Users are being insulted, and mod Nex is staying suspiciously quiet (along with the rest of the mods

Look, I’m actually studying law, so let me try to break down this whole privacy violation thing for you—since, frankly, it seems like you don't quite grasp the concept. Ignorance of the law doesn't excuse the error, right? 😬

Let me give you an example that might be easier to wrap your head around since you aren't a legal expert. Think about how a reporter from the New York Times might take photos of Mirela Rupić that she posted herself on Facebook. Even if she knows exactly who the journalist is, she wouldn't have any actual grounds to sue him. Why? Because she made her own data available to the public. By signing up for Facebook, she essentially agreed to their terms of service. It's the same situation here. By posting her information on that second forum, she agreed to its general terms of use and effectively revealed her identity. Since that forum is a public space, I have every right to link to her photo there because it's no longer considered private data. Okay, maybe it isn't particularly nice or even moral of me—I'll admit that—but it certainly isn't against the rules. If she had sent me her full name and a photo via a private message and *then* I made it public, then her claim would actually have some merit. So, I really, truly am asking you to look up these legal terms before throwing them around in an argument; it honestly sounds a bit embarrassing coming from someone who claims to know what they're talking about 🤣

Secondly... this woman was uploading fake photos to PDF and then deleting them later, yet she never faced any sanctions—even though others have been hit with permanent bans for posting fake photos (like the guy from the stove and plenty of others). She also goes on to open new threads every single day on PDF, calling them "normal" topics, when they are really just about breast sizes, penises, and all sorts of things. This happens on a forum where she's already been asked not to start the exact same threads every single day. On top of that, she insults other users who happen to mention they prefer women with larger breasts by calling them "pubescent," or she attacks women who say they have large breasts by claiming they don't have good bodies otherwise. I realize she probably has her own personal issues to deal with, but this isn't the place to work them out—especially not in such malicious ways, through provocation and all that.

Thirdly... you actually said yourself that you felt sorry for her because she's a lost cause, and then you turned around and laughed at other forum members, so you really aren't in any position to comment on this situation.

Thanks for reading, and goodbye 👋

dustypuma5 said:I suppose if I were to find your photo online and post it claiming it belongs to Chloe Palmer2, you'd have the right to ask the admins to take it down, and they'd be obligated to comply.
If anyone thinks otherwise, maybe an admin can clarify.

The actual photos aren't even the main issue; the real problem is how moderators on various subforums allow people to mock Melvin using the absolute lowest level of discourse possible.
There might not be a specific rule against it, but I find it utterly repulsive.
It reminds me of those kids who pick on the weakest one in the group, surrounding them and shoving them around while hurling insults...
But then again, maybe I’m just losing it and getting worked up over nothing. Perhaps I'm just old-fashioned while the rest of you are so much more progressive...

If you find my photo online, feel free to 😬. No one actually claimed "this is Melvin," and nobody uploaded her photo themselves—they just shared a link to where she had already posted it.

The internet is a nasty place; posting pictures and expecting total anonymity is just delusional.

dustypuma5 said:I suppose if I were to find a photo of yours, post it, and claim, "Hey, this is Chloe Palmer2," you'd have every right to ask the admins to take it down—and honestly, the administration really ought to comply.
If I'm wrong about that, maybe some admin can set me straight.

But, really, the issue isn't even about those photos as much as it is about how the mods on various sub-forums allow people to mock Melvin using the absolute lowest, most gutter-level language imaginable.
Maybe there aren't specific rules against it, but personally, I find it absolutely revolting.
It reminds me of those kids in school who pick on the weakest kid in class, surrounding them and shoving them around while hurling insults...
Though, I don't know, maybe I'm just being sensitive... perhaps I'm just old-fashioned while you all are being so "progressive"...

The fact that she opens five different threads a day on Reddit is entirely her own fault, because people are genuinely getting fed up with her constant, repetitive rambling about breasts and her weird doctor fetishes. Every single one of those threads basically turns into an excuse for her to provoke others and be insulting—and she’s been asked multiple times to just stop doing it. She's even used fake photos. In fact, that’s actually how I figured out where she was from; she posted a fake picture of another female user from that specific forum, so it was pretty obvious to me she was hanging out over there.
And I don't think anyone is actually bullying her; she seems to thrive on whatever attention she can grab, one way or another. Besides, why on earth would she be posting pictures of her own backside in threads she starts on Reddit?! I've certainly never heard of anyone doing that in the middle of a discussion. If she didn't like the way people treated her, I imagine she would have stopped trolling a long time ago. This forum isn't some private playground, so people CANNOT just open five identical threads every single day and act insulted whenever they feel like it. She's lucky she hasn't been banned ages ago.

