#241 ·
Kimberly Ward said:Look at it this way: you don't necessarily need to scare a patient, but you should be direct.
Take my own experience: back when I was eleven months along, I caught some "weird" virus.
Literally every single marker in my bloodwork was below the normal range. I was dealing with severe anemia and even had brief bouts of losing consciousness; my levels were abysmal—hemoglobin was at 88 and iron was just 2.9. Naturally, the coughing came with a fever, even though my lungs and throat seemed fine. Should my doctor have just brushed me off, or should they have referred me to an internist or a hematologist? That specialist ended up being a huge support to me, which was a massive contrast to my OBGYN (who told me, in a truly rude manner, that I had simply let myself get too cold and suggested I go see a private specialist instead). They claimed my low iron was purely due to gynecological issues.
Given everything I heard from my primary care physician—telling me to just relax and that everything would be fine while they searched for the cause of the anemia—it felt much easier knowing I actually had someone in my corner.
But in your case, the lab results were actually pathological. In those situations, having support and solid advice is vital.
The person you're talking about doesn't have a single abnormal result. So why bother scaring them by suggesting something is wrong?