chocolate, 300,000 people end up slaughtered, raped, or burned alive, while everyone else was born into an "OK" world only to watch everything go up in flames!

So, the philosophy is simple: you’re a decent human being only as long as the structure exists. The second it vanishes, our raw instincts—those inherent human traits—take center stage and put on a damn show.

Mistakes are an essential part of learning.

Don't try to force that logic where it doesn't belong. All a person can truly "learn" in that realm is how to create Ebola, AIDS, and other mass-casualty disasters, whereas cloning sex with sex will just result in a cripple. And I mean a SERIOUS cripple.
It would be just fucking wonderful if the entire planet turned into a collection of cripples; that would certainly be a "smart and scientific" achievement for mankind.

Only then would a man finally become a philosopher and remark, "he who acts, errs." 🙂 How touching.

I'm telling you—humanity does nothing but act foolishly by meddling with the laws of nature. That's it. Nothing more. And once someone makes a fatal mistake, even nature won't step in to save them. ☕

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PSS: You have the last word; I'm out.

redbear2 said:Are you talking about yourself? 🍿

In my opinion, the biggest intellectual blunder in this thread is the idea that everyone is born exactly the same—for instance, inherently "good." I get the feeling that's what you're trying to say, and that you really believe it.

I’m not claiming we’re all born identical. I’m saying we aren't born "good" or "evil."

So, are you suggesting kids arrive with fully formed personalities already baked in?

Honestly, I have no idea why you even care.🙂

It doesn't really matter.

ps: you're right. Everyone has their own traits. Now the real question is... where does a person actually get those specific characteristics from?

Some are innate, while others are shaped by life circumstances and external influences.

Man, if people actually knew that (or thought they did), we could just design our children however we wanted and everything would be fine.😁 Nobody would even be born with a different sexual orientation, just as an example!

I don't see how sexual orientation has anything to do with being good or evil.

Generally speaking, we haven't moved far from what you described. Eventually, environmental factors and outside influences are going to step in and play a huge role in molding a child's personality anyway. I'm not sure where you're even going with this.

Listen, my friend... you’ve just gone and sabotaged your own argument. The fundamental distinction—the core characteristic that defines a human being—is precisely whether they are inherently good or evil.
That single line is going to define his entire existence. It’s the ultimate dividing line—good versus bad, if you want to be that simplistic about it—and it will dictate his path in absolutely everything he does.

So, you’re actually asserting that children arrive in this world with a fully formed personality already baked in?

Good grief, do you really need to draw that out? Is there absolutely no one around you with any sense of common decency? Are they all just clones of one another? Have you ever actually witnessed an instinctive moment where one child simply snatches a piece of chocolate right out of another kid's hand? You wouldn't call that a "personality trait," would you?

Now, look at this ridiculous spectacle: you have the "personality" type, then there’s the kid who had his candy bar snatched away. One is going to burst into tears, another will launch an immediate assault, a third might sit there paralyzed for the moment only to retaliate later, and a fourth? That one is going to absolutely beat the living daylights out of him.

I fail to see any logical connection between sexual orientation and the concepts of good and evil.

I provided that third example specifically so you would grasp the core of our discussion, yet I see now that attempting to make you understand is a fruitless endeavor. 🙂

If you truly believe that an individual possesses the sheer audacity to dictate the specific characteristics and temperament of a child before they are even born, then logically, you should be able to bypass nature entirely and decide whether that child will be gay or straight as well.

I don't know; it seems like everything is just incredibly simple to you. I provided a perfectly valid example just so you could finally grasp the absolute garbage you're churning out, but unfortunately, I already know how this goes—you'll stubbornly insist on being right despite having zero arguments or substance to back it up. It’s truly bizarre.

It doesn't even matter.

😉

Generally speaking, We aren't far off. Regardless of the factors you’ve laid out here, we cannot ignore the fact that external influences will inevitably play a massive role in shaping a child's personality.

