#101 ·
rowdyfalcon35 said:That’s exactly my goal... if he actually decides to operate again, I just want him to be more careful with his patients. He needs to calm down that nervous energy you can see in him—all those constant outbursts and how he talks trash about other doctors while he's working. He even admitted himself that a surgeon needs a steady hand, because if a perforation happens, it’s game over for your nose. After all the complications following my surgery—from heavy bleeding for three days straight to dealing with a cyst—I was asking him every single day why this was happening. My gut was telling me something was seriously wrong, but I eventually let him convince me otherwise. He told me I was just being "sensitive," that I fell into that 5% of people who are extra reactive after surgery, and insisted everything was fine. Even when that cyst appeared, he acted like it was totally expected and told me I was just panicking for no reason. I tried to stay positive, really, thinking things would turn out okay... but unfortunately, things just kept getting worse every single day, both aesthetically and functionally. He told me I was draining way too much physiological fluid and said if I absolutely had to blow my nose, I should do it super gently so I wouldn't mess anything else up. When I asked him what exactly I could "mess up" and if maybe a perforation had occurred, he flat-out denied it. So, after a month, I tried to get back to my normal life, but it just kept spiraling. That area where the hole in my septum is started dropping drastically, and the tingling started... I sent him a photo to get his opinion because, honestly, you could see from a profile view that something was wrong. He didn't respond for several days, then when I finally called him, he just brushed it off, saying it would be fine, that he'd add some fat graft from my knee and it would work out, claiming the indentation was just because the nose dropped after he removed the cyst. I talked to some other people who’ve had this surgery, and they thought everything happening to me sounded bizarre... they told me I needed to go see someone else immediately. Everyone else breathed better after their procedures, but I? I was breathing worse than before, even after he cleaned everything out. One side felt okay, but the other was weak and had been tingling since day one of the surgery, during the cleaning and everything. I went to the hospital, and once the doctors there saw the septal defect, the fistulas, and all that... well, he just claimed it was nothing and that the doctors I saw didn't have a clue. Let me tell you, those doctors were practically crossing themselves when they saw what he had done. To go from a minor deviation to these kinds of disasters... regardless of whether he used to sell coffee or whatever he does in his spare time, that's his business. I just want justice. I want him to take responsibility for his actions and finally admit he messed up, even if it's just a "mistakes happen to the best of us" kind of thing. Just admit it! Stop lying to me, because I am just so exhausted by all of this. It’s enough that I’m breathing through my throat and hearing this whistling sound every time I inhale. The doctors told me it’s going to get worse because the hole is going to expand and the nose will sink even further, and they had to give me emergency treatment. I have to mention that after the surgery, neither the first nor the second time did I receive any antibiotics, even though I was running high fevers, feeling nauseous, and constantly needing to sneeze. He told me it was normal and that I didn't need them. Because the inflammation wasn't treated, it got even worse, and pus started forming in the healthy, operated sinuses. I have the proof... I have the receipts. And since I have to live with this until my next surgery—which is a huge question mark because my case is so difficult—I just want accountability. I want him to face the consequences. I want to provide a lesson to all surgeons to be more careful, because one "innocent" little mistake can turn into a catastrophe like this that is almost impossible to fix...
So, just let me know whenever you think you might be ready for the surgery...