driftingmoose47 said:About a month ago—and look, I’m not saying it’s a total disaster right now because honestly, the whole team was wonderful to me. They were so supportive, the surgery itself went smoothly, and if I had to do it all over again, I’d still choose him. Looking back, I feel like maybe I should have been more assertive about certain things. When I first took the mold off, everything seemed fine—maybe just a bit larger than I wanted, but okay. But then I looked at my photos and...😲 from the front, you can tell the tip is tilting the wrong way! It looks quite deflated, and even though I know it needs time to settle, I just know it won't fix itself... So, yeah, I had a few days of being dramatic and crying my eyes out, and eventually, I decided I need a revision. But the thought of it is daunting because I don't exactly want to go through that seven-day recovery period all over again. I will go, obviously, but my big fear is that he’ll just tell me it looks perfectly fine and that a second surgery isn't necessary. I have my follow-up in a month, so I’ll see what he says then. I didn't want to make a scene too early for his sake or mine, especially since I can't rush into it anyway, and I'm not even sure how long I need to wait before a second procedure is actually an option.🤷
It’s still so fresh, only a month out... try to hang in there just a little longer. I'm fairly certain it's not looking as bad as you think it is, so please, don't beat yourself up or cry over it unnecessarily. Just be patient. Usually, the nose stays swollen for at least two months before you can really see the actual result..
After my accident, my nose was all crooked on the left side of the septum. It wasn't the tip itself, but I had this little bump on the bridge caused by cartilage. The tip was also slightly slanted to one side, though it’s hard to notice. My surgeon basically straightened it out by shaving down that side so it would be level, and he had to trim that cartilage on the tip, which required a tiny incision—though you can barely see it now. While we were at it, I asked him to slightly reduce the profile. I didn't change the tip itself, which I think was for the best; who knows how it would have turned out? Honestly, I am truly happy with the results. My nose used to be uneven in so many places, and now it's symmetrical. It still looks a bit large, but that's just the swelling talking. It's way too early to make any final judgments. It’s not "perfectly" straight, because nothing ever is 100%, but it is straight. Do you have a photo? I'm really curious to see if it looks as bad as you're describing.