If people like you are the ones tasked with steering our progress, then humanity is truly in a dire state. 🤣

And unfortunately, the man isn't even remotely close to anything meaningful, aside from his own absolute nonsense on the subject. Cloning fundamentally violates the laws of nature—it’s no surprise that Dolly turned out sickly—and frankly, I have nothing but contempt for these delusions regarding "humanity's proximity to the process of creating man."

Einstein had a profound observation regarding human stupidity, but I think I can frame it more accurately: man operates under the delusion that he is capable of everything, when the reality is that he is capable of nothing. To put it bluntly: his only true talent is finding new ways to screw everything up.

ps: Unfortunately, I have to cut ties here. We’ve let this conversation drift too far afield, and we aren't supposed to be doing that. It isn't as if I'm actually interested, either. Forgive me for that.

redbear2 said:I'm not asking for anything impossible here. I just think these kinds of banal, mindless threads should be locked because they have zero connection to actual psychology or common sense.

It's a stretch to claim that environment alone creates evil out of thin air. Sure, surroundings play a role, but you see kids acting out from practically day one. It’s hard to blame their environment for calming them down later when they've already built up a lifetime of bad habits by age ten.

It’s much less of a stretch to suggest that evil is innate. Our nature dictates whether we turn out good or bad right from the start. There are no middle grounds for me. I don't do black-and-white nuances.

Of course, kids who act out are the embodiment of evil. A dog never chews on a slipper—where would it even learn that? If a dog happens to bite someone, we wouldn't call it "born evil" because it knows better. The issue is that it's bad, so it's better not to deal with it. An aggressive dog gets put down. That's just how it goes.

From a psychological standpoint, this topic doesn't just fit within the field; it provides excellent fodder for serious professionals to debate.

No comment.

In my view, the interplay of good and evil in humans produces something that science and medicine haven't even begun to touch. I don't think they ever will. That's why I wrote that this topic is ultimately futile. Philosophy and medicine are just scratching the surface of what this really is about.

Great "argument." 👏

Or you could just accept that circumstances, combined with certain traits, influence how any living thing reacts. That holds true regardless of the concepts of good and evil, which only exist as mental constructs in the human mind.

The only thing I can accept is the fact that a person—man as a species, not necessarily you personally—is capable of harboring an ego so inflated that they believe they can explain away the existence of good or evil simply because they possess self-awareness, as if being able to think gives them some sort of mastery over the entire natural world.

In my view, the single greatest intellectual failure regarding this topic is the assertion that all human beings are born fundamentally identical, such as being inherently "good." It seems to me that this is precisely the point you are attempting to drive home, and that you are stubbornly clinging to it.

I truly cannot fathom why you are so invested in this particular delusion. 🙂

PS: You aren't wrong about one thing. Every individual possesses distinct characteristics. The real question, however, remains: where exactly do those specific traits originate for any given person?

If jbte could actually solve that mystery—or even just convince themselves they had—we would be designing our children to our exact specifications, and life would be effortless. 😁 We wouldn't even have people being born with homosexual orientations, for instance!

redbear2 said:Can we please stop debating this? It’s honestly a bit much to be typing out arguments about whether people are fundamentally good or evil. Like, are we talking about some kind of genetic blueprint that decides our moral compass before we're even born? I get that this PDF covers a lot of ground beyond just straight psychology—and hey, I'm not saying that's a bad thing—but some of these topics are really pushing it.

Don't be so socially sensitive. This topic is actually quite compelling (even if it’s largely futile, it serves as an excellent experiment), and let’s be clear: this psychology forum isn't a sanctuary where we should expect or demand content that is polite, comfortable, or socially pleasant.

It used to be a common, albeit reckless, assumption that environment alone breeds evil. Sure, the surroundings play a massive role, but you see children acting out from the moment they can walk; it’s hard to argue that their environment "calms them down" over time when many have already established a lifetime of trouble by age ten.