Chloe Allen said:Thirdly... you literally said yourself you felt bad for her because she's a lost cause, then you turned around and laughed at the other users here, so I guess you're really not the one to be talking in this situation.

Thanks for reading, peace out 👋

I already explained everything regarding the mocking stuff, just go look at my old posts.
As for the rest...
Maybe there's an admin around to decide which words actually count.

I'm gonna bail before this turns into everyone just attacking me...
And I'm not gonna defend myself, I don't see why I should. You guys clearly feel the need to, since you're all just coming at me now.

What an absolute joke! Everyone has the right to start their own threads—go ahead, start yours too—but the thing is, nobody is actually attacking you. Right?
Let’s be honest: you’re all just taking shots at me because you're 1000 times
more insecure than I am. All you do is sit around this online community, digging through my old photos from other sites
just so you can find ways to insult me. It’s pathetic... honestly, I think any remotely mature
adult would see that what you're doing has nothing to do with being "objective" or even having "annoying topics."

Do I like being the center of attention? Sure. And if those cheap insults actually got under my skin, I wouldn't have bothered starting this thread in the first place.

dustypuma5 said:I think I’ve already laid out my reasoning regarding all the mockery—if anyone actually wants to understand where I'm coming from, they can just go back and read my previous posts.
As for everything else...
I suppose there are some moderators around here, so maybe they can step in and clarify which specific terms are actually against the rules.

I’m going to bow out now, because honestly, this feels like it’s turning into a personal vendetta against me...
And I see no reason to sit here and defend myself. You all seem to feel the need to, and by attacking me personally, you’re really just proving your point.

No, actually, you're the one attacking us before we even get a chance to respond to you. You specifically called out what I wrote, so if you can spend five or however many posts attacking me while hiding behind "rights" and "regulations," then surely I have the right to fire back with a single response.

Donna Wood52 said:What nonsense! Everyone has every right to start their own threads—"hey, you guys should start topics too"—but people aren't actually attacking you for it. Are they?
Let’s be honest, you're all just picking on me because you're constantly insulting and belittling me—mostly because you are all, well, a thousand times more
insecure than I am. You just sit here on this American forum, digging through my old photos from other sites
just so you have ammunition to insult me. Isn't that just pathetic? I think any somewhat mature
adult would realize that what you're doing has absolutely nothing to do with being "objective" or "getting annoyed by certain topics."

Do I love being the center of attention? Maybe. But if those cheap insults didn't bother me, I wouldn't have even started this thread in the first place.

Melpy, there is a massive difference between starting a discussion... and spamming five different threads about the exact same thing in a single day on a site like Reddit. Besides, you admitted yourself that you started one of those threads specifically to provoke people. You've been asked a thousand times to stop recycling the same topics over and over. You could have easily found an existing thread about physical attributes—and believe me, there were plenty of those before you even arrived—and just contributed there, but instead, you prefer to churn out brand new threads with the same subject matter. If a thread gets locked once, you already know that starting another one on the same topic will lead to the exact same result. It works the same way for other users when they post repetitive stuff about anatomy; it gets shut down because it's redundant and everyone is bored of it.
I don't know if you crave the spotlight, but you seem to brag about your body in every single thread, and then you'll drop a photo of your backside in a discussion that has absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand. That might stem from anything—immaturity, a need for validation, or some deep-seated craving for attention—but this isn't the place for it on this forum.
Look, I don't have a problem with you as a person... it's just that I have a problem with you as a user, because you're constantly trolling and baiting people, and then you expect us all to just take it.
Anyway, cheers... feel free to keep acting this way, though I honestly don't think you'll ever truly get it. 😁

dustypuma5 said:I knew exactly what was going on the moment I saw the President message her about giving you a warning.

Look, there was no way for me to know that. I don't moderate this specific sub-forum, so I don't even have the authority to issue her a warning or a strike. So, just sit tight for now.

dustypuma5 said:Honestly, you’re just sitting there ruthlessly mocking people in the comments on the BR and Trash subforums.

I’m going to send this over to STARSu, since you seem to be doing the exact same thing to him. It feels a little hypocritical, honestly.

dustypuma5 said:The moderator, BR, actually went to the President to ask for proof—specifically asking him to show photos of your furniture just to prove that you’re actually taking the pictures yourself.

