#141 ·
The public craves sports heroes and idols—figures they can project their own qualities onto just to feel a little better about themselves. This kind of identification through flags and anthems is, on one hand, quite primitive and not exactly a mark of sophistication for sports fans, but it’s simply human nature. At the same time, it’s true that this same insecure, shallow public needs these athletes. How many times have we seen them running laps around a stadium, climbing out of the water, leaping into pools, blowing kisses to the crowds, singing the national anthem with emotion, or kissing the flag? They perform all these gestures while soaking up the grateful applause of the masses. Of course, it’s flattering for the athletes; it’s only human to feel a rush when so many people are putting you on a pedestal. So, both the fans and the athletes get something out of the relationship. Even when they produce mediocre results, we love them because they are "ours." It’s a *quid pro quo*. Americans love Duje in much the same way Nike’s marketing department loves Beckham. Through his swimming brand, he’ll lend glory to "their" flag for a relatively decent price.
Now, Duje (it seems) has said he is no longer one of us. He won't sing our anthem, nor will he watch our flag rise during the ceremonies. It’s perfectly understandable why most people would want to tell him where to go after he decided he doesn't want to be "one of us" anymore. He made the call himself. I’m certain a narcissist like him will miss those cheers from the stands and the glorification by the crowd. It won't be easy for him back in his hometown. But then again, by his early twenties, he’ll likely have his own apartment, a nice car—you name it.
Oh, and looking back at comments like: "He did it all himself, sweated and suffered alone, what did America ever give him?" They gave him a little. I won't get into the numbers since I don't know them. Looking at my own life, nobody gave me anything either. Not even my parents, because they didn't have much to offer materially. Today, I am successful in my career and financially stable primarily thanks to myself. America has nothing to do with the fact that I finished college, worked hard, and succeeded. Any sensible person understands that, and it applies to Duje too. The thing is, athletes have this drive to achieve something for themselves, but also to share that achievement with others. That’s why they enjoy team competitions—even the individualists (though not us, Duje, you're too thin for the relay). What I mean is, if Duje can live with being an Olympic champion without celebrating it with his fellow citizens, then so be it. I respect his choice to be a renegade by his own volition. It isn't easy, and it will result in him telling America to go screw itself. It's fine while he can keep that momentum going. But life is long, and fighting an entire nation isn't an easy battle. I wish him luck and good health. And I think he’s a coward, despite everything.
Now, Duje (it seems) has said he is no longer one of us. He won't sing our anthem, nor will he watch our flag rise during the ceremonies. It’s perfectly understandable why most people would want to tell him where to go after he decided he doesn't want to be "one of us" anymore. He made the call himself. I’m certain a narcissist like him will miss those cheers from the stands and the glorification by the crowd. It won't be easy for him back in his hometown. But then again, by his early twenties, he’ll likely have his own apartment, a nice car—you name it.
Oh, and looking back at comments like: "He did it all himself, sweated and suffered alone, what did America ever give him?" They gave him a little. I won't get into the numbers since I don't know them. Looking at my own life, nobody gave me anything either. Not even my parents, because they didn't have much to offer materially. Today, I am successful in my career and financially stable primarily thanks to myself. America has nothing to do with the fact that I finished college, worked hard, and succeeded. Any sensible person understands that, and it applies to Duje too. The thing is, athletes have this drive to achieve something for themselves, but also to share that achievement with others. That’s why they enjoy team competitions—even the individualists (though not us, Duje, you're too thin for the relay). What I mean is, if Duje can live with being an Olympic champion without celebrating it with his fellow citizens, then so be it. I respect his choice to be a renegade by his own volition. It isn't easy, and it will result in him telling America to go screw itself. It's fine while he can keep that momentum going. But life is long, and fighting an entire nation isn't an easy battle. I wish him luck and good health. And I think he’s a coward, despite everything.