From a psychological standpoint, this subject doesn't just belong here—it provides necessary fuel for serious intellectuals in the field to debate.

redbear2 said:Can we please stop debating this? It’s honestly a bit much to be typing out arguments about whether people are fundamentally good or evil. Like, are we talking about some kind of genetic blueprint that decides our moral compass before we're even born? I get that this PDF covers a lot of ground beyond just straight psychology—and hey, I'm not saying that's a bad thing—but some of these topics are really pushing it.

In my view, the true source of human good and evil produces something that modern science and medicine haven't even begun to grasp, nor will they ever reach. That is why this entire thread, despite my writing it, remains ultimately futile; philosophy, medicine, and the human mind itself are all merely surface-level scratches compared to the actual core of this issue.

Gerald Rivera60 said:This might lean more toward philosophy than psychology, though there’s definitely some overlap.
The issue is that defining good and evil is largely the domain of philosophy. Psychology tends to focus on the behavioral patterns and mental disorders that manifest as those actions.
That said, various psychological theories imply a baseline for whether humans are inherently good or bad, so it's a fair topic for discussion here. For instance, based on Freudian theory, one could argue humans are fundamentally flawed because the id operates strictly on the pleasure principle. On the flip flip side, Transactional Analysis—essentially the successor to psychoanalysis—starts from the premise that people are born with a fundamental "I'm OK—You're OK" attitude.

Now, would Hitler have been Hitler regardless of his upbringing? Likely not. Even if someone possesses an innate predisposition toward antisocial personality traits, such as psychopathy, it doesn't guarantee they will become a criminal. In fact, many people with those traits find success in high-stakes fields like business, politics, the military, or professional sports.
On the other hand, given the political and economic climate of that era, someone else might have stepped into that role regardless. We'll never truly know.
Based on what you've said, I'd suggest that while some people may be born with a greater potential for good or evil, their environment ultimately dictates which direction they take.

That holds true generally, provided the individual doesn't adopt the tenets of their own personal philosophy; the United States is a prime example of this phenomenon, but I won't dwell on it.

The primary driver of psychology—even if it functions as an adjunct to philosophy—is indeed philosophy itself. Those who subscribe to this theory will specifically agree with the notion that Hitler and Napoleon were born "good boys," and that their specific life philosophies and experiences transformed them from decent children into hardened imperialists and global killers. A sort of global triage performed for the sake of world stability? 🙂

Well, perhaps, maybe. The planet can't sustain more than 15 billion people anyway, and it's struggling enough with the current 7.8 billion. The resources required for a healthy, high-quality, and long-lived global population are, frankly, astronomical.

Ultimately, if Hitler hadn't been a brilliant philosopher, he wouldn't have been able to mobilize such massive populations behind his vision. Furthermore, one must consider the state of the world at that time—what kind of environment allows a single mastermind to convince people to wage war against an entire continent? Hitler (and his inner circle) were absolute masters. They possessed the power to advance technology fifty years ahead of everyone else. And they had the Japanese working alongside them.

Who can say for sure? Perhaps the great minds of the world were fighting against its fools. Or perhaps it was quite the opposite.

Naturally, there are numerous opportunities for a third World War even today, and usually, the forces involved boil down to "stupid" versus "smart," which is how societies tend to cluster—a matter of sociology, which is a branch of philosophy just as much as psychology is.

Whether conquering Europe and Africa was a brilliant move or a moronic blunder is a question decided by philosophy. Some will claim it was a "stroke of genius," while others will call it "sheer idiocy." The world today isn't any smarter, nor is it any stupider, than it was back then.

Ethan Thompson74 said:Or do they just become that way as they go through life?
Look, let’s take the most obvious example: would a figure like Hitler have been Hitler regardless of the circumstances he was born into? 🙂

Personally, I find this question far too complex for serious medicine, though if explained through a medical lens, these traits are hidden within our genes.

I believe every human being is born with a certain narrative, a sort of karma, which is detected upon entering life, and they cling to it desperately because that is where they find their "purpose."

