Amanda Miller69 said:Does this mean that even though his results show he's in remission, we should just stick to checkups every 3-4 months, or should we just go ahead and test the markers on our own terms?
According to the official guidelines, what she said is the rule...but personally? I’d follow my gut. Look, you know as well as I do that these markers aren't exactly the gold standard for reliability. If it were me, I’d probably be heading in every single month—that’s just how I’m wired 🙂—but when I actually stop to think about it, does it really make sense to get blood drawn every month based on something so fickle? You end up stuck in this constant cycle of anxiety, waiting for results, and if something ticks up even slightly—even if it's still within the normal range—you spiral into total drama, only to find out later it was just a minor infection or a common cold...
...Stick roughly to the guidelines, sure, but if your intuition tells you to go sooner, then go.
You have to learn to step back from all of this and actually live your life, focusing on normal things... honestly, he handled everything incredibly well. My God, after all the complaining he did in the hospital and those infections he went through, I was genuinely worried his immune system would completely give out and everything would flare up again... he’s going to be fine.