Dana Morales64 said:I honestly feel like just giving up—I can't face life knowing the truth about who my parents actually are. Either I’m going to disappear somewhere far away where nobody knows my name or anything about my past, or maybe I'll just reinvent myself entirely. Because living like this? It’s just not sustainable anymore.
Are you seriously disowning your entire family over some damn car? Are you actually ashamed of the very people who raised you? I assume they are the ones who provided you with everything—the chance to move across the country, to become someone, to build a life better than the one they struggled through. You mentioned they have outstanding loans and aren't financially able to buy this vehicle. So, your brilliant solution is for them to drown in even more debt just so they can move you, all so you don't have to feel "embarrassed" in front of your friends?
In my opinion, you should be ashamed of having such a mindset in the first place. You are behaving like a spoiled brat.
And let’s be clear: a car isn't going to fix your deep-seated frustration or your sense of inferiority. For starters, try working on your self-esteem. It might also be helpful to reflect on everything they have provided for you and consider why they took out those loans in the first place—perhaps it was specifically to give you a better shot at life? Yet, you sit there assuming they didn't buy a car out of pure selfishness, ignoring the fact that they are barely scraping by. Do you think they don't wish they had it too? Do you think they're withholding it just to spite you? Does the world revolve around you? Try stepping into their shoes for once. Do you have any inkling of how difficult things are for them, or are you purely focused on yourself?
How old are you, for heaven's sake?