It’s because this isn't even the first time she's been posting photos that aren't actually hers. 😉

dustypuma5 said:It’s a lonely feeling when you realize you've become the local punching bag. You look around the forum and notice that every time you flag a post or report someone for being out of line, nobody even blinks. Your reports just vanish into a void. It feels like the mods have turned a blind eye to the constant mockery directed at you. Eventually, I hit my limit. When the insults and the ridicule got too loud to ignore, I finally snapped and bit back. I defended myself, thinking that was my right. But instead of anyone addressing the people who were tearing me down, I was the one who ended up getting banned. It’s hard to stay calm when you feel like the rules only apply when you're the one fighting back.

Go ahead and draft that. Once you're done, I’ll pull together a full list of every time I stepped in on her posts and every instance where others were banned.

dustypuma5 said:Please reach out to the admins and ask them to take a look at this situation. I really think they should step in and find ways to protect you from people acting like this.

Post this for everyone; you can find the link at the bottom of the forum page.
I'll send everyone a PM.

Look, you’re free to vote however you want, but don't go getting yourself banned. Just make sure you actually read the rules first.

She could have stood her ground right then on Saturday... without breaking a single rule.

dustypuma5 said:Don't post private messages here. It’s against the rules.

So, you're saying he can't even get a yellow card?

dustypuma5 said:It’s honestly pretty ridiculous how people just grab photos from other forums and repost them here like they own them.
The hypocrisy here is just staggering. Honestly, it makes me sick.

You’re going to be feeling nauseous all day if I have to go digging through the trash just to pull your posts out.

dustypuma5 said:It’s not even really about those pictures. The bigger issue is that the mods on various subforums are actually allowing people to mock Melpy using the absolute lowest form of insults imaginable.
There might not be any rules against it, but personally, I find the whole thing pretty repulsive.
It reminds me of those playground bullies back in grade school—you know the type. They find the kid who's a little more vulnerable than the rest, surround them, and just keep pushing them from one side to the other while shouting insults. It's a classic intimidation tactic.
Maybe I’m just being irrational and letting this get under my skin too much. Perhaps I’m the one who's falling behind while everyone else has already moved on to the next level.

I’m asking you again—why are you even posting in the trash thread? Are you actually trying to mock someone?

dustypuma5 said:And I won't be making any excuses.

Because you just don't have anything to work with...

Look, this isn't even about you. You didn't start this thread either. It feels like you're only jumping in to play defender for one person while simultaneously turning around and mocking someone else in the exact same way.

dustypuma5 said:I've been watching her meltdown since Saturday...
You didn't say anything then...
And now you're turning this thread into a complete circus where Melpy is the punching bag...

Look, Mr. Moral Compass, watch how you throw accusations around.
All I did was "bring over" posts from another user (and I even asked if I was allowed to post them there first), yet here you are grouping me in with the people actually being abusive. I have never commented on melpy, and honestly, I couldn't care less about her.
The fact that the controversial post just got deleted isn't on me—that’s up to the moderators of that other board.
Actually, thanks to you, the link is still live.

If it wasn't me, someone else would've posted that link because that board is pure trash. Nobody deleted anything here or there. 🤷

melpy, I am sincerely sorry if I offended you.

Hmm. I’m being provocative because I feel provoked myself. But when I actually reach out to the moderators about harassment, nobody lifts a finger—that’s
where the real issue lies. When you guys stir the pot (and let’s be honest, there are plenty of you doing it), suddenly everything is fine. But the second I voice my opinion, everyone jumps down my throat.

Just take a look at this thread—it's all over the place. If I post a photo, people immediately start hurling insults. There is a massive distinction between offering a comment and
going straight for the kill to humiliate someone. I haven't gone out of my way to mock anyone else's appearance unless I was insulted first.

Kyle King4, stop lying. You took my photo from a different forum site; I could go over there right now and post proof. Don't try to play me.

Donna Wood52 said:Look, I'm pushing back because I feel pushed. But when I reach out to the mods about being harassed and nobody does a thing, that's where
the real issue lies.

Seriously...

Have I ever really reacted? Have I ever actually stood up for you?

Donna Wood52 said:Well, I suppose I’m just being provocative because, frankly, I feel provoked myself—it’s a bit of a cycle, isn't it? But honestly, when I reach out to the moderators to report this kind of harassment, it feels like my messages just vanish into a void. There’s absolutely no response at all, which—I guess you could say—is a bit of a problem.
It really feels like there's a massive double standard at play here—I mean, it’s almost funny if it weren't so frustrating. When a bunch of you decide to stir the pot or throw out those constant provocations (and let's be honest, more than a few of you are doing it quite a bit), everyone just shrugs it off like it's perfectly fine. But the second I decide to actually stand my ground and voice my own opinion? Suddenly, it’s a free-for-all. It feels like everyone jumps in to attack me the moment I say what's on my mind—it’s just... well, it's exhausting, I guess.

