Matthew Adams4 said:Honestly, I rarely get sad or angry—maybe a couple times a month tops. And even then, I try my best not to take it out on people who didn't do anything wrong. I save my attitude for the people actually causing the drama, whenever I can help it. Besides, feeling crappy doesn't stop me from being polite, unless it's to the exact person I'm annoyed with.
Reading through these threads, it feels like you guys think it's abnormal if you don't have something making you miserable every single day. 😢
If we define normality simply by what the masses do or how the crowd behaves, then "being normal" isn't necessarily a virtue in many contexts. It is, rather, a secondary characteristic...
An internal state that serves as a prerequisite for such a thing feels quite foreign to me... though I must admit, I have a profound appreciation for a spontaneous smile, and I find people prone to them quite endearing. My tennis partner is exactly that kind of person... and a portion of her effortless cheerfulness is, shall we say, "contagious"... (though I might argue that I find it easier to connect with slightly more "brooding" personalities...) There are moments when I find myself "envying" that quality in her—not that I would ever wish to dampen her spirits, mind you, but rather that I wish I possessed a fragment of that temperament myself. Perhaps not perpetually, but occasionally.
Artificial, calculated, or duplicitous smiles are, predictably, utterly repulsive to me...
Incidentally, genuine smiles can be distinguished from their fake counterparts by the specific facial muscles engaged during the expression.
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Spot The Fak smiliti Quote : Soul SisterSean Cruz said:So, what? You're always polite and smiling, and never once sad or angry?
Are you skeptical?
It is unlikely that anyone exists who is literally, perpetually, in that state, but there are certainly those for whom it is their predominant "nature"...
I believe I have already shared this link with you once, but here it is again — Smile. 🙂