Therefore, my view is that you must be born evil. A smart and evil man will wreck the world, whereas a smart and good man will make it more beautiful. This remains true regardless of the circumstances they both find themselves in. ☕

The exact same logic applies to our personal lives, quite simply. A person who is brilliant yet lacks any moral compass will inevitably wreck their own existence, whereas someone who possesses both intelligence and genuine goodness will live a life defined by fulfillment and a smile on their face, regardless of whatever circumstances they find themselves facing.

shadowheron49 said:and I guess maybe I totally missed the memo...
because I just met a couple of people who actually ended up getting MARRIED because of this forum...
it really sucks that I didn't get to meet them myself... but I guess all I can do now is try to convince myself that it was just meant to be this way...

Awww, of course you misread it. You can use the internet for incredibly positive things—like finding someone truly amazing when it feels impossible in the real world, falling in love, or finally feeling desired 😛)—and whether fate decides to take that connection into the physical world is entirely out of the internet's hands.

Regardless, it doesn't change anything; we had an incredible connection, but we were MASSIVELY far apart, and it took me two full days of travel just to see each other and get back.

And in the end, it turned out our actual lives just didn't align. But even so, it was a beautiful experience.

Don't sweat it, TMistik. This guy walked away, but someone else will come along to fill that void 🙂 Just hang in there, stay patient, and let him go. 😉

shadowheron49 said:Exactly... that's what I'm talking about.
It's all just a construct.

These feelings were triggered in such an unnatural way that now they feel unnaturally intense.
The brain doesn't always distinguish between things; it doesn't care so much about what you see, but rather how you interpret what's right in front of you.
Through my own fantasies, deep talks, and everything else, my brain basically lived out a whole real picture, a whole real life.
The emotions are real.
The pain is real,
even though in reality, nothing ever happened.

If anyone gets where I'm coming from...
I find the whole thing absolutely fascinating.

You are wasting your energy on complete nonsense because you fell in love with the persona someone presented to you—with their time and their personality—regardless of whether that interaction happened face-to-face or through a screen.

It's the same way people used to fall in love through pen pal letters: falling for a name that sounded right, a specific handwriting, the anticipation of waiting, or receiving packages via USPS... or reading letters scented with perfume.

The issue isn't that the situation was fictional; the issue is the fact that you are heartbroken. I experienced this exact same "fictional" love once, too, except we actually met and spent six months together.

Again, the core of the relationship happened online. So, calling it fiction is a stretch. ☕

lonepuma2 said:They're just disorganized.

You can get everything done if you stay organized and keep your cool.
People who act hysterical just make time fly by faster.
Personally, I’m super chill when I’m knocking out tasks. Even when I've got a mountain of stuff to do in a day, I always manage to pull it off. Why? Because I use a planner and I approach everything with a "whatever" attitude. Just laugh it off. Plus, I still end up having time to relax.

The more you panic, the harder you make it for yourself.
Every single job I've ever had, there was always one coworker like this. Out of five people, three of them were usually like that.
Most people just seem perpetually nervous, from what I can see.

So yeah, I'm definitely one of those "slowpokes." 🙂 Life is way better that way. 😉

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Frankly, any sane person can manage their workload without feeling overwhelmed; the entire issue lies in one's tempo and tactical approach to execution. If you actually master those two variables, you won't just find free time—you'll have an abundance of it.

The problem isn't the sheer volume of obligations we face, but rather the inefficient manner in which we tackle them.

To illustrate, whenever I need to handle something at a federal agency—whether it’s submitting paperwork, renewing a driver's license, or visiting a clinic—I deliberately schedule it for the final hour or two of the workday, ideally around 6:00 PM on a Friday.

By doing this, I walk into a downtown area that has already cleared out, snag a parking spot instantly, and stroll into an empty lobby only to hear the clerk remark, "Oh, you're still here." The reality is that I arrived literally thirty seconds before they closed up shop.

That frantic, disorganized way of living—like rushing to a DMV in Washington, D.C. first thing in the morning only to waste six grueling hours waiting for a turn—is, in my estimation, both incredibly slow and prohibitively expensive in terms of wasted life.