Take a look at this thread—it’s honestly all over the place. I mean, I post a single photo of myself and suddenly everyone jumps down my throat immediately. It’s wild how quickly people turn on you... I guess there really is a massive difference between just having a conversation and actually leaving a comment, isn't there?
It’s always that immediate instinct to go straight for the insults—honestly, it’s exhausting. I guess I have to admit that I haven't exactly been a saint in this regard either; there were definitely times when I was the first one to throw a jab if I felt like someone had slighted me first. It becomes this sort of reflexive thing, doesn't it? You feel insulted, so you strike back just as hard to protect yourself. But looking back, that cycle of being the first to belittle someone else just because they caught you off guard... well, it isn't exactly my proudest way of handling things.

Kyle King4—listen, you’ve basically become my entire profile picture on this forum now... I mean, I could honestly just take that image over to this thread right this second and post it. Don't even try to deny it.

Melpy, I really don't have the energy to get into a heated debate with you—honestly, it just isn't worth it. But let’s be real here: when you start posting fake images—you know, where you’re actually using other people's faces—and then someone goes along with it, claiming that the woman in the photo is actually the wife of some major celebrity or whatever... well, you're basically just handing people a reason to mock you. I don't quite grasp what the motivation is behind this, I really don't, but it comes across as incredibly unserious—and, frankly, it’s a direct violation of the forum rules.
Look, I’m not saying you shouldn't mind if someone insults you—especially since you mentioned earlier that only people with deep-seated insecurities bother to comment on your life anyway. But, I never once suggested anything about your weight, your looks, or your body type—none of that stuff. It feels like you're jumping to conclusions here, though, making these massive, sweeping generalizations that just don't seem to fit the actual conversation.
Look, I think there’s been a bit of a misunderstanding—Kyle King4 just took my post from the trash folder and moved it over to that other PDF. To be honest, I intentionally left it out of there specifically because that section tends to get way more commentary than others, and I wanted to avoid the extra noise. I really had nothing to do with how things were posted in the Miscellaneous section (or whatever they're calling it these days), though I suppose I am the one who actually sent you that link on the forum in the first place—not Kyle King4. Really, anyone could have done what she did since that link was already sitting right there on the forum for everyone to see. As for why she decided to move it? I honestly haven't a clue, and frankly, it’s not really my business.
Honestly, I don’t really have the heart to keep writing this—not that there’s anything wrong with you, per se—but I just have much more important things to attend to right now. Also, if you somehow felt that I was personally attacking your appearance or... well, whatever it was... please accept my apologies. In any case... take care. 🙂

Kimberly Garcia74 said:Melpy, honey—since you’ve decided to open this thread, why don't you just go ahead and confess exactly how many photos you've stolen and passed off as your own? 🤷I mean, seriously, how can you expect anyone to take you halfway seriously when it's blindingly obvious you're playing games here—whether you're doing it on purpose or just out of sheer incompetence, I couldn't tell you.🤷

It’s the exact same story with those threads you start all over on every single message board.😕

Edit

:waiting for the ban hammer: 🙂

Melpy, darling, I see you're choosing to ignore this.

Do you honestly believe the women whose photos you've been using would ever want their private images

posted on an American forum like this?🤷

Olivia Moore51 said:Look, Mr. Moral Compass, maybe watch who you’re calling out and how.
I just shared posts from another user—literally asking if I was allowed to even post them here—so don't try to paint me as one of those people being toxic. I haven't even commented on Melpy, and honestly, I couldn't care less about her.
The fact that the controversial post finally got deleted isn't on me, it's on the mods over at that other forum.
Basically, the link is still live because of you.

If it wasn't me, someone else would've dropped that link since it was on that trash thread. Nobody deleted anything here or there.🤷

Melpy, I am genuinely sorry if I offended you.

Kyle, I only linked your post because of the URL inside it...
Sorry, but I think that actually matters for this discussion...
If my post had a link, it would have been handled the same way...

Laura Evans3 said:You couldn't have known that, because I don't moderate this sub-forum, so I can't even give her a strike... so just chill...

I'm going to send this to that user STARSu... because you do the exact same thing to him... you're being kind of a hypocrite...

Mainly because this isn't the first time she's posted photos that aren't hers.😉

Go ahead, do whatever you want... then I'll happily list every single time I responded to her reports while others were getting banned.

She could have just stood up for herself on Saturday... without breaking any rules...

So what, she's not allowed to get a strike?

Do you need me to spend all day cleaning up your mess and pulling your posts off the trash threads?

I'm asking you again, why are you even hanging out in the trash thread? You aren't mocking anyone there...

Because you have nothing left to say...

This thread isn't about you, nor did you start it... yet you show up to "defend" someone while simultaneously mocking another user the exact same way...

Again, I am not the topic...
And send whatever you want to whoever you want, I stand by everything I post. I always have.
Maybe you should try standing behind the insults and the disrespect that this thread is actually about...
As you can see, once I stepped in, you started moderating. If that wasn't necessary before, like you claim, why the sudden change of heart...

Everything else is just trolling, which you seem so obsessed with when it comes to everyone else...
👋

Donna Wood52 said:Look, I’m being provocative because I’m being provoked. That’s the difference. When I send a message to the mods about being harassed, nobody does a damn thing. But when you guys start poking at me—and there's more than one of you—suddenly everything is fine. As soon as I state my opinion, everyone jumps down my throat.

Just look at this thread. It’s all over the place. If I post a photo, people immediately jump in to insult me. There's a massive difference between leaving a comment and straight-up humiliating someone. I wasn't out here trying to belittle anyone else unless they insulted me first.

Kyle King4, you literally took my photo from an American news site; I could go grab it and post it right here myself. Don't lie to me.

I already apologized and explained myself to you. That doesn't give you a pass to talk to me like that. Save that attitude for the people who actually insult you and make a fool out of you. Instead, you just keep coming back for more. That’s what hurts the most.

@ dustypuma5, 🙂

God, I am not okay. Why am I even reading your posts? 🙏 😂

Can I jump in on this too? Seems like the party's happening right here at the moment.

So what’s my move here? Now Melpy is sliding into my DMs with insults, claiming I’m just a huge pushover because of my avatar. 😂🤣

If someone’s attacking you privately, does that mean you're just helpless? 😁

dustypuma5 said:I’m telling you again, I am not the subject here.

But you still decided to show up here anyway...

dustypuma5 said:I'll say whatever I want to whoever I want. I stand by everything I write, and I always have.

I’m glad you decided to share that here.

dustypuma5 said:And you’re just going to stand there and defend the insults, the belittling, and everything else that’s been brought up here?
It looks like you’ve started moderating since I stepped in. If you didn't think it was necessary before, what changed? Why the sudden shift in perspective?

🤣 🤣 You’re being ridiculous. Either get your facts straight or just stay quiet.

I didn't step in as moderator just because you showed up here to cause trouble. I did it because Melpy finally got back to me on my DM. Honestly, I’ve said this more than once: this whole situation could have been wrapped up a long time ago if she had just replied to my message sooner.

Is it clear enough, or do I need to say it again? Melpy is responding to my PM, and then I’ll handle her complaint.

dustypuma5 said:Everything else is just trolling, which you seem to be so zealous about defending whenever it involves anyone else.
👋

There’s really no point in me asking you for links to those enrollments. I already know you'll just shut me down—you aren't exactly looking to prove anything to anyone.

I’ve been thinking about this quite a bit lately. It’s easy to get caught up in the noise, but I think we need to step back and look at the bigger picture regarding how these policies affect our local communities here in the States. It isn't just about the immediate economic impact—though that’s certainly significant—it’s about the long-term social fabric. I remember sitting in a coffee shop in Chicago last year, listening to people debate similar issues, and the tension was palpable. There’s a real sense of uncertainty when the rules feel like they're shifting under our feet. Chloe Allen made an interesting point earlier about the necessity of stability, and I find myself agreeing. Without a predictable framework, businesses struggle to plan, and families struggle to feel secure. We need more than just quick fixes; we need a cohesive strategy that accounts for everyone. What do you all think? Is there a way to balance these regulatory needs without stifling the very innovation that keeps our economy moving?
That says everything we need to know.

👋 Same to you.

hollowcanyon8 said:So if someone's insulting you in the DMs, you're just helpless? 😁

I don't get why that would even bother you. Why isn't it funny?

Honestly, I’d probably find it hilarious if Melpy slid into my DMs just to tell me I’m a total loser and that my avatar gives it all away. 🤷

Tyler Bishop56 said:Why does that offend you? Why isn't it entertaining you?

Honestly, I’d be thrilled if Melpy slid into my DMs just to tell me I'm a pushover and that my avatar gives it away. 🤷

The emojis suggest I'm actually taking this as a compliment. 🤣